>being such a poor judge of character that you date an abuser
Why am I supposed to feel sorry for domestic violence victims? They brought it on themselves. Why didn't they choose a better partner?
She COULD have chosen a gentleman, but went with the jock asshole instead. Smh typical sluts
>tfw the 4'10 girl I asked out rejected me for being a manlet
>tfw the 6'1 chad she dated beat her on a daily basis, got her pregnant and dumped her
lel, you reap what you sow, whores
I hope that cunt is miserable
people are deceptive, I can imagine someone deluding themselves/being tricked into thinking a guy's ultra-macho, violent behaviour is just an act done for laughs
no sympathy for people who stay with abusers, though
b-but how could she have ever known that the faggot with the neck tattoo whose idea of a good time is beating someone till their retinas detach would be violent?!?
I can understand and sympathize with people who are abused under the "normal" circumstances i.e. he showed no overt signs of being a piece of shit but this bitch gets no sympathy from me. The dude's name is fucking war machine, he beats people for a living. The fuck she think he gonna be.
>I love bad boys they are so sexy ;)
>omfg how could I have possibly known the bad boy was actually a bad person :'(
If you date somebody named War Machine who makes a living beating people up, you don't get to play dumb and act shocked when he kicks the shit out of you
You can tell OP has never been in a relationship because he would realize that even shy/nerdy/calm types can be abusive as shit.
It really comes down to the individual. Stereotypical "Chad/Stacie" doesn't make someone more inclined to be abusive.
Fun story time;
Mfw I dated a quiet, D&D/Magic The Gathering/bookish guy I met at the library. We were together for a few years and all was calm. When his grandmother died, he flipped. His parents sold her house and all of her belongings. He became extremely abusive towards me, verbally at first. I wasn't too confident in myself at the time and I thought I deserved it.
Turns out he got more abusive and led to physical abuse.
I ended up in a fight with him and had to hit him in the head with a wooden picture frame just to stop him from bashing my head through the wall.
Don't assume that all victims of abuse fit some cookie cutter mold or that abusers are all the same type.
Someone powerless, impotent, and put down in their life and seeks escapist means of control as entertainment. Yeah, good choice there, you faggot.
There are two kinds of men who beat women, the hyperaggressive kind that can't contain anger or lose it when demands aren't met, and the cringing beta who needs to feel some power in his world because of how much of an ineffectual he is in real life. You actually picked the worse of the two. Nice job warning us of your own idiocy.
Yeah, well ya'll can fuck off cause you both sound like the cringing betas for not wanting to do shit with your life and complaining about women on a Nigerian Basket-Weaving picture board.
You assume to know something about my character, which is laughable to be quite honest...meanwhile neither one of you probably have ever dated a woman and lament your wizard status on this board.
People aren't just how they appear in your anime or delusional fantasies. Things change, people change and you can't possibly account for everything...especially if you never move from your comfy seat in front of the computer.
>Easier to judge others for trying and failing than to ever try for yourselves.
>I wasn't too confident in myself at the time and I thought I deserved it.
This is the part that always happens in their relationships.
The minute someone starts doing any kind of abuse. It's not your fucking fault, so fucking leave them.
>You assume to know something about my character
Not them, but you got yourself into a shitty situation and didn't leave until it got bad.
You are no different than druggies who say
>YOU AINT NO MEEE!!11!
People aren't prophets and you can't judge a book by its cover.
I hit my gf when she asks me to, I did it by accident one time and failed to knock her out (knocked her out once or twice). I am very regretful of that one incident, but I'm not abusive.
Why does being a bad judge of character make someone a bad or worthless person? It's like hating someone because they have a physical disability, or even because they're stupid. It's either a talent they just don't possess, or they were raised in a flawed way. I think it's mostly people who have poor self esteem, and daddy issues and shit. If you're emotionally abused to the point where you're constantly told, and subsequently believe that you're worthless, it makes sense you would let someone treat you like shit.
>fucking a guy that literally changed his name to "War Machine"
>not expecting some degree of mental instability and domestic violence
Has /r9k/ seen this?
God damn it,these beta-cucks piss me off.
