anyone here turn it all around? Just got up one day and changed

Sort of, I did the opposite.

That's not how it works and anyone who tells you so is trying to get money out of you.

If they did, they're not here anymore.

I did quite a while ago. Still lurk here every now and then to post advice. Funny how I leave for a few years and /r9k/ turns into what /a/ used to be.

>>25833789
I think I'm becoming a better person.

I've started to become a bit more friendly, and I even helped somebody out compulsively.

My life didn't get any better, but at this rate I will make it into normieville

>>25833789
yeah............meditation.......

Every time I try, life punches me in the dick. So I just go with the flow.

>>25833835
He didn't say make everything perfect. The moment described is when you make the first step to being a normal member of society.

>>25833789
Not me personally as im a normie (chad) but it must be possible. Do something productive - go gym, go beavh, hiiking. Physical shit will give confidence.

>>25833789
I did for a couple months after a shroom trip, but it turned out to be hypomania which was followed by a months long depression.

>>25833789
well, I was homeless, and anti social around a decade ago. I'm married now, manage retail, mostly happy. Don't like my job but it's not that bad honestly.

I woke up one day and truly stopped being >tfw no gf

>>25833789
Yeah I woke up one day and I no longer had autism and had a big dick and rich parents with connections. It was pretty great, you should try it OP.

>>25833789

yes

still no gf tho

That day was supposed to be tomorrow morning
I pulled an all nighter playing games instead

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I got a job and moved out of my parents.
I work at a nightclub dealing with chads and stacies all night. And get to do nothing during the day,

There's a couple people I drink with at a bar vaguely regularly. And one grill who is slowly becoming my new Oneitis.

I barely afford rent. Am always exhausted and barely socialise. But it still feels like an improvement from being the shutaway on neetbux a year ago

Still got the self hatred though.

Keep climbing, that's all I can do

>>25833789
I did. It lasted for about 3 years. Got /fit/, went to university, started talking to girls and getting laid a lot. Now I'm slowly reverting. Unemployed currently and getting fat and my social life is slowly withering away from neglect.

>>25836195
How much do you have and how much is rent?

Stopped shooting speedballs three times a day, so I got that going for me. Still working shitty jobs and fucking ugly girls though. Baby steps.

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>going to college
>got a job
>started dressing less autistic

I might make it

>>25836195
I'm making about 450-500 a month and rents 300 a month.

Need to stop ordering takeaway and learn how to cook. Or become even more of a wagekek with another job.

I have no idea what I'm working towards or any future goals. That's the scary thing.

>>25836428
Where the heck do you live where rent is $300?

one day i smashed up my laptop because i was spending 16 hours a day on it. i couldnt afford a new one so i was forced to to something else. turned my life around in 2 weeks lmao

>>25836471
Probably a bedroom or trailer in nowheresville

>>25836428
apply for foodstamps faggot, I get $215 of food stamps monthly.

>>25836471
I'm a britbong, and its a houseshare with some students. All together its like 1k a month but we split the bill

>kick heroin
>clean for 1 or 2 months
>relapse for a week
>repeat
>life rolls on

>>25836273

That's the spirit, stay clean robot.

>>25833789
>Be fat lazy turd
>No job however student
>Living with parents
>No friends
>No gf
>On /v/, /pol/ and /r9k/ 24/7
>Get told that i've put on a bit of weight by a close friend of mine.
>Somehow end up on /fit/
>Use autism to go religiously to gym and count calories and macros
>Stayed at it for 15 months now
>Never felt more in control of my life and body especially after doing a cutting and bulking cycle
>Still play vidya
>Have friends now
>Have qt 3.14 gf since I actually look good in clothes (Still need some work to look shredded naked)
>Graduate Uni
>Have own house
>Have car
>0 debts
Honestly my only vices left are i'm fairly laid back with my food (i.e I will eat chocolate or other shit useless food as long as I get my protein + calories in) and i'm on 4chan

>>25833789
>Be me, submissive beta faggot
>Talking to a qt grill coworker of mine
>Had me under her foot .
>Calling at 3am while drunk alone. Texting cutsie crap all day
>Flirty at work, flirty on the phone
>Feel confident one day and ask her what she would think of a relationship
>"Oh its just my personality, I wasn't flirting at all"
>Get ripped on by all the other staff that she told
>wut
>"fuck this I'm tired of being everyone's bitch"
>Get mad. Call her out on her bullshit. Start treating her like shit at work.
>Start becoming more aggressive and dominant towards all the other staff and "friends" that treat me like rubbish.
>My opinion all of a sudden starts to matter
>I Start bossing people around, they listen
>Feels fucking amazing to be somebody
>Bitch qt texts me later, soppy apology
>Don't even reply
>Family notices the difference in attitude
>Start changing my looks, get haircut, put effort in my appearance
>Confidence rises each passing day, just got my first number today in months

I... I think I'm doing it right... Depressions fading, feeling good about work now. Miserable bitch got what she deserved. Feels good man.

>>25836722
Nice dubs, how did you manage to do it man? I'm a 5'7 manlet and honestly even people that obviously way below me in the food chain disrespect me it's like people can smell your betaness.

It's a gradual process, as many here have commented. As with any transformation, there will be relapses (alcohol, porn addiction, suicidal nights). But any effort towards personal betterment, anything at all, is worth the time. You owe that to yourself.

>>25836770
If anything if was just raw anger and disgust at what I'd become. Being pushed around all the time fucking sucked, being lead on by whore fucking sucked.
>Inb4betauprising

Honestly it was either soaking in that anger and becoming a bitter, even more submissive autistic robot. Or using it to improve on myself, for the better. Fuck the cunts that told me I couldn't be normal.

Oh and you're right, the can smell beta for miles. Act dominant. You may not convince others, but you'll start convincing yourself. All that matters really.

>>25836704
Honestly my only vices left are i'm fairly laid back with my food... and i'm on 4chan

I've found theres nothing wrong with using 4chan. Just don't get sucked in completely by the culture or let it ruin your life.

>>25835087
How'd you do it?

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