Femanons, how jealous do pictures like this make you?
This girl couldn't just seduce your boyfriend, she could, were you married, steal your husband to the point he was prepared to divorce you for her.
>date a high value Chad
>get roasted when he cheats
Speaking from experience, cheating doesn't mean you don't love your girlfriend.
I've been in a situation where I've been on the floor sobbing and begging her to take me back for example.
Suddenly any interest I may have had just dissapated... Race-mixers are trah.
You want to project an image of being call with your boyfriend treating you and other women like shit by fucking other women under the pretense of "threesomes". No wonder none of your relationships work out.
>it's a ''fembots whining even though they have it easy as fuck'' thread
I think you're making assumptions anon. I've been married for four years and have had other girls with us before.
Cheating isn't a big deal, I'm more concerned about happiness and experiencing things. I trust my husband and we always talk about it beforehand, there's nothing to be worried about.
Not the other girl but lighten up. That girl could make me cheat on him if she wanted. I can acknowledge that she is attractive and that doesn't mean I'm an annoying teeheebigirl.
although im flat chested im certainly more attractive than my bf. Before he can cheat on me with this gal id prob fuck 20 guys by then :^)
These whores get on my nerves too. Deep down inside you know they have been cheated on before and just want to put it out in the open so they can have control over the situation.
>id prob fuck 20 guys by then :^)
You wouldn't enjoy that if you respect yourself.
Are you that oldfag?
Most femanons aren't interested in talking to other femanons.
Buttetface. He would fuck her but i doubt he would leave me. He knows no other chick would put up with his bullshit.
If there was a way of letting him fuck chicks who i can be sure are std free, i would let him.
I have almost zero sex drive, i prefer to spend my time in other ways but i also love him and having his company, i love the things we do together, it just doesn't seem fair that he should go without sex, he had a very high sex drive too.
I'm joking of course. If we were serious, I dont think my bf would cheat on me only because this girl has big titties.
Omg so edgy, femanon.
It's literally not cheating if the SO is cool with it. Cheating implies deception. A lot more people are in open relationships than you think.
Wait... Why am I talking to you about relationships? Might as well be trying to explain what getting laid feels like.
The same place you are hiding
WTF! How the fuck did /r9k/ become an estrogen filled cesspool?
>Army of traps taking artificial hormones
Nvm then. Carry on.
>tfw chestlets will never be able seduce men like BIG SOFT tits can
>tfw roasties will never be able to satisfy their men like TIGHT WET PUSSY can
>tfw they get cucked by a young cute genetically blessed maiden
Feels gud mang
>had sex with robot bf without a condom on his birthday
>that was 3 weeks ago
>period is running late
this would be my luck. first time without a condom of course I'd get knocked up.
>all the girls in this thread
do any of you look like my waifu
i just really fucking wish i was born white. all of my problems regarding my self esteem would be solved if i had white skin. almost every white girl can look cute if she put enough effort but shitskins like me are doomed for eternity. ugh, i hate this so much. fuck.
Speaking as a dude, I'd be super paranoid if a 10/10 hit on me.
>I don't find the OP chick attractive tho, so I'd be more likely to talk to her.
Would any of the cute fembots in this thread like a bearded, hairy cute boyfriend?
Good thing it's VI. But thats pretty normie too
Lately been having more urges to meet up with some cute girls. Not sure if I would date. I think it could be annoying sometimes.
I haven't been with another girl either but also I don't know any irl. I don't know if it would be annoying unless they are really energetic and loud. The sex seems difficult but I'm still interested.
I would rather have some kind of deep intimate relationship with another girl though.
I want a deep intimate relationship
If some 19 year old cute busty chick approached me with consequence-less "nobody will know" sex, I'd kill her if she knew I'd be cheating on my partner
Ugh 8 is kind of at the bottom of my list.
Ideally? Relationship with a cute girl who is a little more experienced than me would it. I have messed around with a few girls and most of them were awkward because we were both inexperienced. I just want a qt to tell me what to do and then handle me. too much to ask for I guess
is it weird that I fantasize about being a woman but having lesbian relationships like this
(twink-ish man here)
Fuckin shit I wish I had been on /b/ when she was camming. I have such desirous opinions of her.
Fuck she's hot
It makes me infuriated that she's straight and some Chad has ruined that slut.
Would be interesting.
Curious what types of girls do you like?
Just how experienced are you?
I dated a transgender man once, so I can't fully rule out men.
No, sometimes I fantasize about being a man in a gay relationship, but I'm just going to keep pushing that deep down into the feels bottle until I can afford therapy.
>TFW you will never have big boobs
>TFW you don't trust a man to be in the same room as your busty sister, even though she's married and would never do anything like that to hurt me
jesus christ this is embarrassing
fuck off beta nu-male
Please be Canadian.
I'm usually attracted to slightly older (24-30) and nerdy women, with matronly figures, with a big chest/hips, small waist, and a soft belly. But that's probably because I'm projecting my mother issues.
As far as a type goes, I'm okay with mostly everyone as long as I enjoy your personality.
>they intimidate me
99% of women are lusting after dick like shameless sluts, leave me alone and prey on them.
God I love Veebu's art. She needs to do more Love Live and take my damn commission.
>No, sometimes I fantasize about being a man in a gay relationship, but I'm just going to keep pushing that deep down into the feels bottle until I can afford therapy.
I'd be willing to indulge you in this; simultaneously keeping it intimate but casual enough so you don't have to have it rule your "identity."
Just have it be a purely perverse thing
literally everybody here hates you
You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original.
>she doesn't have big tits
>she doesn't have a flat stomach
>she doesn't have a thin face
>she doesn't have clear skin
>she doesn't have a tidy vagina
>she doesn't do anal
>she doesn't deepthroat
>she doesn't do threesomes
>she doesn't let her man fuck teenage whores on the side
>she doesn't beg for his cum
>AND SHE SERIOUSLY EXPECTS TO KEEP A MAN AROUND
>IN TWO THOUSAND AND SIXTEEN
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH GET WITH THE TIMES
YOU BROUGHT THIS ON YOURSELVES, WHORES
>pic related, minimum standards for modern women to be confident in finding and keeping a faithful median-value man
this beta actually thinks r9k is some kinda competition where he fights for a gf
this is a new level of autism
I would love your tender, petite chest all the same.
Couldn't care less at this point honestly... At least I'd be free to lay around my parents house and play video games all day again.
