>Find qt nerdy girl
>She's a dancer, likes the same things as I do, is studying dentistry
>Find out she's banged 5 guys
>20 year old kissless virgin
>Kills all attraction to her
>Feel the pain in my soul as I realize literally every single girl I meet, ever, is going to have at least 5+ guys at this point is is almost going to have more experience than me
I get how you feel, but if you're gonna be dating in the western world this is the kind of shit you have to put up with. 5 isn't even much for the average 20 year old woman these days.
you can say bye to sharing something special instead of cock number #6, you can say bye to her developing real feelings for you as she has already used up that potential, you can say bye to her seeing sex as an intimate act of love instead of the equivalent of a bubblegum et cetera.
But thats the way the modern world just is.
i mean, considering that neo-liberals try to make 20+ the norm or that reddit says that they would be with a girl they like even if she has been with 1000 guys, your case isn't THAT extreme. i mean, imagine that you have a 20yo sister and you have an amazing sibling relationship with her. you couldn't possibly call her a slut for being with 3+2 guys, could you?
don't mind me, 5 different guys for a 20yo is a large amount, but it could be way worse. after all, there are much more variables that determine slutness other than number of previous partners.
How do you find out such a number?
I figure you might ask her in a tone that makes it sound like it's not a problem and you are just curious.
Fuck guys... I just can't. This really ruins it for me
>tfw you will never have a virgin gf.
It's been this way since humans came into existence, you think women just banged one dude their entire life? It's not normal to be with only one person your whole life, the only people who care about that are the people who can't get any sex. That's not to say there's a line ie doing porn, fucking 50 dudes. It only bothers virgins and sexually inexperienced men because you're insecure.
What do you do when you are a 27 year old kissless virgin and an ex cutie 24 year old slut who banged over 30 guys is head over hills in love with you and swears that she's over that phase and wants only you?
>tfw she messages me every talking random shit and wanting to hangout and asking me for a date
>tfw I just want a normal, virgin girl who likes to play vgames and didn't used to keep the whole city of Chadville satisfied
well fuck you, i'm 26 and never even had a chance like you. what do you think how i feel. i'm going to kill myself
>new girl coworker that's been flirting with me and said that her parents would love me
>other female coworkers said I should take her out on a date
>I just said that I don't have money right now to date, female coworkers said ''Awww''
>see her swallowing birth control while talking to female coworkers some months after
She's like 4/10 without makeup, smokes weed, is a chav, was adopted and her parents are rich.
Just wanted to write this.
>only attracted to nerdy/shy/virgin cutesy girls that are vunerable
>get turned on knowing they have done kinky shit in the past like a handjob or something vanilla like that
>completely disregard and lose after banging them because they're officially a slut now to me
>can't stand horny girls who want it as much as me without a fight
My Chad experience
50 is a really low number for a woman today. A woman can easily go home with a guy from tinder or a bar two or three times a week, and they've been doing this since they were 16. By the time they're 25 they could easily be above 500. The girl I'm fucking right now said she used to have a competition with her roommate to see how many guys they could fuck per week. This is why I can't love these sluts, that shit is disgusting to me.
> a previously relationship prevents oneself from ever forming new genuine relationships in the future
Pathetic. Let's say you dated this girl for a year, and for whatever reason you two broke up. Would this prevent you from ever genuinely falling for another girl in the future and having a true love experience?
There is a reason robots are virgin. Ptheticism.
> mfw I don't want to have a girlfriend because I will eventually force myself to ask all these intrusive questions like at what age she lost her virginity and how many different cocks she's had inside her
I've been with a few hookers and even they get uncomfortable answering that, some even prefer not to.
What's it with autism and obsessing over virginity? Go out with her for a while and enjoy yourself. It's not like your first relationship will last your whole life anyway. Jesus Christ, this site sometimes makes my blood boil.
We just don't want something else to remind us of how much we've failed.
I've been with girls with numerous partners all it did was remind me that I missed out on my life. I've missed out on a period that is pretty much irreplaceable.
>We just don't want something else to remind us of how much we've failed.
Being with someone you like, spending time with them and making happy memories somehow equates to "failing" in your twisted mind.
>I've missed out on a period that is pretty much irreplaceable.
Why dwell over the past (i.e. your past) that you can't change now anyways? Go and make new happy memories. One day you'll regret missing out again if you don't at least give people a chance.
