>girl tells me" I just got out a relationship and I don't know if I'm emotionally ready yet for another one but it will be cool to start off as friends".
>try to invite her to get to know
>don't text her everyday, just invite her to shit and see if she can come or not
>friend and her friend get mad at me for not trying hard enough
I don't understand, what am I doing wrong? I can't force someone to want to be with me. Am I wasting my time with this girl?
Keep on doing whatever the fuck you want, fuck 'em
Get more aggressive with her
Tell them to fuck off and tell HER to be more aggressive with you
What do you think you'll do, OPie?
Yes, you are wasting your time. Kick her inna cunt.
Yeah when I can see her. Texting seems like a chore so i never do it unless I'm trying to meet up with her now. She almost always busy or some shit, I barely get chances to meet up with her since I work a lot and so does she.
Do you feel like she enjoys your company? If so, you might consider inviting her to more personal stuff without being too obvious that you're trying to fugg. This will let her tell herself that she's not being a slut by getting in another relationship too early, which won't be a problem at all if she's into you. What kind of stuff have you guys been doing when you hang out?
It's all been group shit really just hanging out in a group of friends. I feel like she does because as much as I've been awkward and shit , she still talks to me and responds to text any time I text. I'm just sick of this college tier shit of "hanging out but I kinda want to date you" bullshit. I feel like I'm too old for this shit but I'm only in my second year of college. Not sure what to even do with her one on one with her without it being too obvious. I haven't invited her to anything where it is just me. This is really the first girl I have tried to pursue in my life and really I'm just clueless.
girl i basically loved said this to me and i cut contact i was too hurt... if id tried more it might have ended up differently, i knew she liked me she was just scared. this was 7 years ago and i still think about it, the regret and all...
Oh dude invite her to something that's just the two of you then. I fucking HATE group shit if I'm interested in someone.
Last girlfriend i had I randomly met while drunk at a friends party, somehow ended up with her number, and decided "fuck it might as well ask her to hang out" so we just sat outside her cafeteria for a while and chatted, then pretty soon she was coming over and watching shit with me cuddled on my couch.
You guys have a good amount of stuff in common? Invite her to coffee or to lunch or something, I dunno. I was never good at thinking up "date"/hang out ideas.