> Like this 7/8 for 3 years
> Getting closer , texting everyday
> She goes to a party and my so called friend Cucks me
> She wont even give me the time of day now
> basically destroys my back bone
>6 months later and im talking to someone else
> Find out she likes the friend who cuckolded me before
what am i doing wrong? Im such a gentleman to girls and they never give me a chance
Well, ask yourself what you bring to the table. Clearly you think people are obligated to come to you, but you don't offer them anything else aside being a 'gentleman' (please don't ever use that word in such a neckbeardy context again).
The reason that Chads are successful with women is often because they're dynamic, or are at least exciting and offer new experiences. What do you do OP? Do you climb cliffs, or play guitar, or have any talent related to the outside world? If you do, use that to your advantage, instead of whining about how unlucky you are on /r9k.
I am quite a good performer when it comes to the stage , i treat girls with respect and i make a few funny jokes here and there , i just dont know why i get treated like shit
Then get on that stage and get yourself known. Be funny around girls, don't give a fuck about being 'respectful' to them.
By that, I don't mean 'be an asshole', but rather just act like they're your bros, and make the same jokes/mockery as you would give to your mates.
Out of interest, what exactly do you mean by being treated like shit? Because those assholes you mentioned in your OP are not at all reflective of 70% of women.
>> Like this 7/8 for 3 years
>> Getting closer , texting everyday
So, in other words:
>she's out of your league
>you've beta orbited her and been in the friendzone for years
>you've allowed yourself the delusion of believing this.
You do understand that you did this to yourself and she is perfectly entitled to be with other men, right?
Accept this, grow up, and learn this lesson today. You're 18 - people here cling to this sort of shit for years and it's incredibly damaging. You can embrace your failings and move on today, safe in the knowledge you are capable of not repreating the same mistakes again.
I managed to kiss her once during the first year i liked her , i dont know , maybe i've just been too forward with things. Thats why the other girl wont talk to me now because i said i wanted to netflix and chill with her
Stop acting like a child. They're not shitting on you because they don't want to be with you. Grow the fuck up. Try actually asking one out instead of hovering around like a faggot for years being a nice guy eunuch.
You need to be assertive and ask her out then. And don't be cringey and orbiting about it either, ask her what time she wants to be picked up for a trip to the movies (or ideally a much better first date idea).
You clearly haven't if you've been orbiting, you stupid omega.
YOU destroyed your confidence by lying to yourself. YOU are continuing to do this by lying to yourself now.
She's not a slut because she chose a bettter man over an ineffectual orbiting baby.
No offence, but it sounds like you have a horrible taste in women. Seriously, the girl you mentioned sounds like complete garbage.
Maybe go on dating sites and meet people? yeah it's corny af but it works a lot of the time.
It takes more than a day to get to know a girl dude. Unless you qualify asking for her number or meeting her at a club as a move, then it's gonna take a little longer to form a relationship with someone than one day.
Good luck. PoF is okay in my experience, but the people on there often go for older guys, so heads up. Tinder also works to an extent.
it doesn't matter
I'm sorry for whatever your family was going through
i'm saying this as a fellow guy who has been through shit with a lot of girls
girls will use you
they 'befriend you'
and they manipulate you into thinking you have a shot just to keep you around
sounds like you were orbiting her and your friend and her were having a thing behind your back
they probably even laughed
'haha anon has a crush on you' haha
it fucking hurts i know
i was dating this qt girl a year under me when i was a senior in high school a few years ago and it was pretty good, back when i was pretty normie (i'm still pretty normie, just more robotic)
and we used to go on a bunch of dates
we would go to a bunch of pop punk and indie shows
just bands and shit
a week before graduation we ended up planning to go to this big show that was coming through town ( i think it was like modern baseball or something) and she ends up bailing saying that 'she had some plans with family'
i was like 'but we've planned this for MONTHS' and she said 'but i can't
i said whatever, fine
turns out she ended up going to this fucking guys house to 'look at his chickens' apparently he grew chickens which is weird in fucking southern california
and i was pissed
i almost lost it
and we ended up breaking up later on
it was rough senpai
right before college
flash forward to 6 months into college
i was still really hung up on this girl
and one of my best buddies still talked to her
we start talking about the dude (he goes to his college now) and i'm like oh how is he
is it this guy or the other last name
and hes like im talking about your girlfriend gave him a blowjob behind your back
and i'm like
fucking women dude
they're all like that
best advice i can give is just move on
there are plenty of other chicks out there
most of them just want to suck cock and leech off your money
online dating is garbage
its just a bunch of girls looking to literally fuck chad
girls don't actively pursue a faggot's friendship
faggots themselves accept to be a friend and let themselves be used. it's not the girl's fault. you're literally shoving your head down an al;igator's mouth and expecting it not to snap its jaws closed on it.
