Does anyone else feel like they're the wrong gender sometimes, but not in a gay transvestite way?
I'm sexually attracted to women, but I just think I'd be way better at being a girl than a boy.
the fantasy of being the other gender simply results in you liking that gender and their attributes so in reverse you want to be that gender to like yourself. I've been through this. these are my thoughts.
I used to wish I was a boy. From childhood to highschool I would only wear boy's clothing and my parents thought I was a lesbian for a long time. I don't have any mothering or nurturing instincts. I once posted my face on /soc/ as a teenager and everyone thought I was a dude. I'm more feminine now at 21, wear blouses and have fancy boots, but I still sometimes feel like I'm in the wrong body. However, trannies are mentally ill freaks of nature and I would never do anything like that to myself. It's better to reluctantly embrace biology and try to find your own happiness in your gender than go through all of the shit to change nature.
It called being trans you pathetic fuck.
>There are actually people on this board RIGHT now who deliberately rule out being a tranny because they're scared of being called a faggot on 4chan
Trans != gay
Girl with a vagina here who was socialized female.
You wouldn't be better at being a girl. We would have chewed you up alive. Beta bitches get stitches but not in the physical way. We beat you down with words and manipulate you into thinking we care before throwing you under the bus and laughing at you and saying you rolled under it yourself. And you would believe us.
Take all of your self loathing and multiply it times about a hundred. There's a reason why women are perceived as crazy. They've been playing a game you boys have only been in since around puberty. They have years up on you and in their desperation to feel validated take out their hurt through hurting others, usually beta males who learned that beta bitches get stitches because boys haven't conceptualized how to play the long game yet.
Transwomen really don't get it. Its seriously like joining an MMO after all of the hard shit has been patched and they added a cash shop with EXP boosts and Makeup Kits (lol FFS) where you can just buy it instead of grinding quests.
Thing is the MMO is shit now and the only ones left playing are the crazy cunts who want to delude themselves into thinking their $200 cash shop buy ins a month are paying for their perceived utility. If they were smart they would have moved into a better game like Careers, Child Bearing, Taking Care of The Infirm, etc.
Very low. I've always been very submissive and emotional, and I got bullied a lot for my weight and appearance throughout childhood. I've dropped the weight but I still don't feel good about myself.
>Beta bitches get stitches but not in the physical way. We beat you down with words and manipulate you into thinking we care before throwing you under the bus and laughing at you and saying you rolled under it yourself. And you would believe us.
wow its fucking nothing. i dealt with this shit as a kid and it didn't even phase me. only retards would really give a shit about words from worthless trash.
I understand being female has its own sets of challenges and hardships. I just think I'd be more adept at dealing with it.
Even a shy emotionally damaged woman can find someone that cares about them. People like me just get ostracized and shamed for not being "man enough".
Interesting. I have noticed through personal experience that both submissive homosexuals and many transgender individuals seem to be very shy and have low self-esteem. Someone on /pol/ postulated that maybe it's because they want to feel wanted (like many women are).
I don't know if that's actually the cause, but it's kind of interesting nonetheless.
Being trans is honestly 100x worse than being gay
>a lot of people look at you in disgust
>you'll only ever be a fetish to some weird guy or rarely a girl
>the lgb in lgbt hates you
>you'll never be what you want
>probably will commit suicide
I'm also biologically female. I have no idea what this person is talking about. I'm 25 and every woman I meet is normal and not manipulative.
The only thing I can imagine here is the person posting this is a high school student who deals with teenagers that "play games".
You're right, Anon. Only a retard would care about what trash thinks.
But these girls are not trash. They were never trash. They were your queens, your allies, your friends, your family. But when you realize that they thought of you as a queen and you were really a court jester in their eyes, it destroys the psyche.
Boys are quick to cast aside people they deem disgusting. Girls do not do this with other girls they find unnacceptable. They keep them around as entertainment, treat them as an equal until they have lost value and then the carpet is ripped from them.
I really wish I could say I'm being hyperbolic but I was one of these mean bitches. You wonder why a lot of girls end up crazy as fuck its because other crazy bitches fucked with them as a child and they never really healed so they go onto find beta men who were cast aside instead of pruned to never trust again.