If a book's cover has a wizard and a dragon on it you can pretty much tell for certain that it won't be about national trade unions of the early-to-mid nineties. Covers literally exist to tell you about something without going through the pain of experiencing the whole thing to find out how shitty it is.
I've also never had my head bounced against a wall because I was stupid and weak. Rather be a
cringing beta" than some dumb bitch who got the shit kicked out of her by some guy who plays the Magic The Gathering.
That's not the same at all senpai. You choose who you date, you don't choose the circumstances you're born into. A lot of these women are warned repeatedly that they're dating scumbags, but they pursue the relationship anyway.
It's a bit of a long read, but there's a very good essay on this subject:
Has /r9k/ seen THIS?
Women who get killed by their aggressive or bigger boyfriends make me so smug tb h pham
>I chose Chad before and I expected this Chad to be different
No symathy desu sempai
>choosing a wrestler bf
lmao that cunt deserved it desu
still gonna jack off to her tho
I was actually shocked at the statistics on how frequently females are abused... before I realized that the vast majority of the time that statistically it's the same guys doing the abusing and the same women getting abused.
In other words, women who are abused consistently choose abusive partners and they STAY with them. Also, there isn't a huge amount of men doing the abusing as it tends to be the same men but with multiple women.
>You can tell OP has never been in a relationship because he would realize that even shy/nerdy/calm types can be abusive as shit.
Absolutely false. The largest correlation between domestic violence and something else is income and perceived stress. Race and age also play quite a large factor. The idea that the shy and quiet white guys are actually sociopathic abusers is purely a myth
Stacey getting what she deserved?
>Brave domestic abuse victim beaten for 10 HOURS sings about ordeal from hospital bed
>"I asked my doctor why I look different in the mirror, assuming it's a psychological consequence of savagery."
>Softly she remarked that all of my bones are bruised, quarter-inch ridges that I can feel - my face is different, it's one-half inch wider now."
>permanently deformed now because she chose chad husband
Bitch deserved it
>be friendly with qt back in high school, she lives near me so I went to her place one time
>was going to ask her out
>her dog starts barking at me and doesn't stop
>neither of us can hear anything
>"y-you too g-gotta go is that my mom calling haha dinner smell ya later"
>cheesed it out of there, nothing ever happens again and we don't can hang out more
>now she has tattoos, a nose ring, and a kid
I COULDVE SAVED HER
>Race and age also play quite a large factor. The idea that the shy and quiet white guys are actually sociopathic abusers is purely a myth
keep /pol/ on /pol/ please
>The idea that the shy and quiet white guys are actually sociopathic abusers is purely a myth
That's just what they tell themselves to justify fucking abusive Chads instead of some beta nerd.
It's the same with the "nice guy" bullshit
>Well the only difference between Chad and a nice guy is that Chad is open about viewing me as a piece of meat with a fuckable wet hole
>>men are more likely to abuse
That is false. Women are more likely than men to be physical abusers in heterosexual relationships and the highest instance of domestic abuse for any demographic occurs within lesbian relationships.
I know it's not right to hit a woman but there are times when i think it should be allowed, better turn Muslim.
How else are you supposed to impose your authority on cunts?
Violence is the only way the female will ever understand. You don't make a horse or a donkey go forward by gently telling it to. You have to make it understand you're the master by beating the shit out of it.
>She left out the parts where was probably a nagging cunt when the guy was going through a dark time in his life after his grandmother died.
>She left out the adrenaline rush she got from being a bully and kept pushing the guy until he snapped.
>She left out the parts where dude probably did have signs of being a prick.
I've known plenty of prick "nerdy" guys, you try telling the girl they're dating that and you get hell for it. Then she complains about it later when everyone else around her saw it first.
I could tell you were a woman from your first sentence too. Women will ALWAYS, ALWAYS try to smear the guilt around. They're instinct to protect Chad aka Attractive Male is that strong.
>N-n-no Chad's n-n-not abusive, it's the beta guy! H-h-he's secretly a monster, you just have zero evidence of this because uuuhhh... YOUVE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP! Yeah that'll show you.
