Stop being dominated by your biological urge to mate, arcanines. Plz stop. Seriously. I assume a lot of you are smart, why do you obsess over girls so much? It's just sex. Girls IRL are super fucking annoying for the most part. All they do is fucking nag and bother you.
Like Orel's dad said, eventually love just gets in the way of the really important things, like going to sleep, or just being alone. It is so fucking true. Please listen.
There's a distinction between being dominated by hormones and simply having a longing for romantic companionship. I can easily keep my dick in my pants and control my behavior around women; that's what has allowed me to build genuine friendships with some girls. However, I still get a yearning for finding that one girl whom I can share myself both physically and emotionally with. I know that a common response to that sentiment is, "you'll never find her because she doesn't exist, women are shit, etc." but I don't believe that. Is it an unlikely prospect? Sure. But the fact that it's still a possibility means that I'll never get over that desire.
I've come to a realization recently I call sexual determinism: As complex and advanced as we may seem as human animals living in 2016, overall everything we tend to do, think, and feel is controlled by the underlying biological purpose of reproduction, even if its not apparent. The unholy trinity we find ourselves stuck in is that of masturbation/sex, pornography/erotic media, and all the rest of the time we spend preoccupied with sex, sensual love, women's bodies, etcetera.
While at first this seems like a depressing realization which means that to varying degrees, we are all sex addicts by design, and especially myself being high test and the type of autistic that is preoccupied with sexuality and not much else (as opposed to the typical low libido train aficionado) may as well be doomed to have my life revolve around this trinity of sexual obsession until my libido declines further with age.
You see, sex, masturbation, fantasizing, porn, cuddling, its all the same shit ultimately I like it because it serves to bring me closer to the point of ejaculating, which my mind-body perceives as spreading my seed, even if I'm just making another stain on the wall. 2 months ago or so I've reached what I call a resolution of celibacy, that because this all leads to ejaculation, and I always feel depleted of vital life energy afterwards, a sensation I would never want to experience in the company of women, and better of without altogether, I would like to life as if asexual. I also notice that when I feel my best is when I just happen to be not thinking about sex for a while, as if I'm completely oblivious to the lure of the female form and the sensation of stimulating my cock.
Yet, without fail, every time since that I went a week or more without cumming, I went back to thinking about sex an awful lot. Now I don't know what to do yet, its a battle of brain versus balls, but I hope I can face reality and anticipate what will happen if I successfully nofap again.
I believe most people here have been ruined by television since a small age.
In television every good guy finds true love at the end of the day/story. We grow up with that idea of true love in mind and that what we desire, but we fail to realize is an idealized kind of love, and maybe something that can't exist in real life, mostly because people value looks, money and social status a lot more than personality.
I wish I were asexual, that would solve a lot of problems. I even have my periods of asexuality where I don't give a fuck about women. But every once in a while a nice qt girl has to appear in my life and make my penis diamond hard and then I fall in love. I just can't help it, it's the way my brain/body is wired.
>have had lots of sex
There is LITERALLY no other reason to live than to make this happen as often as possible with as many women as possible.
Try sex, you'll understand.
In the meantime I guess go watch your weird Korean cartoons.
>There is LITERALLY no other reason to live than to make this happen as often as possible with as many women as possible.
To resist the lure of the succubi is to exercise your free will, agency and autonomy as a human bean who is able to move beyond the programming of reproductive determinism. Otherwise, you will forever be a slave to your sex drive in every aspect of life.
>try it once
NOOOOOO REEEEEE you can't make me. Sex is scary, when thinking rationally I'd rather be a virgin for life than risk getting an STD or giving an unwanted pregnancy. I like to cuddle, but know its unrealistic to have a gf I just cuddle with but refuse to spill semen anywhere near her.
nice tripple sevens
>implying I'm not an shitpostar myself
Honestly, I am literally that autistic and in my comfort zone that I have resolved to remain celibate for life. As my Wizard birthday gets closer and closer, the idea of becoming some kind of actual monk becomes more realistic.
They only obsess over girls because they feel deprived of social status (sexual success being a marker of success in general for a lot of men, particularly anyone close to adolescence), and secondly cause they feel deprived of connectedness (which usually just means they want to feel wanted - fuck if I know why they think women are they people who are gonna make them feel that way, seeing as male friends are far superior for that need but whatever).
This is also a large part of it, the tendency to look to a woman for a feeling of completeness and validation of you empty, meaningless existence on this Earth
>This is also a large part of it, the tendency to look to a woman for a feeling of completeness and validation of you empty, meaningless existence on this Earth
Yes, and it is EXACTLY as weak as this sounds. That's really it, robots; that's the only reason you obsess over girls so much: you're too fucking weak to find meaning in anything else.
Coincidentally, it's also the reason robots can never manage to compensate for how unappealing they are otherwise. It sucks being unattractive and having a shit personality, but the only thing these fuckers could do to fix it is to be impressive in some way that would give their life meaning.
do you think that having had sex will make you feel better in a state of impending death? Do you expect a woman who loves you as much as your mommy does to hold your hand as you pass away from the plane of human existence?
At first the realization of sexual determinism was actually depressing, I felt like I am trapped, doomed to be obsessed with sex one way or another until my libido dies down in old age possibly. And perhaps this is ultimately the case, and nothing can be done. But it is only after coming to this conclusion that my purpose in life is made clear as day, and that is to resist to pull of sexual predominance, to ignore the purpose that nature has prescribe for me, and do... well I don't know what, but what has occurred to me for 5 years is that in order to accomplish anything in life, I need to stop being preoccupied with sex.
Its just audio. He describes how men have
>the tendency to look to a woman for a feeling of completeness and validation of you empty, meaningless existence on this Earth
and why these are false delusions projected onto the female which does not harbor such feelings herself. Just the tip of the iceberg of what I learned from the MGTOW YouTube community
There is a quote "sexuality roars in the existential vacuum," which rings very true, as I have never had the ability to become passionate or dedicated to anything enough to feel it is my grand mission in life, and this way preoccupation with sex always prevailed. Even now the only purpose I resolved upon is to counter the very thing my biology was designed to do, but I feel it is a fulfilling path, and as aforementioned, the only way forward without relapsing back into the unholy trinity of masturbation, pornography and sexual daydreaming.
>Dying of dehydration? Plz stop. Seriously. It's just water.
That's you, Op, that's what you sound like.
Water is necessary to live, sex isn't, its just a want.
Sex is necessary for a species of animal to continue to exist, but we are "the beautiful ones" who choose to eschew the cutthroat competition of conventional success to opt for a more peaceful reclusive existence where sex is logically irrelevant, just an annoying bodily urge we either succumb to by obsessing over it, and simulating the sensation of the activity, or ultimately learn to master it so we can me more than just primitive animals enslaved to our libido.
Just look around this board, my man. Do robots seem alive to you? How many of us are here primarily because we have zero vaginary access? We're all just mere existing, no different than a rock on the ground. Just read the posts, it's one shitty experience after the other.
Just imagine if all of us got to crush some puss, tomorrow. This will become the slowest board on 4chan.
Hot, wet puss is an essential ingredient for a man to be able to reach his full potential.
Man will never be able to reach his full potential if he can't stop being a pussy slave.
>Just imagine if all of us got to crush some puss, tomorrow. This will become the slowest board on 4chan.
They would just find other things to complain about