>>25702503 I fell in love with my coworker. We hang out together after work sometimes. She even spent New Year's Eve with me, but I'm not sure if I should confess to her or not. We are a small company of only 10 people and I'm still not sure if she's just friendly with me or has a thing for me. I'm 22 KVH and she's 30 years old cutie.
>>25703242 Have there been any signs that she's interested? Besides the friendly ones. Clear-cut signs, I mean. Long eye-contact, lots of physical-contact, etc. If not, don't. If you ever plan on leaving the job, you should do it, though. >>25703341 You are 18 or 19, correct?
>>25703392 Well kinda yes sometimes I catch her looking at me from other side of office. She invites me to lunch with her. She even remembers random shit I tell her. For example my cooking pan broke. I told her about that briefly during one of our lunches. Few days later she tells me that she saw great pan etc.
But it still confuses me as I have only one male friend that I hang out with. But if I compare our relationship to other female coworkers at our workplace it's different, more direct I would say.
The other thing I noticed is that when we hang out together outside of work she never mentions it to other coworkers in work. For example I sometimes go out shopping with my other female coworker and that bitch brags about it to everyone in office.
>>25703648 Does she treat others like that? Honestly, if I were you, I'd invite her out for one of your usual things. Maybe, for some lunch or something. Then, escalate the physical-contact. See how she responds. I don't know. If you casually put your hand on her arm, and she shirks away, that should be a clear sign she isn't interested.
>>25703870 She goes only with me to one on one lunches from male coworkers. As far as I know I've been only one male coworker who she spent time with outside of work. That might be also due to fact that I'm the only single male in our office.
On NYE I've put my arm around her and she didn't mind, she also stuck really close to me when she was cold because we spent NYE outside watching open air concert and fireworks.
I'm afraid to try anything because I don't want to fuck up our work relationship and I also don't want lose a good friend. I imagine we wouldn't continue being friends after my confession to her.
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