Fembots, how does a father make sure his daughter doesn't get involved with bad men, or do risky things?
Is it as simple as just being very loving and caring towards her?
Girls without dads turn out much worse than boys without moms.
>pic related, the dad your class slut never had
It goes a long way. A lot of those behaviors come from a desire for male attention to replace what we never got from our fathers.
I had a good father, though. We used to bike up to the arcade on his days off and play Metal Slug.
I've never even taken nudes. I've been here long enough that by the time I had a cellphone I was well aware of the dangers of posting naked pictures of myself.
I've been here as long as this site existed. I was just shy of 13 when I showed up. I'll be 26 this November.
I didn't have a dad, but as an adult woman, all I can say is, teach her what a good man is. She may go through a rebellious phase, but she'll see what she's missing, and in the end she will want a good man like her father.
as a female who grew up without a father, i'd say yes, be loving and caring towards her. just be there, basically. don't leave, don't have children with a woman you might divorce, don't be an absent father who spends all his time on work.
i only saw my dad every other weekend, because he cheated on my mom and they split when i was a year old, and i turned out a mess. thankfully never been involved with bad men, but that's pretty much just because i haven't had a social life at all. shut-in, school drop-out, experiments with drugs, temper tantrums. i've grown out of it and have a loving boyfriend and doing alright in school, but i do have BPD and anger issues that i would say stem from my father neglecting me as a child.
on the other hand, my little sister (half sister, child of the woman my dad cheated with) grew up with our dad in her life, albeit he's not very loving or caring but he's there, and she's a great girl, never gets in trouble, incredibly sweet and gets good grades.
people i've known who have grown up with good/present fathers, have all been people who had their shit together.
another person i know who grew up with a shit father (manipulative, absent, yelling about nothing), grew up with a lot of issues, like myself.
so the most important part is being there for your kid, teach her your values, don't be overly strict but DON'T neglect her, take time off work and spend it with her, have rules, make her feel like you care about her
i had a friend when i was younger whose dad would always say "you're the best in the world" to her whenever we went out and it made me really jealous always, her dad was an incredibly good dad, never got mad, just enforced rules, she's the most successful and good person i can think of today, christian values, sweet, nice boyfriend, does well in school, whole ordeal.
i really wish i'd had a father figure growing up. i know i've found the right guy to father my children and i'm never letting them grow up without a dad.
As a scumbag father who has probably impregnated 100+ women in the last ten years, NEVER get tied down, be a fucking asshole, leave her, fuck the kids life up, use a fake name, fake age, always get a new haircut/beard and never go back to that nightclub. After seeing my friends lives turn to shit I'm glad it isn't me. Leave your whore gf, go snort Coke with some strippers and keep going, trust me.
>don't be an absent father who spends all his time on work.
Why is this so important? Don't daughters understand the father is ultimately doing it for his wife and children?
Also, thanks for being the first thorough answer in this thread.
>because he cheated on my mom and they split when i was a year old
Stupid reason to ruin a marriage over.
You have to be loving without spoiling her, and be strict without going too hard on her. You have to teach her to do shit for herself, even if the rest of the world wants to give her things because she's pretty. Teach her about kindness, and self defense.
Nothing you do will make her overcome her animalistic female ape urges to want to fuck chads and niggers.
It's like training a really stupid breed of dog. Like a pitbull. You can teach it to fetch and shit, but you'll never make it stop being a retarded people-biter.
The only solution is to not have daughters.
Raise her like you would a son? That's what my dad did. He encouraged my love of anime, used to buy me my Gundam kits, encouraged me to wear bagging clothes, played video games with me. Clearly I'm still a fuck up because I'm here but I never slept around. I think my mom resents my dad for it though, since at 27 I still don't know how to apply make up or style my hair.
yeah, it's pretty fucked, i'm actually surprised my bf has put up with me cause i've caused quite some shit because of it, but i'm actively working towards improving myself and stopping myself from acting up
if you can put up with obsessive, jealous and controlling bevahior, passive aggressiveness for no reason, yelling over small things, being painted as the bad guy all the time then go ahead
My dad just taught me to be completely self-serving by always framing advice with "only do it if it makes you happy". He sacrificed so much to pay for school and give me all of the things I needed to make a decent life for myself that I feel like I owe it to him to be happy. So whenever I'm in a bad situation that I think might lead to me being unhappy, I just get out of it. Even if it hurts another person or is painful in the moment, I know that my long-term happiness/stability is important to my father, so I prioritize that.
>I've never even taken nudes. I've been here long enough that by the time I had a cellphone I was well aware of the dangers of posting naked pictures of myself.
Another one of those "i noe about da internetzzz" whores.
Well I was raised by a sinlge dad, have an older brother. Ended up being a huge tomboy though most of school because of the lack of female guidance. lots of my friends were guys so I could pick up on their bullshit, figure out who was a dick and who was cool. wasn't bad growing up that way but now that I'm in my twenties it kind of sucks most of my friends have GFs and girlfriends don't like their boyfriends hanging out with other girls so I cant see them much.
>if you can put up with obsessive, jealous and controlling bevahior
I love this though. The only bad part is that BPD girls will snap at you at random and it's awful because it can be completely unprovoked.
You German? 25 going 26 in March. Autistic, >190 tall, can hold my own in a convo. Working IT but feel hollow as fuck cause I haven't had any female interaction in a year.
In all seriousness though, I'm just taking any shot I can now.
Before y'all ree at me:
It is worse to have had gf and losing it than never having had gf.
Not cool, man
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