>>25755877 lol i knew you were going to post some bs like this. You know I'm right when I say you're being a little whinny bitch. Maybe if you looked after yourself you'd get a kiss from an actual girl.
holy fuck I'm so glad I don't come here as much as I used to.
lol but whatever I'll continue kissing girls while you wait for your pure virgin girl lmao.
>>25755649 I wonder how a female would react to hearing she was your first kiss at 30+ years old. It couldn't be good, no matter how understanding she is. Best bet is probably to just not bring it up until well after the fact, or lie.
Fake it till you make it, etc. I think about this a lot because I'm fucking 33 and at this point there's no other way around it.
>>25756022 Yeah I'll be 32. I think it would be too much for most women, they would probably assume you're a serial killer or something along those lines and freak out.
I also wonder how it would change the womans view on you. Generally I can make great conversation among a somewhat established group of people, they laugh and everybody is having a good time. Nobody would think this of me.
But my guess is that they would feel kinda cheated on their perception of you and be upset.
>>25756077 Exactly, not coming off as a psychopath or murderer or at the very least mentally unbalanced is the hard part. I think it would be easier if I fit the woman's preconceived idea of a 30+ year old virgin, overweight, unattractive, lives at home, no job, etc. But I don't. I know I can come off as a little odd sometimes but otherwise, as you said, no one would suspect it of me.
If anybody found out though, they'd have to think something was wrong with me.
>>25756385 They way you've been messaging me tells me that you have a few problems with women. Like you said before: >Keep licking up Jamals leftovers m8 >just imagine all the other cocks they have sucked in the past and how you are so very eager to put your own lips on that.
shit like that makes you look pathetic and insecure. lol like why the fuck would you bring that up?
also >But I hate how superficial and hollow 99% of people are. bro, just because you deal with a few cunty people in your life doesn't mean they're all like that.
Question for the robots who didn't have their first kiss until later in life, say 25 or older. Was it awkward? Was it obvious you didn't know what you were doing or did it come naturally and at worst seemed like you just weren't very good at it?
Because explaining that you're a virgin at that age might be hard, but understandable. Explaining that you've never kissed anyone though just seems like it would drive people away.
>>25755814 I have chad friends and you don't even want to know the kind of degreating shit they do to their girlfriends. they make a regular porno look like a disney film. fuck that shit I will never in my life date a non-virgin cum tainted whore.
But whatever if you want to be /r9k/mode forever then alright man have fun. Like I said I'm glad I don't come here too often anymore. This place really warps your mind.
>Most people will use your kindness towards them for personal gain, that is almost how everyone on this planet operates.
I do agree with this to a certain degree. Which is why it's your job to decide who to let in your life and who to cut out. Don't do every single thing for people stand up for yourself, bro. Fucking say no if you don't feel comfortable.
I'm in love with a girl who's had 5 boyfriends before me and honestly that does really fuck me up, she's my first girl. I'm the first man she's ever been in love with and that does mean a lot to me, but it makes me depressed when I think about the things she did with her other boyfriends. Honestly it does fuck with me, it's the one negative aspect of the relationship
>>25756683 >Because explaining that you're a virgin at that age might be hard, but understandable. Explaining that you've never kissed anyone though just seems like it would drive people away. But those two are directly related.
>>25757196 Why was she dating people she doesn't care about? Links http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf http://www.medicaldaily.com/ignorance-bliss-when-it-comes-marriage-fewer-partners-youve-had-more-likely-your-298752 http://socialpathology.blogspot.com.au/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/08/more-promiscuity-data.html PDFS http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_028.pdf http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf
>>25757415 I'm well beyond the 25 year mark, and I know how hard it is. Which is why I'm asking. I've got girls in my life that I care about and are very possible first-gf contenders, but the thought of being completely inexperienced if and when the first kiss ever comes makes acting on those feelings that much more difficult.
>>25757529 Yes and no, even virgins have opportunities to kiss at some points in their lives. Being a virgin into your late 20s/30s/beyond is unusual but not unthinkable. Being a kissless virgin into the same years is much more unlikely, and more likely to be taken as a sign that something is wrong with you.
>>25757731 It's not like anyone denies it? What else would you expect? >>25757770 I think only high school really counts, the babysitters daughter would kiss me and make me play mommy and daddy when we were 6, I don't count her going down on me as oral sex seeing as I didn't get hard and was mostly confused, guilty, and angry over the whole thing.
>>25754952 You don't need to be muscular or outgoing. You really just need to be attractive. Especially if you're a skinny nerdy-looking white guy with a cute face, that's the type that's in style now for college aged girls.
>>25757983 >How do you make it through your teenage years, with spin the bottle and truth or dare and all that, without so much as a kiss? Is this a troll? You know robots don't get invited to that shit right?
>>25757983 And there's where the divergence between us begins. We didn't play spin the bottle, or truth or dare, or any of those things. We didn't go to parties where those games were played. We didn't get invited to social gatherings, and if we did, we were too awkward to go.
People talk about making it through highschool, or even college, without getting those experiences. Truth is, not everyone goes through life the same. Not everyone gets those experiences. For one reason or another, our lives panned out much differently than our peers, and the differences compounded more and more as time went on until we reach the point we're at now, in our 20's/30's, still yet to experience the basic fundamentals of human existence that so-called normies got in their teens and now take for granted.
she says dated all of them for only a few months and found that she didn't really enjoy being with them, and never fell in love with any of them. We've been together for a while now and we're very much in love.. I hope that counts for something
>>25754858 If this happened to me, I'd probably just say "No" without feeling embarrassed or shocked or anything because I know that my future is dark and that I will never know the warmth of a female companion, no matter how much I change myself I will, in some ways, always remain the same, and every girl I've ever met just don't like that so I can't bother to even be angry when pic related points such a thing out.
I'd just trudge along with my day like the last because I know there are more days like this to come. Over the years my outlook has just gotten darker and darker, and one day the darkness will suffocate me to the point where suicide will be the only option.
Thankfully my mind is not in that state right now, but it is bound to be.
The only actual answer here. You retards need to stop attaching all this romantic, angsty bullshit to the act. It's lips on lips. Nothing to write home about. Quit acting like it (or losing your virginity, for that matter) is going to change your life. I can promise you, it won't.
>>25760638 Even if it doesn't change your life, the very lack of these things for so long has a very clear effect on the life of those who lack them. It might not suddenly change their life, but by not ever having the shit happen, their life is already different than what it would have been had they done the shit in high school or something. It might not have an immediate change on one's life, but it definitely sets you down a different path. There's a very clear difference.
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