>like girl for a while
>eventually ask her out
>she says yes
>cancels right before
>kind of avoid seeing her mostly cuz I feel I'd make her uncomfortable or something
>months pass and she runs into my friend and asks about me
Now I'm thinking about trying to start talking to her, not sure how and or if I should. Or was this insignificant and I just keep going on about my life?
Just go with your life dude like its not worth it fellow anon. She sounds like a massive cunt anyway and your life would probably be Alot better without her in it!
>>25895220
>tfw this happens every goddamn time I ask a girl out
>she says yes
>she acts excited for the date
>cancels the day of or the night before
>tfw I was a victim of #wastehistime before it was a meme
>>25895251
I don't really know her and we don't interact otherwise. I'm really attracted to her for some reason maybe it's the "always want what you can't have" thing.
>>25895343
I think girls these days just have a hard time rejecting dates on the spot and get their courage up to reject you the same way we get the courage up to ask them out.
>>25895648
I had a girlfriend once. She really was the one pushing it when I thought we were just friends, and then I made the official move. I kind of fell into it. She fell for the lies of my old friend. I told her I loved her but she never loved me, and used obvious bullshit to break it off. I made the mistake of staying friends with her to give me some peace of mind and she said I wasn't a real man the first time she got drunk. I'm not all that mad at her since it was mostly things I should've avoided, but it kind of hurt to hear something clearly meant as an insult from someone you used to think of as a friend, and even loved. I learned from it and just keep anyone I find attractive firmly at bay. It's easier to have no ambitions.
>>25895932
Aw man don't blame yourself or hold yourself back just because of a stupid girl.
>>25897081
I think I'm better off though. It's much easier to have friends. My balls may ache, but I'm better off if I operate on the assumption that I'm not sexually wanted; I've actually since then had a qt come up to me out of nowhere to say I was "really hot" but I would never be able to connect with her most likely. I'm a "childless single man who masturbates to anime" in msnbc's words, though I'd never lewd Koma-chan or Hotarun.
>>25897344
What if that qt was into anime too tho?
>>25897656
I'd rather not rock the boat by broaching the subject to her. If she comes to me, I may try it but It'd likely be unsatisfying for either party
>>25895220
Make her decide whether it's a fuck off or a fuck on.
Then decide don't waste time with this wishy washy shit
>>25897794
how do I make her decide? I'm not really wasting my time, my life is still moving at the speed of fun.
>>25895932
Damn,this post brings back memories.
> I made the mistake of staying friends with her to give me some peace of mind.
I should have cut her off,this shit is what hurts the most."Let us stay friends",how can people be so cruel ? I felt 2 years completly shit and now I am literally frozen inside.
Honestly if you can't be happy without a cunt you might have really low self esteem or your not taking any antidepressants either or!
>>25898837
I'm pretty happy on my own. Girls and relationships can complicate things but I definitely don't hate women. I'm just trying to be my ideal version of myself.