I've gone on two dates with this girl already. Everything went fine and I was really happy and the texts we exchanged led me to believe that she was too. Now she sends me this bullshit tonight. What the fuck is this? Am I right in believing that this is an utterly thorough rejection, or could she possibly be telling the truth and might there be some hope for me? Abandon ship or stay the course?
Truth or not there's no point to pursue anything due to her 'busy' schedule.
Just say something like "alright, let me know when you want to / can spend some time together again" and leave it at that, pretend she doesn't exist.
might as well swing for the fences and ask her to hang out late night one night when you've built up a little liquid courage. nothing to lose, and she may appreciate how forward you're being
Nevertheless, just drop it. If it's true, she's busy. If it's all a lie, which is very probable since the start of school is NEVER busy (and even finals for some poeple), then still drop it.
Yeah just stop texting her. If she reaches out to you then she actually wants to pursue something. Or you can just give her some space, wait like week and try connect with her. Girls hate clingy.
I'm saying it because there's a good chance she's blowing him off. If she is she won't respond again, if she isn#'t then he can evaluate how busy she is and see if it's worth even pursuing.
No, that's just pity seeking. He shouldn't give two fucks about her.
tru.. but mine would work too
you know bitches, they like games
either way it could go both ways, if he sends the msg and she doesnt txt back, fuck it
or maybe she could be like
"oh well what you wanna do?" you know what im saying
say something like "that's rough. let me know whenever you wanna spend time together again". If she really does care she'll offer to reschedule and/or keep you informed on what's going on. If she doesn't care then you just move on.
DO NOT REPLY
do not say anything she's clearly blowing you off, just ignore her and wait for her to text you, if she doesn't well who cares, you dodged a bullet with a girl that was going nowhere. if she does text you well there you go
everyone in this thread is an idiot except for >>25711784
just say what he told you to.
if you sperg and shes telling the truth you eliminate all posibility of seeing her again
he could try if he really wants to, just a msg doesnt hurt, if she doesnt reply then yeah fuck it, dont talk to the bitch, but you dont lose anything by trying a little bit, but if you coudl care less about the bitch then fuck it.. this is why you always talk to at least 3 chicks at a time
what bullshit? any normal person would not say "i have no interest in hanging with you". shes sending a clear message. plus shes a girl so she has no idea what shes doing is wrong
>What does he have to lose?
How about you tell me what the fuck he has to gain? It's not worth escalating the situation by calling her out, it's best to just go seperate ways and not act like a vindictive manchild.
>any normal person would not say "i have no interest in hanging with you"
And this is why normies are retarded.
Too concerned with people's feelings instead of getting a point across. If she was just honest, there would be no fucking room for interpretation here.
Hey OP listen.
I have had the same thing happen to me. Don't even text her back just move on.
Even if she txts you next week it is most likely for a self esteem boost or something.
Find another girl. You are more than capable.
you are fucking stupid
"lets hang out"
"we shoudl go get a drink"
"lets chill before you go back to school"
anything .. at least he could try once, then if she says no or w/e he can move on
its easy.. wtf
you come across as a beta
>o-oh ok n-no problem let me know when you can fit me in your schedule..
ignore her or just give a basic answer and then do not reply until she texts. this is basic shit
you're actually wrong [>>25711912 , >>25711784]
These replies only lead to you never hearing back from her again.
The other replies are stupid, you're right about that, but saying "let me know" means you will never hear back from her.
Ignore absolutely everything else in this thread and do this for great success.
1. Respond with "haha sounds like you're pretty booked up. Drop me a line if you want to hang out sometime" and leave it at that forever unless you hear from her.
2. Meanwhile: work out and eat more. Fix yourself up a bit (don't focus on your appearance that much, that's gay), focus on your studies and maybe develop a hobby. Get some good sleep and if you can't, then work out even more. Hang out with your bros and if you don't have any go make some.
3. Talk to other women. Get on tinder if you haven't already. It's a quick means to pound the common-sense-that-isn't-so-common logic of "other fish in the sea blah blah" into your fucking skull. You'll find out real quick that "bitches be homogeneous" as you discern that every chick you encounter on there likely fits into one of like five categories.
4. Congratulations! If you follow these steps ad nasuseam you'll find that you graduated from beta-dom.
if someone gets dubs I will post "I really hope we don't run into each other"
They are asking OP to "call her out" but OP can't prove that she is bullshitting. What this looks like is OP making assumptions
> assumptions that she's a liar
> assumptions that she isn't interested in him but is just being polite
> assumptions that he is being strung along
And calling her out on shit she never said. OP will look fucking delusional, getting blown out just because she said she was busy. At best, he will say he's got other things to do anyway so he didn't care, which is random and sounds forced. You're asking him to play mind games but he's going to fuck up because he's delusionally assuming she has nothing better to do than fuck with him so he's pre-emptively getting her back.
OP IT'S NOT WHAT YOU KNOW, IT'S WHAT YOU CAN PROVE. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BY SAYING OK AND WALKING AWAY.
you shouldn't have even responded after the first text you idiot
dates don't mean anything, she clearly found someone better than you and is just using the typical busy excuse to let you off easy
Dude, you already fucked up. You'll look back on this and laugh some day. Take this as an opportunity to share some joy with your fellow robots and increase the hilarity. Text her "I really hope we don't run into each other"
dubs of truth just reply with "I really hope we don't run into each other."
OP just turn off your telephone and walk away. There's no reason to burn the bridge down when you can just simply ignore her. If you hear from her again you can consider whether or not to involve her in your life, and if you don't then it doesn't matter because she already stopped existing in the first place.
>pretend she doesn't exist.
Easier said than done. I do agree though, put the power in her hands to hang out again. If she wants to see you, she'll make the time. If not, you have your answer.
lol that's a good way to just get completely ignored while trying to pass the buck to her and remain hopeful that she does something with the option (which she won't)
it's done, get over it and accept it
You took it like a man then she shoved your face in it like a bitch.
Responding "I really hope we don't run into each other" is VERY fucking beta, makes you sound angry and bitter
You're better off saying nothing, but you could just say something like "yeah we'll see" or some shit like that. Saying nothing is best, though, because there's literally no hope for you at this point
but fuck it, say whatever you want. I'm interested in how she'd respond
Girls will do this just for the fucking attention. I went on a date with a girl, she declined the second date, then initiated with me a few months later. Strung me along for a few weeks.