Sad but true.
Anyone can find anyone to care about them. Seriously. An emotionally deranged woman can find an emotionally crippled man. People just aren't willing to compromise and we're still wound up in gender roles about how the man has to act first.
You have to understand that your dating pool is crippled from childhood. Men were ostracized, women were invited in, loved, and then destroyed.
Men cry woe woe woe I can't find anyone and women who want to find someone find someone who was pushed away. These women have trust issues and issues with the self that have never fully resolved, so the man pours all his care into her, thinking that love is the answer instead of fucking therapy for the both of them. Girl eventually cracks because of her own paranoia and 'ruins' the relationship that was already doomed to fail. Guy blames "bitches" and then continues to sulk or he tries again.
Both genders just get tired of biting their own hands while biting hands that are punching them, unaware that biting themselves is what was making the fist in the first place.
>and I ran
Running away/pushing things away is a very male thing to do. If you are OP trans you are not, if you are a female welcome to breaking away from the female curse of always trying to fix problems even if you have no idea how to fix it.
Women don't opt out. We stay in the toxic waste trying to swim to a shore we can't see because it's useless to stay on the 10x10 island with crabs who will constantly bite you. Men just prefer the island because the toxic waste eventually makes you crazy unless you know which way your going or have a good boat.
There are sirens who occasionally steal men away from the island as a result of years of toxic waste exposure. It has corrupted them in both body and mind. But they have swum away and come back to the island, but never found shore.
Thus, when they 'steal' men away from the island, when they come back to the island battered and bruised, they tell their tales. "SEE! SEE!" the most senior of the men proclaim. "STAY ON THE ISLAND! YOU SEE WHAT IT DOES TO YOU TO LOOK FOR SHORE!" The other men nod, because the most senior of the men knows the island, he has been here the longest, he has survived. But they're all insane, and by this point they do not realize that the crabs have the same effect but don't give you mutations that people on the island just can't help but fall for.
But what they do not realize is that they cannot tell the sirens from the ones who have found shore or from the ones who have "turned their backs" on their island brothers. Men and women who have found shore can look at the island and look at the sirens and see the same, tired looks in their eyes. The same veil of tiredness that doesn't allow them to see.
>"STAY ON THE ISLAND WITH ME!"
What type of therapy? There are a billion different forms.
Don't tread water. Build a boat. It just takes time to find the right materials when you're swimming around or stuck on a shitty island.
There's many people on your island. They all say you can build a boat. One says out of metal, out of wood, out of plastic, etc. However, your island only has one resource. You must find the person who can help you figure out what that resource is.
>THERE'S ONLY SAND AND CRABS, ANON. STAY ON THE ISLAND WITH ME!!!
>Does anyone else feel like they're the wrong gender sometimes
Yes, I would definitely feel more at ease being a girl. Unfortunately being trans still isn't a great option, so I just have to be depressed that I wasn't born a girl.
If I was a girl, I wouldn't be a lesbian. That's just a waste of a girl.
I don't fit any of those categories I don't think.
I'm a straight guy who would prefer to have been born a straight girl. That's not LGBT that's some fucked up subconscious problem.
Yeah, I'm way to girly for being a man, not only in body, but personality too, I'm too sensitive about everything and get flustered easy.
Worst thing is that I'm not even gay so I couldn't even be a trap.
And that's how you know you're a male when your bullying is physical in nature at the crux (rape) instead of social.
Men want you to know that they were the ones who made your life hell. Women want you to think that you did it to yourself.
You did do it to yourself. You're fat, ugly and unpleasant to be around. No wonder all the girl were occasionally mean to you, they just didn't want to give you the wrong idea, then you might try and be their friend.
I have this fantasy where "I" am reborn as a qt girl but I'm a new person, the me before still exists. Then I would find myself and be a girlfriend to my old self. And I'd have hot, sweaty sex after watching anime with the old me every day.
I just wish I had a gf who wants to be the dominant one. I'll be the cute girl and she'll be the strong guy.
