Are there any female 20+ virgins here?
My 23rd birthday is coming up, and the realization is setting in that I will be a virgin in my mid-twenties.
My parents don't seem to understand why I'm concerned, but really, the creepy virgin myth extends to women too.
Much like r9k, I'd like to lose it to someone who has my best interests at heart, but since I was never good at understanding people, I'm not going to trust my safety in the hands of randoms
> not looking forward to being a called a clingy crazy religious nut
> just tell people I'm awkward and am going through a dry spell
> tell me of your struggle, fembots
if you are a girl you have literally no excuse. You could go outside and get a man to have sex with you right now, but you want Chad to come to you and shower you with his time and attention and treat you like the princess you always were. Fucking roasties
I'm about the same age as you, and a kissless virgin. for me it was pretty natural to be this way, I'm not attractive or socially inclined and I don't have any sex drive to motivate me to change. after all these years sex has become something disgusting and fascinating, like something out of a nature documentary. I'll probably die a virgin.
Why don't you robots spend money on fat roasties if you know that's all it takes? It's just money, a small price to pay to be normal.
> b-but women don't have to spend money
Them's the breaks. Men provide money, women provide the feel of being wanted. You can thank
I'm not, but one of my friends is. She's a schizophrenic neet. She's obese but I think she has a pretty face and she's sweet as pie when she's on her meds.
For most women, the real struggle isn't getting sex, it's
1. finding a man behind the dick worth keeping
2. actually keeping him
I'm maybe a 3/10 at best (lazy eye, fucked up teeth, body shaped like a brick) and I've slept with 13 men, the issue is that none of them ever want to be seen with me, much less be in a relationship with me.
It isn't that easy if you are a guy. You need confidence, social skills, the ability to put up with girls' bullshit, money, effort, and if you are not a handsome Chad you have to settle for somebody hideous or obese. I thank feminism.
And this is why everyone on this fucking board complains about being a virgin. I got a fat gf because I was a bit desperate and she's really nice and fun to be around. I ended up liking her a lot and started to better myself for her. I guess she did the same because I got in shape and got a job and she did too. She was like, 215 or so and now she's only 150. Don't get fit for some random girl you don't even know yet. That won't solve your issue. Find a girl you want to impress and make yourself better in order to do it. And even if she rejects you, you have a better shot at getting a gf later since you're in shape/have a job now.
>will not fuck someone very obviously in your league.
No woman can be less than a 5/10 by default so them wanting 8+/10 chads all the time isn't very bad seeing as you 2/10 retards only want a 7+/10 virgin gf and will settle for nothing less.
You know, I'm a robot yes. But I'm actually not an ugly fat robot.
With 'ugly' I literally meant fat. Because a normal weight woman can't be that ugly.
Yes, you're right, if a fat ugly robot would say this.
But I'm not fat and ugly, I'm average. So I'm allowed to have some standards.
>inb4 but you ARE ugly
If you're really bothered by this, why not put more effort into finding a relationship? You don't necessarily have to lower your standards, just spend more time actively looking for dateable guys. There are plenty of places both on and offline where you could find them, it's just a matter of determining which place gives you the best chance of meeting someone you could truly connect with.
Well, I turn 20 next month and I am a khv girl. With all what is said here I wonder the reason is I secretly look shitty, I'm an introverted prude compared to other people and just don't know it, or it's just a side effect of where I live. (small town with my mom and dad)
I have thoughts and dreams. I wonder about the universe and the purpose of man. I write science fiction short stories and paint portraits of people I admire. there's so much more to me than my sex. they'll never know about it.
It's weird, almost everyone in my social circle is pretty well aware I'm a virgin but the only question they ask is why. Couple of them have tried to buy me a whore but I turned them down, not interested.
Girls get weirded out and mean about it because there is nothing a woman hates more than feeling like a slut. The fact that a woman has maintained her chastity offends her because it undermines her belief that "everyone's doing it" and makes her feel morally inferior and insecure. Though most women reject the old mores on sexuality on a surface level, they're still tickling at the back of their consciousness.
Male virginity has never really been seen as valuable so men aren't as concerned with it. It's a hit against my machismo score but I've never really gone for that in life anyways.
Well if robot is defined by being mentally challenged or ugly as fuck, I'm not a robot.
But I don't recall this being the defintion of a robot.
