Why are girls the ones doing the approaching these days?
At least for me that seems to be the case now. Whether it's just a friends thing, or it leads to some dates (sometimes with me being asked out), girls are lot more forward and direct. And even if they're not the ones making the move, they're still much warmer and approachable than before.
Strangely, though, it's usually girls in either the 18 - 22 age group, or 27+; almost never in between (at least that I know of).
Dubya-tee-eff, mate? I doubt I'm alone on this one.
>mfw girl has been giving me big smiles lately whenever she looks at me
>Why are girls the ones doing the approaching these days?
Women age like milk. men age like wine. You increased in value and they dropped which closed a gap. You will likely continue to increase as they continue to decrease. They are trying to cash out while they still can.
You changed something about yourself. Haircut, clothes, body, tone of voice, level-headedness, smiling more
It could be a variety of reasons, but mostly likely you got good clothes + have grown into your genes. I was an ugly duckling up until about a year ago, so I know what it's like.
Weirdly enough though, it makes me angry that the level of niceness given to us isn't given to everyone equally.
They know more and more men are avoiding subpar women such as themselves, so they're trying to compensate for that loss by closing in.
It really matters only if said woman has never openly been approached by a man before. Many forward women are not often approached, so they have to do it themselves. But there are always exceptions to the rule.
>Weirdly enough though, it makes me angry that the level of niceness given to us isn't given to everyone equally.
Or at least given proportionally. Giving everyone the same amount of kindness is impossible. But you can still give amounts that aren't overbearing or underwhelming in comparison to others.
>women age like milk
I didn't believe the memes until I saw it with my own eyes. women age like milk. I lost contact with a girl for a year and then ran into her at a store. In one years time she aged like shit, she was the same weight, didn't smoke, or have cancer she just curdled in the sun I guess
Might be an age thing. Maybe you improved your value. Or maybe you changed social circles.
I noticed that lowly educated women rarely take the first step, while women of a "higher quality" more often do so. Sounds a bit like a contradiction but I think it has to do with them not being happy with the men on offer but actively looking for a Chad whereas dumber chicks like gym Chad's dick well enough.
Who cares if he doesn't know where Moldova is?
They've never heard of that place, anyway.
>got bullied by qt girls a decade ago in school days
>now in late 20s often attending fortnight school reunions
>some former bullies approach me with hints and flirts
>their looks deteriorated and past their prime
>smugface.png and gives them false hope
>fucking sweet revenge
I've noticed something similar, although not quite the same
>People have been smiling at me in the street, while usually I just get lots of cold stares
>Cashier girls have been more friendly and smiley too
>I've had friends I assumed would never speak to me again, call me and ask to meet (two of them)
It might not seem like a huge deal, but it's really strange all this has only happened in the last week, like the universe decided to lay off me a bit
Only real change is that I've got slight stubble for the first time in my life, I've always shaved it up until now, but that would hardly effect the people who rang me