Confirmed for fat southern girl who's "nerdy" because she watches Game of Thrones and dates the biggest asshole in the nerd pack, the one everyone of his friends says he's an asshole but she ignores all of that.
Stay roasty darling. Chad will come for you one day when he's desperate enough.
>Why does being a bad judge of character make someone a bad or worthless person?
Because those people drag the horrible people into YOURS and OTHERS lives and fucks them up.
I've watched my own mother do this for years, dating abusive barfly after abusive barfly. I've wasted so much money and time trying to help her fix problems these assholes brought into our lives and she keeps bringing more assholes in. Why? They're hot. Anon, they're hot! She just can't resist a hot guy.
So it's not even about being a poor judge of character it's about how they IGNORE character flaws for ULTERIOR MOTIVES and reasons, the person is rich or good looking or whatever. Don't let women play it off as them being dumb. They deliberately choose people they know are shitty, thinking their magic vagina will conveniently change them. They only play dumb when they get abused to avoid responsibility and get free attention and sympathy.
We're expected to belief they feel worthless when they also display the highest amount of self-importance? They're taking pictures of themselves all day!
Bingo. Again, ulterior motives. Chad is physically attractive, that's what they want more than anything. A physically attractive person paying attention to them. Basic biological imperative.
So their human brain, this miracle of nature that can analyze it's environment and make better decisions to survive, get's put to use making up excuses to justify lizard-level reproduction.
Somewhat offtopic here, and not the person you're responding to, but I think /r9k/ would stop being 90% bullshit and start being 100% honest if every instance of "women do X and it's fucked up" was replaced with "my mom did X and it fucked me up."
What the fuck was she doing?
>Man hits Man: I'm going to kill this guy or run away.
>Man hits Woman: I'm going to sit here for a couple hours and see if it magically stops.
Women never realize they're the toxic combination of stupid and cowardly. They're too stupid to survive. That's what they leech off us.
I figured someone was going to say something about "mommy issues" but I'd rather use that example because it's non-sexually related. It's to show I'm not just mad because women date abusive men instead of me, I'm mad because it effects other people's lives in general. It also rewards bad behavior which just creates more bad behavior. If a guy is abusive to a girl and she does nothing about it, he gets his ego inflated and starts trying to be abusive to other people too.
They're creating more evil through being horny cowards.
>meet super qt3.14 in high school
>she dates the shitty unstable nerdy guy cause she's a gamer grill and "we have so much in common lol XD"
>abuses her, rapes her junior year
>after high school she finishes her shitty XD phase and doesn't make me cringe
She's been in a long distance relationship with some guy across the fucking country she met in fucking TF2
>I visit her every weekend and we have a legit great time
>her whole family wants her to date me instead of some random guy they'll never meet
>I enjoy spending time with her but that doesn't mean I wouldn't ask her out if I could
I'm getting cucked by a guy who she's never even seen in person, and who she's too afraid to leave because of some weird mental scarring shit the faggot nerd guy did to her in HS. She complains about this guy but makes it obvious she won't leave him because she "should be a better girlfriend"
MFW there's no way around this
>inb4 you're on the wrong board, desu snepai
Keep talking to her and try and get her to see the light. You're there and now and he's way the fuck off. Eventually she'll feel the need to fuck or cuddle and rationalize leaving him as being healthier for her and move on to you.
Basically keep the pursuit and interest up and she'll go for someone who can actually do more for her than justify her love of vidya.
>have in you a room for 3 hours to beat up for 10 hours
I am working on that, she actually had an instance where she started a tickle fight. Although it was quite a while ago.
It was beginning to gnaw at me it might stay like this forever even though I'm happy here, but for some reason anon telling me to keep at it makes me feel better.
>older sister is a coalburner
>has been in relationship after relationship with nignogs
>always end because the guy starts beating her or tries to force himself on her when she doesn't want to fuck or whatever
>point out to her that every abusive guy she's dated was black
>"OMG ANON THAT'S RACIST YOU CAN'T JUST SAY THAT IT'S [CURRENT YEAR]!"
>Abused by Nicole Arbour for 8 months
C U C K
No you wouldn't. You wouldn't do a goddamn thing.
