>She lives with me
>She found out that I watch(ed) porn
>When apeshit nuts and even said "I don't even know you"
>Don't watch it anymore to spare her feelings, minus the occasional fap to a non lewd picture to stay a saint
>She treats that like I actually cheated on her, when I have never slept with anyone else
>She even thinks r9k is porn
>She used to comb through my phone history because she didn't trust me, even though I haven't looked at porn since
>Has even woke me up in the middle of the night to get mad at a picture on a 4chan thread
>She doesn't go through my history anymore, but still does the other stuff
>Claims it's because I "cheated" even though I would never fuck anyone else
Am I in the wrong here?
is this bait? Stop being a fucking cuck, she's gonna leave you after she takes your manhood anyways.
>Claims it's because I "cheated"
Shes going to cheat on you eventually. Probably.
Either way she no longer trusts you and ever moment you aren't with her it'll be in her head you might be jacking off or just outright cheating on her. Its the same situation as if she cheated on you, you would never be able to trust her again.
Her insecurities just killed the relationship.
I know for a fact she doesn't, but I'm not saying you're wrong.
Still there are things about her that help outweigh her psychoness.
>Going to nursing school to be a nurse, and doing really good at it
>Has high ambitions for herself
>Doesn't ask for money
>Good sex (though with our jobs it gets hard to find time)
>Her family is actually awesome
>Doesn't want kids
>Is so busy with school that I get time to just relax when I get off of work
>Likes my friends and encourages me to see them more when I start to disappear, which is good
bitch is crazy, and seriously out of touch with how rampant porn usage is nowadays. also, letting her comb through your phone history like that is beta as fuck.
who cares whether you're in the wrong, you clearly don't see eye-to-eye and she likely has low respect for you, so just accept that and look for a way out.
>share porn with my bf
>discuss porn with my bf
>actually want my bf to masturbate regularly so he lasts in bed and is a happy sexually satisfied dude even when I'm not around
OP, I bet you put a lot of indications of being "lude" or "crass" in your red flag list, huh?
Enjoy that pure gf.
>Her insecurities just killed the relationship
I'm hoping not, only because she is getting better about it. As far as I know she stopped going into my phone.
The most recent shit was last week when she saw a page on the laptop that showed the history (which I didn't even pull up, I'm pretty sure she did and forgot about it) and she was psycho about how I'm covering it up.
Nigga she did it while I was asleep.
And when I changed the password on her she woke me up screaming that she couldn't go through my history. That's when it came to a head, because I wouldn't open the phone so she starting crying and I listed all the awful shot she's done to me, and how she's a hypocrite.
Kinda locked in now.
>Live in same apartment
>She goes to school here
>Her family is in another city
>Already has her program for nursing planned out
I love her, which sounds omega, but she does have strong qualities.
She cray cray. She's projecting her insecurities and has lost all feeling of control. You have to stop this shit and say no to her crazy ideas otherwise it's just going to get worse.
What's funny is we did that, but I hated it. She was so fucking weird about it and try hard, it was unsexy.
My ideal sex with her is when it's not planned, and she'll just start sucking me off out of nowhere and start stripping down. Her TRYING to be sexy is no where near as good as her just wanting much dick.
>Ambitious at her job
>Never asks for money
>Loyal (even if it's to the point of insanity)
>Usually really sweet
>Always plans things out and plays them smart
>Very passionate about helping people
>Because her dad used to work what I do, she's usually very understanding about how stressful it is
>am i in the wrong here?
you need to get out. seriously. i am dating a feminist and even she doesnt freak out like that over porn and 4chan. you need to make an ultimatum. fucking deal with it or leave.
>mfw didnt even used to watch porn until my gf suggested we watch it together
That's creepy and beta. Moreover it still doesn't rule out workplace infidelity, which is common.
The main moral here is to not use "at least she's loyal" as a way to make up for her horse shit.
You are pathetic OP
Last time a girl tried to imply I cheated because of a porn site or tried going thru my phone I told her if she thinks she's going thru my phone she better accept im going thru hers and she damn well better not say no once about it.
and when she tries the no not my phone I point out how shady she's acting.
Usually it blows up into a huge fight and she's either gonna back down and get downgraded to side pussy
>your girl is cheating on you.
>Not even kidding.
>I know for a fact she doesn't
>How do you "know for a fact"?
>Gps on her phone
>That's creepy and beta
>you really should break up
you cant win on internet
My first relationship was like this. It ended in a ball of fire because I finally snapped the fuck out and had enough. You need to get the fuck out of that situation. She's not going to listen to you, empathize with you, or even remotely come close to understanding you. You're fucked if you don't run. I'm not even meme'ing here. If I could've gone back and got the fuck out, I would've. It ended with me getting a restraining order filed against me because she claimed I was abusive--not physically, but emotionally... because "porn."
The only thing to that is even if she's overly emotional, she's never been full out manipulative. Last time she brought this up I told her that if she wants us to last, she needs to cut it the fuck out or else I'm out. I told her that next time she wants to throw it in my face I will leave.
So far she's been at bay about it, which is a good sign. Hasn't mentioned it since.
>we share hentai together
>she asks for hentai recommendations
>gives me lewd texts in the middle of when she knows I'm in class
I love her, but that's us. If you like this girl you should appease her, if porn is going to be a part of your life you should find a way to solve the problem.
as a girlfriend who is controlling, i don't think you're doing anything wrong anymore, but i can see why your girlfriend doesn't want you to watch porn, i don't let my bf do it and would honestly throw a pretty big fit if i found out, i don't mind pictures on 4chan though, i go on here myself after all, but basically i just want my bf to only get sexual satisfaction from me and i'm not okay with him jerking it to other women and i consider that almost as bad as cheating.
the fact that you fap to a picture that is not of your girlfriend, even if it's non-lewd, makes you an asshole imo though.
i do think she should trust you when you say you're not watching it anymore, but that can be hard for some girls when they feel their trust has been broken, so don't demonize her for that, you should really just have a good talk with her
Controlling tendencies, it's not worth it in the long run.