I'm friendless, autistic loser, who can't talk to girls and can't even talk normally to people because of low confidence. I'm a khv and actually never touched a girl besides my mom.
I'm just not fat and ugly.
do you understand what it's like to be part of a gender that is made up of 90% manipulative sluts? people know you before they even talk to you, because you're just a girl, and a girl is more of a child than a fully formed human.
Get off tumblr will you? People don't automatically pay more attention to you if they don't value you sexually. Just think back to high school, and how much people respected Poindexter with his suspenders and pocket protector. Do you think anyone gave a shit about what kind of music he listened to or whatever? Don't listen to the delusional feminists who tell you men have it better somehow.
I met a girl on this board who was 21 and a virgin but I don't know if you count that. I'm quite sure she had blown multiple people and probably tried to have sex unsuccessfully too.
like a 9/10 cutie with rape issues
I want them to pay less attention to me. I want to be on the same level as a man so that if I am successful, I know that it's purely based on my mental qualities and not because I am being handled with kid gloves. I don't want anything more than I deserve, and I deserve almost nothing.
Prostitution isn't illegal in my country though. Should I pay a hooker to get it over with? I could probably even get a one night stand if I tried a few dozen times since I'm not too ugly and able to socialise when I'm drunk.
But why buy some girl in a club drinks when I can get guaranteed sex from a hooker.
Do you also want to be black and poor, grow up in harlem? Or why not Central Africa? Just enjoy the privileges you've been handed like the rest of us. There's no honor in playing life on hard mode.
you have this idea that maleness is some kind of tabula rasa where no one judges you for anything. regardless of your gender you can't control what every person thinks of you, and both men and women have to deal with bullshit that affects how other people perceive their 'accomplishments'.
If you look at certain industries and groups of people they are, but I'd say that in most places they're treated like anyone else. You might be focusing too much on the negative examples or just have never experienced the other side.
>wasted my youth, just getting uglier now
>never stuck anything in vagina before
>didn't even get to the first knuckle
>i'll never have sex
>a-at least i won't get pregnant, right?
>I want them to pay less attention to me
but you're not invisible, if you're a robot you'll get bullied, you'll get robbed, people will still think that you're weird and no one would give a rat's ass about your genitals and your mind. You'd be the weird kid that no one likes. Then you'd have feminism shit on the things you like calling you a rapist while women don't even give you the time of day. My favorite experience was a woman crossing the street in a hurry because I guess that she felt like I was gonna rape her.
That is treating them like children
I do agree, but society is shit to everyone. You're just blind to the problems the other gender faces, just as I'm blind to most of the problems women face. There's no need to turn it into a dick waving contest, because if we did you would lose, seeing as women have it better overall.
I'll be 20 in two weeks, not likely to loose my virginity anytime soon. The only time it bothers me is when my friends have long discussions about sex and I don't really know what to do with myself.
Don't really see why it has to be weird. I have no desire to have sex with anyone I'm not in love with, and I'm not in love with anyone. If people ask about it I just say something like "yeah I don't leave the house much." Which is true.
I was a virgin up till last year, i was travelling and met up with a r9k platonic internet friend. we fell in love and fucked for days straight. He was a virgin too. I was 22 he was 20.
In fact i just dreamt of him yesterday night and woke up crying like a dumb bitch.
>I'm not going to trust my safety in the hands of randoms
>is willing to trust in /r9k/
The glory days are long behind us, m8. The board is at least 65% trolls/normies.
It's not worth trying here. Not anymore.
Try rubbing your clit. With the panty on. If i touch my naked clit my clit actually hurts and stings the whole day. Feels good, requires no penetration too. I hate hate hate digging my own clit.
>That is treating them like children
society wants women to succeed and to assume new career roles to show off their aptitude and intellectual prowess, there's nothing infantilizing about that. going out of your way to reject the opportunities you're given because you're "too good" to accept them is incredibly childish and entitled behavior
Don't take my reluctance to partake in sex with prostitutes to mean that I'm asexual. I think I'd actually enjoy sex. My friends claim I must have some sort of hangup since I not only turned down whores, but also threesome opportunities and one of them outright offered his girl to me.