Oh, and I could kill myself at any time guilt free.
I would love to have something like this irl.
>the closest I've gotten was me dressing in my brothers clothes to look like a boy (I had my hair short at the time) and my gf roughly strap-on fucked me doggy style and called me a good boy.
They always are.
I guess I'a a bi slut for reverse traps then.
femanon? its fembot you dumb bitch and none of these exist. . so get the fuck back to /SOC/ you piece of worthless shit . i wish that i can brutally rape you all you fucking normies
I grew up having internet girlfriends. ones that I talked to on the phone daily. and that was a lot less cringey than all the steamgroups full of dudes pretending to be girls jerking eachother off. those guys have literally given up on trying, and it's not because they're gay. it's because they're lonely. and they hear so much negative shit about women that they never even bother.
also, I have a gf that lives with me. i don't need to compete for fembots.
No...that's alright. Also I'm 95% sure she doesn't swing that way.
It's the worst curse imaginable. At least for me.
But I wouldn't. And eventually my insecurities would drive you away like everyone else.
actually I dated a flat chested otaku girl. she was insecure about her chest and I had a hell of a time convincing her she was perfect, but in the end it worked.
girls with small chests are fucking hot because they always have a petite frame and its such a turn on.
you just need to learn more about trains, femanons
no man would ever leave or cheat on a foamer
>the closest I've gotten was me dressing in my brothers clothes to look like a boy (I had my hair short at the time) and my gf roughly strap-on fucked me doggy style and called me a good boy.
You are so fucking perverted beyond saving
If you were an exhibitionist you would be obligated to make and post videos that humiliate you
Been playing a weird spread of them lately, not really devoting much time to any of them:
-Long Live the Queen
-Faster Than Light
And privately speedrunning some old SNES games.
She is a bit of a butterface.
Pic related is true perfection.
pear shape is top tier though
do you have thick thighs/ass?
Her tits look that good because her shirt is supporting them very well. She's obviously very pretty but slightly unfair to suggest she looks like that without any help.
That said, it wouldn't bother me. I can accept other women are better looking than me. We also have similar features so I'm happy that she's considered to be attractive.
Are you a virgin? Please be my gay gf.
Sadly no, I'm married. Thus why this thread caught my eye.
if women don't owe me anything, I don't owe them anything
>enjoy filipino cartoons and gayming
>trying to do productive things (papercrafts, programming, learning Japanese, reading)
>attempting to obtain a personality
What's so great about that girl?
Yes, it makes me jealous and this entire thread made me cry desu. I was kind of having a good last few months but thinking about these posts have made me realize I don't understand why I even bother trying anymore. I can't compete with the average, let alone a qt like in OP
lol go back to Tumblr, cuckquean
if they're misandrist cunts it isn't
Are you a slav?
You seem like one
Has everything to do with my looks.
I'm ugly, everyone agrees. The only reason my bf finds me pretty is because I've charmed him and because he does it for his own good. I'm sure one day he will snap out of it.
Maybe my personality is shitty but I'd without a doubt get away with it if I was pretty like the girl in OP. Instead, genetics fucked me over and here I am.
I swore I'd kill myself the last time I was cucked, and yet here I am again, putting my heart in the hands of another person. Love is madness.
This shithead again
Roasties off my board on 3. 2. 1. Go
Implying that you aren't a filthy roastie whore who would date a "nice" guy as long as he provided for you and bought you loads of expensive shit, then cheat on him as soon as Chad offers you his dick.
Fuck off out of this board you degenerate slut.
You take this shit too seriously lol
You desperately need a new perspective
I also know for a fact that I'd never cheat, but you don't believe me in the same way I don't believe you'd stay with me if Chad came along and showed interest.
This post really triggered me.
I want to die.
I mean he trips on /r9k/ too but you have a point. It depresses him when I'm like this but I can't shake the feeling of paranoia and eventually being replaced because of my past experiences conditioning me to always live in fear and on guard. Like a fucking ghost haunting me.
good, now pursue that. don't let your dreams be memes
I can't believe you bitches can do something like that
For the 1000000th time, WOMEN CAN'T BE ROBOTS
First of all, if you are alone, it's your fault for having higg standards
Second, girls don't feel sexual urges like man do, try having a dick physically aching every time you stay more than a day without fapping, seriously, I can't even sleep
I seriously hate you all
"AAAAH I DON'T DESERVE A RELATIONSHIP, AND IF I DID I CAN'T TRUST ANYONE TO STAY IN IT!!!"
*continues to claw only for people who WILL leave her*
Get your priorities straight. What do you want?
- Someone to trust/ depend on
- Someone to have conversations with
- Someone to grow old with
You might want to check everything on that list but if you do some introspection you'll realize you don't really need the whole list, and easily surpass the criteria for having whatever it is you ACTUALLY want.
I'm nice I swear I just have mental issues
I'm also not a virgin and pretty attractive I'll be ur friend if u want and won't even do creepy sex stuff to you. I'm too depressed anyway!!!! :))))
I mean he swears he won't leave me and I don't know I trust him for some reason. He gets really sad when I'm like this. He's the only person that's ever been truly sympathetic to my shit and taken me seriously, it feels like. I'm not even understating that.
I just want someone to trust and grow old with from that list.
I haven't felt like this in a long time or put myself out on the line since my past relationshit. I kind of got to the point where I was numb and didn't really feel anything new or strong and I didn't care what people said or did because I wanted to die anyway so it's all just roll off of me, and I wasn't interested in keeping people around me. But I don't know, things are different with him. I've let him in, for god knows what reason. He can hurt me now. I realized that this morning and my heart is pumping so fast for the last 4 hours. I mean there is no such thing as love without fear but it's still so scary and I have no idea why I let it get to this point. I've never met a guy like him before (even though there are probably tons of them, they were just never interested in me.)
He makes me want to take care of him, you know? I lived for myself before all this and it was hard to live because I don't particularly like myself.
this is what we should all collectively hate. not fembots being cute and getting some attention, or posting a pic, or talking about their sex life.
THIS RIGHT HERE IS WHO YOU HATE. ATTENTION WHORE QUEEN SUPREME
>Speaking from experience, cheating doesn't mean you don't love your girlfriend.