Isn't that something to do with narcissism, because I sometimes fantasize about that too
probably yes, it happens because It's impossible to find a gf who is practically me just female so I turn to fantasizing about being that gf for myself
It's my favorite fantasy desu and it doesn't feel gay because I'd have sex with myself
I just got a new fetish, thanks senpaitachi
I wish it was that cut and dry! I wish I could just be a fag and get it over with.
I love dominant women. I love femdom. I'm emotional and sappy and I love romance and intimacy and I'm too empathetic and weak and reliant on others. I'm lonely. I'm unwanted.
I drink too much from water bottles. It's messing with my hormones.
My one friend who is a chick is convinced I have a female soul in a guys body.I don't get the fuck she's talking about. Always goes on how I have a feminine aura, talk feminine, sit feminine, carry myself like a lady, and overall just claims everything I do if feminine. She's trying to convince other friends of mine too but most just see her as the fujoshi she is trying to paint me as a bottom for a fan fiction.
not really, I'm still fantasizing about fucking myself
Is masturabation gay because the person jerking me off is a man (me), it isn't
I don't think anime caused it, but I think I was drawn to anime because of it. I've always liked cute stuff, and anime is very cute and carefree. Also I'm a lonely person, and mindless slice-of-life can kind of ease that. I use anime and podcasts and let's plays and stuff as surrogate friendships.
>thought this was one of those cheesy fetish captions
>open the pic, think it's a porno flick
>look up the name
>it's actually 1 of at least 6 'erotic fiction' books
>about fucking asian trannies
>written by the same guy
Let's face it robot.
Hormones in water and porn have fucked us. Yes we are more "submissive" and "girly" than others, but in ancient times, they were men like us and they dealt with it.
Now we have the double edged sword that is porn and anime, it ease the pain, but fuck your mind with degenerates fetishes like futanari, femdom, etc.
>tfw I was a vanillafag in 2010
>6 years later, I'm into hardcore futa x male
Same here desu.
Actually, I think it all started once I had a
dream waking up as my sister and walking around the house actually seeing myself from her perspective. Shit was weird.I also thought about what being a girl would be like and how it would change my friendships. I wouldn't mind going out with my best friend if I was a qt girl including being impregnated by him and raising a familybut I think trans are disgusting and I'm not gay enough for man-on-man action.
Told no one this, it's just something I'll take to the grave. I've always been a bros before hoes sort of guy and I guess somewhere along the way, I didn't mind becoming a hoe.
Nicely timed answer. Same here
except anything male on male or anything to do with traps
They also have a brain makeup far more similar to (in the case of a man to woman,) an anorexic male than an actual female. Gender dysphoria is an actual dysphoric disorder, not dissimilar to anorexia. I don't hold any animus for these people, but enabling them is not the way forward. Putting a dysphoric individual on hormones or letting them get surgery is like telling an anorexic that they -are- fat, and then giving then amphetamine salts to help them lose weight. I honestly feel very sorry for these people, and hope that progressivism loses its steam eventually.
> I wouldn't mind going out with my best friend if I was a qt girl including being impregnated by him and raising a family
I don't like 3D men but... I guess when you start to identify with the female in your porno (be it 3D or 2D) the line is crossed
(Don't like trans and homo neither desu)
>You will never be dominated from behind, you breasts used as pillows, begging to be bred.
>You'll never become the ultimate tomboy woman
>You'll never struggle with your newfound femininity and struggling to keep your masculine instincts
>You'll never be that girl that understands men more closely due to past experience and react to things with logic and sense instead of reacting emotionally fueled by estrogen
>You'll never be asked by your daughter on how weird it is for people to change gender and become trans causing you and your husband to share a worried glance at each other
Gender-benders are not good for me.
I'm not a crossdresser, I just get an erection when I wear girls' underwear.
>Implying I wasn't the girl who was the one who found those fat and ugly girls and made them feel like shit that turned them into being unpleasant.
It's dog eat dog out there and only now am I beginning to realize how much of a horrible person I was.
