why is it that I see shit threads like this all the time but I never ever see anyone like this in actuality? not in real life. not in online games. nowhere. It's almost like you're all just fucking memeing. sage
>Why aren't all you men outwardly submissive?
I mean, society doesn't exactly approve of or welcome it in any way. Nobody is going to lynch you, but you sure as shit aren't going to get polite respect.
Post cock then.
Then why did you mention it faggot
>hint at it in real life
>women are disgusted by it
>men are disgusted by it
>men and women respect you less for it
>the .1% of the population that are dominant women will never see it or care because I'm ugly
You don't see it in online games because my anxiety won't let me use a microphone.
>ywn have a cute submissive bf that lives for your love and attention
Why am I alive familia
Fact is that over 99% of women hate that shit. I'm past believe that some dominant woman is going to swoop into my life and sweep me off my feet. I'm just going to do my best to hide it and settle for what I can get
>Women interested in domming big guys are completely separate from women interested in domming little guys
This is the worst. You don't even get someone who's just generally dominant, you only have someone who likes to dominate your body type and is fucking you like that as a fetish.
>tfw ywn have a dom boyfriend to give your love to
>99% of the submissive men are older guys with jobs and money
>The young dommes will date them exclusively, even though they're just being glorified sugar babies.
>tfw want to be dommed by a tall girl
>tfw women are repulsed by the idea of this
>tfw I'm not even fucking short
Followed instructions, would you suck it?
>10/10 chad sits down next to me on bus
>watch him scratch his crotch out of the corner of my eye
>he falls asleep halfway through the ride
>want to take creepshot but also don't want to get my ass kicked
This has nothing to do with that kind of stuff senpai
I want a dom girl, I can cook, clean, and even raise children. I don't know why but I find fulfillment from others, posting on 4chan is a habit because I seek the approval of others, even though I know no good can come from this, and the people here are not worth the effort and I fester no meaningful relationships
>tfw no bf to cuddle you and pat your head and take hot soapy showers with
It's about discipline fucking fag not making mistakes because mistakes cost a lot especially in a war shit that can save your life tiny little thing can kill you like a sniper seeing you because you wore red instead of white socks it's about making you tough and confident enough in yourself that someone can yell all your flaws at you in front of a group of your peers and you'd still be a ble to handle the pressure and not break down the best leaders are also followers you can't even talk to a fucking girl in public without st-t-tu-tering
I'd love to take one of you lonely submissive nobodies and own you. Keep you at home, naked and collared, make you do menial housework while I go out and succeed, come home and punish you for never doing well enough, fuck you like a good little bitch, and eventually mold you into the perfect little slave housewife.
Hell, why stop at one?
Pretty much this. Many woman want a dominant powerful partner who can look after them, but can't seem to understand that there are men who want the same from them.
>drank too much bottled water as a kid
>now I want to be a cute little spoon for a big strong woman and rub her feet and get pegged in the ass
THE DICE WERE RIGGED
IT DIDN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THIS
This is my exact fetish
how do you even meet dom/switch girls
i'd be willing to switch as long as they're convincing when they're domming
i have needs too, and those needs happen to be facesitting and prostate stimulation
I really want to shave my legs but I'm embarassed. I don't think anyone will see them... I don't know what to do. How long will it take to grow back?
I just gave up on trying to become dominant, now I spend my days exercising my butt to make it bigger and trying to get rid of my acne so I can become qt and get a nice bf that fucks me in the butt daily someday.
Just do it, even if no one sees it you'll feel pretty and it'll make you feel more confident about your body. I just did it today and I love the feeling of having a soft, hairless skin.
i don't see how this will benefit me
i'm not attracted to dudes, i've never been attracted to dudes, i don't even like traps or futa
all it's gonna do is make me even less desirable to women
>Your personality is going to start changing real soon I suspect
You make it sound scary. I've been effeminate for my whole life. I just want to feel more effeminate and be more effeminate in day to day life instead of trying to act like a "man" and being a depressed monotone asshole.
I think I just realized that's what you ment
>I just want to feel more effeminate and be more effeminate in day to day life
fun fact: this is what's known as 'being a flaming homosexual'
but I know exactly how you feel. I think I'm going to try shaving my legs soon too
>tfw I just ordered my first sex toy earlier
>tfw I'm about to try shaving my legs
>I'm not gay, just submissive.
>I'm not gay, I just like being the little spoon.
>I'm not gay, I just want to shave my legs to see how it feels.
>I'm not gay, I just like prostate milking.