Maybe it's a hangup, I feel that I'm a romantic, not in the fedora tipping faux-chivilrous sense, but one who's given to fantasy. I don't just want to fuck whores. I want sex that is a spiritual experience. Perhaps an awkward, clumsy and humbling spiritual experience, but I want to feel attachment, I want to feel oneness, divinity. If I just wanted to get my rocks off porn is clearly a far more effective way of doing that.
Men handle one another with kiddy gloves as well. I think a lot of female proponents of an androgynous society seem to miss the underlying complexity of male interaction. There are hierarchies ultimately more important and often more soul crushing than gender, though they manifest themselves in more subtle ways.
I don't disagree but it's easy enough to argue the other way, pampering them too much is treating them like children. Women get shorter prison sentences, it's policy to always arrest the man no matter what in domestic disputes etc. Letting less qualified girls enter STEM programs just because of their vagina... There are tons of places where women are straight up being pampered.
There was another r9k platonic friend, whom i teased him about being handsome, joked that i want to rape him (but he didnt see it as a joke oh well, all the better)
I asked to hang out with this Other Anon but he outright freaked out and said no. All the better desu, he was kinda cute but i dont see myself seeing deep feelings for him
Are you sure you are handled on kiddy gloves due to your gender
Like the only time im handled on kiddy gloves is when people SEE that i do NEED help and GENUINELY trying to help me?? Lol
I get that, but we're not talking about gender inequity, we're talking about OP rejecting opportunities because she is female and wants to be treated "like a man." Men take the opportunities they are given, and good men use that power to make society better. Meanwhile OP can't look beyond her nose, because she's more worried about having society cater to her than helping to make society a better place
Girls are so gross when it comes to this. Always loudly discussing their partners and their sexual prowess. You literally never hear a guy tell his friends about how bomb his girl's pussy is.
I gave up and stopped caring about having sex a long time ago (now 26) but if I met a girl I would ideally want her to be inexperienced as me. That way we could figure these things out together. I know that's completely unrealistic though and even if a girl claimed she was inexperienced I would have to assume it was a lie. Because they lie, en masse, blatantly and shamelessly, to get what they want. When they give you a number you add ten and double it, that's common sense.
The reality is that women can get sex with much less effort, they can find partners with much less effort, and unlike for a man, they do not have to take any initiative. They can wind up having an excellent sex/love life simply by existing and going through their daily routine. For the vast majority of men, that would mean never having sex ever. We cannot stand around hoping some girl "asks us out" because women do not do that. They don't have to. They don't need "game," they don't need "confidence," they don't have to do anything except nod their head.
If you wonder why women are handled with kid gloves it's partially because you have been given an absurd amount of privileges in Western society and instead of breaking the mold and perhaps doing something unorthodox (like asking a guy out or paying for things) you silently take advantage of these privileges while simultaneously crying for even more.
Studies indicate women are far more critical than men, thus I have a hard time accepting these claims that most men aren't relationship material have any credibility. Most women are overweight to varying extremes, low income, uninteresting, zero initiative, basically leeches.
If they were men they would literally never have sex.
>You literally never hear a guy tell his friends about how bomb his girl's pussy is.
Are you kidding me?
>You literally never hear a guy tell his friends about how bomb his girl's pussy is.
What? It happens, m8. Shit guys talk about the sluts they fucked all the time.
A decent bloke won't talk about the sex with his gf, though.
Right, that's what I was getting at initially. Everyone takes the opportunities they are given and tries to make the best out of them. If you wanna live life on hard mode like some sort of novelty then go to Africa and be pick beans all day.
Well that hasn't been my experience at all, no rumors about girls being sleeping around or anything like that. Now that my friends spend most weekends going out to bars I'll maybe occasionally hear about how someone messed up and woke up with a fat chick... But no one is discussing the bra sizes of the women they sleep with, and generally avoid using their names. Maybe I just have better friends than you guys though.
Stopped being interested
Treatable, not a big deal anyway
>don't like eye contact
>weird resting face
Fix the fat part and you've got yourself a bf.
Literally every guy I've met that isn't a virgin loser goes about how hot his ex'es were or how it's so easy to find a girl to fuck. Literally every single one. I'm just going to start carrying out threats to shut up the normalfags.
I agree with most of what you're saying, but I don't understand why it's so upsetting to you.
Males have lower standards than females because for males, having sex is ALWAYS better than not having sex. It doesn't matter how shitty the partner is, you're spreading your seed. Females are more critical because having sex with a shit-tier male may not only result in them having to carry a shit-tier baby for 9 months, but they may also risk having to raise that baby alone.
