Mine was jealous as fuck...she was worried about my some of my friends that were girls taking me from her (I had been friendzoned by them like in 4th grade so no way in hell anyways). She just seemed a bit off her rocker, but we did game a lot together, she used to stream twitch n shit
>>25797256 I think so yes. Never been with another girl, don't have any friends, never had a job and current college dropout. We relate well enough I guess, though we don't interact much even spending all our time together. I think having a Stacey gf would be a lot of work and she'd be unhappy with me so no thanks.
>>25797153 No. They have a large pool of guys pining for them. I had this conversation with a girl I dated who would get panic attacks, >What are we going to do when I move? >"I'll find another guy" >What? Just that easy? >"Yeah, I'm a girl who's into nerdy things." >So what? There's a large market for you? >"Yup"
My current gf is pretty beta. She pretty much has no friends even when I first met her. I think she is beautiful but she has that awkward beta gril look to her I can admit. We met through some mutual friends (more like acquaintances) at an anime convention. She shares the same tastes in shitty music as me and likes to play games and watch anime. Not much else hobbies beyond that. We now live together and after work we both just laze around the house watching anime or playing games. She plays mostly mmos which aren't my thing but I still feel like I lucked out on common interests. Shes my first weeb gf and I would say my tastes in what I find attractive in women have changed because of her. She isn't bothered by my shit social skills because she is a bit worse in that department.
My gf is quite socially awkward, shy and really introvert. That's actually what made me like her in the beginning (apart from her being a really cute half asian girl. I like asian women). But it's starting to be a bit annoying desu. I later found out that she has undergone hormone treatment and stopped before it was completed for health-related reasons. You'd never be able to tell by looking at her, but for example she has her period about once in three months and it has some other effects on her as well. It's almost impossible to make her cum and after fucking for about 10 minutes she's almost dried out although she'd like to go on. Probably hormone related as well. She was a virgin when we got together and understandably in the beginning the sex was quite awkward. But it still is kind of. She just has no idea what to do, I have to take complete control of the situatuon every time. Like, she said multiple times that she kind of likes sucking my dick but she'd never just do it. And asking her to do so seems kind of inappropriate after I've done it several times. I still have hope that she'll turn into a bit less of an awkward person. Recently I'm thinking about leaving her quite often but I don't want to hurt her because I actually really like her. I'd be too beta to dump her just like that I think.
>>25797518 Often enough I guess and she tries to make it once a day at least though it's not consistent. Like if we're just really bored and have nothing to do we'll have sex a few times a day as a way to break the monotony. If we get a new game or find a tv show to watch though we might not do anything for many days or longer. She gives head sometimes though nether of us like oral that much so prefer just normal sex. We're both neets yeah, I said we just sit in our room together all day.
>>25797517 >>25797605 We originally talked about how we were the only people we knew that liked cheesy vocal trance from 90's and 00's. She also likes kpop, jpop and older techno/house which is what none of my other female friends liked at all.
>>25797153 Definition of Beta is blurry as fuck for girls OP. My brother has a /r9k/ style beta gf. Me and my bro are real close, I kept on telling him to dump her before he goes into 'pity' mode instead of love, but he keeps on saying their relationship is rather casual and he won't 'pity' her.
>she led a rather sheltered life >has no actual hobbies, literally none. Not into animu and vidya, doesn't even read books or browse internet for fun >uses her free time to study (which she does bad in her subjects compared to my bro who rarely studies), or call my bro and tell him about how bored she is >can't cook, can't do household chores >paranoid with low self esteem and emotionally fragile >horrible sense of humor, rather easily offended and prone to crying, sometimes emotionally blackmailing my bro >only saving grace is that she's a qt
>>25797713 Let me see if I can get one of our roommates cameras or even just phone. I'll get her to hold the timestamp if I can get it.
>>25797774 Luck I guess. We were both neets while our families were normies, so they decided to just push us together. Originally it was just to see what kind of horrorshow would result and how hard things would crash and burn for their entertainment but when we sort of got along they pushed us to get married.
If an average robot life is like 2-4, then I'd say 4-5 just because I have her so things are a little better than being alone neet with no life. Our situation is still pretty bleak especially looking towards the future.
