It doesn't matter where. They can be online, in person, etc. You've just gotta be there for them during both good and bad times. Usually people will reciprocate. Women, eh... not so much. They'll leave you in the dirt when your life is completely falling apart, then tell you something fucked up on top of it. Trust me, you'll want to establish a strong network of a few people before diving into the whole girlfriend thing.
I'm not gay or bi
I just want a girl that brings the best out of me.
That would require you having good traits to being out.
Become a sissy boy amd get fucked by Chads
it won't help; it's just another goal you've built up as being the end.