Guys. I'm gay, my boyfriend went on a trip to Europe. I used GPS stuff and found him on Grindr.
This really fucking hurts, t b h. Fuck everything. I got him in a chat, used a fake pic. What can I do?
I wanna mess with him...see if he'd actually so something>>25903165
For me??? You mean him. Things haven't been the best, he's been distant, but I've been completely faithful and trying to make him happy
>tfw gay homo
>tfw I fear for this if I ever managed to start a relationship
I'm sorry, OP. You're fighting an uphill battle.
Okay, here's the latest. I'm tryna push a bit
Close the app now, OP. Going any further will just be hurting yourself more than you need to. Your boyfriend is going to sleep around while he's in Europe, there's nothing you can do to change that. Only thing you can do now is choose whether to still be with him when he returns.
Naw man, I want to make things work. For me...its so rare to find a gay guy I can tolerate. I've been doing everything. I have no desire for revenge sex. My libido feels dead right now. Just fucking hurts anon.
I cant help it anon. I need to know. Should I just cut it off now? Delete all connections for when he gets back?
Here's the latest. Fuck. God this sucks
that sucks, man. I'm really sorry. it'll hurt but you need to keep pushing. get as much evidence as you can so he has no way he can deny his intentions. it's sneaky for sure, but it's sure as fuck better than being with a cheating fucking prick.
I don't know gayman. I think you should cut your losses and honestly move on. It will be difficult as it seems your attachment isn't to him but the idea of him, but he ain't gonna stop. I say that as a habitual cheater that wants to die every day, partially because of guilt, partially because I can't keep up with all of them, mostly because I don't know how to stop or be happy. Y-yeah good luck
Get out of the relationship, now. I know it hurts and I know you still have hope, anon, but it seems like he's done.
My parter did the same thing: I caught her on whisper looking for hookups AND advice on a long distance relationship that wasn't working out...and during it all, they were super distant with me. I was totally faithful despite all that, and kept trying to fix the obviously floundering relationship. Fast forward six months later and she's going out to meet up with a friend at a bar for eight hours, and broke up with me the next day.
Looking back, I wish I'd cut it off when I first found out they were "scouting around". I would have saved myself a lot of time and heartache.
Oh, also that friend didn't like her as more than friends though, and wasn't happy that I got dumped over them, so they aren't even friends anymore.
You know he's cheating already. Going any further while pretending to be someone else is kinda obsessive and stalkerish and may damage what relationship you have left.
It's just how some gay guys are. They can't help being buttsluts. I don't understand it, but I hope I don't have to deal with anything like that in my relationship.
You mentioned in the other thread that you've been working on the relationship for a year. Maybe this gay foray will be a good enough break, and he'll be willing to work on your relationship some more when he returns.
Worst type of sexual frustration. If I was straight I could have all the escort sex I want
I'm sorry. People on this board think women are the scum of the earth. But we got a gay brother hurting right now and no woman is involved only men.
Fuck people man. If you get him to admit wanting sex you confront that fucker. Give him a phone call and tell him you're going to kick his ass for wasting your time and emotions.
>Going any further while pretending to be someone else is kinda obsessive and stalkerish and may damage what relationship you have left
His boyfriend has fucked the relationship already. It's over.
>Maybe this gay foray will be a good enough break, and he'll be willing to work on your relationship some more when he returns
OP, do NOT try to work this out with him. Cheaters are the worst kind of people in the world. At least serial murderers just kill random ass women they pass in the park. Cheaters destroy people who love and trust them fully.
Repeat: end this relationship and NEVER look back. Cheaters will ALWAYS be cheaters. I cannot stress this enough. source: I was engaged once. cheated on on several occasions. always tried to work it out. it never did.
This is a good idea, just so you have full confirmation. Say something like "Just to make sure we aren't wasting either of our's time, you're not one of those guys on here just looking for a pal to pass time with while you're in town, right?"
And da latest
Working on it. Slowly. I feel fucking alone as fuck.
Doesn't matter. Point is as long as they act like a different person and the guy outright chooses to cheat. Its wrong. They could easily reject the guy but most men are huge fucking whores.
kind of this, but word it differently.
>just wanna ask so we don't waste each other's time, I'm interested in possibly hooking up if the night goes well. is that something you'd be interested in?
Think I found some pics that'll work.
The pic is just his face
Okay. I found some pics of a hot guy that get dirty. He's turned down sex on Grindr before. This is where it'll get interesting.
Hold me robots. I have no one else.
Getting there. See what this pic does.
I'm a faggot. I'm trying not to cry and I know that's gay as fuck but...I'm not liking this
>Get him to admit he wants sex now or you're going to fuck it all up and he's going to deny that he ever wanted to cheat.
he's on fucking grindr
OP has every right and reason to dump him right at this very moment
OP, you need to stop being a pussy both and send this:
Before it's too late. You're only hurting yourself more the way you're dragging this out. It's like a bandage, you need to rip it off.
Self esteem issues my ass.
Didn't quite show dick
For those waiting to bust him...I'm thinking of a different plan. Sorry m8s..
>tfw no bearmode bf
>being a homo
>taking part in a community that idolises sexual promiscuity and is rampant with degeneracy
>expecting fidelity from a gay man
Literally what is the point of choosing to be gay if you're going to get cucked just as badly as straightfags?
Well...there it is. The dick pic has arrived.
FUCKING NO SYMPATHY FOR FAGGOTS
GET AIDS AND DIE
Who /deadinside/ here?
Fuck dis gay erfff
You guys are right. You are. I hear you. Guess I'm just turning masochist/cuck. I'm just fucked up right now.
