dating website experiences thread
i accidentally liked a girl i'm acquainted with on okcupid. she was wearing facepaint so i really didnt know it was her. then i was looking at her summary and it said her name was taylor and i realized it and i was like oh fuck. the next time she logs on she could see i liked her. but i didn't un-like her just in case she sees i liked her and messages me, and the miniscule probably of that is still balanced by the happiness i would have if it happened.
dating websites make me want to kill myself
let's say you've been talking for a week with mixed signals. she says she likes you, but doesn't show it.
Is it too soon to ask "do you see anything happening with us in the future or am i wasting my time?" because i sent that.
I honestly believe that a girl has some impression after a week of talking to someone to know if they expect something to happen or not.
i wish i could possess your body and go back in time and make you not send that. the thing with girls is you have to get face to face with them. they're not going to make the effort. (some will actually and thats how i got laid my only time is she texted me to come to her appt and fuck but she was fat) but quality girls you have to really grab your nutsack and get in person with them. call them on the phone. if she says she's doing something at her house then why not drive over there and say hey? maybe bring her a bag of candy. if i knew what i knew now 5 years ago i wouldn't be on this website right now. disregard this at your eternal peril
WAY too soon. She's still trying to figure out what she thinks of you and if you're demanding commitment like that at that point you come across as ultra turboneedy, which is a massive turnoff. It's the kind of thing which weighs the scale instantly to the "nope, not interested, nothing will ever happen" position, if they were hesitating before.
That kind of stuff might only work if you'd be a super alpha hunk and she'd be wetting her panties thinking of you and trying to figure out how to make this happen. Only in that kind of "we both know with 900% certainty we both want this" situation could that kind of statement work. However, if it's given in a situation where people are genuinely still figuring the other out and weighing if they're interested or not (like now, when she says she's interested because she's thinking she might be but it's not showing in the behaviour so she's hesitating), it usually nukes all budding interest from orbit and makes the girl cut contact and congratulate themselves on dodging a bullet.
You blew it.
You could ask something like that after you've met them IRL a few times, maybe had sex, you know, "is this just a fling or is there potential for something serious". But def not before meeting IRL
Yeah my reasoning exactly.
Also it is linked to normiebook? I guess I'll create a fate kikebook account and browse just to see what type of women are using from my city.
I just want a normal average boring girl, I don't want cock hungry stacies or hook ups...