It'll start as porn but if you let her dictate your life she'll realise the results, and start flipping out at you any time she wants you to do something, or not do something herself.
I used to live with one just like it, my favourite one was when she flipped out at me because I asked her to clean her period blood from the front of the toilet. First she claimed it wasn't her and when I said I'd cleaned it the day before she just started shouting.
Luckily I don't have to deal with her any more.
Cut ties while you can, control future women because if you don't they'll control you.
no, i'd never cuck him, but we do have a femdom relationship so he's more than okay with me being controlling, and i didn't even have to ask him to not watch porn, but if he had kept watching it i would have, and him doing it would have been a dealbreaker
k, enjoy your porn-filled, girlfriend-free life faggot
>fags ITT unironically choosing porn over real life gf
Stop being a beta bitch and grow a spine.
Tell her to cut that shit off or your relationship is done.
Dont let her rule you, be a fucking man.
Also i dont understand whats so wrong with porn. My bf watches porn and i honestly dont care at all. I watch porn aswell but it doesnt mean that im cheating on him
Hello there I had a gf last year that was similar to yours.
We lasted 3 years
Last year on may she discovered i had a tumblr account following a lot of camwhores and I enjoyed looking at them and it was so much fun but that was it
When she found out (june) she got really mad and even though she said she forgive me she really never did
So from June to November (November was our anniversary) every fight almost every week that issue was her ultimate defense
I got really tired of it and I decided to let her go, she was trying for like a week to get back but I already moved past that
So anon, let her go, if she still loves you she will forgive you and then you can get back
In my case after a week without her I decided to go after another girl that's really good with me and luckily she is my girlfriend since December and I really haven't been happier, the only issue is that she wants to be a virgin until marriage,but I've rediscovered the joy of a partner beyond sex. I hope she changes her mind or I'll have to part ways with her.
>tldr let her go
It's more than likely that she already has cheated, and probably still is. She's projecting her guilt on to OP, and she's using his porn/fapping as her way to control him and make him feel guilty.
My bf does the same shit
He checks my phone for porn and stuff like that, and always delete all my cute anime pics
If i deny him the phone, he starts sperging on how im scared because im hiding something
How can i man up and say him no?
We almost never do sex either, so im supposed to blow my load somehow
Dude... I'm a beta and even I know that's ridiculous. Using the out of 10 scale, I'd be willing to drop at least 2-3 points if her personality was chill, and being chill is a requirement for me, I don't care how hot she is.
Nurses are the worst fucking human beigns in existance bro. They are not caring or w/e the fuck you fantasize about. They are control freaks who dont give a shit about other people and only care about how much credit they get for what they fake.
She is insecure as shit, prob already cheating on you and almost anyone with half a nut is going to advice you to go and find someone less insane.
This is for all you kids out there: only horrible human beigns "care" about what you do, because they belive is a reflection of themselves. Ok people dont give a shit, they actually encourage you to find and do w/e makes your balls tingle. They might even join you and try for themselves.
That's what she did too, but like I said, she's wait till I was asleep to do it.
The last confrontation was a few weeks ago.
>Be midnight, have to wake up at 4 am
>Get waken up to "Babe, wake up"
>"What fucking now?"
>"So why is your phone locked with a new password? Trying to hide something?"
>"No, I'm sick and tired of you sneaking onto my phone just to pick a fight. You lost all privileges to my phone."
>Open up phone
>Immediately go to history
>Delete it before handing it to her
>"Where's the history?!?!"
>"I just deleted it, because I'm sick of your shit"
>Gf goes into a psychotic episode, tells me she hates me, that I'm a fucker, and I'm a cheating piece of shit
>She cocks her hand back like she's about to hit me
>"If you hit me, you know what'll happen"
>Used to box, so she immediately stops there
>She storms out, comes back later crying begging for me to forgive her but wants me to apologize
>"I'm not going to apologize for standing up for myself"
>She calls me a fucker again and storms out again
>Comes back 5 minutes later and sleeps on the couch, crying the entire night
>Didnt get an ounce of sleep after that
>Next day she apologizes for everything and swears she'll never go through my phone again
>Told her that if this happens again I'm throwing out all of her shit on the sidewalk and she won't be welcomed back
>So far she hasn't done it since
Stop making excuses for someone else.
Man the fuck up. You already came to a group of strangers asking a question you have already answered.
Grow a pair and seek a better life. Or dot and stay cucked. Either way, get a grip on yourself for fucks sake. Its your own fucking life. Dont make excuses.
Why would you watch porn when you have a gf?
Would you really be okay with her masturbating and using huge dildos to get off to nigger gangbang porn?
If your gf isn't enough for you now the relationship is already over. Just end it before she cheats in you.
Yes, that is exactly what I said. Totally said I'd punch her face off.
It was actually during a period that we didn't have sex for a long time. She was always cranky or sick, and I was working nonstop. So every once in a while I pulled up xhamster for about 5 minutes, got it out of my system, then kept going.
I'm seriously interested to know how many of these are NEETS and virginfags
>doesn't have "time" for sex
She's incredibly emotionally abusive, and isn't interested in sex with him. It's not hard to believe she might be getting it elsewhere. Sorry if that triggers you or something.