Listen stupid fuck, love isn't real, its just chemicals in your brain, what you have is just lust and the only reason you were begging for her back is because people like you who cheat are narccisists and sadists, you get off on the fact that you've gotten this person to be exclusive to you while you have sex with other people, if they gave you the option of an open relationship YOU WOULD REFUSE because then they don't suffer and you can't get off on cheating on them, that's why people like you cheat, it has nothing to do with love, its about your ego, being able to own someone, have power over them, if you actually "loved" someone who wouldn't feel the need to cheat because she'd be your version of perfection.
Imagine your boyfriend reading off a list of traits women find attractive in men, then crying and hating you because you think you'll leave him once Chad comes along.
Even if you try to re-assure him, he'll say "NO YOU'RE LYING! I JUST KNOW IT!"
You kind of just want to hit him to snap him out of it and get back into reality
That's why everyone wishes you were dead, because people give you a rope to climb out of a ditch but you keep believing we're just going to give up. We wait by, hoping you'll finally just trust us and grab on. We wait, we wait, we wait. You don't. You cry and cry- we even drop the rope and come down into the ditch with you. We cry with you.
But then what comes after that? What will it take for you to understand that "we both need to move on and get on with our lives"- I'm not talking about breaking up, I'm talking about doing it together.
But no, even when you're out of the ditch, you jump back in. Just to have the whole scenario play back, to re-confirm if he still feels the same way about you.
Think about if he did that.
Do you have that unconditional love? That patience?
Here's the thing; you don't. You believe in the fallacy that holding unconditional love is a trait that WILL stay patient with you. You hold it to high regard. But here's the catch; YOU don't hold unconditional love.
Because in the nature of having it, you wouldn't keep jumping back into that ditch.
We hate you because you are incapable of wielding the same love that people use to bring you out.
YOU can change that at ANY fucking moment btw. You have that ability, and once you have it you literally can't lose it (even THROUGH disappointment/ abandonment)
You just think you might lose it (again?) so you don't even try
Mystery I didn't read that post but u want to tell you something
All humans are incapable of love and they will all leave you through at the very least death
Meditate on the scripture my lost sheep
>make a fembot friend
>all she does is talk about her ex-boyfriend
this is the truth t b h
it's why I like trains, they're predictable. they don't build up your expectations then let you down
What do you expect? I'm broken.
I had unconditional love before and stayed through being cuckolded and the worst of psychological torture.
I'm a shell of my former self and don't understand why anyone would want to be with me. It isn't even about the traits that anon listed. It is just the fact that I hate myself enough to believe that anything opposite of me or anything that deviates from me is good or better.
My bf is not the same as me. He hasn't been through the things that I have and god I hope he never does. In fact, I want to make sure that he never does, but only if he lets me, you know? I only have that power if he gives it to me.
YOU ARE ACTIVELY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT CARES ABOUT YOU
AND YET YOU COMPLAIN MORE THAN THE AVERAGE PERSON WHO HAS NOTHING
IT IS BAFFLING
I swear some people just don't want to be happy. They'd rather stress about hypothetical and imaginary things to the point where they've deluded themselves into thinking things are worse than they are.
I only have eyes for him.
I kind of have some sort of fucked up PTSD or something (my therapist says PTSD but I don't know, I don't go to therapy anymore tbqh)
Maybe I'm not supposed to be in a relationship. But it's really rare to meet a person who you feel like letting in.
this is not a butterface.
She's better looking than the girl you've posted
Because I associate letting people in with being hurt and I don't know if I can take it. I'm always the person that gets replaced and gets hurt and cares more. I'm kind of yandere as well.
He isn't that tall which is ideal because neither am I, his body fits mine perfectly. And he's kind of subby, which is perfect because there is no love like a submissive person's love, I know that much.
>Maybe I'm not supposed to be in a relationship
neither am I
It's weird because he's probably without a doubt the first person I've genuinely wanted to bring up and care for and protect and make sure to elevate. Fug. What have I gotten myself into?
>I just don't see what about her would make it worth it to cheat on someone.
You're only saying this because you've never given the opportunity to cheat, it's been proven that men are hardwired to desire every desirable women they see, this was to help mankind increase their number in the past.
>It is just the fact that I hate myself enough to believe that anything opposite of me or anything that deviates from me is good or better.
Did you not read what I said? It's not the elements of your personality people hate, it's your current state of refusal to take the reigns. You literally cannot be a down to the core shitty person- everyone just wants to tell you that as a biproduct of their frustration with you
I keep seeing people explain in detail how horrible you are, and I've done so as well in the past when you went out on a limb to say stupid shit.
I've actually been in your shoes, believe it or not- I would do, say, and act certain ways to spite myself. Any time someone hated me, I felt like "Yes, that's good, you just proved yourself to be good".
In a way, it's nice to know that your place in the universe is to carry that burden of guilt- to be that scapegoat of judgement and pain
But god fucking dammit, just let it be temporary. You've probably done it for so long to think of yourself as anything different, but you are different. I wish I could illustrate it to you how badly you've mislead yourself. This deep dark satiation for having judgement cast upon you, confirming your evil
You won't believe me when I tell you that your desire for that is a counterbalance for the morality/ good you're capable of. All those edgy faggots who say "There is no hope, all of humanity is just disappointment" do so because of a deep frustration. They actually want it to not be that, so bad. So very very bad.
I'll have to get a response first before I continue on with this rant, because you haven't even begun to hear the start of it
Nah just a dude who has an entire folder dedicated to her
you've been hurt by men in the past
so WHY do you come to a website full of 20-something losers who have NEVER been in ANY kind of relationship and chastise us for being dogs or whatever? people on /r9k/ haven't ever talked to a girl and yet you come here and tell people that they're subhumans and womanizers and abusive? that's just disrespectful
just scream into a paper bag or something, don't put other people down and make already-shitty people feel even worse because of your own problems
You're an idiot you know that?
If I was your bf I wouldn't trust you for a second.
You've already posted pics of your feet and tits for fags to jack off to.
You're already cheating if you ask me
>That is straight up the fattest skinny face I've ever seen in my life
Never heard of cute lil cheeks?
I only save for her face and tits.
She has really suckable nipples.
>tfw these whores don't appreciate my train pics
well desu with you that isn't very aesthetic or artistic.
If you're just taking pictures of a monument there's plenty of other better pictures they can find online.
If you're taking them artistically, it's easy to appreciate.
