I want to talk with my oneitis but I can never find the right situation. I am pretty good friends with one of my oneitis' friends so should I ask her for help?
>Too scared to walk up and just say hi
Is this in a highschool or college campus?
Just say hi to her and her friends if you ever see each other. If they stop and say hi back maybe you can talk more with her/them and ask each other how things are, etc.
Once she said that I was all over snapchat and I just laughed abit, another time she was in a que behind me and asked if she could go in front and I dropped my spaghetti and said 'why' and I look back and I hate myself for it thats the most akward thing I could of said.
mmh, firstly, hype down the feelings about her, being to in love with her in your mind will only make things worse. now, what you should do is try and sit near her in class and pick out a random topic, talk to her, and if you feel that she likes talking to you after a while, offer her some coffe or whatevs after class, and ask her out. it's normal to be shy, but being scared will only put you in worse situations, so try and force your spaghetti's into the pocket
you dont need to regret anything, stay calm. first thing you gotta do when class ends, is seeing if she's talking to someone, if not, talk to her, see if she gets along with you, and then , like i said, make your move.
Not the guy, but don't jerk off 5 times a day, not saying do no fap cos that is bs, but just limit to 3-4 times a week, then to 2-3 times a week. It actually gives you some motivation.
this actually works, but in the end, it's up to you. do you want to spend the rest of your life waiting to be inspired? no, you need to sort it out yourself, spend some time convincing yourself, with arguments, like if you were talking to someone. it may seem nuts, but it helps to confront yourself. you like that girl right? than you should stop yourself from speaking to her. there's no absolute reason you shouldn't make a move and you now it