>>25797977 She had one bf before me in high school so more experienced but not that experienced overall I think. She's also older though so it makes sense for her to be more experienced.
>>25798095 I dont know anon, maybe my standards for gf material are rather idealistic. Me and my bro are weebs. My social circles are full of qt weebs so I prefer a comf weeb gf material with the same wavelength, while my bro socialize more with chads.
7.5/10 grill with a super beta personality I know is now dating a legit autist. He's an autist, so I doubt I'd get any info out of him even if I asked him. She makes more money than he does. Big cock? He's a fucking autist, man. I also want a beta grill with above average looks.
I'm dating an awkward as fuck girl right now. been together for about 4 nearly 5 months. her face is pretty average but strangely her body is fucking extremely fit and hot, shes one of those girls whos ultra self conscious so she wears baggy clothes thus you can't really see just how hot she is. We get along pretty well, only ever get into an arguement every once in a while. She's into some kinky shit though, pretty sure a lot of that stems from the nutty amount of anime and hentai she watches but I'm not gonna bitch about getting laid.
>>25797153 I had one, and you don't want one. The worst part is they don't have many friends, so they expect to do everything with you. This gives you very little alone time (time used to play vidya) and also time used to hang out with your friends.
Besides that there are positives, such as low chance of being cucked
My last gf was definitely beta as fuck. She was a very nice girl but she thought guys would only like her if she had sex with them.
I thought I liked her but in the end I broke up with her because she irritated me. She said she loved me and all I had to say was "I have nothing to say to that." and shortly after we broke up.
To be fair she was insanely jealous and would always be like "Whos that?" whenever she saw a girls name and she was super needy. The jealousy thing fucked me off more than anything because I'm an honest guy and shes easy as shit.
>>25797153 i hope you find the perfect beta girfriend for you op. the one that is your soul mate and fits in every cathegory exactly to you. and you will see, she leaves you to fuck dozens of other cocks, come eventually back and go again to fuck more cocks. and i hope you stop annoying people with your gay threads.
>>25800841 >>25800860 When talking about past crushes she seemed to be attracted to quieter guys in school but never had the courage to ask them out. It still kind of angers me that we encourage this behavior of having the males be the ones asking the females.
>>25801768 she got them done a little after we got together. Not sure what being shy and wanting piercings have to do with each other. There are piercings and tattoos that she has wanted since before we were together.
My girlfriend is westernised Japanese (She can speak Japanese, her parents can't speak english, but she speaks english perfectly fine and has the accent of my country, so basically born and raised here)
When we first started dating it was awkward and silent a lot, she never talked, never came out of her shell, took about 2 months but we got there.
>>25802088 I've never had success with meeting up with girls online. All the girls I've ever been with I met in person. Although I don't leave the house most weeks I do have hobbies and I try to force myself to get out to events that have to do with those. I really enjoy anime conventions so I tried to socialize with as many people as I could. I'm not a fat neckbeard but I'm a fairly unattractive skinnyfat with a babyface. Girls will overlook ugliness to an extent if you can socialize well with them.
>>25802239 I had to force myself to get out. I know thats not what a lot of people here want to hear, but I realized that you can't meet people if you don't get out.
>>25802245 Again, I met her at an anime convention. The largest in my area. I will admit I had to work at this. I have been going to this con for years and made a lot of friends with similar interests. It became easier and easier to meet girls through other friend's friends.
Previous girlfriend (long time ago) I met at an arcade. Basically try and find somewhere that has to do with your interests and force yourself to go.
>>25802309 *takes notes* ok 2: how i recognise a TRUE one? Maybe she is just a bored normie, or a normie that also likes anime(they exists, i know some...They are normie bitches but they like a couple of anime or they just like weird cosplays), or the infamous "fake nerdy girl"...
>>25802368 >>25802368 thanks for the advice, it means a lot. I hope you're not lying to us because it does make me feel good that this sort of thing can happen, sucks that you need to go outside for it but maybe this'll be what gets me to fix myself.
>>25802394 You will never be able to tell if she is a complete normie. But if se turns out to be one thats not necessarily bad. If you can't tolerate whatever level of normieness she is then you can just leave her and collect the exp that robots so desperately need.