Every single tough guy I've ever met who wanted to beat me up for not being a white knight has ALWAYS backed off when I opened myself to their attack.
Threats just make you feel important and tough but you're never going to do a goddamn thing in real life.
>only ever dated one guy
>we were getting serious
>got into an argument about something stupid once
>he slapped me and called me a cunt
>headbutt him in the face
>broke his nose
It felt really good. Our third roommate insists I kept shit-talking him loudly afterwards, but all I remember is headbutting him and then getting pulled off him later.
>baww I went for Stacey and she picked Chad over me
>bawww Stacey cheated on me
>baww I married Stacey and she divorced me and took all my money
It is LITERALLY entirely your fault if you get fucked over by a woman. You should be better judges of character and not so easily lead around by looks and sex.
I'm small, and though I do keep in shape, I don't have a lot of muscle. A punch or kick wouldn't have as much of an impact as my skull, since most of the damage there is because of just how hard a skull is. He probably would have shrugged off a punch, if not outright grabbed me by the arm. On top of all that, I just wasn't really thinking. I don't get really mad often, but when I do I tend to just lash out without thinking, and I never remember yelling, but I apparently always do that too.
He was flirting with another girl while we were out together and I got angry about it. Waited until we got home to bring it up because I wasn't about to have that fight in public. He tried to turn it back on me by saying I was sleeping around. He got THAT idea because I had to do a bunch of tech support bullshit for one of my cousins, and he thought I meant a different cousin, so rather than ask me which cousin I was helping with computer bullshit, he held onto my "lie" and tried to use it to justify his own behavior later. I have nine cousins and he just assumed that if I wasn't helping one specific cousin I was out getting fucked at a club or something.
>implying the guys who beat their wife dont seem nice and in control of themselves the rest of the time
although desu what did she expect with dating someone who punches people for a living and whatnot
>You assume to know something about my character, which is laughable to be quite honest...meanwhile neither one of you probably have ever dated a woman and lament your wizard status on this board.
YOU CANNOT MAKE UP IRONY THIS RICH
>implying this is real roastposting
Yeah, people who blame the victim like to be smug about being good judges of character, but apparently have never heard about the concept of a phony. Which is funny, because a lot of these Nice Guys are massive phonies themselves, yet possibly not self aware.
>suggesting someone to pursue a girl already in a moronic relationship is beta
I'm suggesting he be the alpha male and show the damn woman that there are people in her life that aren't a billion miles away that want to fuck her brains out and be in a relationship vs. being a betacuck and let the girl slip out of his hands just because she's stupid enough to have an online relationship.
Are you the guy she's dating by chance? Or just another beta in a LDR trying to misdirect people?
>abuse is the victim's fault
>disregards the complexities of real life situations in favour of an argument that makes things simple and easier to understand for you
Tbqh you sound like a fuckwit op.
It'd be hilarious if it wasn't so retarded. Only robots could talk about men violently abusing women they're supposed to love and come out of it thinking women are awful evil whores for it.
>evil people don't hide those traits carefully le maymay
Fuck off, retard.
She didn't play dumb or act shocked though. Stop writing your own narrative when your argument is weak.
Violence is bad but what's also bad (since I haven't commited any violence I don't have to apologize for other scum of men that have) is that female type of violence that goes hand in hand with physical violence - that is verbal violence is not even recognized in our society. The male-female dynamic was always 'balanced' by men using physical means and women using psychological means to achieve what they want. Now 1 type of violence is highly shamed in our society while the other isn't. There is a reason that back in the day men told their woman to shut the fuck up because women so often try to manipulate (and are much better equipped than men) using their mouths and in todays society you're supposed to do nothing and just take it. Fuck that. I think that it's often that physically aggressive men and verbally manipulative women find each other and they you see the pictures of her black eyes and suddenly she is an innocent angel and he the scum of the earth.
tl;dr gender balance in our society is fucked up and skewed towards women, not men like feminism tries to picture it.
