At age 21, I'm only just now accepting the fact that I'm gay. How do I /into/ homosexuality?
>don't know any gay people
>sharpie in the pooper causes bleeding
>everyone else has been openly gay since they were 16
Is it easy to become part of the whole gay community thing out of nowhere? Do I just walk into the local gay bar and try to not be awkward? Do I take all the gay classes like theater and make gay friends? Will people be offended that I haven't come out?
Gay people intimidate me and I have no idea what sort of conventions or etiquette I'm expected to know. I don't want to just fuck with someone off craigslist because of the horrifying stories people tell on here. I don't want to establish a reputation among the uni fags as some autistic retard just because I have no idea what I'm doing.
They'll just tell me to kill myself for being pleb.
It doesn't seem like there's any getting around it unless I wanna just fap to dank Russian gay porn till I graduate. My uni is in a tiny hick town in buttfuck nowhere and there's well-established cliques similar to high school. Most of the gays and lesbians here seem to know eachother on a first-name basis. I don't think it's possible to hook up with a guy without getting sucked into the fag circle, unless I somehow find another closetfag and have a qt hidden romance.
I plan on doing this but it's absolutely terrifying. I don't wanna bring guys over here in front of my 3 roommates before I come out, especially since this place somehow amplifies sound from other rooms as if there were no walls. I don't wanna come out until I at least have a homosex experience to be sure that this is who I am. I don't want to go to some stranger's house and get castrated to Beethoven's Symphony No. 9 by a fat guy in clown makeup.
I know I'm being paranoid as fuck and I need to get over myself but I would rather get to know gay people and ease into it instead of suddenly having a dick up my ass.
Okay dude just chill out about this
You dont have to change your life over something as small as liking guys
Nothings really different
I was in the same position as you when I first came to the realization that I was gay but after a while I just stopped caring about it
>How do I /into/ homosexuality?
1. Buy gun
2. Buy bullets
3. Load bullets into gun
4. Place gun in mouth, pointing muzzle upwards to provide a clear trajectory to your brain stem
5. Pull trigger
I know, I'm making a bigger deal of it then it has to be just because it kinda hit me all at once. Like I knew the whole time, but actually acknowledging it kinda fucked with my entire self-perception.
It's mostly random little things that are really getting to me. Am I supposed to shave my asshole? Is it possible to do this alone without slicing it up?
Just because you realized you're gay doesn't mean you have to change your entire life
The sooner you realize it's just another small part of your personality the more comfortable you will be
I too am 21 and have just addmitted to myself that I am at least bi-curious. I've been thinking about the same things
>What if people I know see me before I'm ready to tell them or know for sure that this is what I am
>What if craiglist guy bites my dick off
Like what the others are saying on here I'm starting to think it's really no big deal. I'm not the kind of person to go to a meat market like Tinder/Grindr anyway so I've just decided to stay off of those places. Hopefully I meet a guy online or at a concert. Or at a coffee shop. Or wherever.
I feel like if the guy I'm interested in doesn't have the patience to tell me his preferences for shaving and whatnot, he's not worth it anyway.
But I'm not gunning for a one time butt pounding, I want a fwb or relationship.