>>25717371 if you really love someone her kids from previous relationships dont really matter. Also its not like the kids arent going to see their fathers and you're doing the work of other. Just because you cant get a relationship doesnt mean others shouldnt have one albeit different than a normal 'setup'
>>25717438 >her kids from previous relationships dont really matter. Except they're real growing people who's mother is going to have some sort of impact in their lives, likely you might too, no matter how brief it could end up being. There's no time to be selfish and just think about the two of you because kids are already in the picture. You can't just write them off.
>>25717806 You'll still have to look after her kids and not your own as it's pretty certain that the court will let the mother take custody of the kids in almost all cases even if the mother is unfit to take care of them.
>>25717806 This fucking board lmao. A bunch of never been kissed virgins asking other never been kissed virgins when it is and isn't OK to date people. Don't worry bro, you're never going to have to deal with this single mother conundrum.
You're a fucking idiot. This entire board is faggots making up excuse after excuse as to why they won't just go be a normal human being and get a fucking girlfriend. You build a list of retarded fucking rules then make fun of people who are in relationships that don't follow that list of rules as if it makes you somehow better than the people that are in love. As if it somehow doesn't make you a forever alone kissless virgin sitting in an echo chamber laughing at people with families. Now you're gonna make some lame joke about how I'm some butt hurt blah blah whatever and I'm going to kiss my amazing girlfriend and listen to the cute sound she makes when I kiss her while she's asleep.
>>25718037 >just how bottom of the barrel single mothers are
This is without a doubt the dumbest thing I've ever read. She slept with someone else, had a kid and it didn't work out. How the fuck does that have anything to do with who she is as a person? What kind of dumbass Red Pill bullshit is that?
>>25718077 >This is without a doubt the dumbest thing I've ever read Are you fucking kidding me? You seriously don't know about the stigma of being and dating a single mother? It's not like it's some sort of new and obscure thing, the thought has been around for ages. It's arguably a "meme", if you want to include reality in that postmeta internet shitfest.
Here's a link from some leftist site about how bad it is: http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/03/27/single-parents-stigma-society-_n_5042179.html. You know something must be bad for women if the media is shilling hard to fix it.
>>25718077 >How the fuck does that have anything to do with who she is as a person? She made a bad pick as far as fucking and having a kid goes, or was unwilling to compromise on some shit. Your relationship with her is on borrowed time from the first date.
Single mothers are trash, the worst kind of human. What kind of fucked up person would do that? You like being a horrible person is as normal as wearing black socks instead of white. It's not a simple fashion choice. Single mothers are bad m'kay.
>>25718170 >Your single mom was the same way >Blamed beat and choked you for existing or looking at her funny >Saturday was the scariest day of the week because she was off >Gave everyone the woah is me treatment so when came to 3rd grade with black eyes they ignored it >Stupid bitch is realizing she gonna die alone now tries to suck up Fuck everyone of them
Lel, someone settled for sloppy seventieths and is mad. Calm down bro, your putting your weiner in a roastie. That's what you wanted right? Be secure in your choices. Just don't expect everyone else to be as desperate.
Either way, if she was involved with 2 domestic cases, she clearly has daddy issues and likes bad boys. She is settling for that cuck of a guy and will probably be fucking Chad again two weeks after they marry
>>25717371 My father married my mother after she already had 2 daughters from another alcoholic and probably abusive guy. Thanks to that cuckoldry i grew up in his cramped small apartment, poor as hell and he was also emotionally abusive dickhole. I always knew shit was wrong but ever since i found boards like r9k now i can't feel anything but burning hatred for this old retard. Each christmas i have to come back home because my sister is helping me but she wants me to be there "with the family" regardless of the fact that everyone hates everyone else. Most of all i hate my father though, he was the most abusive and never took responsibility for his monumental fuckup. I just hope he dies faster so i can finally start forgetting his ugly stupid face and all the bullshit he keeps talking.
