>>25894016 Pretty much this. Love is the closest thing to an emotional equivalent of a double-edged sword. There is no better feeling in the world, but it will eventually ruin you for life. Why do humans even have this emotion? It's crippling at best.
>>25894125 I'm glad that they managed to maintain a fairytale relationship, and they are the only kind of person on this planet I envy with my entire soul. It is a state of belonging and happiness I could never comprehend.
>>25894006 Never been in love but during my school years two girls were in love with me. I couldve lost my virginity with either 13 or 15 but failed to pick up the signs both times, because im pretty much socially retarded >tfw I couldve been chad
I know it's not "love" but I have been so fucking besotted with a girl for the past four months. I think about her every day. I'm too old to be having crushes and it's causing me a great deal of suffering. She is from a wealthy family and has very cultured friends and so on and I just feel so pathetic when she's near and I tell myself to talk to her. I'm in hell.
>>25894306 Holy shit. It's actually the same problem with me too. I used to be pretty popular in pre-acne years but i've ultimately failed picking up signs. Then acne hit and my chances ended in the trash
>>25894403 Been there No you won't Unless you get other girls of course I don't know how normies can shrug it off so easily I've been deeply obsessed with this girl It has been 3 years I still stalk her everyday on Twitter
>>25894006 Well yes, i actually had a good relationship for about 2 years, suddenly everything falls apart, its true i messed some shit up, but so did she, and now we just dont talk that much she always gives me the cold shoulder, plus i think theres something between her and one of my suppose called "friend", i feel like when we talk for more then 20 min we gonna argue badly, and i just feel like that tomorrow (gonna meet with her), im gonna get dumped hard, and im already feeling depresses
>>25894006 I can't love anyone due to sever emotional neglect. I have a bad times with anything that involve relationship since I grew up isolated and alone from my family, other people and everything that had come contact into this life.
Love to me seem too good to be true, I tried to have some relationship but it just turn out that I am unappealing and I'm not the type of anyone. It's really hurt sometime having to experience this kind of neglect as a child and even as an adult today.
Twice, neither resulted in anything worth writing about. The first had a bigger influence on me than the second, but both proved to me that I'm better at wishing other the best than wanting something. I'm the only constant, and I'm more of a stepping stone than anything else.
I don't doubt the existence of love, I just gave up on it for myself.
>Highschool >In love with someone i feel is a 10/10 to the point it physically hurts >Come from a purist family, brainwashed into thinking dating, drinking, talking to opposite gender that isnt family is a sin >Hold it in >Eventually my emotions die >Looking in hindsight she was a 4/10 fattie >What the fug >Would usually have 0 attraction to girls like her
I was on a date today, never been so happy. She makes my legs go spaghetti, we talked for 2h. Did not hold hands yet, I mean, I want to know her first. Waiting for tomorrow evening to sent her a text. Feel kinda weird, feels a bit like MDMA. Butterflies in my stomach, it builds up to some happy freakouts where I can't stop smiling and laughing. God she is cute and loveable.
>>25894006 In my youth, not so long ago, to fight my social anxiety i joined a hiking club, not related to a college but it was near many universities so most people were college students. I was 15. There was this 19 year girl that was in literature. Wavy-curly long hair, deep brown eyes, not too thick not to skinny lips, nice ass, slightly tanned skin. At first i didn't notice her , but somehow we started talking. One major fuck up i did was she told me i seem romantic,and instead of being remotely socially capable and saying somethin like " seems like you brink out the best of me " i just literally, with the stubble went : "R-really? I-i don't think so." I am almost 100% sure i have some rare form of autism that can get better over time. The night moved on, the guys that ran the club were playing some music on their guitars and singing and i was drinking a mug of tea with rum. 'Twas cozy as fuck. All of a sudden she started rubbin my bare ankle with hers. I insta-bonered and was overwhelmed with feelings. Needless to say i did everything in the power of my autistic self to not get involved. I was fat so i didn't understand why she would have any interest in me so i just waved it off like some conjuration of my mind. Altough i was infatued with her for a good six months. I think i do this to myself because i simply cannot comprehend how someone could see something good in me besides objective things like "wow anon u r rly stronk".
Once. The only girl I've ever really been involved with. We dated for about 6 months but damn it moved way too fast. Within a couple weeks we were already saying "I love you" to each other and I fell HARD.
I think the biggest problem was my naivete. She had all kinds of redflags that I outright ignored because I had it in my head that she was special or that it didn't matter or that the shit I'd heard on /pol/ and here weren't true but turns out they are.
She was a textbook spoiled rich white girl who's bored with her exhausting 20 years on this planet and just wanted to stir up as much drama and attention as possible. She was incredibly manipulative and I still feel slightly bitter towards myself for falling for it. She had the whole "sweet/innocent" girl routine and attracted a guy who's into sweet and innocent girls, but as we dated more and more shit came out about her and her past until eventually I got so weirded out that I think she could tell. So she cheated on me, tried to blame me for it, and I told her to fuck off after a point of trying to talk some sense into her.