Whenever I see an attractive woman I always feel like she's probably not worth the effort to go after. If I already had a gf, why would I go out of my way just to get sex out of someone else? I already have all the companionship I need from my gf, and sex is hardly worth putting up with another person for. Not to mention trying to hide things, and all the guilt I'd feel.
yeah, that pic isn't the best
trains are always beautiful though
HAHAHAHSHAGHASGAH WHAT A FUCKING DUMB LOSER HE WON'T JUST GET A HOOKER BECAUSE HE'S A DUMB LOSER NECKBEARD WHO WANTS HIS FIRST TIME TO BE IN A GENUINE RELATIONSHIP BUT HE CAN'T FIND ONE OF THOSE BECAUSE HE'S A BORING NEUROTIC UGLY FREAK WHO CAN'T JUST OPEN HIS LEGS AND GET PLOWED BY SOME PEDOPHILE WIFEBEATER HAHAHDH FUCKING L O S E R S
YOUR WORTH IS DEFINED BY HOW MANY SEXUAL PARTNERS YOU HAVE AND IF YOU'VE NEVER HAD ONE YOU'RE A FUCKING DUMB UGLY NECKBEARD PATHETIC CREEP HAHAHAHAH LOOK AT THESE LOSERS IT'S LIKE A FREAKSHOW OVER HERE
there was no before
r9k is a robot place you fucking bitch
you think you can come here and complain about the people who post here?
you should do a vlog
it's more efficient for getting attention
Honestly the advice I kept hearing was "love yourself", but I kept responding with "FUCK THAT" and finding more ways to hate myself
I still do to some degree, but there's a few things I realize now. My flow of consciousness- the thing between my head and the keyboard; my actions, my observations of my actions- this is not the same as your identity or your ego. This is why everyone feels like they're wearing masks and that no one can know the "true them"
This is fucking impossible to explain clearly, and in no way I expect you to even believe this shit, but here's the main point; ego. Your ego isn't just "how great I am", but it's also your uh... "Reason", your collective score, the result of your justifications. When people try to deconstruct you/ attack you, this is what they aim for. This is the "under your skin" part of "getting under your skin"
This is the you that you FEEL dishes out the judgement.
Take hold of it, drag it into the abyss it's creating for you. If there is a satan and god, your ego is literally satan. Trying to constantly paralyse you, question your reason for living, justify itself, make itself correct.
Kill it; put it through the worst death imaginable. That's what I did- I basically said "Holy shit I don't matter, I should just kill myself because I cannot contribute to happiness or feel enough happiness to justify the pain I will cost by simply existing"
But I was like 9, and didn't actually have the guts to kill myself. I romanticized how sad my parents would be, how much it'd devastate my brothers. How fucking wrong they'd be to miss me. It'd make me want to simultaneously kill them for doing that, but also made me want to do something truly evil before I killed myself or something.
But I just said "Fuck it, that's too much work, I'll just simply take a backseat through life. I'll disassociate with whatever this flesh is, give zero fucks about my final ranking/ score."
-will continue after reply
I love robots. But I don't try to make friends with them anymore, since me having a vagina complicates the friendship
and not on my part.
It sucks cause I hate typical females, and can't relate to most of them. Fembots are the most tolerable, but I still don't make friends out of any.
I don't cook chili
I'll make you some roast chicken though
Do you ever think about the wall, and life after it? Does it bother you at all?
Please be honest.
I hit the wall shortly after I was born and my mom dropped me on my face.
I would of named it after her but I didn't know her name at the time.
My power level cant be very high considering I've fucked 2 bitches who weren't prostitutes.
Thats like 40 pics anon. That's quite a lot to dump in this thread.
Its just whoring.
>more people are in open relationships...
More people fuck their kids than you probably think, does that make it okay?
Do you even realise how stereotypical it is for a woman to defend herself with 'everyone else does it?'
>tfw only one fembot friend
>wouldnt mind having more
>also wearing hijab(not forced)
>you are a bot and have nasty humor
>liked different qt boys who are the same as you
>they run away from you because they are scared
>tfw no qt botfriend to snuggle
seriously girls saying that it's hard to find someone try find someone when your like me.
fuck my life.
ITT: traps, pedos and the mentally ill pretending to be female on a kazakh pottery website.
>love isn't real because it's just chemicals
>implying chemicals aren't real
Either you're that autistic or this is bait.
Kek, I realize why this thread always triggers me in particular.
Because this girl looks almost exactly like one of the girls I got cucked with. Damn it, OP. You're a cruel hearted bastard.
you think you look young but women past the 23-25 hump really broadcast a thousand invisible signs that they are "old"
go look at a 21 year old guy and then look at him when he's 25, it's pretty much the same in the macro level details but on some subtle level he looks less "youthful", less waifish
that's good for him, because women don't generally want elfin young guys, but bad for women for whom it's the reverse
>has online bf lel
>make out with her
>pull off her pants
>shes a roastie and smells like death
>ignore her texts
Men cannot think beyond their lust. If their dick isn't drained twice a day the need is as bad as dying of thirst in the Sahara to their animal brains. So they just HAD to fuck that 19 y/o at the New Year's Party.
Pretty soon he goes from "i'd never cheat on you" to "it'll never happen again". It doesn't matter how much of a loser he is, either. If he has the chance to get younger hotter pussy he will ALWAYS take it. The only difference between normies and robot men is that robots are usually unable to find other pussy, but as soon as he does he's fucking gone.
Can you really blame your ex?
I know it's wrong but if the girl was this fucking cute.... Seriously I'd find it hard to control myself.
She's cute to the point where I want to fuck her, but I also
Want to cuddle her and kiss her
>tfw my robot friends get uplifted by girls who want to "give them a chance" because they're tired of chads not appreciating them
>tfw the appreciation is there for the honeymoon period and then even the fattest roneriest wizardest sperglord infinitely below their league still takes all the girls completely for granted
>tfw watching a 27 year old fatass ugly manlet autist who was a virgin until 8 months ago cheat on a beautiful sweet marriage material girl, because he gained newfound confidence from dating her
>tfw all the girls were younger than her
if you cheat, regardless of gender, you are fucking trash and deserve to have your genitals mutilated
Awful fucking crop, the Youtube bar is showing
Tbh, you're absolutely fucking wrong, AND not in position to complain.
You're using one single experience of yours, and you're female.
Sis, you're preaching to the choir.
All I've ever wanted was someone faithful first and foremost.
My last relationship was shit because he was as you described, a total robot and kek, I got cheated on hundreds of times while he was fucking anything hotter and younger. On my birthday too. All the time.
