Guys I seriously fucked up and I don't know what to do
>Cute girl at work I've been orbiting for a year now
>Every one likes her because she always bubbly and kind
>She'd like me the most because I would give her rides home all the time for free
>Decided to work up the courage and ask her out
>She rejects me
>She then tells everyone at work
>I'm more upset over he petty gossip then the actual rejection
>She just laughs and says "You're my coworker anon! I barely know you!" despite me working with her for over a year now
>Decided I'm not gonna give her rides for free anymore
>That night at closing she asked me for a ride
>I told her if she gave me 5 bucks I'll do it
>She does that gay shit cute girls do and act childish
>I say fine
>Head to my car and just drive off without waiting for her
>The thought of her having to walk 2 hours in the cold would make me feel a bit better
>I figured it teach her a lesson not to use people
>Monday comes, I come into work
>Everyone is staring at me, people are giving me dirty looks
>I get called into the office
>One of my managers ask if I was suppose to give Cheryl a ride home last saturday night
>y-y-yeah, but I f-forgot...
>"JESUS ANON! SHE GOT RAPED WALKING HOME BECAUSE OF THAT! DON'T YOU KNOW ITS DANGEROUS FOR A YOUNG GIRL TO WALK HOME AT NIGHT!??"
>My managers are literally shouting at me, they never done that before
>They told me that I'm pretty much scum for letting Cheryl get raped
tl;dr girl I use to orbit got raped because I didn't giver her a ride home
I seriously feel disgusted with myself right now, and everyone at work hates me! As soon as I walk into the break room it just gets quite. What should I do? I feel guilty and I tried apologizing to her but she never answered my calls.
This. Anon, for real that's some serious bullshit. Is she retarded? Who gets a job that far away from work?? Did she just bank on there being some orbiter who would give her rides? She should've taken the bus like a normal person. Or called an uber or another friend. I can understand why you'd feel guilty Ovwr this, and maybe you should to an extent. But it's not completely your fault. I don't think she can like press charges against you for not giving her a ride or something like that (although I wouldn't bet on that, I could easily see a judge siding with her on that one). Anyways. Good luck anon, if it gets really bad then maybe try quitting your job and don't list it as a reference.
What is EI? I'm probably just gonna quit, I can't handle this pressure anymore its been one day and I have to come back to work tuesday.
I mean I'm glad she didn't get hit by a car and died. But I still feel pretty bad, I don't even know the full detail of her rape but I'm to scared to ask, did some guy just pull over and rape her? Or did she get raped when she got to her neighborhood? Its not like she lives in the ghetto.
she got what was coming to her. Make sure to sue your bosses if they keep that shit up. You are not that fucking girls caretaker even if you promised her free rides for the rest of her life. You are not a fucking cab company and the bitch should of paid the $5 bucks or fucked off.
I can just about guarantee you were not the only person she was using.
So what happens when she's working and you don't? There must have been days when you wernt in and she was? How did she get home them?
It's bullshit they blame you. They are looking for someone easy to blame and unfortunately these retards have targeted you.
Maybe blame the boss for not paying for travel expenses for employees living far. Maybe blame the government for the fact she has to get a job so far away.
Your just the easy one to blame and these tards you work with just wana look good and upworthy by looking down on you. They should be ashamed desu senpai
Again I don't know full detail, I'm too afraid to ask. Our place of business it kind of like a family, and if some shit happens everyone knows. I remember last year when I first started out one of our deli managers had a tree fall through his house from a storm and almost everyone from work to time off to help him. It be a shame if I have to quit this job I really like it.
She usually gets rides from other coworkers but always relied on me when I came in, its like a 20 minute ride but I just estimated it be a 2 hour walk. I asked her if she would consider taking the bus but she kept insisting on using me, saying she "doesn't understand how the bus schedule works"
How old is she? If she is underaged she is our manager's responsibility not your's If she is of age then why the fuck isn't she fired for not having reliable transportation. Everyone is mad and looking for someone to blame. Since women can't be held responsible for themselves in this day and age they blamed you.
Wow, so there's a bus she could have got too? And she walked home because she's to dumb or lazy o understand when the bus is going to come. She was looking for pity and unfortunately got raped.
Seruoulsy the more i read this thread the more strongly I feel that this is absolutely not your fault.
>giving rides for free
Before I got my licence I would pay my boss 20 bucks a week to pick me up at the gas station on the way to work after walking 25 minutes up a forest trail/hill. When i got my own car Id charge anyone 20 bucks a week for driving them to and from work, its like a 20 minute drive from town. Shouldnt have let that roastie walk all over you
She 19, I'm 22. I always thought she liked me but I forget the nice girls are nice to everyone.
Either leave and be remembered as that guy who got cheryl raped, or stay and be the guy got cheryl raped.
It really doesn't matter what you do at this point, someone got raped.
Sounds like an elaborate plot everyone else is in on and theyre all against you. She probably didnt even walk home, just called up the next orbiter in line and they hatched this plan on the way home
Should I be suspicious because I wasn't question by the police? I don't think I have the balls to call her out at this time.
Don't know, nobody at work will talk to me or give details. I just wanted to get out of there.
>she got raped
OP, do you think there is any possibility that a manipulative woman could have lied about that to make you look like a dick to everyone?
especially if the police havnt even spoken to you
It categorically wan't your fault, your actions are relatively minor in the chain of events so unless A: shes mentally damaged to the point of needing a carer, B: the cab/transport services are unusual in that they shut at like midnight (improbably given that there is always at least one midnight cab company in towns) or C: the rapist was the cab driver (unlikely and easily traceable) then it wasn't your fault and your coworkers are just taking out their feelings of impotence on you.
It will die down, speak to them about it, if it doesn't then contact a lawyer about hostile work enviroment. Don't listen to some anons, no judge will let it slide that harrassment is forgiveable or that the rape itself was you fault.
Similar thing happened to my friend in highschool
>Girl asks him to do assignment for her
>He says no
>She's saying my friend sexually assaulted her
>Nobody believes her except her one friend who literally has downs syndrome
It got proven false too since my friend was with a teacher at the time she said it happened and they guy vouched for my friend
Karma, brobot. It sucks that happened to her, but she kinda humiliated you. You had nothing to do with the rape and while you...forgot about her, then that makes you an angry dick at most, for that exact situation.
Shit sucks, especially when you gossip about others.
Probably lying, but even if she isn't it, it isn't your fault. Shit happens. She could get raped on her way home or been in a car crash with you that would make her paraplegic. Blaming you for it is shitty behavior from your boss