>mfw I am the "ultimate tomboy woman" who had to struggle with finding their femininity while keeping masculine interests and understood men closely due to past experience
>mfw cis lesbian
lolo feels good to roll the dice of fate and win sometimes eh?
You probably live in a shithole community full of women like this. I'm 19 now, turning 20 in a little less than a month and haven't experienced anything you talked about. If I lost friends it was because we just grew up and ended up liking different things, not because one person or the other was manipulated.
Seems like you should start looking for less petty friends anon. Women that gossip or huddle around in groups "to talk" about negative stuff are the worst.
I think having small breasts would be more modest and cute. I'm a quiet guy anyway so being a quiet girl would suit me. Sauce is Boku Girl btw
The other manga is Shishunki Bitter Change. Very worthwhile read if you want to see a guy react to having his first period in a girl's body
>the inferior sex
>Implying that's literally not what we're just manipulating you to think
Men are too easy.
My only hope is that the feminist movement finally realizes the equality hat is mental illness and we start getting more horrifying female villains to teach youngsters that the evil isn't always a big bad man with a big stick.
Why do you want to be a dude?, seriously
>The more valued and attractive sex
>Clothes are more interesting and I'm a straight guy but panties seem and look comfy compared to men's underwear which is dull and boring especially boxers(I only wear boxers though only because it's the fucking norm but I hate wearing them would love to wear men's briefs really bad but would be insecure)
>Can easily get laid
>Don't have to approach the opposite sex to initiate a date
Don't blame the water, everyone is drinking it
Are you me?
I love cute things and have done the same thing to replace friendships for a long time. I've just recently came to the conclusion that no one gives a fuck about me so I can do whatever makes me happy and not worry about it.
alwaysa cop out, though in a place like /r9k/ I wouldn't be suprised if half of the "trans" or "girly" boys have simply fallen for the memes.
There are people like me, for example that remember wanting to paint my nails and play with dolls when I was in like 1st grade. When I was that young I didn't even realize there was really a difference between boys and girls you know? I've ALWAYS been extremely emotional and would cry over stupid shit. Still do. Girls I've dated always tell me how girly I am once they get to know me. People ask me if I'm gay all the time. It's just the way some of us are.
This wouldn't be a problem if dom women existed.
>tfw no tall dominant gf to spoon me like the pathetic little bitch I am
So if gender is a social construct, then how do people get gender dysphoria?
>Take all of your self loathing and multiply it times about a hundred.
I never understood why everyone thinks women are the insecure ones. They are the ones complaining about getting complimented left and right, they are the ones who make fun of short guys, small dicks, guys with no money.
Girls get approached and are given positive attention regularly where as guys are hardly every approached and only complimented if they are 10/10s. Girls also have much greater sexual market value, hence why when girls watch porn
the most searched result is lesbo porn. Even if you are completely alone at least you can find solace in that fact
You're a fucking retard, I've thought shift wanting to be a girl like I've thought about being a bird flying over a valley. They both seem better than being what I am now.
Trans people are a result of feminism and bluring the gender lines.
>Tfw i want to wear tighty whities but can't do to insecurity
I just wanted to wear comfy underwear without be judged is that to much to ask for?
Everyone would be better off as a woman, because every type of woman is loved.
Yeah, I think this is a big part of it.
When I see girls post on /r9k/ who are ugly or shut-ins or have horrible mental problems, there's still tons of people who would love and value them. If you're a guy and you're ugly or shut-in or mental, you're on your own. Women get protected and loved. Guys have to do the heavy lifting. I want to be an object of affection.
You don't want to be a girl. You're just a beta male. Dominant women don't exist so your kind gets weeded out of existence.
I just want to be a cute, girly girl and kiss
and maybe h-hold hands withother cute girls! But instead I'm stuck in this 6'2 ugly hairy male frame! Why is this?!
Anime and furry makes you gay
.t a weeb furfag
>I just think I'd be way better at being a girl than a boy.
What you mean is that you're lazy ass weak motherfucker who wants someone else to go earn all the money to keep a roof over their head.
That's why you think you'd be better as a girl, isn't it?
Well, tough shit. Only real women have such luxury.
