please give me advice
>hang out with friends often
>some girls start hanging out with us
>start taking particular interest in one
>first female that I feel like I can be myself around in about a decade
>I start constantly thinking about her, wanting to be around her and wanting her attention and I feel protective of her
>I am literally losing sleep thinking about her
>this could be my first time feeling love
>be with her and another friend. me and friend skate
>hanging out in town at like 4am nobody else around talking
>me and friend start walking her home, friend skates in front
>ask if she would go out with x or y (x and y=friends names)
>waits a few seconds then gives definitive no's for each in form of mentioning dislike able things about each followed by "why" she sounds happy
>I spill my spaghetti pretend I didn't hear it and answer a question my friend just asked me
That was 2 days ago
>tomorrow her another grill and some guy friends are meeting at my house, parents out house to my self fuckyes.mp3
>plan on going to beach and then a music festival thing by the beach
>I still don't even know what she thinks about me and tomorrow is the last time I can she her for a while but I dont want this to end I just want to spend my time with her
What the fuck do I do
she was happy you asked her about them because she sensed you liked her and she likes you back, go for it and ask her out or tell her you like her and see how she reacts she probably likes you and has shown you in subtle ways youre too oblivious to get
Carelessly? If he fucks it up he'll learn for next time. That's how girls work.
"Carelessly" is what got guys with girl problems there to begin with. They overthink things, they're sensitive, they play out worst case scenario, and ultimately they never go for it. Fuck that.
>constantly thinking about her
Stop. That's where you fucked up. That's where the pain stems from, mate.
Think about it. If she wouldn't date your friends, how likely is it she would date you?
Get into the mindset that you'll be rejected, tell her how you feel, get rejected, expectations met, nobody's disappointed.
Its a hard place to be cause you can literally care too much about someone. You have to treat them like they're any girl you're interested in fucking, not a potential 'the one.'
I would get her alone somehow. Maybe say lets try the skating over here .. I don't know.
When you're alone talk to her standing front on to her looking her in the eye. 'How tall are you?' measure, 'Whats that necklace?', touch her. Then say give us a kiss when you're close. That's what I'd do.
What I wouldn't do is say 'I have feelings for you..' or do nothing.
You have to do something. If it doesn't work you can walk away head high, you tried. You risked failure.
Probably won't happen, but good luck. If it doesn't work out, don't be too bummed, like
>>25812908 said. There will be plenty of other girls if you keep a positive mindset, so don't fall for the "oneitis" meme and don't put pussy on a pedestal like a dumbass.