>>25802541 >>25802541 I've been consumed with apathy towards fixing these problems, the one time that has changed was when I got close to a girl online but it fell through, I'm hoping this thread lights a spark within me. dropped out of high school and have been a NEET shut-in for the past 8 years, I fear my mind is beyond all hope, cemented in this lifestyle and incapable of learning.
The girl in that pic could easily have sex with tall, fit, 8/10 men.
In fact women that have self esteem issues are even worse since they'll spread their legs to every good looking guy that gives them attention when they're young and become bitter cat ladies as they get older because "all men are jerks that only used them for sex".
>>25802660 >been a NEET shut-in for the past 8 years
Yeah I was like that too, until my 25th birthday when I had some kind of mental breakdown over how shit I and my life was. I don't remember it too clearly, but I ended up resolving to fix my shit.
I went from not being able to make eye contact with people that were talking to me, to getting a job, moving out and losing my virginity in just over a year. You'll be surprised what you can accomplish in a relatively short time.
Your life can seem like one unfixable mess, but it becomes more manageable if you break the big problems up into smaller and smaller problems and just focus on addressing them one at a time
Replace the time you spend on this shitty board with time spent fixing little things. For example right now you could probably clean your room or something, do some laundry, look online for books (bookzz.org) about learning social skills or fixing some other problem. Look for voluntary work opportunities so you can get some experience and a reference for a proper job while practicing your social skills. Research some non-shit social hobbies that you could take up. Find a physical activity that you might enjoy. etc.
>>25804415 she starts saying sorry and then it goes into this downward spiral of trying to make her happy and reassuring her that she's not a piece of shit. Its just a lot of work and very tiring at the end of the day
>>25797153 Yes. >ask nerdy music girl out >she was previously preyed on by an asshole who looked for low self esteem girls and exploited them >we date >she's incredibly self conscious >she decided she doesn't want any >breaks up with me
Just the fact you have a relationship at all means you're less introverted than me. The only girl I would want to date would have to have no interest in dating and be disliked in general by everyone around her all her life.
>she was degraded and fucked senseless by a dominant man who made her pussy wetter than I ever could and she loved every second of it and probably went back to him after leaving me because I bought her sob story like the spineless simp I am
>>25797153 yeah,hear we go >Meet a beta girl at school >instant love for her >we talk >ask her out >like the fucking idiot she was she says yes >feelsgoodman.jpg >we go on dates every wednesday >one time >she doesnt show up >nopls.jpg >i head to her apartment >i have a spare key >i put key in door >twist key >open door >And..... I'll cont.
>>25806834 cont. >And.... >i walk in >dark >i check her apartment >hear moaning coming from bedroom >shit.png >i head toward bedroom >walk in >she's getting gangbanged by 5 dudes >she's wear a pikachu costume,has shit all over her and is wearing a diaper because she has weird fetishes >i grab a bat and beat the shit out of 2 dudes,the others ran >"blease furgib me anun!!XDXDXD" >NOMERCfY.jpg >i get her gun she uses for protection >about to off myself >realize >i can do better then her >just have to try >leave her apartment it doesnt end there pt.2/3
>>25806975 Okay,final part,very satisfying for me >she presses charges against me for abuse >did not have enough proof against me >i win $50,000 >yeboi.mp3 >she gets aids from the guys >she also got prego >texted me yesterday >"hay anon,wanna grab a drink?" >"no,because you're a disgusting person >her friend texts me today >she commited suicide i feel bad for her offing herself,but getting $50,000 was so satisfying
>>25800466 I think they have them I just don't think they're ready for what happens when gf meets chad for the first time then she'll be begging for forgiveness "I--I wanted to have an experience.. he... he tricked me! i love you, i DO!"
beta girls are more open about calling others on bullshit than beta males. Beta girls can be real bitches once they get their confidence. All that guilt tripping they put you through for not being a better person and you can't say anything back because she's right.
>>25797153 I was diagnosed with autism when I was 5 years old, back in 1987, back before everyone was getting diagnosed with this weird not quite autism stuff.