All of it left me with some pretty bad head demons, which is why I willed myself to be a dyke a lot of the time. But shit, I'm not. And now I'm falling so hard.
>gf has past traumas from all her other relationships
>would be triggered if I wanted a MFF threesome
>Actually just want to watch her and another girl eat eachother's pussies and to deny the other girl an orgasm while giving my better half plenty
idk, as hot as this girl is, if I had a gf I would turn her down (though if my hypothetical gf is ok with a threesome, I'd probably ask for that). cheating is a truly despicable thing to do
You're making a bigger deal out of sex than it really is. Meaningless fucking and cheating isn't really all that offensive when you remove your selfishness from it.
Why do you need to tie down someone to just fucking you? Why does it matter that much? It's only sex.
Yeah, this. Men are really the worst, totally incapable of true love or monogamy. On one hand I feel like I can't hate them for it, because really it's their biology cucking me. On the other, I think a human being should be able to function on a more sophisticated level than that of a dog and have some self-restraint.
I just hate men so much. I'm not even sad that I'll never have a bf anymore, men are such scum in my eyes that I can't feel any desire for one.
This mindset ended up concluding with that backseat approach; controlling my body as if it were a puppet, and more simply just observing shit from the perspective of that "stream of consciousness"
This is partially why I also feel more "real" on the internet; what I say, my ideas, my actions; they are more intentional, more reflective of that stream, more involved in that stream
Dunno. I had a pretty shitty childhood filled with self doubt, but also a lot of deconstruction/ reconstruction. I went through several edgy phases, mostly set off from moments in life where extreme trauma or large amounts of disappointment was brought in. You know, "lose hope in humanity" shit.
Just to sidetrack; I never cared about myself. I still didn't feel the need to be loved, and I didn't really feel the need to reciprocate any kind of love. I was happy sort of being a chauffeur of ideas and thoughts, creativity, imagination. I liked escapism, I liked observing things. I didn't find joy in gossip, celebrities, drama. It was all nonsense that distracted from stuff that actually mattered.
People report similar mindsets after they've taken LSD and went through intense introspection/ found some kind of "answers to life"
I felt the same way a lot of these stories report.
Occasionally though, my pride came back. It's kind of inherent in any assumptions or judgements you build up/ that build up your personality. Having it judged or broken destroys your entire outlook on life- but this simultaneous hate for myself and newly found "need to find objective truth" made me quick to question everything I believed in, and entertain ANY reasonable objection or experience.
Like, if my "inner sanctum" was one of those roman styled sanctuaries, what I essentially did was go in there with a sledgehammer and smash at the foundations/ pillars. I tested every belief/ ideal/ assumption I held on a regular basis.
(cont when you reply)
Sex is an expression of love to those of us who aren't degenerate.
Why would you want your partner to make love to another person? Are you a cuck?
Although at this point I'm such a cuck that it would take literally all my energy to actually leave a relationship I was being cucked in. I mean desu it took a lot the first time. But I mean at least now I have a decent support structure, so it might be easier
when I'm single, I'll fuck almost any female who's willing
in a relationship though, I only fuck my gf (unless we're having a threesome, but I've never experienced one, so that's purely hypothetical)
I would never make another person feel the way that I've felt. I would never wish that on another person, not even my worst enemy and certainly not someone I love.
I hope no one can ever understand me.
He didn't throw away your love, you did. You could have continued to love him, you just stopped as soon as he had sex with someone else.
Stop applying so much meaning to it and you can continue to love someone either way. They will do the same for you.
I'm loyal to my girl, although she's loyal to me too, not a slut, and thankfully not a white woman aka the most entitled whiny bitches on the planet.
Also I'm going to consume all of your biomass to achieve my perfect form.
This picture specifically, not that much. But pictures like that in general, very, especially ones like pic related.
I got fucked over hard when it comes to my body. It started when I was around 14. I was sad I didn't have tits.
>Got tits, but tits were weirdly shaped and could literally fit the grand canyon in between them
I started coming to terms with them and thought to myself, "Hey, at least I'm skinny." What happened?
"Well at least I don't have stretchmarks"
"Oh, at least they're just on my hips."
>Suddenly they're on my belly, too
"At least they are not on my tits!"
>Stretchmarks magically appear on tits
"Well, at least I have nice soft and clean skin!"
>Get pimples on face
"Lol at least I don't have them on my body like some girls do!"
>GET FUCKING ASS PIMPLES
>not even back pimples or whatever no
FUCK YOU WORLD FUCK YOU REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
FUCKING HELL I JUST WANTED THIS ONE THING YOU FUCKING DICK
>tfw you're actually a loyal guy and all you want is a gf
When you enter a monogamous relationship with someone, you're making a promise that you will not fuck other people. Even if you do not see sex as anything more than a physical act (which is disgusting), when you cheat you're still breaking an important promise to your partner.
No one should be expected to continue loving someone who mistreats them so.
This. It hurts so much when you love someone with all your heart and look at them like they're the world and then you realize they're thinking about someone else because you're not good enough and the novelty wore off, and that you don't really mean that much to anyone at all and your entire existence is pointless and there isn't anything left for you and that pretty soon other women will easily fill your shoes and no one gives a shit whether it kills you oh god I'm crying
Being unfaithful is the ultimate expression of betrayal. Don't expect a woman to stay with you if you betrayed her. You ruined it and threw it away by cucking her.
You are so fucking generic it hurts. Honestly I find you cute as all flying fuck but you are the same dumb girl that always posts around here. Your problems that " nobody can ever understand" are the exact same as every other girl that fucking posts here. Reality is that you don't understand that you are so generic. Your fight is the same one as many many others. Stop thinking you are so alone when in reality you are not. Your problems are trivial and self induced. You yourself are creating them while shutting out reality. For your sake you should pray you finally figure it out one day. Stop posting its pathetic to keep reading your dumb shit every time i refresh the page.
Unless you've been cheated on before you will LITERALLY never understand.
Non-cucks are so fucking pathetic and think we are all the same. Get cucked and then maybe you can offer your shitty opinion.
Yeah, I'm sure they were never mistreated. I mean people just cheat for no reason at all, there's never any problems in the relationship beforehand.
I think people should be a little more forgiving, you don't know what sort of mental anguish someone is going through to cheat. I'm not saying the 'cheating victim' can't be sad but they are pinning a lot of blame on someone who cheats and not looking at themselves or being forgiving at all. Is it really love if you drop someone like a hat over a mistake?
