Literally never. I was diagnosed with autism in elementary so my parents accepted that I probably would never live a "normal" picket fence life from the time I was young. I only see my aunts and uncles a couple times a year so they don't have much to say either.
If your family has hope for you you're probably a failed normie t . b . h.
>your life when you will never be enjoying pious peach and monkhood >ylw you will never get to sit in a well tended garden contemplating divine serenity >ylw not brewing top tier wine to sell to roasties with your monkbros
yet you could have all oft this and more if you pulled your head out of your vagina.
>>25858527 Though myself (and my older brother) have been disappointments to our parents (they think I cannot hear them through the wall of my room) in the social and romantic departments, they have still been good to me. It would feel like a killing blow to make them die knowing that they will pass nothing onto the world. It would be better to let them die first, so that they may be embraced by Him and know what calls me.
>>25858537 >tfw you will never be as happy as these guys: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mXl8C4-M_4
Usually when it comes up for me, the family response is "thank fucking god stay smart." I can't really blame them after seeing all the trainwrecks my bro, sis, and cousins have been through not to mention their own crappy marriages.
It came up once at my usual temp work-place, and it sparked an argument between the ladies and all the older dudes that I work with. In a nutshell, the ladies were basically for marriage being awesome (one was planning a wedding at the time) and playfully suggested I ask out one of the temps from another department. But the older bros leapt in and tried to make me swear to stay off it, and started citing past experiences/failed relationships to make their point. Cross-fire between the two got pretty intense when they said it was best to "keep it on the sidelines."
>>25858926 >But the older bros leapt in and tried to make me swear to stay off it I'd like to get married but literally every other man that's talked to me about it has said 'bitches aint shit but hoes n tricks'.
>>25857692 >Mom thinks I'm gay >Sister says I'm too skinny to attract girls, and that I would have better luck with guys. >Uncle I used to love says if I don't marry before 30 I'm a failure at life. >Godfather says the same. >All cousins have gf/bf and kids and joke about why I don't. Specially the ones younger than me. >Grandma want's to see my kids before she dies >Dad is the only one that doesn't put pressure on me. I just want to die before turning 30
>>25859567 Same here. Mom has seen me after being cheated on, or having really bad break ups. Knows how much I want a long lasting relationship and that the few times I tried the girl failed me. Then wonders why I dont get a new gf.
>>25861598 Exactly this, except in my situation my dad is like all my gradpas, they try to mock me to encourage me to "man up" so i'd get a wife and children, literally one of the unnecessariest thing i'd do in my life, pass on my autistic genes.
We all end up in the same grave in the end so what's the point? It's not like a human's life is great or unique.
>Christmas dinner >parents ask if I'm ever going to get married and give them grandkids again >all I can think is "we're seriously going to do this here?" >uncle starts joking about how I'm just not ready to settle down and I probably want to sow my wild oats >grandmother's been drinking and starts ranting about how men don't have a reason to marry anymore because the girls are all bitchy and none of them know how to cook and they'll just take your money >starts yelling about how stupid it is that they expect a man to marry them when they're already letting him screw them anyway >just wish I was at home playing video games
>>25863503 My grandma's very opinionated, but she usually has a point. My grandpa didn't even really talk the whole time we were there. Never has much to say. He almost died last August, though. He'd been having trouble breathing for years and we all got called to the hospital because it had gotten worse and they didn't know what was wrong. Turned out his stomach muscles were all fucked up and a lung had somehow partially squeezed itself through them. He's pretty much back to his old self now. >>25863544 Yeah, that's my grandmother. She's the sweetest old woman you'd ever meet but she cusses like a sailor once she's had a bit to drink.
>tfw my whole extended family is broken/dead and I only have my parents to pester me and only my mom does that >my brothers and I are all in the same boat and only my mother I don't see my cussins and haven't since I was 10. We don't talk, I don't know them. My I only see my uncles on occasion and his son is in the same boat so he doesn't mention it. My other uncle is divorced and never sees his son. My aunts soon is gay. My other side of the family never had kids and are failures. I do t have to feel any of this shit, only my mentality I'll mom can pester me and that doesn't have much effect because she's not a reliable source.
My mother still thinks I should have married my one singular girlfriend from five years ago. She chokes it down most of the time seeing as she knows I'm lonely and I don't have much hope, but I know she'll believe that till the day she dies. That girlfriend was mostly psychotic and constantly unfaithful, but my mom still sees her as my only shot at having a happy family. My sister and cousins are all married.
>See parents on Christmas >So anon when are you getting a gf >tell them i was going to bring her over but she wanted me to go with her to florida to see her parents >fight led to another then we broke up >father proud I didn't sell out my family for the first girl that gave me love >mom talking me into trying to patch things up with her and send her a merry christmas text at least >she knows I'm that hopeless >brother can see through the bullshit and makes fun of me the entire night when we are alone
My mom asks me about her every time we have a phone call and I'm getting tired of this lie, brother keeps making fake facebook profiles with her name and sends me messages like "i miss you, i want toget back together"
>>25857692 I made it pretty clear in the past that my financial situation makes me unattractive on a dating market. Also I hate degeneracy and most women are unfaithful abomination with no remorse or values. So no, they don't pester me about it now that much. Occasionally though some distant family member may mention something but it's like in anime with power levels... I just start charging it and they just withdraw from the discussion.
>>25862109 >It's not like a human's life is great or unique. I want to believe it can be, look to artists or musicians, or any talened people in general. Is just that most people have become too lazy to do something great or unique of their lives.
Quite the opposite actually. I'm 20 and my mum reckons I'm still too young for a gf. Problem is she says stuff like "you should travel with your friends before you get a steady girlfriend" so she assumes that I will eventually get one. I fucking hope I don't let her down.
I ignore all family meetings and dinners. I once bribe some woman on the streets to play along my scenario - told them I was busy at work during Christmas, they didnt believe me. Took my found number, found my ''boss'' and called her - the lady I paid 40 dollars pretending and played along while they talked to her.
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