Even after everything broke off and she hated me and I hated her, she still tried to get my attention by parading new guys around in front of me any opportunity she could get. Not even 2 weeks after, she was already out with another guy (not even one of the same 4 guys she cheated on me with).
She was crazier than all hell but I see her same traits in other women and I just get sad. Or rather, not sad but a nasty combination of disgusted, angered, jealousy, and depression because I see more and more how common her type was.
I just want a qt girl who's not a slut to love me for who I am.
>>25894006 I still am, she does not know it, even if she did she would be grossed out. Day after day i day dream of us holding hands, cuddle, kiss.. knowing it will never be true and that she is happy with some other man.
Yo I love you more then words can describe but I'm such a bitch I had to fuck it all up. Not a day goes by that I hate myself everything is black n gray. I hate this feeling of desperation, reaching after air in a relationship I know it's over but I can't accept it man I loved you so much that I can't show it cus if I do I'll break in two fuck it I'll never find another Guy like you.I tried to replace you but he's nothing and it hurts. I know deep inside i fucked it up all and I probably don't even deserve a second chance. I just really fucking hate myself more then you can imagine. The end is near I swear to god I'll shoot the needle OD and drop dead roll over
I should really become a emotional rapper desu. This is how I feel after my relationship ended. I've never loved a guy as much as I loved him. I can't bear to live without him
>>25894006 i literally never fell in love and i dont know how that shit feels whenever i see a woman at my uni, i can only see her as a working human being and not like ayo bruh she cute af my mother even asked me if i already have plan for marriage or when she will get her grand children, but shit, i literally dont know how all this shit works
>>25897252 Like when we first started dating she told me she had "never really dated before" and that she felt "very inexperienced" which i was fine with, we're only 20. I asked what that meant specifically and she said "I had sex with a guy I worked with once, but it felt weird so we never did it again"
But a few months later we're out with her friends and they're talking about their sexcapades and she starts prattling on about 3 other men she'd been with before me. And when I confronted her about it saying she told me something different, she just denied it and said "I never said that" and acted like I was being an asshole for asking.
After a while it came out that when she was a teenager, her and 4 of her friends used to drive around the city and pick up random "cute guys" they'd see on the street and fuck them. She claimed she never did anything beyond make out with a few of them but I didn't believe her and I think she knew that and it only made me more disgusted and paranoid about what she wasn't telling me. After that, I literally didn't even want to kiss her and it started the resulting breakup fight between us.
Little things before then set me off though. Like, she was bulimic and fluctuated in her weight a lot and when she started losing a fuckton of weight (like literally 30lbs in a month) I knew something was up. She started dressing very differently too. She always wore girly frilly shit when we first started dating but towards the end she bleached her hair and started dressing in all black and leather constantly and smearing makeup on like a prostitute. Pretty fucked up, it's amazing how women can chameleon themselves like that.
>>25894006 Yes, but she wasn't interested. We are just friends now. She's not even pretty either. She looks like a troll. Despite that she's oddly sexy, has a god-tier personality, and is the only one that I have ever really felt at home with.
One day she got married and I wasn't even mad, just happy for her. After that I gave up. I just stick to waifus these days.
I don't know, never felt it and probably never will. I need to know a person first to feel something for them and I usually don't get that close to girls since I'm an ugly fuck. Probably gonna die alone and bitter.
>>25894006 Yeah It's not nice, not in the least. Avoid it like the plague. Your heart keeps fucking aching because of this weird feeling called lovesickness. And you do some really really edgy stuff while you're at it. You're sad all the time and have low energy. Then when you come out of this "love" thing, you realize you never gained anything out of it and just did some extremely cringeworthy stuff, stuff that should be buried under 10 metres of cement
The best way to avoid love is to do manly stuff like playing violent video games and watching shonen anime(no romance), looking at porn and watching horror movies.
Whenever I fell in love, after some time, I was either rejected or completely ignored so that I didn't even try something.
2 years since I felt love for more then one day (In that period I liked 2 girls, but it didn't last, first had a bf and I still don't know why she accepted to go to the bar(it wasn't a date), second was really crazy).
It would be better if I just turned my head away from all that s**t.
I simply don't have this feeling that could last for months(or even years) before. I sometimes have tfw no gf feeling, but then I come to another problem. I don't like nor love any girl. Maybe it's just a destiny to be a wizard, I just have to wait a little more.