Posters of these fembot/anon/female threads should be banned.
These threads are reply bait and should go to /soc/ /lgbt/ or /trash/
I am disgusting, that was the whole fucking point. Thank you for pointing out the obvious.
>implying chemicals aren't real
>Either you're that autistic or this is bait.
1. You must be a complete retard or playing semantic BS games if you can't understand what I'm saying here, love isn't real in the sense that people try to paint it, as this "deep" mystical force that binds people together.
2. Also even if we use your retard logic everything you ever imagined now exists in the world and is real since brain chemicals are real and facilitate this (stupidest fuck I've met on 4chan so far)
Weirdly enough, I'd be okay if someone cheated on me even after I poured my heart out into them
Not like okay as in keep the relationship going- no I'd formally end it because I'm not going to cuck myself
But I don't think I'd be devastated. I'm satisfied living alone, and if I had to return to that it'd be a "pick up where I last started" thing that doesn't make me feel like shit.
I don't know if I'm viewing it too objectively.
I feel like I have the potential to cheat while simultaneously not. I have an unprecedented rage against temptation- I would only be able to see it as an attack on my partner. If a young beautiful girl tries to seduce me/ give me warm heart feelings, I would see it as a dagger going through my partner, and I'd fucking rage so hard that I might kill this succubus.
I really feel like I'm unbreakable in that regard, because I have a very low "pursuing" sort of libido to begin with. I find it extremely hard to develop sexual interest in anyone, and once I put it into one literally no one else can be found interesting.
Fuck off, you vile creep. We get it, you cheated on your gf and believe you should be forgiven because "hurr it was a mistake and sex doesn't mean anything." It meant something to the girl you loved. No one feels bad for you.
It varies by case but in general if you even consider cheating it means the relationship does not mean that much to you, whether you consciously recognize it or not. It shows that you want the security of a relationship without giving your partner anything in return, like commitment.
Maybe people shouldn't be violently angry about it, but they have every right not to forgive if they don't feel like it.
this is hard for me to understand because i was fat and ugly for my teen years/early 20s
when i was 15 i was 5'6 and 250 pounds, obviously i was ignored or chastised by everyone. i lost weight and fluctuated between 170-200 til i was 27
last year i turned 28 and started getting super fit and taking excellent care of myself, hair makeup clothes etc. i also had surgery to correct some messed up stuff on my face. i never really drank or went in the sun (since i was a shut-in) so my skin is nice. i genuinely have no wrinkles and my body is a lot nicer than most people younger than me.
the point is i get more attention and respect now that i'm 29 than i ever did when i was any other age. i cant be sad about my "beautiful youth" because i was fucking ugly so i dont know what id be missing out on
i do however think i have arrested development because i feel like i'm in my early 20s and have no interested in settling down or having a baby any time soon.
since i was an ugly fuck i also learned how to entertain myself and find value in things other than social status or attention from men. i feel happy and fulfilled doing creative things and learning and connecting with people in a non sexual way.
idk i think its stupid to place all my value on how i look lol
why is my life over because a man doesn't get a boner for anyone over 25? wtf kind of life would i be leading if that were true?
it doesnt matter, i cant stop aging so why the fuck should i worry about it?
ask me again once i start looking old ill probably feel differenlty
>cheated on once
K E K
"Once" that you know of. Holy shit I don't know if I should laugh at you or shed a tear for you. I'm so sad you've been brainwashed by your cheating husband's rhetoric. Take the pink pill already, sis.
Yeah that's true, I just feel like you just hear one side, which is the 'victims' perspective and they act like they never did anything wrong.
I often see women withholding sex over men's heads because they want to punish them, then act like sex is awful and men are disgusting dogs. I don't see why you would want to make someone you love happy and just be good to them instead of hurting them so much to push them away from you and help push eventual cheating.
Statistically speaking women are more prone to cheat than men. I've been with my gf for three years. Never once have I cheated on her. I was once extremely drunk and high at a beach with a couple of girls who wanted to fuck and I nope.jpgd the fuck out of there.
>implying modern day western whores deserves a good loyal man
you women are a fucking disgrace and you lack femininity. you speak like men.you cover your body in tattoos like men,you sleep around like men, you cheat like men, you drink like men, and have this narcissistic attitude that the universe revolves around you. then you come here wondering why you attract shitty guys and why they cheat on you.
Cheating isnt the end of the world. Clearly the person who cheated on you wasn't as into you as they said they were. Learn to trust the right person. How you find them is your task. Your choices are yours now stop shitting this place up.
>mfw this thread
You fags must be some real A class losers.How can you lose the game of life on easy mode?
Men are INCAPABLE of being faithful.
This is why I sometimes wish I could be a prostitute. I'd be the one men wanted to fuck and desired, not the fool in a relationship getting cheated on.
However, I'm not interested in having sex without being romantically involved with the person.
I just want a loving, faithful bf who had no desire to cheat on me, and showed me as much love and affection as I would like to show him
lel C U C K Q U E A N
get back in your chastity belt and cry as you watch your husband fuck Stacy
>"I'm alone, paranoid, depressed, lonely, I've been cheated on and I'll never love again. I can't let people inside."
>"And I'm a girl."
>OMG YOU ARE ADORABLE, LIFE GOES ON AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER I PROMISE. I'LL HELP YOU I'LL DATE YOU, ARE YOU CUTE, IT DOESN'T MATTER I'LL LOVE YOU AND HOLD YOU FOREVER
>"I'm alone, paranoid, depressed, lonely, I've been cheated on and I'll never love again. I can't let people inside."
>"And I'm a guy."
>lol dumb cuck just get a hooker or something loser
I'm a guy, I simultaneously agree/ disagree.
If you're in a relationship, it matters. Once I grow that connection with someone, it exists, it must not be broken.
Girls are however hardwired to see a guy "scanning" another woman as a personal attack, and not acknowledge it as a subconscious thing. It's not deliberate in the slightest- the only deliberate part is after the scan thinking about how much you want them/ want to fuck them. Basically, this always defaults to yes until your real conscious says "No, you fucking idiot."
This isn't because the man is bored; even if a perfect animu angel girl descended from heaven straight onto his dick, while emitting feelings of caring/ connection, if a pudgy black girl walks by AS HE'S BEING SUCKED OFF BY PERFECTION INCARNATE, he scans and thinks "fuck fuck fuck" until he decides to stop it/ cut it off.