>I'm not gay, I just wear women's underwear for curiosity's sake.
>I'm not gay, I just installed a wall mounted dildo for convenience.
>I'm not gay, I just admire the form and aesthetics of a cock.
>I'm not gay, I just want to put a dick in my mouth.
>I'm not gay, I just like when my boyfriend rams my asshole with his thick cock.
Don't worry too much about it, a lot of guys shave their legs, they just don't talk about it in public, and there are girls who like hairless cute boys (but they probably aren't into submissive guys though) you don't need to be gay or anything to do something you may enjoy.
>evaluating what I just typed, maybe it's time I stop trying to delude myself into thinking I'm straight
Funny how that happens isn't it?
I'm getting to the point now where I'm just going to do what makes me happy. Fuck what other people do or think.
I don't want to be the girl, I want the girl to be the boy.
The ads on this site exist for a reason, you know?
thinking of moving there in a few years for school, I need to get my bachelor's before I move though
I'm sorry anon, I hope you can find someone to dress you up and love and care for you, good luck
no, but I'm also in
I gave time so I'll write more.
I like being a sub but more specifically I like being a brat and not (immediately) obeying a dom, fighting for dominance but eventually giving in or being "forced" to obey.
>you will never have a dom bf as long as a you stay in this shithole country.
Make it stop.
Accept that you have a problem and stop smoking weed.
The real reason is that you're a lot more likely to get killed for being a fag here and everyone has shit colored skin and curved noses, also they're all fucking normies, I want a nice bf who's into feminization and accepts my weaboo bullshit :^)
I let it happen and move on. Its my fetish.
Whenever girl found out I were a submissive masofag they did everything in their power to humiliate me in front of other people and I love it.
My first time giving in to my submissive nature were in 5th grade. I sat next to a tall qt who could draw really damn well. I took all year learning how to draw so I could talk to her. Once I managed to speak to her we became friends but she pulled my hair and held me down and generally abused me.
At first She only tortured me when no one were around but late in the year She fucked with me around other students. She didn't let anyone in the class touch me but she continued to do so. She said she likes that I don't fight back. I think she lost interest in me once I grew taller.
After her I began to like being submissive and abused.
I met a few more girls like her during middle and HS and got my fetish fulfilled
Would any robots be interested in fucking me in the butt? I've always been submissive, but last week I woke up feeling very gay and wanted to be fucked in the butt, even though I've never tried it.
I swear I was straight not long ago
I have to get it vicariously from domming sissies because there are no doms worth a shit on the internet
I've collected around a baker's dozen of sissies in various states of feminization. Some of them give me money for it.
>Subs just want to be spoiled and pampered
>Too poor and emotionally stunted to appeal to them
>Try online stuff
>I'm too gentle for some, and too dom for others
I want someone like a dog. Obedient, and loyal. Someone who doesn't mind me bullying them a bit, and responds well to gentle guidance and light punishments. I also like to praise and be nice though. I don't want them to be scared to experiment or get a little dirtier than normal. I'd like to cage a boy, and turn him into a trap. I also want to cuddle and shit though.
I don't want to have to make everything a power play, or keep up some manly dominant persona. I want to be a master, not play one.
Well i'm not into scat or fisting or anything like that. CBT also isn't my thing.
I like size disparity and humiliation, which is nice because I have a 7 inch dick. I mentioned the cage, which is a chastity device. Being a keyholder kind of appeals to me.
Obviously butt stuff. I talked to a guy who only liked sounding, but nothing to do with the butt. I have a bit of an asshole and butt fetish. Clean, shaved or waxed butts only.
I basically can't ERP though. I just can't bring myself to do it.
where do I find submissive guys? where do you all hang out? how do I know? I really don't want to publicly search for a sub because I don't want it to all be about sex. I swear I just want a qt to tie up and lovingly peg until he can't cum anymore... and then i'll be the big spoon after.
I wonder how my life would be if I had a lower sexual drive, right now I'm a virgin who faps 3 to 5 times a day and I'm getting mad that there's people in this thread who are into the same stuff as me that I'll never be able to fuck because I live thousands of kilometers away from them.
fair enough, I see what you are seeing there. In my defense it's late at night and I'm thinking about that sort of thing. I've never been in a relationship before or anything like that, but I would want to keep the dom sub thing in the bedroom mostly. I obviously would want other dimensions to the relationship. That's what I meant.
I don't think I'd do LDR, but don't sell yourself short. Anyone who won't accept you because you are trans isn't worth a damn.
I just do. No one is going to help me. I just try and figure out all my choices and pick the one that sucks least.