When I was 15 I only jerked off to real women.
By the time I was 17, I was jerking off to anime women as well.
At 20, I spent more time jerking off to anime than I did real women.
At 22, I was starting to jerking off to furry porn.
At 24, I was jerking off almost exclusively to anime and furry.
At 26, I was starting to jerk off to male furries too.
Now at 28, I mostly jerk off to furry porn, roughly a third of which is gay.
I've tried to deprogram myself, but it's impossible. I can't get my dick hard for a real woman anymore, Only hentai will do, and even then, it has to be something ridiculous like Dimytrys art - basically just ripped, hung dudes with giant tits and asses masquerading as 'futanari'.
The longer you look at this stuff the gayer you'll get, and it's irreversible.
It's a one way ticket to pure faggotry.
I'm posting this as a warning to anyone who might still be able to save themselves. It's too late for me.
>Now at 28, I mostly jerk off to furry porn, roughly a third of which is gay.
>Now at 28, I mostly jerk off to furry porn, roughly a third of which is gay.
>mfw it's me and i'm only 19
>mfw I'm fapping to a huge dicked futa hyena as I type this.
i've seen these feelings in people with really low self-esteem and lots of insecurities
you want to be loved and cared and you think the easiest way to make that happen is being a girl. also you probably lack a father figure who taught you how to act like a man.
there's no real solution besides just coping with it. you're a damaged person.
Anime and this place have poisoned me. I'm not a furfag like >>25899437 this guy though, if that's worth anything at this point
Now have some more cute animeposting! This is a Turkmenistani Potato Printing website after all
Is it even worth telling a therapist about my thoughts? I've been seeing a woman for a few months now but I don't want her to think I'm sexually confused or something. I'd rather not say something completely weird if there's nothing that can be done.
It doesn't MAKE you gay that's impossible. It provides a "safety net" for people to masturbate to things that they are curious about.
SEXUALITY IS FLUID
It's not as black and white as straight and gay.
Lot's of people are bisexual to a degree, especially in their masturbation habits. It doesn't mean you're going to suddenly be transformed into a faggot if you watch futa.
Porn is entertainment, not real life.
Before I hit puberty people used to think I was a girl because of my long hair. I miss those days. I wish I could wear a cute skirt without getting excited and popping a boner
>I want to be an object of affection.
I wouldn't mind being objectified for sex as long as someone could give me that love without making me fight for it so hard
And women seem able to get that regardless of what they look like. I just want to be valued in the same way
>I wouldn't mind being objectified for sex as long as someone could give me that love without making me fight for it so hard
GET OUT OF MY MIND
Of course I'd rather be a girl. I'd love to have life served to me on a silver platter and be able to know that everything will always work out for me. Who the fuck wouldn't?
Plus I wouldn't be a fag which would be cool
I want to be a tiny submissive girl in a relationship with a sexually dominant, physically larger woman (not in a fat way).
I think it's just sexual though. Aside from my fantasies, I think I prefer being male.
It certainly affect your sex-life in some ways, after years of futa and strong big-titted dominant female in anime you start to be attracted to these things in real life.
I'm not saying there isn't some "born natural faggots" but for males who are not naturally "alpha" porn, and the sedentary modern life, provide in a way on another gates to faggotry.
Why do you think the anime generation "wouldn't mind sucking a cock (but no homo)" and are one of the most beta ever ?
(Haven't scrolled all the way down yet)
Ranma 1/2 also showcases a similar scenario to Shishunki Bitter Change, a guy gets cursed, where whenever he comes into contact with cold water, he becomes female, but turns back with hot water.
I want this without the being a girl part.
Something is really alluring and erotic about being physically smaller and weaker than a woman.
However, I'm 5'11" and finding a bigger woman that's dominant and would date a dweebus like me is like finding a four leaf clover.
Anon you're so cute I love the way you do your hair.
You're so adorable when you blush. Come here baby
Now it's time to start nofap for the 58th time in the hope of getting rid of my degeneracy.
I think you over estimate the number of men that actually wouldn't mind sucking a cock and aren't just saying that on an anonymous image board because it's lewd and exciting.