If women were men and men were women the roles would be completely reversed.
>males, having sex is ALWAYS better than not having sex.
Only vaguely true from an evolutional standpoint that doesn't really apply in today's society.
I'm chosing to not have sex until I find a suitable partner and I'm sure I'm not the only guy. We do seem to be few and far between though.
Except females don't find partners based on reproductive fitness. Literally everything a male chooses (waist, tits, personality, motherliness) directly corresponds to having and raising kids. Everything a woman chooses (height, strength, wealth, attractiveness to other women) is poor indicators of fitness. In modern culture, where we have easy access to wealth, women overwhelmingly choose to not have kids, despite fucking guys way out of their league for years in their youth. Only when they literally get to the point where they'd have more potatoes than humans they start feeling guilt, and then it turns into hatred of men, instead of hatred of their own stupidity.
>literally every first world culture places infinite value on women's rights
>women still won't get pregnant and sue Chad for child support
>Only vaguely true from an evolutional standpoint that doesn't really apply in today's society
Just because it doesn't apply doesn't mean we can't be controlled by it. We don't need to eat when we're not hungry, but we do it anyway because we're genetically programmed to, resulting in obesity.
Strength and wealth are very important qualities that can help with protecting and raising a baby.
I'll be real here, any man worth dating wouldn't settle for her. if a 3/10 is attracted to you, then chances are there's 7/10's out there for you. Why would you settle for her? whore or not?
You're under the dumb impression that people can date within their own league.
Strong guys are multiple times more likely to beat the shit out of their partners and children, and women get addicted to that shit. When was the last time your father had to protect you or your mother with his muscles? Oh right, never, because we haven't had to do that for hundreds of years, let alone thousands if you're white.
Wealth has little to do with raising kids, you'd know if you didn't get wet at a guy wearing a suit.
>wealthy couples have 1-0 kids
>niggers have 10
>it's evolution! money corresponds to fitness!
>Strong guys are multiple times more likely to beat the shit out of their partners and children, and women get addicted to that shit.
yeah those guys have far too much "toxic masculinity" don't they. a guy can't have masculine qualities and still be a good person. men are evil and cause all wars. end patriarchy now.
>If you're really bothered by this, why not put more effort into finding a relationship? You don't necessarily have to lower your standards, just spend more time actively looking for dateable guys. There are plenty of places both on and offline where you could find them, it's just a matter of determining which place gives you the best chance of meeting someone you could truly connect with.
Let's genderswap this.
> There are plenty of places both on and offline where you could find them, it's just a matter of determining which place gives you the best chance of meeting someone you could truly connect with.
I literally can't imagine any place with girls I could connect with. I don't think girls like that even exist.
> not a slut
> beautiful and not fat goes without saying
I'd settle for anyone not fat who likes me, but since no girl ever has liked me, I don't even know where I could find that.
I agree that in many ways, women are treated as children in a way. Ie, quotas to hire more women when the person most qualified should get the job on merit rather than having a vagina. I think that much of this comes from 3rd wave feminism. They push for women to receive special treatment under the guise that there is a patriarchy or rape culture, when crimes as a whole have and continue to be downwardly trending. It's extremely patronizing and insulting to women who actually have qualities and value intelligence.
Online is your only bet, and you have to poach them young too. Even the shyest girls have had sex by the time they turn 18, let alone 20. That's why you only have until you're about 23 to find a gf, after which talking to 16 year old girls starts getting way too creepy. If you don't have a gf by 23 you're fucking done for. And the worst part is that even if you think you've picked out a nice one, it's a complete crapshoot at that age. They could change into a completely different person over night.
Well it seems like you have high standards which in my opinion is a good thing. You just need to make sure you're holding yourself to a similar level. Do you attend university? Clubs and organizations on campus all attract a wide variety of people, and if you join some you might just find what you're looking for. For examples, I have a lot of friends on the fencing team, both male and female, and a few couples have sprouted from that club. As long as you're not falling for an obvious trap like the anime or game design club you'll at least increase your odds. It's not easy, but focus on improving yourself and being open to opportunities that arise will at least give you a shot.
>Strong guys are multiple times more likely to beat the shit out of their partners and children
I'm sure you have a great source to back this up.
