>Second semester of college started last week
>Girl who I have no classes with this semester but had one class with last semester randomly messages me yesterday
>Tells me that I'm cool and well spoken and asks for help on a project
>Says we can either work on it at my place or at a dining hall
>Tell her we can do whatever works best for her, but also ask her what the project is about
>She says my place will work better, and doesn't even answer the question about the project
>Now she's coming over tomorrow night
Is this basically the green light that she wants the D? I've never had a girl approach me like this before.
Watch out that she isn't just using you to get the project done.
>Project you dont have any reason to do
>Barely know eachother
>Not at her place
You figure it out, anon.
OP Here I'm going to relay the messages to give a clearer picture. Meme arrows is her, regular text is me.
>Anon! I think I saw you at X yesterday
Yea I was definitely there
>Okay I saw someone that might have been you but I wasn't too sure, but anyways how's life?
Pretty good, how have you been?
>I'm happy to be back and I like my classes!
Yea I'm definitely glad to be back to, break was getting a little boring
>Heyyyyyyy are you busy tonight?
Nah, I'm not really doing much, why?
>Alright Anon, I don't know you very well but you're pretty cool and well spoken. I've been working on something and I just realized it might be a good idea if I run it past you
Sure, what do you need help with?
>See my presentation, give me feedback. I can come over to your place or to X :)
What's the presentation about, and we can go wherever works best for you
>Honestly hmm your place? more convenient for you and I'm going to the gym after (if you want to join) lol how about 7?
Yea 7 works for me, what's your number it'll be easier to text
And then she gave me her number and I just texted her to message me when she was here so I could let her in. What do robots? Could this be another one of Reinhard Lohengramm's tricks?
It's in a class that I'm not taking, nor is it related to any of my classes. If I did it for her she'd fail, plus she isn't the type of person to do that. I've sat done and had lunch with her once just because I saw her at the dining hall and we talked, she's not the type of girl to do that. Way too innocent.
I'm honestly not sure what conclusion you want me to draw here.
Invite her to your place, let her talk about her break, her project, help her a bit and bring out some booze when you've worked for a bit.
The booze will loose up the mood, allowing a smooth transition from the project to some non-work talk, if she's inclined that way.
She's literally too sweet to do that, even though I never really hung out with her outside of class, I talked to her and I know she's not the type of person to do that. I have known a lot of manipulative people, and she doesn't fit the bill. And if she wanted me to just do her project, why would she offer to go to the gym with me?
This sounds great, feedback is basically just socialization but you help at the same time. So jealous, I didn't make any friends when I studied. It sounds like she wants to be friends with you, she even invited you to join gym.
I don't think she's using you, you don't "use" people to get feedback on presentations.
>Way too innocent.
The greatest betrayal comes from the people you trust the most. You expect bad people to do bad things, but you don't expect the same of the good ones. Just saying be careful, people can be quite selfish.
Even if it is just studying, proof reading something or helping her structure her project it's still something for you to learn. At least you can use that reasoning if you're devoid of human contact.
This sounds like two of my encounters I had last semester, both related to studying for an upcoming final.
One of them was in a coffee shop during noon, pleasant banter about classes and whatnot, actually studying together and some off-topic talk, ended three hours later with both of us going our ways home.
The other was in a research lab just the two of us, some talking, some studying, some whisky and it ended in going home together and hooking up.
Now you can draw your own conclusions.
Do not try to pull anything at all unless she blatantly tries to pull something. She might just want help and if you try to fuck her you'll fall further into the Robot Hole. Assume she just wants help and try to stay safe
I'm not devoid of contact, I'm a pretty social guy with a decent amount of friends. I'm just autistic when it comes to romantically pursuing girls because I grew up in a broken household and it fucked up my perception of relationships. That being said, I was pretty anti-social until college and have actively been making strides to improve that situation which has led to here.
I'm going to play it safe, I'm recently recovering from destroying the chance of a relationship with a girl I liked because I moved too quickly for my own good. I felt pressured because this girl was kind of a stacy, so I just assumed due to hook up culture that she wanted me to give her the dick (And I would have, but I couldn't get an erection so it turned into a JUST moment.) If it goes well tonight I'll probably just ask her if she wants to get lunch sometime and go from there.
You mean "asocial"?
Alright then, have fun. Bee ur self.
I'll just see where she wants to go after the "presentation" going to the gym does seem kind of unusual though, it's the one thing that caught me off guard. I haven't lifted today yet though so it's a win win.
No one wants feedback on a project a week into the semester, lol. She likes you and might even be dtf tonight (repeated letters is a deadddddd giveawayyyyyyyyyy)
Good luck op, don't blow it.