I'm single and pregnant. I couldn't go through with abortion. I'm excited about being a mommy though. Back in college I used to say that all I wanted from a man was his sperm, but I didn't think it would actually happen. I've never had strong feelings for a male before, and I don't think I ever will. I will have my baby to love.
>>25720147 Little girls just need someone that can be stern, not some over-reacting and scary dad. That being said, the father does want to be involved in my daughter's life but I doubt it will be very much
Those two bastards and that whore aren't that man's family. She certainly doesn't see the man as family. The man is a source of income to her, and "not my real dad" to the kids. As the bastard of a single mother myself I would know.
>>25720154 I know several girls that were raised in two-parent, religious households that became sluts and moms before they graduated high school. I know other girls that were raised with single mothers that have careers now, one of them being a doctor. I'm not going to say it doesn't really matter, but some parents are better than others even if they're single.
>>25717371 Makes me lol hard, i frequently upload pics of my cock onto imgur to share them, so i imagine someone seeing this then looking on the side bar and seeing my dick and balls in recently uploaded
I understand that must of you are like 21 at the oldest, but as you get older, this just becomes the norm. Being 40s+ and not having had kids at any point is kinda weird, because have relationships and occurrences throughout our lives. And it's ok, kids are cute and good.
>>25720602 Yeah, their households were strict because their dads were pastors. Really sad that pastors of all people get stuck with these daughters. I was raised with religion but it wasn't strict so I still think it's a great structural element for raising children and teaching morals.
>>25717371 I can guarantee her children hate her and the future stepcuck. I hated my mother for making the poor choices she did and taking away the basic human right of having a decent father. I also threatened to beat the shit out of both her and any guys she tried to date.
>>25717371 >Hey cuc- uh I mean honey, can you take a pic of me pretending to sleep with a bunch of books I've never read as if I've just studied really hard? >Oh, and could you put it on the internet whilst praising me to the high heavens? >k thx The only thing more disgusting than a cunt is her lapdog of a cuck
>She slept with someone else, had a kid and it didn't work out. >She only had a kid it's not like it's something life changing
Females are the selectors of nature mate. She screwed TWICE and went for dumbasses instead of someone healthy and compatible. There is something wrong deep within her psyche. If you want to befriend her go for it, but you're fucking retarded if you actually want to be in a couple with her and make a family with your non-kids. If you wanna make a family, you should seek someone who isnt as used instead, you have everything to win. Otherwise you're just asking for problems and unfulfillment
I once had a 32 years old girl friend and loved her but she had 2 kids from 2 dads. Besides my feelings I had for her I knew I couldnt be in a relationship with her. She already went that far and it would have never been a true united family, just something worn out.
>tldr you're fucking retarded if you get in a relationship with a single mother if you're not yourself a single dad.
>>25719719 When i was a kid i remember a few times they were kissing me on the lips for some reason and one of them showed me her tits by acting like she was bending over with no bra but she was looking at my face. After that though they never did anything like that again and literally blueballed me. Cunts like their mother.
But to give some perspective, most of these morons here preaching about how guys who date single moms are cucks, they're the same faggots playing LoL and watching live streams of OTHER people playing video games, while calling it "e-sports" lol
"Cuck" is apparently 4Chan for "I talk to a girl on teamspeak sometimes, and I think she's flirting with me... but anyone who actually plows a fucking woman is a cuck"
Keep trying kids, sooner or later you'll get some. Until then, enjoy being single.
>>25717393 >38 >going back to college so she can say "look every1 I am smart" because at that age (and with those books) that's the only real reason someone would decide to remove themselves from the workforce for 4 years and spend tens of thousands of dollars on an education that'll (barring a few STEM related majors) take decades to make a worthwhile investment >Dating a woman stupid enough to not go on the pill or ask her man to wrap up first >Dating a woman stupid enough to be a single mother
I forgot what I was even originally typing about this picture pisses me off so much.
Who the fuck wants to raise another man's kids?
I'm so glad I was able to snag a qt. virgin gf when she was young. The only kids I'm raising our my own- I intend to be in their lives but why would I want to raise kids who's own dads didn't think they were worth the effort of staying around?
