Alcohol has no effect on (dis)inhibition. Other drugs do, alcohol doesn't. It's a meme normies use as an excuse to justify actions they are too scared to perform in their everyday lives. Commonly for sex acts they feel ashamed of, such as guys fucking fat girls or girls having one night stands.
>>25912633 As a guy, I can say I have never (N E V E R) been so drunk I've lost all control over my actions-- unless you count the one time I was blackout drunk and vomiting, but I do not. Even then, I didn't do any stupid shit; just puked and tried to stay conscious.
Anyone who uses being under the influence of alcohol as an excuse for degeneracy is a liar who is uncomfortable with the choices they made.
Yes and no. I'm a guy and I definitely identify with some of what she's saying. Like when I get drunk-but-not-hammered, I'll start flirting with girls that I normally wouldn't not because I want them specifically, but just because they're there. And when I've been straight up blackout drunk I've done some really dumb shit. There was a girl I was with one time and I had to piss but couldn't stand so I asked her to hold my dick and aim for me while I held myself up against a wall. Another time I was talking about football with a random guy I met and started shoving him because I hate the team he's a fan of and my friends had to pull me away before I started a fight even though I'm one of the most passive, least violent guys you'll ever meet. I don't even have secret violent desires or anything, I never fantasize about hurting people and I would never want to do it in a sober state.
That being said, I don't think getting drunk/high is a "get out of jail free card" of any kind. I would never want a girl I was friends with to get me extremely drunk because she wants to have sex with me (assuming I wouldn't have sex with this girl if I was sober). It's just dishonest and manipulative. But as morally wrong as I think it is to have sex with a girl who's really fucked up, you're not forcing her to drink or have sex with you. If she does it out of her own accord, then you should really just chalk them up to a night of drunk regrets same as if you're a dude who gets drunk and fucks a fat chick or something. Best you can do is learn from your mistakes and not drink with that person, maybe cut contact with them if you really feel violated. Alcohol has consequences, and you really shouldn't be drinking so much if you can't handle those.
>>25913059 >Like when I get drunk-but-not-hammered, I'll start flirting with girls that I normally wouldn't not because I want them specifically, but just because they're there. There's a reason alcohol is called "liquid courage" anon. Don't make excuses for them.
Courage is not the same as consciously making shit decisions. You were probably already pissed off those times you instigated things.
Yep being drunk is your true self. If you're violent you'll be violent, if you're a whore you'll be a whore. I'm introverted so when drunk I simply crush on a couch while watching everybody else with a dumb smile on my face, but unlike sober I don't feel weird about it.
>>25913158 The only reason I know I did those things is because the people I was with told me about it. I genuinely don't remember any of it. >>25913144 Nah seriously, one of the same girls that I flirted with drunk tried to make a move on me when I was sober because she thought I was interested in her but I turned her down because I really did not want to fuck her or do anything sexual/romantic with her.
That being said, isn't it kind of weird that we've actually arrived at a point in society that a man is a rapist for having sex with a woman who is excited about the prospect? I'm not talking about taking advantage of someone, but if I get drunk and wake up next to a woman who was also drunk, why am I a rapist? We need to think of sex less as a thing men do to women and more a thing people do with each other. I'm sure SJW would even agree with that
>>25912633 Women who write shit like this need at least 5 good backhands until she learns to smarten up or shut the fuck up. You went to a party with people you didn't know, they got drunk, you got drunk. You know you can't control yourself when you drink, so why did you drink? Your fault, no one else's. I want to slap the everloving shit out of this bitch.
>>25913418 I have really low tolerance (only 140 lbs and I drink maybe once every weekend) and I think I had a little over half a fifth of shitty vodka in 30 minutes or so. Trust me anon, the last thing I remember was dancing with some girl at a party before waking up in my bed with puke on my sheets and on my clothes. I'm not trying to make an excuse for anything because I don't regret anything, but when I say that I was flirting with that girl because I was bored and just flirting to flirt I mean it. It was just mindless fun. I did not want to hook up with this girl and I still don't, I have no idea why this is hard for you to believe.
We don't tolerate people driving after drinking and anything bad that happens is entirely their responsibility. They have the supposed mental ability to know that bad things might happen when they drink and drive so they usually don't, so why is it any different when it comes to sex?
>>25913508 >but when I say that I was flirting with that girl because I was bored and just flirting to flirt I mean it. It was just mindless fun. I did not want to hook up with this girl Thought you blacked out? :^)
>>25913508 And when I say I drink once a weekend, it's typically not that much and spread out over the course of a few hours to just kick back with friends. I'm not a big fan of drinking in general because I tend to have pretty bad hangovers if I drink too much and it's just not worth it to me. >>25913603 Not then retard, re-read my original post. I specifically said that the flirting was when I was "drunk-but-not-hammered" and the blacking out was when I had to have a different girl help me piss and when I almost got in a fight, and the only reason I know about those two instances are because the people I was with told me.
Alcohol brings out the primal instincts in people. That's why people are more open about sex when drunk, because you forget the stigma that surrounds hooking up with random people and are left only with the urge to pass on your genes. Trust me I'm scientist.
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