I think it's just right to want a partner with comparable experience, and when the partner count is 0, I think 0 is the only comparable experience, as 1 is already a big jump.
>Life will never be like anime
>a girl will never come and save you
>who cares if she is a total slut
I do and every reasonable male does looking for a long term partner.
Slutty women tend to have 0 hobbies and are extra boring because they have "going to the club" and "going to raves" and going to the bar" as their hobbies AKA having sex is their hobby.
women are boring enough.
Also studies show that women with more partners have less successful marriages.
This. But the older i get the lower the chance of actually finding someone becomes. Knowing she did all these things with a different guy before just makes me extremely insecure and uncomfortable.
>you will never enjoy a mutual first time at sex
>you will never be mutually awkward and not know what to do
>but it'll still be fun because you're doing it together as the entire world is put in the back of your head aside from you and her
>tfw instead she'll probably be telling you to do it a certain way because she's already comparing you to chad
>instead of developing your standards for one another, she already has preset standards for sex she expects you to meet.
Don't know when you guys will realize a slut isn't a number it's a way of life. A body count can be a telling factor but not the be all end all. If a roastie only had sex with 2 people, but was cheating on one with another, she is a slut. If she has slept with 5, but they were all with long term boyfriends, is she more of a slut than the first girl. Can't just concentrate on the body count.
5 isnt a lot. 5 is actually pretty good. also a girl banging a bunch of guys wont stop her from loving you, believe it or not. just be confident and rack up some kills yourself even if its ugly girls, youll feel better.
>Tfw these guys think the average women sleeps with like fucking 20 guys.
Party sluts do but the average girl just hangs out with those sluts to fit in. Your delusional if you think anyone besides legitimate party sluts or attention whores sleep around anywhere near that much.
Except that even female and male virgins alike will tell you to do things differently if they don't like something, simply because people know what doesn't feel good or because they have fantasies and have watched porn etc. Unless of course they are too intimidated to speak their mind.
I don't get this fucking robot obsession with virginity. It's antiquated as the fuck. I mean a few hundred years ago it was considered taboo to even be in the same room alone with a member of the opposite sex. We can understand how fucking retarded that is now, yes?
Virginity is nothing special. I've had sex with two virgins and they were both terrible at sex. They have no idea what they want and just kind of lay there. I would much rather have a girl who has had a good chance of exploring her sexuality.
You bitch about how goddamn foreveralone you are but are turned off by a 20 year-old with 5 previous partners?
>lose virginity at 15
>one sexual partner per year
>5 sexual partners at age 20
I'm sure if you pathetic robots could you would fuck more than one female a year.
I've grown out of that mentality and I don't really care if a girl had a lot of partners because she's not pure or something like that. It only really bothers me because I'm insecure about myself and about betraying her expectations.
>I'm sure if you pathetic robots could you would fuck more than one female a year.
>I've had sex with two virgins and they were both terrible at sex.
Do you value good sex over having a good relationship?
I don't want a virgin for good sex. I want to have a serious relationship and know that she hasn't fucked other men. How hard is this to understand? If all I cared about was sex I wouldn't mind if she wasn't a virgin. I want a girl I can respect.
>lose virginity at 15
even 16 is questionable. but yeah, i agree with the rest. as long as it isn't some ridiculous number like 10+.
>Do you value good sex over having a good relationship?
Not necessarily. I think good sex is an important part of a good relationship. But dating a non-virgin doesn't mean you're not going to be able to have a good relationship, and also increases your chances of good sex, at least initially.
Hey guys, I'm the same poster as >>25771281
Forgot to mention every one of my sexual partners laughed at my small penis and kept asking me if it was in yet so I asked my best friends Jamal and Tyrone to satisfy my woman as I watched, let's just say they weren't laughing anymore :>)
Why wouldn't you respect someone who's had sex?
You want someone for a serious relationship, but you're excluding people who might also have been looking for a serious relationship.
I seriously don't get this board's hangups about virginity. Well I do - it's because they're embarrassed to still be one - but it's so sad.
Okay, let's do the math here.
Let's say she lost her virginity at 20, since that seems to be the only acceptable loss of virginity age for women here.