>When was the last time your father had to protect you or your mother with his muscles? Oh right, never, because we haven't had to do that for hundreds of years
Evolution is slow as fuck, plus, strong males will still have an advantage in getting the females they want because they can scare the weaker ones off.
Please correct me.
You know what's funny is that lesbian relationships have the highest rates of domestic abuse. Gay guys, male on female and female on male rates are about the same, lesbians are in a different league.
> tfw I'm 25
brb committing sudoku.
> You just need to make sure you're holding yourself to a similar level.
I do. I match everything on that list, though I can't really do anything to make my 7/10 face better. I eat healthy, do cardio, read a fuckton and learn new things.
> uni clubs
Too old, I graduated two years ago.
> It's not easy, but focus on improving yourself and being open to opportunities that arise will at least give you a shot.
I've been improving myself for the last decade now, it's basically all I do. Haven't ever had a single opportunity though, I'll tell you if I ever see one.
21 y/o virgin, though I may not ever lose it. I've got a messed up family and a lot of disabilities because of it. Only guys I've spent time with, including robots, I think were repulsed and wanted nothing to do with me.
Like what? Because unless you're horribly physically deformed then it's probably not a good excuse. I bet you just have a couple of anxiety disorders like everyone else does. Big whoop.
Dude you're 25. Go to a bar or pub every other day and binge drink like a teenager until you work up enough courage to talk to someone, it doesn't even have to be a woman either, just someone. Keep doing that and you're chances of finding love will be better.
Thanks for the offer but I'm not in Europe. Also I kind of would like not just get pumped and dumped.
Muscular dystrophy so I can't move very well and frequent seizures, autism, weak immune system, to name a few.
US south. The repeatedly inbred kind of messed up.
Nobody cares if you have a brain or not when you're an anti-social cunt.
Being anti-sexual is pretty much the same as being anti-social, and nobody is fooled by that "asexuality" garbage. Open your legs so that we can at least know if you're a living organism with feelings or just another robotic agent of feminist intrigue... we will concern ourselves with the question your possible humanity AFTER you treat us like human beings first.
>Muscular dystrophy so I can't move very well and frequent seizures, autism, weak immune system, to name a few.
The seizures I don't know if I could handle, seeing a loved one like that would freak me out. The others don't really matter.
Still a better chance than doing nothing at all. Bar sluts can love just as much as any autistic neckbeard.
If you drink enough you'll learn to like it. If the taste bothers you that much then just get a pina colada or some shit. How do you think Chads break the ice so easily when their alone with a woman they want to hook up with? THEY DRINK WITH THEM! It's that simple.
I already volunteer, if you count open source software. I know people all over the world, my name is pretty known in some circles, and it's gotten me job offers. Obviously zero women there though.
There aren't really other kinds of charities in my city, animal shelters and such. Red cross and WWF moneybeggers sure, but those are all frauds anyway.
Hobbies and shit
>I'm sure you have a great source to back this up.
Indeed I do:
I don't even need to explain the kids part: look up ANY statistics on how often step-parents beat foster children or step-children. Women fuck Chad for free kids, and then try to find some cuck, only to realize the only men they like are abusive to them and their children.
>chads need to drink to flirt
I'm a 13 year old virgin I can flirt whenever I want
I can do this because for a semester at college I flirted on everything I felt I remote urge to do so with. It's not a big deal anymore.
Subpar is subjective, who cares anyway? It's not like you have to impress anyone, beggars can't be choosers, friend. Find some qt slut and give her the love that the other guys that have pumped and dumped her haven't.
Texas? I used to have seizures as a kid. Scary stuff. My dad would come running into my room at night and perform the heimlich maneuver thinking it would help. Do you know why you get the seizures? I never found out and they eventually stopped.
>Bar sluts can love just as much as any autistic neckbeard.
Go look up how divorce rates relate to number of previous sexual partners buddy.
You sound like a better version of me. If you can't get a gf then what chance do I have...
>fucking because you're lonely
Spot the roastie lol
>a man is strong
>women throw themselves at him
>people worship him at work and in clubs
>parents provide for him because they know he's going to be turbo-easy mode
>a man is intelligent, wants a family, has hobbies and interests
>ewww gross what a disgusting creep
Literally when a Chad gets a math degree and teaches it makes the news.
