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I've gone on two dates with this girl already. Everything went fine and I was really happy and the texts we exchanged led me to believe that she was too. Now she sends me this bullshit tonight. What the fuck is this? Am I right in believing that this is an utterly thorough rejection, or could she possibly be telling the truth and might there be some hope for me? Abandon ship or stay the course?
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>>25711715
Yes she's blowing you off. deal with it
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Truth or not there's no point to pursue anything due to her 'busy' schedule.

Just say something like "alright, let me know when you want to / can spend some time together again" and leave it at that, pretend she doesn't exist.
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>>25711715
Abandon ship mate. Save yourself the heartbreak and the money. Women who are still in school are a waste of time anyway.
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>>25711715
might as well swing for the fences and ask her to hang out late night one night when you've built up a little liquid courage. nothing to lose, and she may appreciate how forward you're being
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>>25711766

Should I say something back or not say anything at all?
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Nevertheless, just drop it. If it's true, she's busy. If it's all a lie, which is very probable since the start of school is NEVER busy (and even finals for some poeple), then still drop it.
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>>25711784
noo
be like
"ah whaaat? you gonna go all responsible on me? lets hang out"
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>>25711715
Yeah just stop texting her. If she reaches out to you then she actually wants to pursue something. Or you can just give her some space, wait like week and try connect with her. Girls hate clingy.
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>>25711803
say "You know, if you don't want to hang out, you can just say so."
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>>25711836

Yeah that'll go over well.
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>>25711820
I'm saying it because there's a good chance she's blowing him off. If she is she won't respond again, if she isn#'t then he can evaluate how busy she is and see if it's worth even pursuing.

>>25711836
No, that's just pity seeking. He shouldn't give two fucks about her.
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>>25711836
no, he's gotta seem fun.. wtf kind of victim message do you want him to send..
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>>25711803

If you say anything like this >>25711836
just chop your nuts off now man.

Just ignore the shit out of the roasted bitch.
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>>25711865
>>25711875
Fuck her. She's obviously jerking OP around. Don't play her games.
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>>25711715
"No worries, I had a backup plan anyway. Have fun."

If she asks what it is, don't respond. Consider the relationship ended unless she makes an effort to spend time with you.
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>>25711715
Give it up now. She's done. It's blatant that she doesn't want it anymore.

Send her nothing else, cut your losses and pretend it never happend. Please.
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>>25711870
tru.. but mine would work too
you know bitches, they like games
either way it could go both ways, if he sends the msg and she doesnt txt back, fuck it
or maybe she could be like
"oh well what you wanna do?" you know what im saying
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>>25711803
say something like "that's rough. let me know whenever you wanna spend time together again". If she really does care she'll offer to reschedule and/or keep you informed on what's going on. If she doesn't care then you just move on.
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>>25711715
unless shes leaving for school, the first couple weeks of a new semester is the least busy time ever
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>>25711803

A one word response is best in these types of situations. For example:

Ok
Fine
Huh
Really
Cool
Alright
Bullshit
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just reply

"coo... guess I'll just wax my schlong LOL"
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>>25711901
That's just reeling her in with jealousy. good way to start a fuck buddy relationship, normie and trash way to start anything else.
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>>25711901
no.. that wont work friend
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>>25711715

Leave her alone, don't initiate further contact. Try again Valentine's week.

Bitches be ronery on Valentine's week.
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>>25711912
giving options to girls is not the right way to go, you gotta be assertive "lets hang out"
works best than asking "you wanna hang out?"
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>>25711715
DO NOT REPLY

do not say anything she's clearly blowing you off, just ignore her and wait for her to text you, if she doesn't well who cares, you dodged a bullet with a girl that was going nowhere. if she does text you well there you go
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>>25711715
everyone in this thread is an idiot except for >>25711784

just say what he told you to.

if you sperg and shes telling the truth you eliminate all posibility of seeing her again
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>>25711836
dont fucking do this you sperg.

just dont say anything. its obvious she has no interest, just leave it be mate. sorry, this shit happens.
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Don't reply to her. Not worth your time.
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>>25711981

She already texted me earlier in the night though! That's the thing. She initiated contact. If she wanted nothing to do with me why would she do that?
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>>25712013

Why not call the bitch out on her bullshit? What does he have to lose?
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>>25712013
>its obvious she has no interest
So why not sperg out a little? Might as well sever all ties with her.
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>>25712010
he could try if he really wants to, just a msg doesnt hurt, if she doesnt reply then yeah fuck it, dont talk to the bitch, but you dont lose anything by trying a little bit, but if you coudl care less about the bitch then fuck it.. this is why you always talk to at least 3 chicks at a time
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>>25712042
take it as a chance to initiate talking maybe?