Anyway thanks for going with me. Imma nuke the thread I guess
Here's the closure. I'm gonna set up a place for him to get a cab to to meet me tomorrow. Of course, it'll just be nothing. Not the greatest revenge, but it'll confirm the effort he puts in to cheat.
It's all fucked. I'm a faggot, a puss, sure. Whatever. I just hate everything. I haven't ever cheated. All I wanted was him to be honest, but he didn't have the balls to tell me he wanted out. Year down the drain.
>Fuck women, just go gay! Men are way better!
Yeah, no. From what I understand, there is rampant amounts of adultery going on in the gay community. When will you all realize it's not a woman problem (although women are especially disgusting), it's a humanity problem?
You suck, I wanted some proper drama. You should tell him right now, "Hey, it's anon, I was catfishing you, you fucking slut." Then take a picture of burning his shit.
Fucking do something actually cool, you dick.
>All I wanted was him to be honest, but he didn't have the balls to tell me he wanted out. Year down the drain.
You think that men, particularly gay men, cheat because they don't want to be in their current relationship? Are you a retard?
Men cheat because they have dicks. It has nothing to do with their gf/bf.
Women cheat because they want a new relationship, or because they want alpha/chad DNA in their kids while cucking their bf into providing.
People who have successful grindr hookups usually are attractive so I literally give no fucks that your Chad bf is cheating you.
Wouldnt be surprised if you fucking met the guy through grindr too
When you confront him about cheating, I don't think you should mention that you pretended to be this guy to find out. If anything say some random guy named Erik texted you and told you after looking at your bfs Facebook and seeing he's got a boyfriend (if it's Facebook official)
BURN SOME SHIT. SEND HIM A PIC. MAKE HIM CRY!
YOU'LL FEEL BETTER, WE'LL FEEL BETTER, HE'LL FEEL LIKE SHIT! IT'S A TRIPLE WIN, YOU LOSER!
Aw, wrong pic. Anyway, do it, OP
I might confront tomorrow. I might do it later in the trip. Idk. Wanna get rid of the stuff and make sure I'm clear to be totally done with him when he gets back.
I might prefer to just delete everything and be done with him, no explanation, just never have to see him again. I'll sleep on it. Tbh I'd be embarrassed to admit I was faking, but I guess it wouldn't be the worst thing.
Can I turn myself asexual?
I've fingered a girl's asshole they must anticipate but stuff and maintain it cuz it was fine. Gays probably make sure it's all sloppy and shitty because of the degeneracy and all
Break up with him calmly and rationally. Clearly you want two different things out of a relationship. Pretty simple stuff. Hope you find someone better though, best of luck to you.
Why should you feel embarrassed? I think the harshest dump move I've seen was just the guy moving all of his stuff out and disappearing, but I dunno, he doesn't know that you know. If you live together or have his stuff I'd get that in order and then dump him.
I've fapped to these images before. Top fucking lel.
To be quite honest family, you should break up with him. But I think its good you let it drag on. Swapping pics on grindr is hardly break up material, but if hes actually planning on meeting up with a guy then you should definitely end it.
Wrapping this shit up f a m. Gotta wageslave early tomorrow too.
I'm sad. I know y'all gonna throw shit at me again, and you are right to, you really are, but this is the worst fucking feeling. I literally feel nauseous.
Well this is it, the last one. Those emojis. FUCK. Fucking whore.
I know I'm OP, but if I confront, I will post updates. I promise. I am leaning to just deleting him, dumpong stuff at his place, and never seeing him again. So if anyone has a better idea.
Fuck this. I'm gonna start going to fit and all that shit. There's no point sitting down amd discussing this. Life fucking goes on. Fuck cheaters. Life's gonna be good robots, I ain't sticking with this shit forever.
Thanks for being here with me, I literally have no one else right now
I'm >>25904677 and I still feel for you, man. He is a fucking whore. I suggest dumping his stuff at his place and never seeing him again, but also, having this guy set up a date. When he doesn't show, if your bf texts you tell him what's up. Hang in there, man, there's gonna be other bfs.
So let me get this straight: you have evidence that your boyfriend wants to cheat on you and instead of being a man in a relationship that is comprised solely of men and dumping him, you instead elect to whinge and bitch and cry on an anonymous image board?
Fuck you cunt, you're more of an attention whore than he is. Either end it or cut your balls off if you're not going to use them.
>yfw he is orchestrating all of this from Europe and you're his little faggot puppet
>to capricious humans
I laugh at you and your silly ritual of attachment followed by detachment followed by reattachment to someone else who will then just detach again in an infinite loop until you die or give up on your stupid dreams
OP secretly loves bullshit others he wouldn't bother to entertain it for this long
You need conviction OP. And you need to stand by those convictions. Anger is the enemy, always graciously and swiftly cut your losses. Grief and revenge are for the weak. And when he beholds your strength he will see himself in the wrong. Otherwise, by being passive-aggressive, you're only going to give him reason to justify himself retroactively in the future.
It isn't about being a man. You can be as much of a pansy bitch as you want.
>implying gay virginity isn't the absolute easiest to lose.
>implying there aren't gay escorts.
>implying there aren't totally bangable older guys that would love to take your cherry even if you're a 4/10.
You could find solace in knowing that some unknown number of desperate anons have fapped to his picture, using him as nothing more than a pleasure-object
Most of them unshowered, crusty NEETs. Some of them fat too. All of them thinking of wrecking that BP.
Set the wolves free OP it's your call. They will be here waiting for a bit (or not).
gay virgin here. I feel you my felow robots