>so manly teaching 101 math makes him a god in the eyes of normies
Tennessee. I'm pretty sure the seizures come from the muscular dystrophy but I could be wrong. I'd just always believed that since they happen if a lot of sudden force gets put on me. If someone hugs me tight or shoves me it can happen as a result.
> top 5 books?
Hard to pick, but let's try.
> A deepness in the sky
> Definitely, maybe
> Fear index
> The white plague
> your speciality?
Chili meatloaf with mashed garlic potatoes and some nice sauce.
> what languages?
C and C++ mainly, shorter stints with loads of others. Have done Java, Go, some asm, JS, Perl, TCL, GLSL.
> had anything published?
Yes, one Linux book. Haven't written any complete fiction book, my writing is more for my games.
Yes, I've finished several games for several platforms, including consoles.
I'm sorry for trying to help you man. Not saying you have to love them, having sex with them could boost your confidence with the gals. At least experiment, what have you got to lose? Worst case scenario you're awkward, but who cares? She's a skank, and you're both drunk. When I was on the verge of suicide I was lonely and doing the whole self-improvent thing just like you. Then I came to realize that as long as there's a way out, I don't have to take life seriously anymore. I might as well start doing shit outside of my comfort zone, because morals and feelings aren't important since we're all gonna die anyway. Might as well make the most of it. That's how I transcended to reclusive robot to social normie.
It's just sex, though. It's nothing more. You are no worse than a roastie whore if you only desire women just for sexual purposes. In the end, it's not sex that I want, it's the feeling that somebody cares about me.
Even if a 3/10 roastie slept with 13 men, she wouldn't be able to get that feeling.
Of course they can, I'm living proof. See, that's your problem. You guys can't transcend if you don't belive in yourself. And no, I wasn't a failed normie. I was a miserable robot that loathed in self pity, despite trying to self improve myself in hopes of finding a woman to save me from my solitude. And you know where that got me? Nowhere, simply because I had the wrong attitude.
These threads always amaze me. I am a 22yo virgin male and I have never felt inclined to approach, let alone court, a girl in a romantic context. I am not asexuall but for some reason I feel completely ambivalent towards members of the fairer sex I meet and only the ones that are pronouncedly sexual or intellectually entertaining ( yes yes fedora meme ) illicit a response from me.
Am I broken?
Old used up whore here (just kidding, I'm 28, two bfs, bretty good if you ask me).
I don't know if OP will still read this but:
I lost my virginity at 22 to a man I loved. The relationship fell apart after 3 years but I have no regrets.
Sex is just that - sex. It's really underwhelming once you have it. It's nice. But it's not as groundbreaking as this board in particular claims.
There are two conclusions you can draw from this.
1. Just have sex, it doesn't matter
or 2. (the one I lean towards) It's just sex, there's no reason to worry about not having it
Your problem isn't being a virgin. Your problem is probably that you don't know how to meet men and how to ask nice men out if you do meet them.
If you do indeed want a partner, this is where you should look at yourself and try to figure out where your problems lie and how to work on them.
If you do not want a partner at the moment: Absolutely no problem. There's no reason to have sex if you are unsure about casual sex.
Don't do anything you aren't sure about and that isn't important to your survival or well-being just because society tells you to.
Being a virgin isn't a problem.
You guys misinterpreted my reply. I didn't mean that sex was meaningless, but in the context of the girl that was going around and doing it, it was for her. There was nothing deeper going on other than cheap hook-ups. I think for me, and for many other robots on /r9k/ I hope, what we want isn't really a hook-up, but rather the fact that we can confide in someone that loves and cares about us as much as we do them.
well some girls, especially girls who have been raped/molested, have a condition where their vaginas involuntarily clench really hard when they try to have sex and it makes it painful for them and near impossible
Ugly people actually do attend social settings.
It's extremely boring but most people meet through university, work or friends.
If you're done with college and have no friends. work is your best shot statistically.
>Supporting mother and sister along side myself because mother is too retarded to stay out of credit card debt
>No college degree
>Basically doesn't leave the house outside of work
If it weren't for the Internet I'd have dropped dead already
25yo KV here.
Can confirm. As an additional note, it all boils down to looks. Look at that popular rugby player with some "strong" mental disorders but is very attractive to females (who don't care about the disorders). Many examples like that exist in the world. If you do not possess good looks as a male then you will never find a partner no matter what.