Having no sex drive fits the Robot life. I fap maybe once every few days, sometimes a week. I also have a natural dislike of sexual intimacy, so it helps.
Though horniness can eventually erode all inhibitions
You know robin banks lives our state and is a cock hungry fag now, right?
What do you seek in a relationship with a sub male? your fantasies may or may not be really cute.
>tfw liked being lightly abused and forced to do things
>ex gf used to bite my lips until i bled and then suck on them
>she'd drag me by my hair and throw me in a chair and sit on my lap and then bite my neck
>make me massage her feet and back for hours
i miss it
Why is it always like that?
I just want to meet a curious robot that also wants to cuddle, do lewd things with and watch anime with me
yea, send your Skype name and we can chat. I need friends in my life.
somebody who will cook/bake with me, introduce me to their hobbies, somebody who doesn't mind that I lift, somebody that isn't afraid to reveal all to me and cares about getting to know me just as well, possibly somebody who would model for my drawings/sculptures
I want a dude that won't mind that I want to lift him up and throw him on the bed, blindfold and cuff him and then just tease him with my mouth and hands until he begs for it. I also really like the idea of leaving marks all over him
A gf that will lift me and throw me on the bed is one of the things I want the most.
I make up for it being really submissive only to the ones who are objectively better than me in my favorite hobbies, and these people aren't jerks, nor are my gfs, so I deal with it pretty well
Ill have you know that I've called thousands of people faggots and pathetic cowardly men in videogames. Im extremely aggressive and anyone echo isn't is pathetic in my eyes. In real life, im actually owned and a slave to my master.
I tried the whole submissive taking dicks up my ass thing because fapping to vanilla domming made me bored.
Now all I want is a cute submissive girlfriend, like >>25933366 but not a trap. Where do I get one?
I've found that most women are interested in submission. Don't let the media fool you, women are enamored with the idea of being a man's pseudo-property.
Once you're established as the boyfriend you start bringing D/s into the bedroom and doing little Dominant things throughout the day, just to show you claim her. They eat that shit up.
Having a stricter D/s relationship probably requires a certain type of girl, but if you want a more casual and loving then like 90% of girls will do.
I've only dated one who really didn't work for it at all, and she was this spoiled JAP who wouldn't even let me touch her feet and had to have sex solely with the lights off. She'll end up cucking some nebbish accountant around the time her looks start to fade (end of the decade).
>tfw bullied all my life and made to do embarrassing things
>tfw I hated every moment of it
>tfw years later I start to react to it
>tfw i'm deeply ashamed of it and still hate it
Not only do I hate it itself, I hate that I now react to it. wat do?
What does bottled water have to do with anything? I drank almost exclusively bottled water and my biggest fantasy is probably having a cute asian as a house slave to dominate all day erry day
but I also on the side have the same fantasy as you ;__;
>How do you deal with it?
By simulatenously having schizoid personality disorder. Feels good to have one mental disorder that cancels the other one out.
you got the trans
you got the trans
Seriously though, you can't stay feminine as a man forever. You might as well start transitioning now because it's the earliest it will ever be.
I think the universe has finally solidified my unhappiness. I'd be the perfect sub for a qt Dom but it will
Never happen. I'm like 5'11, 155lbs of lean muscle, I have super cute longish brown hair that comes down over my eyes. I shave, I have no acne, I have a young looking face. I get nervous when women show me any kind of attention. I literally fit the bill of what some femamons have posted as their ideal sub and, despite that it will never happen, even if it did I don't think id be able to trust another human that much or
If she'd want to deal with any of my
Baggage. Sorry for the blog post it's just shaping up to be another lonely Friday night.
>tfw want a submissive and feminine bf to buy skirts and panties for
>tfw every trap on here is 2shy4u faggots and full of themselves
Now that I've actually met someone to cuddle with I feel like I don't actually deserve anyone. I'm still just as messed up as before, I'm just happier.
I'd don't really deserve it desu, I think I was destined to just yearn for something I could never actually have.
I'm doing what any smart submissive would do in my position. Get in shape, take girl pills to capitalize on my genetics and eagerly anticipate being sir's good girl. Someday soon I'll be cute enough to curl up by his feet and suck his cock while he strokes my hair. It's going to be great.
Kind of. I feel like proper men take, women give themselves. A subservient male turns me off instantly. Being "a man" implies some aspect of domination for me, I want to feel like he's the one there to protect me, manhandle me, fuck me, then take care of me. I suppose I get you want those things but if you want that as a man I think you're kind of damaged as to your relationship with masculinity.