Yes, because this faggot's videos will not stop appearing in my recommended videos any time I watch anything remotely cartoon related
>Just aqquire a GF for the first time in my 23 years
>Find out her and her mother were in 2 abusive relationships and her sister is dating some Slav twice her age who doesn't give a shit about her and is just doing it for citizenship
>Start having nightmares of my GF leaving me because I never got angry at her or abused her yet
I already said it in this thread but the abused girl ALWAYS leaves out the part where she was nagging the guy too. Verbally abusing him to the point where he snapped and hit her. Women know they do this, they know they provoke it.
So you're right. On one hand we should frown upon violence at all, on the other when are we going to hold women responsible for provoking physical abuse through verbal abuse?
>we should send a man to jail and ruin his career if he touches a heavenly blessed beauty
>we should send a man to jail and ruin his career if he lays a finger too forcefully on his wife who cheat on her husband in a gangbang while his kids are sitting in the next room then sent him pics
People are okay with this
Why are people so scared of minuscule physical violence yet completely fine with no legal repercussions for emotional violence?
The key to things like this that if they were actually the good people they say they were, they wouldn't post about it or brag about their morality. Good on you if you spare the chicks feelings, but don't expect a medal.
Honestly, I think it's something like Halo Effect. We project positive qualities on women because they're good looking and they want to fuck them. They refuse to believe their capable of bad things because that goes against the boner.
Not robots obviously, but normies definitely. So they think the man should just "man up" when she's being emotionally abusive and that their is no reason to ever hurt her because she's incapable of hurting anything, because she's an attractive vagina-haver.
Basically men need to do, ironically, what women do and stick together on this issue. When a case of domestic abuse happens instead of immediately attacking the dude we should actually hear his side of the story too.
>Why am I supposed to feel sorry for domestic violence victims? They brought it on themselves. Why didn't they choose a better partner?
Well in that particular case it should be the other way around, what did the war machine expect when dating a porn star?
Robots are equally poor judges of character yet you all sympathize with each other.
>I wasn't too confident in myself at the time and I thought I deserved it.
You did deserve it. If you let anyone walk all over you then you deserve everything you get. Expecting other people to act decently when you don't stand up against their bullshit is fucking insanity. If you hadn't of fought back with the frame he probably would have bashed your head in and you would have bought it on yourself.
underrated post my friend, will kek again
What he's saying is that's what she chose, therefore she cant complain, but that's what all of these women do. Roasties are always so goddamn defensive and abrasive as if they are the dumb bitch in the OP, like a fucking hivemind.
You assume all of us are permavirgins, sometimes I forget women can't comprehend experiences outside there own. Some of us have been in successful relationships and are. Your "go live your life and see how hard it is!" argument is shit. Just cause you got the shit kicked out of you by your partner doesn't mean everyone does you dumb cunt.
You're shit, your decision making skills are shit, you got beat up by some gross faggot who plays MtG. I've never laughed so goddamn hard in months.
But its there fault, I could see be married and trapped with kids. But a lot of it is these dumb sluts who bend over backward for men they know who are abusive, and they're just fucking dating. She's not an evil whore, but she doesn't deserve sympathy.
>tfw get into relationship with girl who seemed sweet
>as time went on she got more comfortable with hitting me during arguments
>Don't know if she did it to try and get me to hit her in retaliation or to take her anger out on me or both
Anyone can be an abuser regardless of character traits. Although it's not surprising that "athletes" are always in the fire for this sort of thing.
>marrying someone who actually switches name to War Machine
>men who marries gold diggers
>have a friend with a 8/10 amazon gf
>He's tall and a bit chubby
>They dated for 4 years
>have another friend we hang out with has a brother who came back from 5 years in the Marines
>tons of tattoos and a huge asshole
>He literally looks like he could be a male model
>we go to a party all together
>He starts to talk to 8/10 amazon
>She wants his dick hard
>He's being a beta and ignoring it
>HE GETS HER FUCKING NUMBER
>he's still being a beta
>he drinks more while this is happens
>Then drunk he decided that it was a good idea to finally stick up for him self
>He tries to sucker punch marine chad
>marine chad beats the fuck out of him
>broken jaw and knocked the fuck out
>fast forward 2 weeks and they're dating
>I have never seen someone so crushed in my life
>that guy was never the same its been 2 years and he still cries about her