Either that or I'm blinded by my own faggotry.
But I travel a lot for work and have to deal with different people all the time, and am exposed to the normie hoard in a lot of different cities. I just don't see faggots running around all over the place.
>tfw you like femdom but all the subs are closeted trannies into futa
The worst feel in the universe.
You are pretty anon. You have very nice hair, your skin is soft and smooth, I like your choice in clothing and all in all you're just one very handsome man.
>tfw you like gentle femdom but all the dominatrixes are into masochism and inflicting serious pain
I would love to be bound and tortured by a dominatrix
I want nipple clamps on and to be whipped and told how pathetic I am
Then I want you to untie me and be expected to crawl around like a dog
I want to stand up and backhand you, knocking you to the floor
I want to flip you over and show you what it means to be a woman
>I want to flip you over and show you what it means to be a woman
Let's find out if you really want to be a woman, or if it's just porn fucking with your mind.
1)Do you fantazise being a girl when you fap ?
2)Does the urge of being a girl cease after you cum ?
3)Do you wish you were a girl when you feel moody or not masculine enough ?
4)Are you content with yourself when everything is okay ?
If a majority of yes, you just have low(test) self-esteem and bad masturbatory habit.
Do nofap (1fap per week) and to vanilla straigt porn
Do pushup, hit the gym (if you can)
Eat well, sleep well, exercise.
It will be much better than dwelling on fantasies or worse, becoming trans.
>1)Do you fantazise being a girl when you fap ?
>2)Does the urge of being a girl cease after you cum ?
>3)Do you wish you were a girl when you feel moody or not masculine enough ?
>4)Are you content with yourself when everything is okay ?
things haven't been okay in a long time so i can't answer this one truthfully
i don't think i'll ever transition. my parents are hardcore catholic and by the time they're dead, the ship to be a convincing MTF will have sailed.
plus i'm only sexually attracted to girls.
Why won't Chads leave? Or die?
I have always wanted to be a girl since I was 16 atleast. I have always fapped to lesbian shit and i think that i could have fucked with my mentality. I used to think about girls in my class having sex with eachother when i was younger, always have. Later on i have always felt that im kinda gay sometimes, or feminine or whatevere you want to call it. Im also secretly bisexual, leaning towards girls. Have never told anyone about it and probably never will. I feel like my life would have been easier if i was girl and also I fell like im trying to compensate everyday. It feels like im fully blown flaming faggot by I act normal.
It could also be a coping mechanism since im fat and dislike my bodye becasue of it. But i get these periods where I buzzcut once my hair gets long and then get anxiety until its long again.
I was drunk when i wrote this but you guys can probably understand some of it.
>males are nothing but muscle dildos.nothing but walking dildos. if you cannot please a female with your dick, ye might as well be a male doll like the ones without a dick.
>females are protected by cops
>males have to pay child support
>'oh look. another male flashing their dick on the internet.'
>get labeled such things as creep/loser/perv
>cannot visit playgrounds without looking like a pedo
>malls are 80% for females
>f2m dating another male [mostly gay] will get dumped when found out used to be a female
>f2m has to get rid of their adam's apple/tits/vajj/etc
>f2m dates a female. might as well go lesbian while being a female.
>more likely to do suicide than m2f
>I fell like im trying to compensate everyday. It feels like im fully blown flaming faggot by I act normal.
You're probably just a feminine guy, there's nothing wrong with that! I'm also secretly Bi with a tendency to be attracted to girls. I moved away from the life I knew and upon returning to visit people, I realized how unhappy I was. I was and always had been putting on an act of acting "manly" or whatever around most of the people I grew up with. They started playing madden and I was just sitting there thinking about how I don't even like football why was I ever friends with these people? When I'm alone and in a good mood I prance around like a faggot and shake my booty to my music and love everything. I'm working on trying to be happy around other people
I'm just so used to being an angry repressed anxious depressed monotone asshole. Literally a stereotype of a sexually repressed young adult.
I can't be around my Dad, I hole up and can't be myself around him. He thinks I'm bipolar but I only get that way around him.