A guy showing commitment is him actively saying "No." to every proposal. If a man cheats, that isn't because "sex is meaningless"- his outlook on sex is meaningless. I would say a good 80% of guys DEFINITELY don't think this way, especially once it's reasoned to them.
It's ok robot, the pain will go away once you accept that women are just more valuable to men than men are to women.
It does make me angry but there's nothing you or I can do about it. Although does especially piss me off when women don't recognize this, you just have to control it as they don't know what it's like to be a man.
All women are inherently cuckqueans who want their man to fuck as many women as possible. The only women who care about cheating are feminists who have been brainwashed into wanting to act like a man.
>since i was an ugly fuck i also learned how to entertain myself and find value in things other than social status or attention from men. i feel happy and fulfilled doing creative things and learning and connecting with people in a non sexual way.
You are perfect.
I'm not saying this to be a beta orbiter, but both guys and women ALL need to think like this. It solves all problems.
No girl will ever fall for me
I'm not being emo or dramatic, I'm being a realist
I don't have the traits or confidence to be an assertive and worthwhile partner, and thus I will be alone forever. My next hurdle is becoming comfortable with that
Meh. I don't really care what my husband does. I am faithful to him and he is faithful to me. We have sex often, share similar values and interests, communicate well and build each other up as people. If he wanted to throw away the life we had together for sex with someone else then go for it. I don't depend on him for anything and I can walk away. He is going to do whatever he is going to do, so why waste energy being jealous?
this really, i would also like to add that there is a fine line between ''being faithfull'' and being someones bitch, and the thread is really starting to lean on the ladder.
Fuck i wouldnt want to be in a relationship with any of you, i would be scared shitless.
Not the one you replied to.
You know the trick to deal with this?Threat them less valuable than men.
Like,I'm not saying to hate women,but why would put more value on someone that don't value you back?
Attention is a dangerous drug in the era of social media and instant gratification my robot friends.Once you know how to properly manipulate it,you will reach normalhood.
I love you mystery, even though you probably hate me since I'm a virgin and /r9k/ always talks about how women hate virgin men.
>all a woman need to do to be high value is not be fat,that's it
>ignore the only rule
>cries on a Malayan smoke signals board
when will they learn
It's true, the reason many women do not value men the same way is because they are already showered with attention and have it forcefully shoved down their throats all the time.
You lose a lot of interest in people when they just see you as a cute little girl to fuck around with a little. You become sort of jaded and try to ignore it. Sometimes you are frightened because someone might attempt to touch you, hold you or kiss you without any warning. Most of these people who do this do not know you or have any actual interest in you, you are just a vagina.
Everyone thinks you are stupid, cute, innocent and sweet. You play the part but you can't really act like yourself in public. Then you hide inside all day and hope maybe you'll meet a "nice man" but that doesn't ever really happen. Eventually you settle.
Yeah that one is cute. I like the one on the left though since I think that girls who look good without bangs > girls who look good with bangs.
They are basically cheating for your hair since everyone looks better with them.
Fuck you don't talk about my waifu like that.
She's a poor femanon who's been through a lot of shit. I want to hold her and protect her smile.
My qt was practically a virgin anyway. I don't acknowledge his only other sexual experience because it was impulsive and meaningless
which I'm not sure he's okay with me doing but I don't care 2bh he is all mine
You truly are the epitome of a selfish jackass.
I'm not fat... I'm 106 pounds ;_;7 I have a fat face.
He made me feel like I was pursuing him when in reality he was the one keeping me hanging around.
I don't speak with a lot of men but the reason I love my qt so much is because from what he's told me he seems to be careful around situations like that.
this is making me feel worse
I've gone 21 years with every advance or move I've tried to make getting denied or laughed at, and I'm too ugly and boring for dating websites. I tried to make an Okcupid but I couldn't get a presentable picture or truthfully fill out any of the "interests" info
Alright, so what I've gotten from this thread is
>Men are whores
>Women are whores
>Everyone's a whore who cannot be trusted
>Bad wicked evil whores, everyone is a whore
>"I'm still a virg-"
>whore in stasis!
>"I'd never chea-"
>Whore in denial!
>"I am literally a disgusting piece of shit that no one will ever love"
>If you could be a whore you would! You whorish whore.
Y'all got more baggage than a turnstile at an airport
This face is one of those faces that would remain beautiful with wrinkles.
Now I kinda want her current bf to cuck her so she'd leave him and give me a chance to try Mr. Bones' Wild Ride of fucked up emotions and pain.
Please don't post anymore of this anime. I'm sad enough her voice actor died so we will never get a season 2.
>You play the part but you can't really act like yourself in public
There would be men to love you no matter what you act like, this is the essence of being highly valued.
You mistakenly assume, as many women do, that it's purely all just sex. Women don't realize just how little attention men in general get, and that when they want a woman it's often because they've had very little female attention before and just want a female presence.
Women consistently underestimate how desperate men are, not just for sex, but for basic attention
desu my senpai,actually men are whores and women are whores in the closet.
If they were full on whores like men and stated what they are looking for upfront we would live in a happier world desu ne
Right, but I don't care about receiving attention or getting it. I would rather be perceived as a person and get no attention than what I am now, which is just something to fuck.
Incapable of flaws, eh? I'm sure your life will still be the same in twenty years from now. You'll still be that Chad everyone loves. You're living the good life, right? Give me a fucking break. You're here on 4chan for a reason. No matter how many times you lie to yourself, the truth is always in the back of your mind. What keeps me going is that karma always catches up with people like you. You believe you have to be a cutthroat to survive in this world, but all you are is just a liar and a coward. No material possession can change the objective nature of truth.
You think you've got some sort of choke hold over me? You've got me in check mate? It doesn't work that way faggot.
I'm happy knowing that your life will crumble on it's self eventually. Have a good one, "Chad."
some one screwed me over some Im going to take it out on an innocent person because I can't tell the difference between an individuals actions so I blame everyone like a retard.
fuck me your bf must have a fucking strong mind to put up with your mental gymnastics
desu,I'd rather live in a world where everyone is in a constant orgy instead of a world where everyone is hiding in their room writing how scared they are of showing their true self in a Egyptian hieroglyphs board on the internet.
