Why are girls so boring and shallow?
Every girl I've ever talked to online always give me short replies and expects me to carry the conversation all by myself. It's like talking to a fucking wall.
And it's not like I'm the one bothering them, because they are the ones messaging me first.
>People take the easiest road open to them. The rich rest on their wealth instead of developing a rad personality, and women are basically exactly like the rich in that respect. When bathed in adoration for being so pretty as a young girl, you don't realise it will fade some day, and you definitely don't realise that even if it didn't fade, it'd still be false and hollow. Until we remove this "privilege" (her word), women will forever be hobbled non-people who are more interested in passively receiving suitors than doing anything cool like men.
Women don't have to be interesting. they just have to not eat like a hippo.
The amount of attention and recognition they get is the same that a male movie star gets.
Look how movie stars are. They think every opinion they have is fucking genius and they KNOW everyone is interested in hearing it, even if it's "umm like.. war is bad :S"
That's what the world is like for women. Want to see it in action? Look at any post on 4chan, in any thread, where a woman has identified herself as a woman for any reason. Ten replies, no matter the content. Not just fawning either, legit replies. Just being female guarantees you interest above and beyond any other post, usually moreso than competence.
Now realise when you are speaking to a woman, you are speaking to the product of what happens when you subject someone to this for 20+ years. Nonstop adulation just for existing. Their "haha :)" is the same as your well-considered contribution, in their mind. Their haha is gold and you should be grateful for it.
Don't worry OP.
After ~30-35ish it's over for women. I'm seriously not kidding, the pragmatic ones know this too.
I'm glad I went off the ride long ago. I only fap and pursue my own endeavors. If a woman does eventually enters my life, so be it but I'll not cater to her needs. I will not allow myself to be shackled to the vaginal jew.
Because basically every genuine or otherwise cool girl is already in a relationship if they can clear a measly 4/10 in looks.
If they're remotely good looking they might as well be a unicorn among women in the dating scene.
Nope. There are still enough cucks out there happy to play provider and even 60 year old women get raped. Meanwhile a 20 yo healthy average weight average height guy can't get laid if he doesn't fulfill hundreds of bullshit extra requirements that kill any desire to even put up with that bullshit if you aren't completely dick controlled.
I have been on OKcupid for years now and every single goddam conversation I have with a girl it is the same thing.
I make an elaborate first greeting to get them to fucking talk and they always reply with a simple one liner. I then have to make up some bullshit to get them to talk even further, stretching my imagination to the limit and scrounging up a conversation from the dirt. Then they reply with "cool.", "yeah I agree", "thanks =)".
FUCK YOU FUCKING NORMIE GIRLS. REEEEEEEEEEEEE. REPLY TO ME WITH ACTUAL CONVERSATION LIKE A HUMAN bEING GODDAMIT. REEEEEEEEEEEE
Yeah but women don't like the "providers". They want chad. They have to settle because they don't have a choice.
Not to mention they get way less attention and stares everywhere they go, which is what women love.
The guys will always go for the younger chicks, which drive older women fucking crazy. Just look at the bitterness every aging actress has over the younger women getting the movies roles.
Women by and large are stupidly introverted or shy and you have to ask questions like you're talking to another angsty emotional robot. They are easy to talk to once you know how to talk. They act the exact same way anyone whose incredibly insecure about everything acts. They yes to everybody and they're paranoid about their physical appearance.
Also don't force the situation too much or you'll look desperate and beta. You don't need to have a lengthy conversation every time they talk to you. You should even pretend you're busy sometimes.
>if they liked you they would put in effort,
confirmed never met a woman
women don't know what "effort" is
>ur too muhc of a pathetic loser virgin autism!!!
OK roastie, back to tumblr now
If a girl responds with short answers, it means she either finds you very unattractive or just boring. That's why she is giving you boring responses, so you get bored and leave.
Because they're women. They're designed for childrearing and housework, not intellectualism.
They were never supposed to be treated like men. It's not good for them. Hence why modern women are so degenerate.
I don't know anon, I've been on a couple of dates with girls who asked me out and they had absolutely nothing to say or talk about.
I had to think of every topic of discussion and carry every conversation, otherwise it was silence. They could only give one word answers about what they like to do, their experiences, their hobbies.
Too much like hard work.
not all girls are boring, some are just bored, some are interesting. But you need to find them interesting for them to be interesting. You see where I'm getting?
Not sure about shallow though. You might be right on this one.
Library or volunteer centers
Never had a gf but the nicest and kindest girls dwelled there. I assure you you dont want a smart gf because shell have higher expectations and only wants doctor or lawyer chad. If you go outside your circle you will feel the burn.