Everyone in school thought I was weird, I said weird things, I knew the answers to everything, I didn't do any homework or papers but outscored everyone on tests.
One girl became obsessed with me and stalked me all of sophomore year. (I found out about this later)
She had her friends drop hints but of course I was oblivious. I started running into her everywhere, her friends kept finding ways of putting the two of us together and would constantly dish out tons of innuendo.
One day they manipulated me into basically asking her out. She didn't really have any reaction.
Then a little later she kept me after school when she caught me walking home, told me to sit with her on some benches, she sat behind me and gave me a shoulder massage.
Some girls came up to us and said "hey are you guys boyfriend and girlfriend? we see you together all the time."
I said nothing, she said "yeah he asked me out last week"
They responded "omg you guys are so cute together, ok bye" (I've come to learn this was a setup also).
Long story short, she took over my life. We're married now, and I really don't know how any of this happened, but I really love her.
Not going to say what class I met the girl but >cute slightly chubby girl, nice face as well, 21 years old >solid 7/10, if she became fit, would be a 7.5 maybe 8 >has no friends >never has done anything sexual before >I was the first guy guy she got naked for ever, I was the first she ever gave a blow job too She's cool, but I don't think I love her. Kinda sucks because she's my first kiss/first oral as well. Didn't fuck though.
>>25809498 >They responded "omg you guys are so cute together, ok bye" (I've come to learn this was a setup also). >Long story short, she took over my life. We're married now, and I really don't know how any of this happened, but I really love her. That's sweet as fuck dawg. But why are you on /r9k/?
>Find shy, red head, QT3.14 >Crushin on her for a long time >finally get together >She's shy and a bit odd but I love it >We get married >She practically loses all the shy, cute, awkwardness >Becomes a huge bitch that complains and whines about anything >Literally any time she talks, it's to complain about something >Dont' share interests >Dont share hobbies at all
Kill me, I trapped myself and didnt even see it coming. All she talks about now is how she is excited to have kids with me and I don't want any of that shit. Im terrified just thinking of living a boring adult "dad" life. Fucking end me. She's way too loyal and won't even come close to cheating on me either, so I can't bank on that,
I once dated an autistic robot. She posts here more than I do. She was great, but just about any kind of emotional problem was the biggest deal ever. There was the case of me not being able to keep up with her in games we both liked. The real problem is once you gain trust you're in for life. Once you break it, you're out for life because they never forget or forgive that shit.
>>25809597 >>Becomes a huge bitch that complains and whines about anything >>Literally any time she talks, it's to complain about something Probably because she is comfortable with you. Is she shy with others?
After we got married, my wife told me that nearly all of the interactions we had in high school her friends were basically gently coaching me.
On one hand, it's sorta weird to learn that I could be manipulated into basically living a life that someone else wanted. On the other hand it is also very flattering that my wife would take such an interest in me to go to such lengths.
She's completely enamored with me, she laughs at all of my jokes, she takes care of me, made me go to college, she pushes me in my career.
I'm not posting a pic, but she says that I am "absolutely gorgeous" and that I have a really positive personality (my mom taught me manners and I follow them religiously) and that being around me is like a drug.
She also told me that a lot of girls in high school had crushes on me but rumors were going around that I might be gay since I didn't ask anyone out even though I flirted all the time (I wasn't flirting, just making dry humor jokes and being polite).
I was just shy and didn't know how to approach girls.
I did like my wife before we got together, but I thought all of us running into each other was a coincidence. She never really showed obvious interest in me before we got together, turns out she thought I was probably easily spooked and tried to get at me very gently.
>>25809631 Nope, she's a huge bitch with pretty much anyone as long as it isn't a complete stranger. She's only nice when she knows I'm near my breaking point, and doesn't want me to leave her.
I get physically and mentally abused almost daily. One time I said no to sex and she harassed me until I said yes because "guys arent allowed to say no". Pissed me off because she believes all guy stereotypes and whatnot but the female ones don't exist unless they make her life easier.
>>25809693 This is so cute it hurts, anon. I'm really happy for you, but at the same time I hate your guts because I'm so jealous. I wonder if I'll ever have a similar story to tell, or even a qt wife at all.