>Women consistently underestimate how desperate men are, not just for sex, but for basic attention
I've been getting a lot of attention IRL recently
I always sort of wanted it, and I haven't even ascended into my full Chad mode. (Fulltime job, passion, some sort of fame, money, built body, nice clothes and hair)
But as I get more attention, the more picky I'm becoming. Not really so much in looks, but the personality of a woman. I'd still go for someone more unique like mystery, who by her standards is ugly, rather than a really attractive basic bitch.
Also the kind of person I'm attracted to would be the type of person to respect my relationship if I was already in one. So there's virtually no obstacle to impede on my loyalty.
I can also link a pic if anyone's curious to what I look like.
>Mr. Bones' Wild Ride of fucked up emotions and pain
I really shouldn't have enjoyed this as much as I did
It's accurate desu.
I'm impressed. Might be a new Skype username for me.
my god, literally any type of woman can find love
I grew up ugly, alone, wanting to kill myself since the age of 9 :)
Been getting attention for the first time in my life, AFTER I've built up a more unfiltered view of the world.
I'm too grounded in my own principles to cuck anyone. Too grounded to delude myself. I am perfectly capable of flaws, but I'm confident that I can do enough to spite it.
welcome to real life.
I seriously hope you're not male!
I used it from a previous conversation you used to describe yourself.
Also add me on skype.
As I said before, you assume it's just sex when really most men lack positive affirmation of any kind from women.
In order to be loved, men will forgive many faults. I have seen this again and again; there is such a deep need for female attention that it transcends just fucking.
This is no one conflicts with seeing her as a person, you've just got the added bonus of having something that men desperately want. And at the end of the day, women have FAR more oppurtunites to find men who value them as persons, whereas men have few oppurtunities even for something shallow like sex, owing to the fact that they have no inherent value to women.
As always, keep in mind this is all spoken generally.
Well that's very nice, thanks for the anecdote.
Oh god. Just fucking stop. You really think nobody is clever enough to see through your bullshit? That's how delusions work anon, you just keep building onto the bullshit you made until you've convinced yourself you're right. I can't insult you or offend you because you're too fucking low to even see how it applies to you. Just stop, and the grow the fuck up.
>This is no one conflicts with seeing her as a person, you've just got the added bonus of having something that men desperately want. And at the end of the day, women have FAR more oppurtunites to find men who value them as persons, whereas men have few oppurtunities even for something shallow like sex, owing to the fact that they have no inherent value to women.
And funnily enough, women seek out the men who strictly only want shallow sex, and find anyone that desires more unattractive!
Like I said, that's how delusions work.
This is pointless. I'm done here. You can't undo years of lies with a simple exchange with a stranger over the internet. The only thing I'm sad about is having to see cocks like you everyday.
Cool, why would I want to interact with someone as delusional as you? You can't say one thing to back up your argument, kek ex dee ex dee
help i'm falling in love with mystery, someone remind me why she's a piece of shit/ bad idea, quick
Hello! I would adress this to my /b/rothers but Today i am reaching out for the femanons.
I have a friend with a sweet and harmless fetish; he is into mohair, whool, fur and such. He not only likes wearing it but gets a little cute and submissive when girls show him their whoolstuff. Today is one of these days, we normaly just chat a little about his fetish,i put pullover on, he jerks off and i finish it sometimes with calling other girls he met wearing whool, chatting a little and distracting them till i say he may now cum(so that the person on the phone hears it). I thought i could suprise him with a chatroom with whooly woman so he could have double fun? Any girl wanna show him fur and whool and maybe laugh a little at him?
She dated a pedophile and lost her virginity to him, then he cucked her. She wants to be fucked by horses (kept requesting pics of horse dicks in a horse thread and talking about how hot they are) and she's basically the /r9k/ bicycle who has been with every tripfag around.
She also used to post fake pictures of herself all over but now her real ones are out again so she stopped doing this.
You sedated me, but I feel this is only temporary
I yearn for 1 on 1 conversations with her still, despite not romantically interested. I really wanna see how fucked up she is, cause what you described is fairly tame shit in terms of "psycho" shit.
I just wish I knew some PEOPLE as openly messed up as her that I could talk with
I was replying to the guy who posted the anecdote about getting more attention from women, not you.
Anyway, I would think about your predicament like this: imagine if you were very good-looking; people would be attracted to you INITIALLY for that. You would have a large selection of people who are interested in your looks.
Now this doesn't preclude you from finding someone who stays for your personality, in fact your chances are much better than it would be for a man because you have more opportunities to try. There is always something that initially attracts someone: but in this case, it's your being female. Finding someone who loves you for who you are is something both men and women would struggle with, but it's far easier for women.
She could. Doesn't really make me jealous. Girls compare their looks from a young age. I know exactly where I stand.
If being a good girl and having the right personality gets trumped by fresh pussy then I'd just quietly divorce and cut contact.
If he was really shitty about it I'd fuck all his friends and send him pictures.
Yeah, maybe that's true. Thanks anon, it makes me slightly hopeful. I only know my own suffering but I am on a shorter time limit than you. I am 25 and someday I won't have looks, which is fine, but there goes my "selection".
I suppose I can find love with someone who isn't so worried about how I look then though. If someone approaches me based entirely on one glance, they aren't worth my time. They are already shallow to begin with.
>If being a good girl and having the right personality gets trumped by fresh pussy then I'd just quietly divorce and cut contact.
I urge everyone, both genders, to follow this mindset please.
I'm going to sound like a faggy orbiter redditor, but: there will always be someone who will appreciate you 100% for your personality. It doesn't even have to be a good personality- as long as it's unique in some way.
Unless you're a guy. Then you're fucked; you've GOT to be confident and know-it-all. Women don't want to reciprocate the appreciation of personality unless it's that sort of personality.
Protip, it's because you date chad.
Source: Been in a successful relationship and haven't cheated or been cheated on in 6 years.
Why? I didn't choose chad and I work things out when stuff is difficult and contribute fairly and he has too. We are both very 'red pill' as you plebs like to call it, though (common sense here)
>Unless you're a guy. Then you're fucked; you've GOT to be confident and know-it-all
I wouldn't necessarily tack on the "know-it-all", but this is very true.
Women think they're not being shallow when they say they want "personality", when really they only like assertive men.
>He made me feel like I was pursuing him when in reality he was the one keeping me hanging around.
So basically, you got charmed by Chad as a sexually mature female. Sounds about right, what the fuck are you bitching about?