Soft-hearted beta bitch boys and woman will be the downfall of western civilization
It's what my dad did after my mom died when I was a kid.
>>25717861 Nah, more realistically the kids will go back to their original custodial parent unless there's a compelling reason not to do so in which case depending on how long they've been married the kids might go back to their aunt/uncles/grandparents
>>25720572 I will take the bait. Remember how robots say that after a woman reaches in her 30s she will settle for any beta fucker, well this guy is a beta in OP's image ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS(OR KEKS)
>>25718077 >She slept with someone else, childbirth tore her vagina and anus into the same hole, and she has no desire to have regular sex with future long-term partners. How the fuck does that have anything to do with who she is as a person?
>38 >two kids >by different fathers >two domestic abuse situations >spending his money on a useless degree rather than financially contributing
It's not easy being dumber than a bitch who doesn't know how to prevent getting pregnant or to avoid men who will beat her to a pulp, but her fiance has somehow managed to do it. I'm just glad that at least he won't get to breed.
>>25721659 From what I've heard from actual single dads dating single mothers is that it ALWAYS ends in disaster. Single mothers are specifically looking for a man to provide for them and help raise their kid/kids, not them having to take part in providing for and raising additional children.
They simply want it to go one way, not both ways, which I guess sits well in line with a lot of female thinking about things like chivalry...
>>25721729 Widows and women who got divorced for a proper reason (i.e stuff like domestic abuse or infidelity) are a grey area while actual widows are a non-issue. However actual widows are a VERY small part of single mothers and women divorced for a good reason are also a pretty small part of single mothers these days.
Does anyone else not sympathize with domestic abuse victims? In my experience, most of them are in their situations willingly and they LIKE it. They like the drama in
>grandma had 6+ husbands, was a bartender slut and an alcoholic >let them beat her, my mom, and my aunts >would uproot her entire life to follow any man that would give her a ring >had kids from whoever knocked her up, no concern for their wellbeing or who fathered them >got in fights with her husbands, guns/broken bottles/bats involved, cops called all the time >swears she gave her kids "the best life she could", plays little old granny now >just look at her as an old piece of garbage
>uncle married woman, became my aunt >uncle abused her, hit her, stole her medications to get high and sell >had a kid with her, trapped her >once cut up all of her clothes and my mom had to help her replace them all >once wrote "cunt bitch whore" etc on her face right before she had to go to work in permanent marker >would scream at her and beat her, neighbors called cops >my mom tried to talk to uncle about these things, talked to aunt to try and help her >response: mom "disowned", hated by that entire side of the family >aunt stayed quiet despite crying to my mom all of those times
The women in these situations don't want help, they actually like being abused and they like the feeling it gives them. They are broken people, inherently inferior, and actually deserve what happens to them. Getting with a women like that just means that you're too low-value of a person to get a non-broken women
>>25722337 There are a lot of cases when men are legitimately nuts and leaving them is a scary idea because they are likely to murder them and the children. Your uncle sounds like one of them. But for the most part, domestic abuse goes both ways. Women bitch, emasculate, hit, nag, and provoke until they get their asses kicked to oblivion, which in turn makes them even more bitter and so it goes. It's why they come back, they know they're fucking up and they do love their husbands. They just can't stop being cunts, much like their husbands can't stop being being assholes.
>>25717899 When my parents got divorced they were all going to ignore a certain article that was in some forgotten archive just to hand my custody to my mother. My father had to jump through hoops just to get a copy of that shit and shove it in the judge's face AND my mother had to also say it was better for my father to have my custody. If it wasn't for that, I would be going through hell because my mother is an unstable piece of shit that lives in the middle of fucking nowhere, far from pretty much every high school and doesn't even have her own house.