>1 partner every 2 years
>5 2 year relationships
Do you really think it's going to be easier to have a relationship with a girl who's had FIVE serious relationships, and had a chance to get TRULY INTIMATE with FIVE different dudes, that to have a relationship with a girl who's just had sex 5 times, and maybe had one or two serious relationships?
At that point she's not even going to be comparing your pathetic 2 in weiner to Chad and Tyrone. She's going to be comparing your emotional instability and inability to communicate with fucking Aiden the betacuck.
You guys are fucking ridiculous, 5 guys? That's a drop in the bucket for most women. You have to fuck better, love harder, and whine less if you ever want to please any woman. Quit deluding yourselves thinking you'll find a qt that's pure like you are. Learn2fuck learn2love or be forever alone and let down
Because you shouldn't be having sex so casually. I won't have sex with a girl unless she's someone I'd consider marrying.
Second is worse but I'm not 30 so idc. I want a virgin. I've gotten a virgin gf before and will get another one.
Well, it's not even that. I mean, I'm very happy that my gf and I are going to lose our virginity together. It might not be that great, but it'll be a mutual experience at least. But I would still love her the same if she has been with a couple guys before. I might be a little hesitant with girls who like to have one-night stands, but history really isn't that important if both parties in the relationship love each other and are committed to each other.
Well spoken my friend, you are not a cuck
I could tell you were a cuck, as a cuck you can't call anyone a beta now get back to eating Jamals dick like a good cuck, maybe if you're lucky Susan will cook you some food with fresh semen from Jamal for her cuck boyfriend
virgin girls are reserved by Chad
you think he's going to marry any of the barsluts he fucked in college?
nope, he's going to marry the girl of your dreams and will likely still have a few mistresses
Thanks guys. Honestly, it pains me to see people having such a negative outlook on women, and relationships in general. It's no wonder they can't communicate with people, and yet they wonder why nobody will fuck them. Pretty sad...
>start talking to someone I was acquainted with long ago
>gives me the impression we'll actually start dating
>spill spaghetti in a text before bed about how I like her and want to treat her to somewhere nice
>wake up at 2 pm with no response
I don't want to play this game anymore.
breh, I am dating a very attractive girl, she has only had 1 partner before me. Ive known her for 6 years, and can verify she has not been with a single guy during this time.. we only finally started dating this year.. im 28. They're out there, they're just rare.
>In b4 gtfo normie (pic related)
btw her vagina was so tight it felt like it was peeling my skin off my dick the first time i entered
>then I told him I only had one partner HAHAH
He actually believed you? haven't you fucked like 20 guys.
>pfft yea HAHAHAHAA
Actually during my 6 years as her ''friend'' I was the one who had sex with around 25 women. Since she just saw me as a friend she confided in me her boy problems and such and was very clear, I never once thought I would date this girl so she had no reason to lie. She was raised in a traditional Chinese household and having sex with randoms is very frowned upon, she takes pride in not being a slut. she also doesn't drink or party. I have no reason not to believe her, however I agree that you should not believe any girl you meet on the amount of guys they've fucked. I completely agree that 99% of women are disgusting sluts.
Cut all contact with the bitch. She's just another vapid whore, and that's all that she'll ever be, so unless you're happy being beta bucks for some bitch that'll cheat on you on the side, cut her out of your life. Trust me. It's better getting over the pain now instead of 5 years down the road when you've married her only to find out that she was never really who she said she was.
>meet a gril
>she tells you she only had sex with 1 guy before you
>he had an 8" sausage cock and probably made her cum harder than you ever will
i'd rather be forever alone than be with a non-virgin. in all likelihood she's imagining chad thundercock every time you fuck her
btw what context makes cm and vs on friendly terms like that? vs is a tormented fallen princess and cm is a spoiled bitch, don't you think they'd have different senses of humour ?
Got myself a qt (asian) gf few months back. met at uni, both 18 and were virgins, and we get on amazingly well. she's clever too which is great (doesnt chat the usual stupid girl gossip shit).
think i might make it brehs
I'm gonna tell you right now son, that's a bad idea. Never chase a dancer.
>men desire chastity as a trait in females since the dawn of civilization
>only now do whores throw a tantrum at such an ideology and believe that their personal opinions stemming from hedonism carry more weight than thousands of years of tradition
>you will never understand
Never be involved with a slut/whore, OP. You may remain alone but if you throw away your ethics, then you lose your humanity.