How do you deal with being in racial groups that are considered "least desirable"?(Indian, Asian male, black woman etc)
I mean I'm black and people assume If im pretty that im mixed and if I'm ugly it's because I'm black, so, it is a lose/lose in all situations. I'm not sure how my race effects my dating life considering I've never met men in traditional ways. It'd be nice to use dating sites or go up to guys I find attractive the way white girls can but meh that's life.
All African Americans are mixed so that's a really full retard question to ask me
Nah I'm not pathetic
I've thought about it but everytime I try I back out because I'm sure they'd reject me
The only time i hate being black is when i have to do job shit.
Undesirable-ness is a meme. Online people are pickier because they only have your face as a basis.
However i'd be ugly as any race and my personality us shit and im asexual so meh.
Yes. Also body language, mannerisms, vibe, ect all changes the levels of attraction and how it acts IRL.
Online, it's just a face, a persona, and an image. It's much more artificial.
There are a lot of girls who would not get a lot of attention IRL (like Rose, or other internet idols) but get a lot of followings on the internet.
The girls on instagram is a better gauge on what kind of girls get the most attention IRL
I actually hate the internet somewhat because I find it easier to get out whether a guy is attracted to me offline from the way he acts and looks at me..
Btw, I'm a black girl but I'm light (yellowish tone) and I look physically mulatto (hispanic or creole to most people) with 4a/b type hair but I have no problems getting male attention. The most male attention i get is from non mulatto Hispanics.
Im also dating a guy who's mixed with white and arab so it works for me.
Ignore the internet maymays. I even had asian guys liking me
Holy shit, you were raped.
It's all in your head. There are attractive people and there are ugly people in every race. The majority of people in every race just happen to be ugly and rather undesirable. If you are a member of a race that is a minority in your society it's easier to point the finger at "muh race" for your problems rather than admit that one may be ugly, a shitty person, etc.