My standards are ridiculously high.
I honestly fucking hate this, I know you can change your tastes but god damn there must be away.
The 1% chance of gf is 0% due to my standards.
How do I stop being a proxy chad
>hes on /r9k/, he probably already looks like a battery acid victim
OP here, this is probably true
I have this very same problem OP, that's a big reason why after like 6-7 weeks of swiping right on hundreds (while being VERY VERY selective) i only have had about 20 matches total ( a lot UN-matched me) or didn't give me a response.
>i'm 5/10, maybe 6/10, yet only go after 8's and 9's i have no chance.
As soon as any of the girls realized i had no friends or a social life they'd toss me to the side. All of them have pictures socializing.
I know that feel man, it's not even though I think im attractive enough it's just my standards are through the roof.
Even when I purposefully go for below par girls it just feels wrong and i can never follow through
>Even when I purposefully go for below par girls it just feels wrong and i can never follow through
Pretty much, i just cant do it. Hell when i look at someone below par and then see someone who is above average i instantly lose interest, want nothing to do with her and have nothing on my mind but obtaining said above average girl. Even though in the back of my mind i know i have no chance, I STILL seek it and go for it. Even if a girl who is sub-par likes me and wants to date i will instantly reject it, and lose interest as i said when i see someone better (which always happens).
>tfw 22 and never had a girlfriend.
W-whats wrong with us?
I don't know man, i'm 19 by the way.
But as anon said above about watching too much porn or masturbating.
It may be something to do with it, because I masturbate at least once or twice a day, perhaps it's just making my sex drive nil and I'm only turned on by 9/10.
Or maybe I was thinking it was to do with I care too much what people think deep down inside and if I went out with someone who wasn't that good looking i'd feel insecure about her.
Fuck so many reasons, hard to go on about it without sounding like a whiny entitled cunt.
I doubt it has anything to do with porn, i went on 30 day NOFAP and felt no benefits. I'm back to jacking off around once - twice a day again. Fuck it, i just find women who are 5/10 for example ugly as fuck and generic. When i walk out with a women i want guys to stare, i want guys to admire the bitch i caught and be like;
>Fucking damn, look at that cunts girlfriend
>What a lucky piece of shit
Hell that's probably why i give women on this board LITERALLY zero of my attention, no matter what unlike some. I once created Skype and an Asian and black girl added me.
Didn't find them attractive so i lost interest and didn't want to talk to them so i stopped signing in.
Perhaps we just have superior tastes
immah start posting some top tier birds
Maybe so man, but at least we aren't desperate like 99% of the men on this board. Who would literally fuck and date anything. And give everything with a wet hole their attention.
The whole "standards" thing is really mean, but also reveals a lack of depth in a person.
What you should also understand is it's all gonna feel the same: "6/10", "8/10", "10/10"... the only thing that puts it over is psychological.
Also, think about this way: would you rather feel good playing your own material, or playing cover songs? The "hot" girls are the cover songs, and a deeper relationship is your own material.
"Standards" are not endearing, anon(s).....
Bad analogy though since taste is subjective.
My 9/10 may be different to that of a different anon, to be honest I don't tend to go for typical 'hot stacies' I prefer face rather than body etc etc.
It's really hard explaining my taste
>I want a qt gf but they're hard to come by.
Hey man, i know. At the end of the day i feel like I've got sort of a chad personality I'm good at hiding things. I'm also tall and decently fit and ride a motorcycle. So I've got some chad things, but the thing that destroys me is i have no friends or a social-life.
Not many girls are going to be impressed i can drag my knee on my R6.
I understand that, but initially I go for looks.
Then if she has a great personality then great.
I wouldn't date a 9/10 with a shit personality because it wouldn't work.
I'd just end up being an awkward beta and ruining things, need someone similar to me.