Oh, my bad. I thought you meant 'make a move' as in go for sex, I hadn't heard the term used outside that context before.
I'd give it a couple of days rather than one before going in for the date, otherwise you'd be more likely to encounter a hyperbitch like the one OP describes.
Yeah i didnt find out until way later that they hooked up , he took her virginity and then basically texted me right after saying how boring the party was . i felt so betrayed when i found out
making a move means like showing affection
heres a general rule
nothing dries up pussy more than asking to make out
fuck the whole 'consent culture thing'
if you're with a girl
and oyu're in a moment
and you feel the mutual attraction
jsut go for it and kiss her
> Like this 7/8 for 3 years
What the fuck does 6/7 and 7/8 mean?
change yourself for the better
if you're on this fucking board you can't be that chad
go learn a hobby
gain great skills
don't be happy being some ugly fat neckbeard in his basement
as for direspecting women
its not an active disrespecting
as in you don't go ' fuck you little slut' to whatever girl
its about showing your dominance
it's about showing that you aren't pushed around by women
you're a man
women crave authority
women crave leadership
that's what being 'alpha' is
So you ask for help and deny it when it comes, because we're not just telling you that you're perfect and it's everyone else's fault? People are never going to change for you. You need to change.
Go fuck yourself. Delete this thread, you little cunt. You obviously want no help at all, just to whine. Go bitch on reddit at /r/relationships or something. Take the fucking help we were generous to give you, or get out.
if he can't even subjectively measure how attracted he is to her, then he can't even eat her poop, then he can't ever expect for anything to happen between them
where does men's logic go to when females are around
but to be fair it is true
if you tell yourself a lie enough times you'll believe it - hitler
also don't get stuck on it
i had a great friend i met in my college photography course i had to take for a GE and he was older, like 25 and he told me
dude get over it, don't live in the past
if you keep your head in the past, you're going to stay there
plow forward man, this chick is worthless in the long run
The internet, especially a place like 4chan, is the one place where you shouldn't fear ridicule; nobody knows who you are. If you still have such a huge ego that you can't let go of that petty fear, then work on that first.
> I didn't fuck my friend
You stood by and let him fuck your crush because you didn't have the balls to make a move.
> I didn't get myself beaten up
You did fail to stand up for yourself.
Stop blaming others and crying that it's all out of your control. Take responsibility for your actions and change for the better. It's worth it. I used to be a major whiny faggot like you, and I decided to control myself, and make the changes I wanted to see. Not saying it's easy, but I can't imagine going back to being that guy I was, and that you are.
I kiss her actually so yeah i'd say thats a move made plus when i kissed her i did feel her butt
As for getting beat up , i didnt defend myself because this kid came from a pretty rough area and was afraid for my life
> I kissed her once
This isn't first grade. Stop trying to make excuses to some guy on the internet. Start changing yourself. Check our reddit.com/r/TheRedPill. Some of their stuff is straight up crazed misogyny, but a lot of it is valuable stuff that makes sense. You should be able to figure out what's what.
You don't have to treat them like shit, you faggot. If you think that's the only other option and you don't like it, then stop whining about the position you're in now. You literally dug your own grave, said you don't like any of the other spots, and now you're complaining about having to lie in it. Congratulations, there is no fucking hope for you. Have fun being a cuck until the end of your days. Just don't shoot up any schools.