>>25799094 >>25799129 nope, never had gay thoughts. Kinda jealous about them actually, they have it easier in finding a partner.
>>25799098 One of the few things I have left to look forward to in life, to see this world burn. My life is over now and will no longer be of any worth, but at least I can still watch the rest of the world burn with me.
I'm 31 and a dateless virgin. I have a pretty decent job and a good living situation but am pretty shy and don't go out aside for work. I'm also pretty insecure and closeted, and don't really have any friends. Both my younger siblings are married with kids, they live a few timezones away.
>>25799286 Used to, but not anymore. There are hardly any wizards there either, most of them are just /r9k/ crossposters I can't relate too either because they're too young.
>>25799262 Start finding gf. NOW. I completely fucked up my 30s and wasted it on imageboards, when I finally worked the courage to try and find gf I discovered that my only choices at this point where women my own age as well. Unless you are extremely alpha or rich you will not be able to find younger women interested in you anymore and will have no choice but to settle with batshit crazy cat ladies or single mom trainwrecks. And jesus, AVOID single moms, I dated one once out of desperation who was the closest I ever got to becoming a gf and she was insane.
The only way out is to practice celibacy as a rational lifestyle choice. As complex and advanced as we may seem as human animals living in 2016, overall everything we tend to do, think, and feel is controlled by the underlying biological purpose of reproduction, even if its not apparent. The unholy trinity we find ourselves stuck in is that of masturbation/sex, pornography/erotic media, and all the rest of the time we spend preoccupied with sex, sensual love, women's bodies, etcetera.
While at first this seems like a depressing realization which means that to varying degrees, we are all sex addicts by design, and especially myself being high test and the type of autistic that is preoccupied with sexuality and not much else (as opposed to the typical low libido train aficionado) may as well be doomed to have my life revolve around this trinity of sexual obsession until my libido declines further with age.
You see, sex, masturbation, fantasizing, porn, cuddling, its all the same shit ultimately I like it because it serves to bring me closer to the point of ejaculating, which my mind-body perceives as spreading my seed, even if I'm just making another stain on the wall. 2 months ago or so I've reached what I call a resolution of celibacy, that because this all leads to ejaculation, and I always feel depleted of vital life energy afterwards, a sensation I would never want to experience in the company of women, and better of without altogether, I would like to life as if asexual. I also notice that when I feel my best is when I just happen to be not thinking about sex for a while, as if I'm completely oblivious to the lure of the female form and the sensation of stimulating my cock.
Yet, without fail, every time since that I went a week or more without cumming, I went back to thinking about sex an awful lot. Now I don't know what to do yet, its a battle of brain versus balls, but I hope I can face reality and anticipate what will happen if I successfully nofap again.
>>25799960 Get your shit straight financially. This is one of the reasons why I have such a hard time relating with younger people, they don't think ahead at all and waste their money on stupid shit like drugs or alcohol. The terrifying thing about getting older is suddenly realizing just how fragile your life situation is, it took me being homeless to realize this and it was a horrible experience. That also had a lot to do with why I could never find gf, no girl wants a poor bf.
>>25799572 You act like I have a choice. Once you're in your 30s you're gonna nofap anyway whether you like it or not, your sex drive diminishes exponentially as you get older.
I read these threads. Logically I know OP is giving good advice and I need to follow it to avoid his fate since I am in my mid 20s. Yet I go to sleep and wake up and keep browsing boards doing nothing with my life.
>>25800497 Not interested in sex just for the sake of sex, it's a waste of money
>>25800448 My job, strangely enough, is the only thing that keeps me happy. It pays barely above min wage but I'm on my own most of the time and don't have to deal with idiots.
>>25800505 Yes I've tried dating sites but the only women who ever reply back are older women my age. And women in their late 30s/40s are terrible, they're either single moms or washed up Stacies who wasted their youth. Younger women don't bother replying back, they're not interested in a guy as old as their dads unless you're rich or handsome.
>>25800444 Over the years I've also seen many older and wiser wizards warning me of the future, telling me to get my shit together, yet here I am. >no girl breathes in my direction >forced to see qts interacting with normal people in uni >bonds and relationships forming >its much more soul crushing in reality than it sounds >suffer quietly all day every day for years, and for years to come >realise my situation won't change unless I change >being social just overwhelms introverted me >tfw
>>25800565 My coworker did that mail order thing a few years ago. Now he's divorced, broke, and even angrier and more bitter than I am. His misfortune is one of the few things that gives me happiness, he fucked up even harder than I did in life.
>>25800670 I was like you and waited until I was 23 then said fuck it and decided not to be a virgin believe me it is a mental burden. I am not saying make it a habit because that would probably numb you inside but getting rid of an obstacle that you obsess about every day feels good desu
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