My best friend just awkwardly mentioned that he was a virgin the other day while we were in the gym's sauna. I was like no way man. Dude's:
>rich, he basically could never work and spend 100k+ in allowance besides living expenses and that's before inheritance
>buff as fuck
>smart and dedicated, he has a bachelor of computer science and marine biology with a minor on illustration at age 27
>he can play the guitar and piano
>he's an alright artist and has been trying to learn how to sculpt recently
>is actually a pretty nice and polite dude, actually disturbingly humble about his many talents
>speaks 3 languages(spanish, english and french)
I cannot fathom how a man with all these gifts has never even indirectly attracted women. I didn't inquire as to whether that was intentional or not but it came as we were talking about companionship after his 15 year old died and shit.
I don't know, /r9k/ just came to my head with all the people who complain about nogf but there's this guy who's probably better off than 90+% than all of us. It just sort of came as a surprise but looking back, he has many robotlike traits which is why we get along so well. He doesn't like to party for starters and a lot of our hobbies overlap so we always clicked.
What category would my friend fall under for /r9k/ standards if he's clearly not a Chad or robot?
Attention grabbing image.
he's the true male.
he hasn't chased anyone and he's clearly waiting for someone to chase him. but clearly the girl he wants has to be on his level and that's going to be increasingly hard. being a virgins a shock but hell anything can happen.
He probably has attracted women. The problem is that he is a man, and it is the man's role to pursue women. So if he has never pursued a woman, it is very understandable that he is a virgin.
>is actually a pretty nice and polite dude
Found the problem OP. Girls want Alpha fucks, and not beta bux. Tell him to stop being a bluepill faggot and learn to be a god damn man.
I'm similarly accomplished but shy around women I'm interested in. They show interest but I don't pursue.
>tfw had one gf and she did all the pursuing
Feels bad man
I actually don't think women care about most of that shit. If he advertised his money he could get attention from golddiggers, but that would be dumb. You have more luck with women if you're a drug dealer or some dumb violent criminal.
>...but it came as we were talking about companionship after his 15 year old died and shit.
>27 year old Virgin
>15 year old late child
You would be wrong about that. Elon actively chased after his first wife in university but ended up putting work way before her so that ended in a divorce. He married, divorced, and remarried a British actress.
He sounds like a nice guy, and also proof that your attitude and how you behave is the primary trait that decides if you will be able to attract a mate
Did you talk about it much with him?
What was said?
I was in the same boat as your friend - well except the being rich part.
In the end it's just about meeting the right person that fits your personality, so it hits off and you gotta grab the chance by the balls, being ready to make a mistake in the process.
... Huh. It can be done then.
... I was starting to have doubts about being successful + virgin at the same time.
Time to actively pursue this life then.
>Did you talk about it much with him?
It was basically me saying how I get lonely sometimes because I don't see my family anymore. Then he mentioned how he felt his place was less lively without his dog now too. Then I made a joke about how women sometimes fill the passing void but then it went down like this:
>Well, I'm no good with women.
>What do you mean?
>I've never been with someone.
>No, not even a girlfriend. I had a friend when I was younger but I moved out of town soon after.
I didn't inquire further but it seemed clear to me that he just didn't have much experience with women and there was a bit of shame on his tone of voice.
I mean, I suppose it's different from a robot though since he could clearly get a girlfriend if he wanted to but seems to either not actively choose to or the planets aligned and he never had a chance.
Now that I think about it, he WAS on an all male catholic elementary school but he was in mixed institutions from middle school onwards.
>same reason why you sometimes see 2/10 fat ugly cunts walking around with 7-8/10 gfs
>it all comes down to luck in the end
I would say it more comes to confidence and just flat out asking.
no, women think that placing you in a position where the man can make the first move is them making the first move. an example was at a party I was at maybe a month ago.
>bit of sexual tension between a girl and me
>house party at her house
>party's dying down
>she takes me upstairs to show me something
>we end up fucking because i had to make the first move
>we talk about it after and she tries telling me how she likes to take the lead and isn't afraid to make the first move
>i kissed her first
>she wouldn't have done anything had i not done that
>no signals whatsoever, took a big risk
>i made the first move, but she thinks she did bc she led me upstairs
>no, women think that placing you in a position where the man can make the first move is them making the first move
This makes no fucking sense, what the fuck kinda logic is this?
It makes sense. Women just have to provide opportunities and encouragement for men to demonstrate their interest, and it will happen. They can't explicitly show their own interest because it's too forward, and a poor mating strategy- serving their pussy up on a plate to someone who may not even be particularly interested (but will take any opportunity given) is a bad idea. Therefore, they give men the chance to show how interested they are beforehand.
i noticed you didn't mention his height, he was probably 5'6
The problem is that a lot of people like to comfort themselves by thinking that women's standards make logical sense, when oftentimes they don't.
I know a guy who has a MBA and built his own refinery business form the ground up and it's turning a nice profit, add to that a few other side ventures he makes money off too.
His fiance cucked him with a graffiti artist in their bed.
There are good, talented, intelligent men that go without any female affection and there are men we would all consider morally bankrupt or downright evil who are rolling in pussy.
Generally, women's sexual instincts are calibrated for an ancient environment, and it shows.
Why do omegas always list traits and achievements and act like they're what attracts females?
You're not playing WoW - the only girls who would ever clinically tick off your achievements are the very worst kind of girl.
I've had whores stick their face up towards mine with their eyes closed and their lips puckered, if they were tall enough they would have kissed me first, it happens, not very often though.
I specifically said that achievements are *not* necessarily what gets you pussy. Can you read?