>>25898072 See >>25897506 for some shit she did but to answer your question more specifically, anything you hear on here, honestly. I mean, not the obviously ridiculous shit but she had an eating disorder, on antidepressants, had cutting scars all over her legs, tattoos, frequent changes to her hair, strained relationship with one of her parents whether it's self deluded or not (by which I mean she hates her dad or mom but only because it allows her to be the victim, which leads me to), victim complex, thrift store flare, popular/pleb/non-existent taste in movies and music, liking pic related, and any amount of self proclaimed feminism or "independence"
I don't know, I might lie to myself that not. Or perhaps I indeed never been in love. One way or the other I think I've been three fucking times in long distance relationships. Each ending pretty much with them getting bored of me. Oddly enough it seems to me as if they kinda forced or pulled me into these bonds of theirs, likely by accident I've just been charming towards them, to the point at which they found me as a significant other and so I kind of went along with it. Then at last I ended up in a legit relationship with some girl from my school that used to be in my class for a moment. We never really talked back when we were in the same class, beside some awkwwards talks in the likes of each of us guessing another's personality type or her tormenting me whether why would I be a hopeless romantic that I am. Ironically enoug she later found out. Some day at the time when we were no more in the same class, she walked up to me and we talked for a bit. After realising both of us taking interest in drawing, maybe of curiosity, I kind of manipulated or drawn her to the idea of coming over and tutoring me. Come to think of it, somehow unable to ask or suggest something that I desire or look forward to I instead seem to maniupulate people or be suggestive towards what I strive for. Odd. Anyway, she quickly did ask if she could come over. We shared phone numbers to keep in contact and decide on the details.. or rather the hour. First time was just cute, and a bit awkward, we drew a bit, however me being unable to concentrate I mostly watched as she does. Talking of various topics and trying to get to know eachother better. Then she asked if she could come over once more, to these words my heart for some reason halted from the unexpected...
>>25898955 Second time was more.. lovely, we were talking more intimate and genuine. From our troubles and worries to out dreams and strives, the confusion and passions. We ended up just sitting on my bed and looking at the reflection in the furniture glass. And out of the blue we spoke of how we never really got to cuddle or hug someone sincirely. I mentioned then that I wouldn't even know how to do that comfortably. Again to my surprise she asked if we could try then. And so we did, both awkward and pleasant we embraced eachother and kept talking deeply while sharing warmth of hearts. It was the time to farewell, we thanked eachother and hoped to see another soon. And we did, we meet a third time, happy to see eachother, with a completly different atmosphere and attitude, way more cheerful and lovely. Soon before she had to go once more she suddenly grasped by cheek and kissed me. It was.. ugh, awkward. She didn't know how to do it. Well, nor did I, but it seemed I knew more being a kissless cirgin then her. As her lips released mine she said that I'm the most kind and sweet person she ever had the honor of meeting. Likewise I complimented her, still in shock. I think she said that due me aksing why would she kiss me. Then I asked her if I could return the favor. With a blushing smile she noded in agreement. Stressfuly I got closer to her, palm of my hand reaching our for her cheek too I grasped her lower lips instead, gently sucking and caressing with my tongue. From pleasure she actaully let out a moan to which I got startled. I asked her if I done something wrong, not yet realising it was a pleasureful yelp. She silently replied that it felt really good, and I just replied as shyly that she might do as well if she practices with me. Then our bond bloomed, fruitless however. She even suggested taking eachother's virginity. But before that, as I got to know her better, I realised I somehow do not have feelings towards her. That I was only charmed with love itself
>>25899359 And so I lie to myself and try to forget. Denying myself the awareness of having been in a relationship. I might not be kissless, but at least I kept my virginity for the significant other, huh.. And well, if I delude myself well enough, I'll forget I ever meet any of them, and that I ever kissed or got kissed before. Goodnight folks'
>>25894006 Yes. >first time my gf at age 7 got her head ripped off in a car crash >second time got left for the guy I was attracted too >third time got left for a meth head >fourth time got left for a child molester >fifth time fell in love with a friend who's an actor/drummer/fencer but didn't tell him and turns out he liked me >sixth time im with my current bf and I am his submissive
Yeah, it was nice then it was awful. Took a year or two to dig myself out of the hole. Secret to getting over a girl: give yourself the love she gave you. It won't be the same, but it helps. Helps fill the hole a little. Everything else is just a matter of time.
I'd still do it again. There's this point where you start being half of a whole and you feel so complete. I still want it.
It's not love but there is this one girl I used to be infatuated with. I sneaked glances at her in class, obsessively stalked her social media, imagined having a life together but to this day she probably doesn't even know I exist
>>25894006 never always tought i was in love but i would just get over them so quickly that i couldnt ever have been in love with them probably going to find my oneitis one time and going to suicide when we break up
>>25894006 the only true love i have ever felt was for my my little sister cause i saw her grow up all the girls ive liked i tried to convince myself i have been in love with them but i just didnt tfw i will never experience heartbreak or love
I'm scared that I'm falling in love with my best friend. He has a gf but he has feelings for me too, we cant't be together because of distance and because we're both male. We both love each other very much and tell each other "I love you" daily, but I'm scared I'm actually falling in love with him. This wasn't supposed to happen, I don't know if we actually have a shot or if we shouldn't give into our feelings for each other.
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