I just want a girl who I could love, and be gentle to, and who would love me in return.
Why is it so much to ask /r9k/?
I feel this feel, but I also would like to be attracted to her. This is all I want, and it's made me feel like shit my whole entire life.
>tfw the woman you love is actually named Jessica
This board is mostly now populated by desperate males who put women on a pedestal or at least would give up everything they care about if an attractive woman showed interest in them. There's a quiet minority that don't waste their time pining about it, even if they're angry or fed up with sexual dynamics.
Women want the perception of strength and security from a mate. It's fundamentally an economic situation. What can he do for me?
Men, often too gullible, really buy into the idea of loving a woman and the built up ideas of romance and devotion. We can be loyal to a fault. That's not a compliment; men need to be more discerning about who and what deserves our loyalty and affection.
>give up everything they care about if an attractive woman showed interest in them
Thank you for acknowledging men are shallow fucks.
>Men, often too gullible, really buy into the idea of loving a woman and the built up ideas of romance and devotion.
An attractive woman, that is.
To be more specific: A woman who they find attractive showed interest in them. Yes, men are generally shallow, it just pales in comparison to women.
I am a nurse, and many patients in my area at least are of lower socioeconomic/class status. The women are never attractive. Their husbands are not either, yet the devotion would surprise you. Yet even under those circumstances, the womens' motivations for being with said male are all too often economic in nature. It's not wrong, it's just how it is.
>Yes, men are generally shallow, it just pales in comparison to women.
It really doesn't. Women look at an attractive man and know they would like to fuck him, but they don't delude themselves into believe they're falling in love over such superficial bullshit like physical appearances.
Evaluate yourself honestly and you'll find your answer.
I keep having dreams of being in a happy relationship. The worst part is theyre always of girls I knew back when I had a social circle.
>go to a party with friends
>see a girl I met on another party a few weeks ago
>we start talking about college
>then we start flirting with each other
>eventually starting dancing while she grinds on my dick
>She tells me to follow her outside
>outside, starts making fun of me of how pathetic I am and she was just joking
Seriously, what the fuck. Not even in my dreams Im lucky? Fuck this shit...
Because you need to fill the emptiness inside you with something. And you think that having a girl will cure you from all your mental issues, that you will become "normal". It's also envy. You see that other men around you have women, and you are frustrated that you don't.
The brain cannot invent things on its own. Dreams are always combinations of past experineces. If you see a person in a dream that you don't know, he will be just a combination of several real people.