I sit at the library often too, but I can't really start approaching girls there. I don't want to bother them when they come there to read, I'd be seriously pissed if someone interrupted me.
Library experience from last fall
> browse magazines looking for specific one
> catch girl looking at me
> continue looking for magazine
> find it
> proceed to read
> girl glances at me several times
> wonder what the fuck does she want, continue reading
> she leaves with her friend, one last meeting of gazes
Maybe I had dirt on my face that day. Or maybe she found me so stunningly ugly she couldn't believe her eyes.
> In your imagination.
>I am gay: the thread
You guys are claiming the complete opposite of what every man in a relationship thinks is the stereotype, and it's because you guys are fucking obnoxious autists that no one wants to talk to.
I WISH women would keep it short and simple. My wife is always talking about random shit and looking for problems in anything and everything. The things I'm actually interested in are guy things, and I want some time to myself when I am tired or whatever. Now that doesn't mean I'm a cock loving faggot who can't have conversations with women, it can be fun maybe 2-3 hours at a time when I'm at a social event or in a good mood. But women are always blabbing. And everyone I know thinks the same. Your bizarro world shit is what guys dream of being true except for the virgin for life thing.
I'm terrible at talking to girls if it's small talk.
With work/school stuff it's easier but if the conversation doesn't have an "objective" I'm screwed.
Also it doesn't help that I'm from a Nordic country so small talk somewhat difficult to achieve.
You know, I've actually found the opposite of the received wisdom to be true. I found that conversations with women were way more fulfilling when I was 15 than I do now when I am 25. When I was 15 I still thought women were beautiful equals, and I held no misogynistic opinions. I openly complimented them and heaped praise on them for every little thing: in short, I treated them like they were amazing. The conversations I yielded from this time were the best that I have ever had; from attractive girls in school to online girls, it did not matter if I was just their beta orbiter, for they actually took the time to talk to me. Perhaps it is because they regarded me as being under their thumb, and liked talking to me because I made them feel good about themselves.
I do not know who has changed, me or them. Now, I approach women with none of the previous attitude, I approach them as an equal, criticize them for how they degenerates or leftists, and generally expect them to be people worth respecting.
I suppose I have changed. I have tightened my standards for what I require from a female friend. They aren't worth complimenting. Shave their hair and most women are nothing more than tattooed, easily-flustered progressives whose entire existence is a reaction against rejection by whatever male in their eyes is perfect.
In short, they aren't good enough for me, and I say this unironically.
She didn't want to be the guilty party or look bad, didn't want you to be aware that she was responding like that on purpose.
I also say this to people when I feel a tinge of guilt for ignoring someone. If she wanted to talk to you, she would have bothered you more instead of two hours later then finally remembering you exist. She wasn't just sitting there waiting two hours for your response obviously.
It's probably because you look like this guy
Because they're pussies.
They want guys to make them feel a certain way, but they don't know how to make it happen, they just know some guys make them feel like girls.
So they just say dumb shit and stand around being girls waiting for you to react and then they see how your reaction makes them feel.
They're pussies, they are fundamentally afraid of putting themselves out there, so they say safe boring dumb shit to feel things out god I hate women
I've found that the generalised conversation coming from a man or woman respectively is:
I will have a full conversation with you where we discuss our opinions on each others responses on a given subject that is somewhat stimulating i.e tv shows, physical activities, pro active work.
I will talk to you about other people that I have an opinion about and I will talk to you about myself and how I want material posessions of worth to make myself feel more interesting or someone to make me feel valued.
Keep telling yourself that you pathetic looser. Meanwhile even the fattest and ugliest of my friends get laid. You're just a failure, accept it. I have a metalhead friend with a literal beckbeard and he's fat, too, yet he occasionally pulls a 7. You robots are pathetic, lmao. Cry yourself to sleep, bitch.
women tend to be very average intelligence wise,while men are more likely to be on the opposite ends of the spectrum
this means there is more variety and room for personality for men vs women,who are built biologically and in a way psychologically to bare and care for children,and have done so over until very recently in humanity's history.
men over the ages have needed outstanding physical ability or charisma to make any significant impact or get what they want,while women only need to have sex with someone,they will take care of them and theyare set.basically its because there is no need for personality or mental potential because you can show cleavage and gg.you won
Because evolution/natural selection made them walking breeding factories, they do not need motivation, drive or fascination to procreate, they simply need to exist. There is obviously an ongoing environmental part too, as one of the first posters mentioned through a quote.