Our memories are very strong and we have a very strong emotional tie to memories.
So for instance, I just thought about the time a girl that tried to beat up my little brother (she was 8 and he was 4), and I just got angry all over again as if it just happened (face/chest feels hot, quicker pulse, shortness in breath).
>>25809767 I dunno what to say guy, I didn't actually do anything to make this happen except be polite and very attractive (which was something I wasn't aware of). My whole life women and girls who I didn't know would walk up to me to tell me how beautiful my eyes are (they're green). It can be quite disconcerting, especially since I don't really like making eye contact.
>>25809817 I mean if you're attractive, you're attractive. No use ignoring it. And I don't really hate you, your story warms my heart. I'm more frustrated that I haven't met anyone in a while that's really sparked something in my heart. To be honest, in a romance similar to yours I'd rather play the same role as your wife.
>>25809824 Think about this: She will always have that situation with everyone unless she gets another autistic, which I have to say, isn't very likely.
I really don't like autistic women, there is something off about them, like for instance male autistics are typically very neat and tidy but the females are typically slovenly and obnoxious (not all of them though).
Everyone she gets with will have a worse memory, will always have done something that has bugged her that she will have a hard time letting go (especially if he can't remember it).
>>25809899 I saved a lot from her, memories and feelings, but that tends to happen after three years with anyone. Not to mention it's a rather fresh breakup (about four months). That said, so long as her other partners aren't as much of a shit as me, she might have things that bug her less.
>>25809889 Would you reckon you're contented? Least, would you consider yourself so?
I think I may be similar to yourself; I'm so very eager to fall in love again. It's happened before, but never worked out very well. This has been simultaneously my fault, the fault of others, and simple circumstances.
But boy, I sure am ready to give it another crack. I've luckily grown up over the last bit of time into someone who is socially skilled and generally very amiable or affable. But if I'm talking to a girl that I find interesting/attractive/both, I'm not looking to pound that pussy solely or primarily. I'm looking to fall in love like a soppy cunt!
I'm quite lucky that I'm able to remain very content. My own company suits me very well- that isn't something I've had to learn. I consider myself fortunate to have learned to enjoy the company of others, as well.
The worst part of having a shy GF is they usually open up to you, and talk to you. Both are like us, just flat out bad with other people.
It was really weird hanging out with her and my friends, because she barely said a word. I tried to talk to her to get her to talk, and she spoke, but not much so to others. So I gotta say, that's kinda annoying.
Although it still feels special being the only one in there lives. Although a little sad as well.
>>25810017 Lol that's exactly what I thought when i saw your post above mine.
I'd say I'm overall content with my loneliness, at least when I compare it to being in a relationship with any ol' random girl. I've had gfs before, and things didn't work out for various reasons, but I'm pretty confident that if I wanted to date someone I could get a gf. However, I want to make sure the next girl I date is the right one. I'm pretty sexually reserved compared to my peers, so for me the desire comes mostly from wanting that sense of companionship. I want that person I can hold and talk with until late into the night. That partner who knows my darkest insecurities and is still ok with me. Someone to encourage me when I need it the most. And someone who I can do all those same things for. I know that I'm a good enough person to be worth a girl's time, so I'm content with improving myself further and waiting for that tug of romance again. It's only late at night and in threads like these where the feels really break through.
>>25810121 A little backstory a family member of hers told me and when I brought it up to her she started crying and talked to me about it saying she didn't want me to ever know that about her past unless I heard it from her
I was introduce to this one girl back in high school, qt ginger who was two years younger than me. Things were alright when we first met, but then I slowly started learning things about her. She would constantly deprecate herself, had a history of self-harm, and some sketchy previous relationships. Nothing really happened between us and I stopped talking to her. Later on she got a boyfriend whom she falsely accused of rape, and then started dating a nigger.
Yeah, I reckon we are very similar, then. I've not got much to say (for once) because you laid it out very well. Nearly mirroring my feelings entirely!
Well, godspeed, friend. I'm glad we could share a bit of text this evening. I really do like this board quite a lot. There's a certain sizable number of people here that feel very similarly to me, even though I don't perfectly fit the "robot" definition.
