>meet a really nice person on /r9k/ >they offer to talk to me >invite me to a Skype call >there's like 8 people in it >they're all having a good time >when I join everyone goes "Hey anon! Hey!" I thought we were going to talk one on one.
>Can handle group chats and calls just fine but don't like them >lose friends/can't become good friends with anyone because I dont want to act dumb with them in a voice call >become used to being alone >can't even succeed 1 on 1 IMing anymore because I've lost social skills and stopped wanting/needing others
>>25869241 >have a facebook with a fake name and pictures of a guy who kinda looks like me for my online friends and dont put my real name or picture anywhere online
thought I was being autistic when I started doing this years ago but now with all the people who lose their fucking jobs over something they said on their real life facebook I feel like a cyberpunk rebel badass, fuck the system cuz
>no friends >anon from /r9k/ offers to keep me company >o-ok >proceed to have the most awkward unsatisfying conversation for 15 minutes before I profusely apologize and remove him and put my head in my hands i just want to be normal.
>>25870367 As someone on the other end with an established small online friend group who has had randoms come through, don't even worry about it man. They probably just want to play games and don't expect you to be the cool new awesome socialite member to the party. Just be friendly and communicate shit from the game No one cares mane, no pressure
>>25870621 He already posted here, that they usually talk about whatever, watch stuff together etc., just playing games would be okay, but all this other stuff seems to be extremely overwhelming. He also said that everyone besides him is somewhat of a normalfag, which makes it even scarier
>2016 >Having Skype friends from anywhere other than Russia Their conversation conventions really are based, and the differences between cultures always keep conversation interesting, instead of small talk.
>I haven't spoken to a person on this continent in months
>>25870835 >play XIV >always feel like an outsider in active FCs/LS >Hey anon, are you afk? >No, sorry I'm just really quiet >Don't be a ghost anon, MMOs are for playing with other people It makes me hate myself even more
>>25870935 I have 6 IRL friends, but I rarely see them, as I am at University, where I have zero friends, and haven't left my dorm for any reason other than food and class since I have gotten to Uni (excluding going home). Do I count? 19, khv, never had relationship.
>>25871013 Usually long monologues which either respond to each other or show an antithesis. The monologues are of varying seriousness and humorousness. For example, if they are making fun of Ukrainians or Western Tolerance (some funny shit there, I think they have a news company that solely exists to find ridiculous things going on about tolerance in the West, because they usually know about things like that guy who said he was a 6 year old girl way before me, and are already making pictures making fun of it), it will be riddled with pretend self-pity of their "barbaric" views, juxtaposed with the absurdity of liberal ideas. If it is a serious topic, like history, then it can come across almost like a two-sided lecture.
>>25871125 Wow, we amerifats can barely put together more than 2 sentences without being interrupted with either a counter argument or just the other guy raising their voice to refute or drown out the argument. Seriously, I know I wouldn't have the patience to wait until the other guy's finished to tell him "why you're wrong" or the memory to make up a counterargument to a specific point by the time he's finished.
>>25868730 Dude, we don't care how you sound, and as long as you're not an annoying ass hole, you're probably welcome to talk with everybody. Just take your time and work your way up to it. I'm sure as you get to know everybody they'll be a lot happier to finally get to speak with you. And if your voice is really that bad they might make some jokes about it, but it goes away. Especially if you're all involved with something while you speak.
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