>oh yeah, school starting up blah blah
>what classes are you taking
>whatever
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>>25712042
then just say what other anons said.
"cool let me know if you want to hang out"
if shes still interested she will contact you again.
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>>25712042
depends what did she text you earlier?
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>>25712097
no.. wtf you wanna be her fucking girlfriend? he is trying to hang out not fucking gossip
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>>25712084
what bullshit? any normal person would not say "i have no interest in hanging with you". shes sending a clear message. plus shes a girl so she has no idea what shes doing is wrong
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Just reply "Ok"


Trust me
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>>25712131
yeah you're right

better just text back "let's fuck" instead
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>>25712108

"Hey how's it going"

That's it
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>>25712084
>What does he have to lose?

How about you tell me what the fuck he has to gain? It's not worth escalating the situation by calling her out, it's best to just go seperate ways and not act like a vindictive manchild.
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>>25711784
>>25711912
Do this

>>25711820
>>25711836
>>25711901
>>25711981
Don't do this, this is how you make yourself look like a thirsty, angry little nerd.
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>>25712136
>any normal person would not say "i have no interest in hanging with you"
And this is why normies are retarded.

Too concerned with people's feelings instead of getting a point across. If she was just honest, there would be no fucking room for interpretation here.
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>>25712190
agree with the second part. just go for the fuck with a text some night. if she doesn't respond then who cares.

but definitely don't whine
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Hey OP listen.


I have had the same thing happen to me. Don't even text her back just move on.

Even if she txts you next week it is most likely for a self esteem boost or something.


Find another girl. You are more than capable.
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>>25712151
you are fucking stupid
"lets hang out"
"we shoudl go get a drink"
"lets chill before you go back to school"
anything .. at least he could try once, then if she says no or w/e he can move on
its easy.. wtf
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>>25712264
yeah "let's fuck all day long" is what he should do instead
thanks man
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>>25712190
..how the fuck do you think people get laid, by being all super polite and shit.. you gotta push a bit dude, otherwise you miss your chance
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>>25712190
you come across as a beta

>o-oh ok n-no problem let me know when you can fit me in your schedule..

ignore her or just give a basic answer and then do not reply until she texts. this is basic shit
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>>25712301
right? basic stuff
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>>25712350
damn... when u put it that way..
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>>25712190

you're actually wrong [>>25711912 , >>25711784]
These replies only lead to you never hearing back from her again.

The other replies are stupid, you're right about that, but saying "let me know" means you will never hear back from her.
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Don't worry op.
Just do whatever people on r9k tell you to do.
Sounds like the smart choice.
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>>25711715
Ignore absolutely everything else in this thread and do this for great success.

1. Respond with "haha sounds like you're pretty booked up. Drop me a line if you want to hang out sometime" and leave it at that forever unless you hear from her.

2. Meanwhile: work out and eat more. Fix yourself up a bit (don't focus on your appearance that much, that's gay), focus on your studies and maybe develop a hobby. Get some good sleep and if you can't, then work out even more. Hang out with your bros and if you don't have any go make some.

3. Talk to other women. Get on tinder if you haven't already. It's a quick means to pound the common-sense-that-isn't-so-common logic of "other fish in the sea blah blah" into your fucking skull. You'll find out real quick that "bitches be homogeneous" as you discern that every chick you encounter on there likely fits into one of like five categories.

4. Congratulations! If you follow these steps ad nasuseam you'll find that you graduated from beta-dom.
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"Wowee sounds like fun. Well no worries I'll just take someone else"

There, you've saved face. Your welcome.
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"Gee willickers! Sounds like you're a busy little beaver! TTYL ;)"

There, you're getting boned.
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if someone gets dubs I will post "I really hope we don't run into each other"
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>>25712684
Just text her "Fuck you." and don't respond any further
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>>25712684
"Yea, sounds like it's gonna be a hard one. Speaking of hard ones, let's bag."

Trust me OP, 50% of the time this works 99% of the time.
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>>25712291
They are asking OP to "call her out" but OP can't prove that she is bullshitting. What this looks like is OP making assumptions
> assumptions that she's a liar
> assumptions that she isn't interested in him but is just being polite
> assumptions that he is being strung along
And calling her out on shit she never said. OP will look fucking delusional, getting blown out just because she said she was busy. At best, he will say he's got other things to do anyway so he didn't care, which is random and sounds forced. You're asking him to play mind games but he's going to fuck up because he's delusionally assuming she has nothing better to do than fuck with him so he's pre-emptively getting her back.