>>25722337 Reminds me of my aunt: >Grandfather is building a summer cottage on a small island with no bridge or other land route to it >Hires local fishermen to help him ferry over the building supplies >One of the fishermen is a rude loudmouth chad >Teenage daughter naturally falls for him >One day she just takes off with him and just leaves a note on the kitchen "Bye mom, I'm leaving with chad for another country" >She was 17 and still living at home >Literally goes to work odd jobs in another country >Not much is heard from them until a few years later when she comes back home a divorce and 2 kids plus fetus later >Ends up living the typical single mother life with hardship, getting an actual education and finally getting her shit together AFTER having 3 kids >She eventually finds a really nice, but super beta, guy to support her and act as dad for her daughter, that was still a fetus when she left the chad In her husband's defense he was a widower with a grown up son and in her defense she's stuck with him for over 25 years even as he's now going trough the early stages of alzheimer's disease.
All this sort of makes you wish the age at which women started being able to have kids would be at around 40 rather than 15.
>>25718132 if the person you're dating has never made any dating mistakes in their life up to the point of dating you, chances are, the mistakes will be made in YOUR relationship with them because they've never had the chance to fall on their face and learn and grow
I fucked a single mother a few times, hung out and smoked weed and went drinking together. Never once saw her kids or even talked about them or knew their names. She was easily the hottest woman I ever had sex with, if you really want to fuck a super hot woman but can't pull it off, a single mother might be easier to close.
>>25720657 >stuck they made their children this way. it's not like there's some cointoss on whether your kid's going to be shitty or not, it's literally all based around how they were raised. and religious households breed more 'chads' and 'stacies' than single parent households ever will.
>>25720873 as someone who also never had their true dad and had to live with an abusive step-dad instead, i'd like to say this: having a dad wouldn't have made your life any better. most kids grow up without their father, quit bitching about it.
>>25721799 >>25721831 not my experience. my mom loved my step-dad's kids despite the fact that they were used as weapons against her in the divorce, whilst my step-dad has always treated me like an outsider redheaded step-child DESPITE THE FACT THAT I WAS HERE FIRST
it's usually dads that have trouble loving kids that aren't their own. dads even have trouble loving their own kids, it's not really instinct to men like it is women
>>25722483 >leaving them is a scary idea because they are likely to murder them and the children. BS. The man is thrown in jail once a domestic violence report is made. It's quite easy to prosecute him from there.
>>25723071 >REEE!!! MY STEP DAD DIDN'T TREAT ME LIKE HIS OWN WHEN MY MOTHER STUCK TO HIS SIDE FOR SUPPORT Knowing how shit tends to be your mother obviously got the better deal while she and your step dad were married. Tough luck if you didn't get everything you wanted, but having a distant step dad that still supports you financially with food on the table and a roof over your head is preferable to a dad who doesn't do anything.
In short: You got maybe 7/10 of everything he had to offer, which is still a lot better than 0/10.
>>25718275 Why do roasties come on this board if they're just gonna spew their toasties liberal agenda all over the place and get offended when they read something they don't like? You know what you're going to find here and yet here you are?
>friend is in love with some chick >he already proposed marriage and she said yes >she's kind of out of his league >wonder how he bagged a girl like that >turns out that her last boyfriend Tyrone got her pregnant about a month earlier and broke up with her when he found out >my friend finds out
>he "mans up" and commits to raising Tyrone's baby >mfw he's knowingly banging her while she literally has another man's seed inside her
it's about as close as you can possibly get to getting literally cucked, short of having the bull in the room with you granting you permission to take sloppy seconds.
doesn't he see what she's managed to pull here? why do betas accept this shit?
>>25721158 I come here and feel a bit frustrated at how self-centered, arrogant, self-righteous and entitled most people on this board are, but this whole dating single mothers = kuck thing is the one 4chan meme I can get behind.
It's far easier to respect someone in a greasy fedora when put next to someone who gets with a single mother.
>>25718015 This is what the definition of family is now. Some desperate guy financially providing for a washed up whore and her bratty kids. I was raised believing that a man and a woman fell in love and they raised those kids together, but this is some degrading ass depraved shit. There's no respect in this
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