>>25844623 Pretty much this. Don't cling to a fantasy or you'll end up with oneitis. If you have balls ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is that she rejects you, but at least you'll know the truth.
>Meet girl around new years >Things are a bit shaky at first, but we get closer, she invites me to a new years eve party >We hook up for real >Afterwards things get a bit shaky again, assume that based on what she's said before, she's simply very impersonal while talking over text and chat >Every time we do see each other things are great, inbetween really can't tell >At least she usually initates conversation, but has kinda stopped >Don't know what the fuck to do
I just want a yes or no so that I can move on goddamnit but I'm afraid that if there's still a chance for a yes that I'll fuck it up by preassuring her for an answer.
>she often asks me if we can go for a walk when we're free >go for long walks in the park / around college >she doesn't have any other male friendos >Every time we've hung out she's the one initiating (asking)
>Shes a 6/10, I'm a 4, maybe 5 on a good day >whenever we hang out its purely platonic - no flirting or whatever. Though we're both quiet / reserved so neither of us are good at it in the first place
Do you think she likes me? We've been friends for a few months now.
>>25845103 Honestly, it should be pretty obvious if she's into you or if this is strictly platonic. If you really can't figure it out dawg, just ask her to get coffee with you. Don't say any faggy shit like "Do you want to get coffee sometime?", you need to say it like "Let's get coffee tomorrow afternoon if you're free." It's pretty clear that this is a "date-ish" thing to do. If she seems uncomfortable with it or trying to make excuses, she's not into you. At this point you can accept platonic friendship or stop hanging out with the girl.
>>25846034 Hmm, that's kind of tough. She's the one always initiating contact and asking to hang out so hopefully you taking the initiative is enough.
Honestly, asking someone to coffee is like THE prototypical casual date so she should understand your intentions hopefully. My advice would be not to try and say anything "special" so she knows it's a date. I personally can't think of anything that wouldn't come off as weird and possibly too aggressive, so I say just go for it with a standard sentence. If she says yes, play it by ear from there and decide what your next move will be based on how the coffee "date" goes. It's really more of a starter date so that you can gauge her reaction. Pay attention to body language and conversation cues during the date but don't be a fucking sperg. Play it cool and you got it dawg.
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