OP IT'S NOT WHAT YOU KNOW, IT'S WHAT YOU CAN PROVE. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BY SAYING OK AND WALKING AWAY.
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>>25712684
"I hope chad isn't too rough with you tonight"
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>>25712756
fuck I mean to say bang
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>>25712684
Say lets do something before class starts and see what happens. You did get two dates with her.
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>>25712684
hahahahaha oh man, dude
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>>25712684

Just do it anyway. Who needs the dubs.
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>>25712684
>it's over.
goddamnit op
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>>25712759

Well damn. That's a very intelligent post. I really want to say something nasty to her but now I see it would be retarded of me to do that. Thanks.
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>>25712684
I told OP to be up-front about her deceit and you called me a sperg. Now look.
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>>25711715
>I've gone on two dates with this girl already. Everything went fine

No it didn't because you didn't kiss her or fuck her obviously
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>>25712684
lmao check em
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>>25712684
im sorry man

that really sucks
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>>25712684
You have no one to blame but yourself for how that went down. Idiot.
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>>25712888

What? What did I do wrong?
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>>25712684
Hey OP I know you wanted dubs, but will trips suffice? >>25712888
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>>25712684
holy shit...
you gonna let her disrespect you? just like that...
damn...
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>>25712933

Oh shit son, will you look at that
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>>25712921
Nothing, dont listen to this retard >>25712888
[even if it is trips]
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>>25712684
By semester you mean the dude you're fucking right?
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you shouldn't have even responded after the first text you idiot

dates don't mean anything, she clearly found someone better than you and is just using the typical busy excuse to let you off easy
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>>25712933
Dude, you already fucked up. You'll look back on this and laugh some day. Take this as an opportunity to share some joy with your fellow robots and increase the hilarity. Text her "I really hope we don't run into each other"
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>>25712756
Please OP do this it will be heelarious
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>>25713099
"Yea maybe I'll run up in that pussy"
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>>25713099
dubs of truth just reply with "I really hope we don't run into each other."
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>>25713099
>>25712684
>I really hope we don't run into eachother?

>what? why not?

>cause that'd hurt lmao I'd probably break my nose hahaha
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>>25713167
no question mark after that first one fuck
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OP should go full creep mode and send her passive aggresive slightly threatening texts
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OP just turn off your telephone and walk away. There's no reason to burn the bridge down when you can just simply ignore her. If you hear from her again you can consider whether or not to involve her in your life, and if you don't then it doesn't matter because she already stopped existing in the first place.
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>>25712684
Man i fucking hate roasties.
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>>25713248
>involving himself later on in life with some cunt that dropped him as soon as something better came along

horrible advice
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>>25713364
unless he just wants to stick his penor in her.
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>>25713364

Of course it is horrible advice. Getting involved with cunts in any way is horrible advice, they're all like this.
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If dubs text her this.
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>>25711784
>pretend she doesn't exist.
Easier said than done. I do agree though, put the power in her hands to hang out again. If she wants to see you, she'll make the time. If not, you have your answer.
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>>25713394
reroll.sdknfkldnfeaofaerjfe
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Punch a Chinaman and burnt down an orphanage.
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>>25713433
WINRAR. do this faggot. dndjfnkd
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>>25713420
lol that's a good way to just get completely ignored while trying to pass the buck to her and remain hopeful that she does something with the option (which she won't)

it's done, get over it and accept it
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>>25713465
>WINRAR.
>>>/b/
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>>25712684
You took it like a man then she shoved your face in it like a bitch.
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>>25713494
>>>/oven/

:L:+
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>>25712684
Responding "I really hope we don't run into each other" is VERY fucking beta, makes you sound angry and bitter

You're better off saying nothing, but you could just say something like "yeah we'll see" or some shit like that. Saying nothing is best, though, because there's literally no hope for you at this point

but fuck it, say whatever you want. I'm interested in how she'd respond
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>>25711836
I've done this

Oh my god don't do this

Life isn't an anime. You'll instantly be seen as pathetic
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>>25712684
Did she know what you guys did were dates or did she see you as friend material?
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>>25712684
>we might run into each other alright, but I'll be in an automobile and I'll feel nothing. Do you know who Elliot Rodger is? Do you know what he did to people?
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>>25712042
Girls will do this just for the fucking attention. I went on a date with a girl, she declined the second date, then initiated with me a few months later. Strung me along for a few weeks.
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>>25713614
>Life isn't an anime
When has this ever been done in anime?
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