There's a girl in my class that is absolutely stunning and all guys hit on her while I sit in front and say nothing awkwardly.
I've always had a crush on her, along with literally every guy. Anyways, I hate following first on IG since it makes girls feel superior and me inferior. Do I give in and just stop being a faggot and follow her or literally just stop trying and avoid the awkward follow to return to never speaking at uni? I flaunt my wealth on IG so it could make her think I'm less weirdy nerdy school shooter type and give me chance, or will I just look beta following her?
If you follow her without having ever talked to her it will just look like you're a beta stalker waiting for fappable pics.
Talk to her, about anything, anything you overhear, pretend to know about the subject, and when she says something you didn't knew about it act interested and ask her to tell you more and in more detail.
If you can get a conversation going for like, 5-10 minutes, you have a free pass to say hi to her in a friendly way, and talk to her whenever you see her.
After knowing where she likes to hang out, ask her out, just like you'd ask any one of your beta friends to the latest shitty beta movie or something. In any ocasion, drop that you saw her instagram and THEN you can follow her, as she will now see you as the cool guy who followed her because you're friends, and not because you stalk her.
While going out, try places less "daty" first, like a non romantic movie, sports events if she likes those, daylight events in general. If you two hit it off, ask her to go somewhere else later, like a night session of some romantic movie if you didn't go to the movies earlier, some pub, a night club if she digs it. The rest comes with enough confidence to how without words that you want to fuck her, and that you know she wants too.
Of course, you won't get anywhere If you're an uncofident ugly fatty.
Dude, just be patient. You've got to slow cook things like this. You're being you're worst enemy. You know what's worse than following someone you've never talked to? Following them, then unfollowing them when they don't accept. They'll see it.
you should have done what he told you to but you even fucked that up. good luck
You'll an hero over the lack of Instagram follow?
Next time you see her, casually say something int the lines of: "hey *girl's name*, I was browsing IG the other day and saw that you liked *insert interest that you also have or have mild knowledge about*. Then you ask about some of her interest, say you think some puic looked cool with some filter she used, maybe give her camera advice if you know how to. You can salvage it if you act like you followed her because you actually thought something she posted was interesting in a non-sexual way.