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should i join a frat?
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the guys there a great but...
>im a shut in autist
>I hate community service
>it costs money
>they dont even haze
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>>25905980
>>they dont even haze
D R O P P E D
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>>25905980
Honestly, as a senior, I wish I'd joined a frat. I'll be graduating, and I made one lasting friend through college. Even then, I'm viewed as the entertaining funny weirdo of his group. I get shitfaced every night anyways. A frat might have helped me develop better socially. I literally didn't leave the dorm except to chain smoke cigarettes and go to class freshman year.
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>>25905980

>guys there are great
Join and you'll be able to enjoy all the the cum in your mouth as you want faggot

If you are to cheap to get your daily dose of semen from a frat you could always join the LGBT student organization and make friends there
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Why would you join a stupid fucking normie fraternity, when you can be a real Greek?
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Frats are good fun faM. Go for it. They'll make a normie out of you and help you get that true college experience.
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>>25905980
No, trust me. You'll stick out like a sore thumb. They'll sense you'll be beta and will make your a failed normie.
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>>25907390
>>25907635
i just wanna have fun. but i fucking hate community service and giving my money up for something other than pornhub premium
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>>25907777
is a failed normie the worst kind of abomination??
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>>25907777
Depends on the Chad in the frat. Some Chads will make fun of OP, but some Chads will also help out OP by pushing him to be a better man. Many Chads are actually pretty nice people. It's the Staceys turning Chad against you who are the problem.
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>>25907784
FaM pls. The community shit is fine when you're doing it with bros and usually is only done to meet quotas. Trust me we don't like it either so we make it fun.
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>>25907831
This is true I've been around a few chads in my life. Mainly neighbors I had in my childhood. They remain some what nice to you as long as Stacy stays away. As soon as she shows up he will fuck you to make himself look better.
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>>25907831
the thing aboot this frat is its not that Chaddy. I was drinking with them the other night and found that a few of them are oldfags.
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>>25907784
The vibe I get is that community service is required by universities, but all of the guys there would be there to get it over with like you, followed by going out and drinking.

Like I said, I was confident "college will be different", and will be walking out with one new friend, who, desu, has gained a lot more from me (I got him a damned good job at my biological father's company) than I've ever gotten. Had I joined a frat, I honestly think I might have enjoyed college. Without, it was just going to class, going to work, and getting shitfaced alone every night and posting on the internet.
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>>25907842
i guess i just dont wanna be in boyscouts again. fuck that nigger shit
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>>25907804
Red pilled normie here (failed normie). You never know what you've had untill you've lost it. I'd imagine being beta or a lvl 40 wizard is worse.
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>>25908000
Well that attitude is why college will be boring for you. You think of it as much more of a chore than it has to be. Think of it as a way to hang out with friends and get interesting experiences and it'll be interesting. Don't underestimate the value of stepping out of the comfort zone and doing stuff with friends.
It's also good career value since that's the way Chad proves that he leads an interesting life and gives back to the community on his resume.
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If they don't haze it probably isn't a well respected frat f a m
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OP hur. basically here are the pros
>friends (i only have like 4-5 real close nigs)
>bitches n hoes (maybe im cuz of autismo)
>might help me get a job
>get to tell mum im a piece of shit
>pops will prolly high-five me (i only ever made him proud once or twice before)
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>>25908089
naw its a national one, so they will have non of that
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>>25908084
As a Uni fag, that view of college is normie as fuck.

>Think of it as a way to hang out with friends and get interesting experiences and it'll be interesting.
>Implying this isn't also the same attitude that justifies the Cock Carousel.
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I joined a frat and it severely enhanced my college experience. I had like 2-3 friends before I pledged and now I have probably 50+ (not including the guys in my frat) and literally every aspect of my life has improved since. I was depressed, borderline suicidal before I joined, and while I'm still not 100% satisfied with my life (I'm far from a "chad"), I actually enjoy it now.

This is a pretty cool article that kinda related to my situation a little: http://totalfratmove.com/kennesaw-state-sigma-nu-bares-all-in-article-about-his-depression-how-my-fraternity-saved-my-life/

This could be you OP

I'll be hanging out in this thread for a little if you wanna ask me anything
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>>25908675
>tfw senior year
>have this spring semester and fall semester before graduation
>will never have a frat save my social life
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>>25907784
>pornhub premium
absolutely pathetic
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>>25905980
pros:
pretty much instant friends
meet more people
do more shit than you would otherwise
definitely helped my social skills
cons:
costs money
gotta pledge which is fun but time consuming
hazing, mine wasnt bad but I would never consent to gay shit, physical abuse, or forced drinking.
Gotta go to some socials even if you dont wanna.
community service is a double edge sword, some of my most memorable moments was helping in a food kitchen but some of it sucks.
costs money.

All in all, would join again
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>>25908726
Where does this idea that fears will make a normie out of you come from? My impression that if you're a robot they'll sense it within a few times hanging out and they won't even let you pledge for their group. Also, even if you do make it into the group it's not like they "have" to be your friends. I'm sure eventually the aspie will come out and you'll just be a social outcast even within your own frat. Am I wrong?
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>>25908830
You're right. I guess I was a normie at heart all along :^)
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>>25908878
Yea thanks for the response. That's what I figured. It'd be a little too good to be true that a bunch of alpha frat bros would just take on a sperglord and be nice to him and mold him into a normie or even a Chad. I knew that was bullshit.
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>>25908830
I'm not a full on social-retard. I'm awkward in my sober state. With booze involved, I act like a normie who is sexually reserved. I feel as though I'd fit in just fine.
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>>25908919
If that's the case and you look the part too then it's probably a great idea. Good luck anon. Hope it works out.
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>>25908917
But to give a real answer, it's what >>25908919 said

A frat won't turn a sperglord into a chad, but it could turn that socially reserved, slightly socially awkward cyborg who's afraid to leave his comfort zone into a normie. For my entire freshman year I spent my weekends staying in my dorm room doing work, watching sports, posting on 4chan, etc. because I was afraid to ask my roommate or any of my floormates if you could party with them because I thought I wouldn't fit it. I eventually grew a pair, rushed some frats, and found one that fit me. Not filled with chads, just normal people (and maybe the occasional chad). Now I go out on the weekends. I had it in me the whole time but a frat gave me the means to actually do it.
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>>25905980
I'm in a fraternity it's great but if they don't haze they're prolly bottom tier and not worth ur time
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>>25909030
Do you call your country a cunt?
then don't call your fraternity a frat
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