Good luck, buddy. We'll turn out alright, I imagine.
>early 2014 >kissless, handholdless virgin >neet for 2.5+ years >begin stalking girl online >hey she's pretty cute >check up on her fb/myanimelist/tumblr every month or so >3 months pass, decide to do something about it >create a club on myanimelist for my small-ish town/area >invite her to the club and wait a little while >she joins! >we send one or two messages to each other but they stop very quickly >after 5 more months in august that year, she replies back - she thought she replied to my last message but forgot to hit send >we add each other on skype very quickly and hit it off, talking for 10-12 hours a day >turns out she's almost exactly like me - neet, knows decent anime, only has one friend and a shut-in who doesn't leave her house for months >after 2 weeks of taking we meet up and grab some sushi >everything goes amazingly great (not much talking, no eye contact except when she'd look up at me and giggle/have this very nervous cute smile) >she comes to my house a few days later and we watch the shining and some shitty cave movie >a few days after that i go to hers and we watch some of her favorite anime movies, and then i shakily ask her if she'd like to start dating >she says yes and i'm on top of the fucking world >we do everything and anything together, puzzles, movies, having our first hand holding experience together, cuddling for the first time, having our first ever kiss with anyone together (she was also a kv), you name it >eventually we start spending every day of our NEET lives with each other, never leaving our sight, sleeping over at the other's house for 3-4 days >fast forward 1 1/2 years later to today and we're still together, celebrated her birthday for the second time together in our relationship a few days ago >feels good having her right beside me right now, knowing that i have someone who accepts me/will do anything for me/tolerates when I dontshower
i don't deserve a qt like this, but for some reason she worships me
>>25810919 thank you for giving me hope can you describe your first time having sex or is that too personnel? Specifically the events leading up to it. How the subject was broached, you or her. Did you plan the date ahead of time or just suddenly tear each others clothes off. Any post sex awkwardness. How did the sex evolve afterwards?
>>25810919 not anon but i'll share >have relatioship with girl met at camping, im 20, she's 17, both virgin >long distance everything is ok but hard, she cheats on me fucks chad, break up >2 year later she comes back to me, im still virgin and stupid, she's legal now, she has her own place now so we can fuck when i go to visit her, about 5 months in she does it again > im devastated and have my exams in 2 weeks, my parents come back from winter holidays say they are gonna divorce, depression.jpg >fail exams, leave uni, demoralised >2 months later meet qt at birthday of one of my very few friend that i had from school >she made a cake, really like her, seems like she likes me too, talk on normiebook a bit, forget about her, 4 months later, contact her again we talk more meet up to cook together because we love it >about after 1 month of hanging around together we go to the movies and i ask her out on the side of the road >silent for literally 2 minutes, myspagettybarelyholding.gif >she says yes, 4months later i take her virginity (she had a few boyfriends before me but never done the deed with them) >she's really cute, loves to read and watch series, has few friends, still more than me, really close to her family that she hates and loves me with all her heart >its been 1 year and 4months we're together now >all is good
>>25812793 she hates her mother in law, her real mother died when she was little, her family makes her do countless chores, for example she has to cook for midday and evening, about 3--4 hours a day, and she doesnt even realise that she is being exploited basically, she has to do all the cooking and the cleaning since she has a part time job, saturdays are spent gardening for at least 5 hours and church on sunday morning, she is so conditionned to not express her discontent that she doesnt say anything and just waits to be able to get out of there, she loves her father and hers brothers and sister but they are unsufferable and dont show any recognition for what she does, she has to pay for her health insurance too really close => she spends a lot of time with and for them hates => because she does so much for them and still get shouted at, shes 24 and cant even dare to ask to sleep at my house
>>25812912 I allready am doing all i can and all she lets me, she doesnt want my money, she spends all the time she can with me and as soon as she finish her studies we will get an appartment together, we're going to brazil for 2 months next summer too
Wish you luck with that, but if you don't treat her like the rest of her family she'll probably cuck you for some dude that does. Girls that are used to being walked on usually resent people that treat them well, especially when they don't live at home for a while. Don't be too overeager to make her happy or her vagina will clamp shut like a snapping turtle.
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