I'm taking a girl out for drinks tonight that I've been talking to from tinder.
I'm sitting my pants, I never thought I'd get this far
why drinks? do you enjoy drinking? did you choose or her? what will you talk about? what will you wear? what are you going to say when she asks about your hobbies? about your family? are you going to be aggressive? are you even planning on making a move? have you ever made a move on anyone successfully?
slow it down, you're going to give him an anxiety attack
just get drunk enough to be more confident than usual, but not so much as to embarrass yourself
if the conversation isn't going anywhere, just ask questions, and keep doing it
make a move when you're comfortable with doing it
Okay anon here's what you should do
FUCK OFF THIS BOARD NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
>OP girl has figure just like the chick I see most days that I can't pluck up the courage to talk too
Just go out and b urself.
Worst that can happen is you end up not having a gf, which is what you're doing now anyway.
Early evening date is alright, also mid-week is good, because it forces the date to end early. Ideally the date should end on an "I know its time to go but I wish I could stay" feeling, as she'll almost certainly want to see you again.
>h-hey lets get some d-drinks hehe
>y-you look b-b-beautiful I must say
FUCK OFF NORMIE
FUCK OFF NORMIE
FUCK OFF NORMIE KILL YOUSELF
GET THE FUCK OUT OF THIS BOARD
I'm talking from my experience
You are just gonna have to be articulate and interesting and she needs to have a good time talking to you.
On the ocasions i activelly made a move on a girl she turned me down
this girl one told me that she will intentionally act uninterested just to make it more difiicult
On the other hand if you manage to pull off being interesting and make her enjoy being around you, but no actually making a move, she is likely to give you very direct opeinings
thats what happens to me
>I do need advice on making a move
If you get the impression that she wants you to kiss her, she probably wanted you to kiss her 20 minutes ago. Don't wait for a perfect moment to come along, do it and it'll be fine.
Don't be afraid of offending her with your sexuality, its better to go too far and be told to stop than not to go as far as she wants you to.
>if you manage to pull off being interesting and make her enjoy being around you, but no actually making a move, she is likely to give you very direct opeinings
listen to this man. don't be afraid to seem weird, if you have confidence in your weirdness you will move mountains. being a 4chan autist with weird views has brought me more success with girls than being a normalfag.
The important thing is if you fail, don't take it personally, shrug it off and move on to the next girl
Chads get shut down more than you think but they're always out there hustling
I was in your exact circumstances on Wednesday and I had a stupidly successful date.
1. Show up a little early, and crush a beer before she arrives. It helped me get over my nerves, since I haven't been on a date since I dumped my gf.
2. Talk to the bartenders. Make friends with them, or you know, don't weird them out. This is key to ensure awesome service, and I had them bring a pair of drinks over under the guise of "You both look like a cute couple/positive flattery kind of thing."
3. Do your best to be interesting or funny or something. The absolute worst sin you can commit is being boring.
4. If you're interesting/engaging her, then you shouldn't see her on her phone.
5. Definitely go dutch.
no problem dude, I was about to unleash rage on you about asking for advice on 4chan but whatever. your weirdness is your strength. learn to monetize it. it's better to be rejected for being a weird man than a failed normalfag. fuck that.