A). Shitposter who has never been in a relationship B). Shitposter who just recently got out of a relationship and is recovering this way C). A real femanon who is actually trying to get help from other robots D). A tired, confused, bored man who no longer understands why he does this anymore
Someone go ahead and ask why the "boyfriend" is mad so OP can bait some of you faggots with obvious, cheap cuckstory bait.
>>25753185 Honestly there's nothing you can immediately do. If he doesn't find you attractive anymore there is nothing that you can do for the time being... that said if you get /fit/ he will definitely notice and be attracted to you again. From there you can either choose to stay with him or get someone better.
>>25753249 >>25753301 Is it really just weight and what I can do for him sexually? If he put on some chub and wouldn't go down on me I'd be irritated but I love him for so much more, are these 2 things really my only recourse right now?
>>25753379 You could give more blowjobs... guys always love blowjobs. But other than, I'm afraid weight is one of the largest factors what determines a girl's attractiveness to guys. You shouldn't only lose weight to look better but to also feel better about yourself.
>>25753536 I blow him very frequently, he expresses that he's pretty satisfied with how good I am and the frequency. I totally agree with you on the weight, it just makes me sad to think a few pounds is such a make or break factor that I can't do anything else.
>>25753609 It's sad that us males put so much value into weight, but we are predisposed to it and unable to change our thinking. I assume it's the same way for girls with short guys. There's nothing we can do to make us want it more since we were biologically programmed that way, but we can change other aspects of ourselves to make us more attractive.
>>25753698 He's short and salty about it, I don't mind though because I'm petite. If he somehow lost a few inches in height I would still think he was handsome and love him, is it not the same in return?
>>25753764 I'm not claiming to be perfect by any means, I probably have a little bit of each of those faults to be honest. Overcoming all those things takes time though and I want him back right now while I try to be better, that's all.
>>25752875 yes, 3somes tend to do very little to improve relationships. But if he doesn't love you anymore, that's kind of it. If you could make someone love you, all the dumb beta orbiters wouldn't be orbiting.
>>25753663 Won't that just make him assume we're fucking and piss him off? Whenever he sees me in pics with cool/attractive friends of friends or whatever he just talks shit about them or doesn't seem to care. I have some hot male friends I could spend some platonic time with to arouse this if it'll work, but will it?
>>25753763 I don't believe so. Most guys basically choose their partner based on their looks and could care less about her personality, while for girls it's nice to have a hot guy but there's so much more for her to be attracted to than looks.
How do you know that he wants to dump you? Anyway if he doesn't love you anymore then honestly other than chaining him in a basement he WILL leave just accept your loss don't degrade yourself because it's only temporary
>>25754142 Not willing to do that, I'll describe myself but you'll have to take my word for it.
>>25754155 I'm currently working toward more independence. It's hard not to seem desperate when you love someone 10x more and want them to stay and they know it. Obviously it's more plain to see here as I'm asking for help than I act to him, but yeah I am desperate he knows.
>>25754291 He's told me so, and that he cares for me still but is not in love with me. Classic line right there. This does feel degrading but I'm not to proud to beg right now, I want him.
>>25754459 People change their minds and realize they were wrong all the time, there's really nothing? I've wanted to leave people or situations and something has held me back and made me realize I was being rash, there must be something for him in this case that would do the same, I just don't know what it is for dudes and what I can try.
>>25754529 he's not being rash though. this isn't a spur of the moment "Fuck you, I'm leaving" emotion. It's a "I just don't love you anymore." What is there to rethink? The only way to keep him would be to manipulate him into staying by getting sick and needing to be cared for, or something else really miserable for both of you. Even if you did that, he'd just go from not loving you to resenting and hating you.
>>25754529 Honestly, I would have this conversation with him and not the internet if I were you. I mean if you already think he might leave you what do you stand to lose by confronting him directly. Who knows, he might even tell you what you're looking for.
>>25754739 it's not that it's out of the question. It's that its out of your hands. There's no magic way to make a person love you again, the best you could hope for is to let him go, and then for him to decide you were the best thing in his life on his own.
>>25754794 I wouldn't trust anyone on her to give you good advice. Last time I posted her for relationship advice it just made everything worse and destroyed something really great. Keep in mind that, by the nature of people who post on this board, any benevolent advice will be drowned out in a sea of jealousy and misinformation. I'm leaving this thread but I wish you best.
>>25754983 She's had years to make up reasons to justify her feelings of love towards him. Even if you had every trait she mentions, she'd take a look at you and say "no, sorry. You aren't what I want."
People often have specific traits they like in a romantic partner, but just follow the feeling of like or love wherever it leads them, even if it goes against what they thought was their type.
>>25754985 Very true. >>25754995 >robot boy meets girl irl >girl and boy both like each other very much >girl's beta orbiter teams up with the rest of the to internet convince boy that girl is an unlovable monster >boy believes the internet >boy is sad >girl is sad
It boggles my mind why you would actually come here for relationship advice, you picked literally the worst possible place. Can't even take the question seriously.
I'll still take the bait: when I'm upset with my girlfriend and not really feeling the love towards her that I usually do, if she reminds me of good times together, especially milestones in our relationship or times early in our relationship, it always makes me remember why I love her and it brings the passion back.
>>25753379 >are these 2 things really my only recourse right now? Do you have any redeeming qualities? Can you cook? Do you regularly clean? Are you just a retarded cumdumpster or do you have any other womanly qualities that are desirable?
>>25755421 What was the trigger for the separation? Usually, when you've been living together and then you separate, it's pretty much over. There's still some hope though, depending on what occurred. So what happened?
It also helps in those moments when she makes me remember that she loves me for who I am, and loves things about me that I thought nobody could love, it makes me feel blessed to have a girl in my life who understands me so well and accepts me for who I am
>>25754794 >Apparently just very thin women having all anal threesomes... Disillusioning. Because you're not real and no one gives a shit, no timestamp no fucks given. >>25755395 >guilt tripping him into loving you If real, I guarantee shit won't work ask him straight up if he's cheating on your tranny ass.
>>25755470 We both started working from home. We were together basically 24/7 and it's very hard to get along with anyone when you're constantly in each others' hair and so we started arguing a lot. He moved out to try living on the opposite coast, that didn't work out and we moved back in together, but still living and working together the same issues cropped up and so he got his own place.
I'm currently in your boyfriend's position. It is really not appealing when someone just refuses to accept your feelings, which is what you're doing. When you try to make him love you in spite of him clearly telling you he won't it's just sad and pathetic and guilt-inducing. Do you want him to start associating all those negative feelings with the thought of you? Probably not. The best thing you can do is honestly try to move on, or at least make it look like you are. That's the only way he's going to start missing you: if you aren't trying to force yourself upon him.
>>25755645 >That's the only way he's going to start missing you: if you aren't trying to force yourself upon him. I doubt it, and honestly you SHOULD feel guilty about not working to mend something that has cost you both years of your life.
Guilt-tripping may not work but it's not like the other person shouldn't feel guilty for cutting and bailing on the relationship.
>>25755645 >>25755703 I agree with the second poster, I feel like if I back away he'll think I'm moving on and ok with him moving on, and I am not. He's a hard guy to guilt anyway, he's said sorry to me only a handful of times in our entire relationship, I'm not exactly pressing a poor empathetic soul here.
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