Sorry if it's hurtful, I'm being honest.
Did you miss the
>take girl pills to capitalize on my genetics
bit? I basically am a submissive guy unless you're feeling very generous. Of course I understand it though, just fantasizing about being dom'd feels great. I can't even imagine how good it actually feels but it makes perfect sense that even guys would like it.
>fuck me, then take care of me
Isn't that kind of being subservient? Like what if I have strong interests and am not afraid to show you what I like and take you on adventures. But at the end of the day want to cook for you sometimes and stuff? Am I just a lonely dom?
I saw it. If you think you're a girl I'm going to talk to you like a girl. I'm too depressed to give a shit otherwise. I just want people be happy. You'll be ok. You'll find a nice Dom bf once your treatment is done and you'll have a great time. It's been years and years and nothing. I don't want to complain but I don't want to feel like this anymore/
This is just called being normal.
I can't even deny it.
2 months for it them to go full length. 3ish weeks and nobody will notice.
I-I'm a normie? I never thought this day would come!
That's very nice of you actually. You're probably straight right, that's why you're struggling to find a dom gf? The only place I know to look for that is fetlife but I'm pretty sure there's a lot of fairly gross types there. If you're not in shape yet you should try to exercise, it alleviates depression. Helped me.
I thought I was submissive for a long time.
I've since realized that I'm not, I'm actually relatively dom, I'm just too nervous and not confident enough to act on it.
I'm only into soft dom stuff though, hard stuff, even choking, repulses me.
That said, I'm all about the idea of fucking a girl as a trap, but I'd want to be the dominant one, and I can't really do it because I'm too old, hairy, and fat.
JUST FUCK ME UP DUDE
desu i like playing mirana instead this patch when i could be playing cm, since she can kill camps from level one with arrow now pretty sick bro
what other supports do you like? for me my go-to supports are lion or lich. Feels like they actually have impact.
This makes me feel like a shitter for these picks
Thanks for the reply. I'm fit. I've posted my Stats before in the old gfd threads and the doms there said I had one of the two most desirable body types for a sub bf. Yet still my Dom is taking forever to find me. I've though of fet life, but I want it to be real, you know what I mean?
No that's really nice, I meant the taking care off as aftercare. A lot of guys think submissive girls are cool because you can push and slap them around and hurt them and then they roll over and fall asleep.
I'm not big on male/female roles outside of the bedroom, whatever floats your goat.
Sure I do, I just thought fetlife was a dating thing. I'm sorry anon I hope you find the right girl soon. Have you tried getting a regular gf and trying to awaken some kind of dominance in her?
I've tried and failed miserably. I have a weird face where girls either think I'm a gargoyle or im like their 10/10. Plus i have no confidence, personality or even know how to properly flirt let alone go on a date. It's ok anon. Thanks for listening. I'm sure it'll work out soon.
I really don't recommend this unless she shows clear signs of being dominant. 99% of girls are extremely submissive. I had a boyfriend who seemed to try to manipulate me into being kind of dominant and it made me extremely uncomfortable, i felt sick and didn't want to be around him anymore
I'd rather slap you then you slap me back desu.
I'm totally into bdsm. Playing both sides.
Anyway, I'm not for gender roles either. I'm just projecting my personality a bit, as a lot of the submissive guys in this thread have made it clear they have no interests in life besides serving their "master" and lack the confidence to pursue any of their own interests/obsess over their partner's interests in place of their own. Instead of in addition to their own.
It was. This place has changed. But i digress. I'm gunna shut off my computer now and maybe go for a walk. Hopefully a car will jump the curb lol. Anyways, hope the hormone treatment works out and you find your qt Dom bf. Godspeed.
I don't know. It's complicated.
It's hard to find a sweet spot of what I like. I don't like whips and chains, I don't want to be caged up like a dog or wear a collar. I just want to be the submissive one in a relationship. I like gentle femdom.
I haven't played in ages, so I don't really remember all of them, but I played a lot of dazzle.
I've always been curious about trapping, but I'm too manly for it.
I have the physique of a linebacker. I just want to be picked up and held.
I'm rich and women still disgust me. Sometimes I use them while they use me for cash but I see it as a fair trade. I just drop the bitch after a few days. She has to really play the part if she wants me to keep her around and throw money at her. I'm also a submissive but that doesn't seem to matter.
Same. Now idea how I'm get into a relationship with another guy aside from online dating I guess. How can I tell who's gay and how can I let dudes know I'm interested without being a complete flaming faggot?