I just had this girl last night that I've known since I was like 17 (I'm 23 now) that I literally met on omegle tell me she still loves me after 6 years. I've never physically met her and we live as far as ny from miami. She told me this after an hour of talking to her and not having spoken to her for two years, and my last ex cussing her out on my phone without my knowledge.
I have literally no feelings for her whatsoever and despite me being an in individual that's introverted without a social life and vastly different to her she's still into me. She's willing to put up with my bullshit and I literally have no interest in her, I'd rather some random girl from tinder honestly.
What the fuck is wrong with females? How can you be "in love" when you're not only far as fuck but the person is literally telling you it would never work over and over again.
I don't fucking get it. How can you be so insistent with someone that doesn't want anything. Also, she's not even ugly, she's a solid 7.5/10 with a 10/10 body.... I'd pass her on to any of you if I could, you'd probably do better and actually give a shit unlike me.
I had them senpai, I deleted them off my phone because I could.
I could get some more though.
Worst part is this female is literally talking about flying over to me and I simply don't want her to.
I don't know how to word "leave me alone you succubus" in a nice way. I tell her not to come normally and she insists.
>my last ex
>despite me being an in individual that's introverted without a social life
> I'd rather some random girl from tinder honestly.
>introverted without a social life
Working on it. Patience, assuming the thread doesn't time out.
I found my previous ex on an online dating site. Your point is moot.
I'm sorry I don't recall speaking to a female a country away being regarded as being "social".
I have decent understanding and ability to use the english language. Doesn't mean I don't keep to myself.
yes. I am as well but I'm north americanized to the point where there's literally nothing left of my "culture" in me. I was bullied out of wanting any integration anyway.
I've known her for 6+ years, on and off. She's a fond old friend and I'm also lonely as shit.
We in it senpai. Progress update.
You're doing God's work.
Is she a roastie?
Jesus Christ OP, this is basically the situation I'm in, except I'm the female.
Commencing emotional shut down ASAP. It really does look pathetic seeing it as an outsider. Thanks for the heads up, I guess.
Depends. I Don't know her milage yet. I'll ask. It's been years since we last spoke.
Here's the summary of why she's still "into me", from last night. Fucking females.
Please don't put yourself there. As a female you're basically littered with options and out of 1123801230812380 retards one guy will be decent.
Really when a guy doesn't care, you're in a position to get toyed with. Just look at this thread..
She seems to be decently attractive from that blurry pic you sent.
Also, you'll probably never meet someone who cares about you this much.
So why are you throwing it all away, OP? I'm genuinely curious.
Because I'm self sufficient and I don't want someone to care for me that much. I have my mum a flight to south america away for all the latino tendies I could want if I so chose that path.
Also reality is that much devotion to one person is unattractive and I'd prefer someone that cares about me with more self respect when I'm telling them "no this won't work".
Also do you read what she writes? I'm afraid if we ever got together and broke up she'd behead me and make a shrine.
I'm not gonna lie, you don't seem like a nice person. She obviously cares a lot about you, and you couldn't give less of a shit, despite claiming to be 'lonely'.
Stop stringing her along. She'd probably be happier without you in her life.
The only difference is I've given him the option to either stop talking or at least not continue with a view to hang out, neither of which he wants to do.
This has definitely been an eye opener though - I don't want to be as mindlessly devoted as this girl seems to be.
She's overly insistent and I'm mildly sociopathic.
You're kinda dealing with it in a really nice, supportive way. You need to take the choice from her and state clearly that you're not interested in a romantic relationship with her now or ever. I guarantee once you do this, she will back off.
But they're not clear. You're telling her not to try and be with you because you're bad for her but you're not clearly stating that you don't want to be with her. You're putting all the responsibility on her to stop acting that way which she isn't going to do because she clearly has feelings for you.
I'm not being a dick here anon, I'm giving you some advice. If you want her to stop being so persistent then you just need to tell her that YOU don't want to be with her and there's nothing she can do to change your mind. Once she knows you just don't want to be with her, she will stop trying so hard and you'll either go back to friend talk or she'll block you forever and move onto someone else.
I'll never understand this "logic" thing some of you guys are so into. How much about this "logic" do you really even know, besides you just trying to use your ego to think you're better than everyone else?
DONT YOU HAVE TO SUCK CHAD RIGHT NOW?
>She'll move on to someone else
It's been 6 years and any time I talk to her it's the same shit. I'll cut her off eventually as I usually do, I'll message her in a year and it would be the same shit. Even if she's with someone she'll talk to me.
>But they're not clear.
I have before stated "We will never work". Do I literally have to baby her for you cucks to understand she should have some self respect? God fucking damn why do you feel sympathy for a female that has a myriad of options and available suitors and chooses the one she can't get?
You're not being a dick, you're right, but you're being a white knighting beta. She has literally everything she could want basically except me at which point it becomes something of ego to try and get something you can't. Look at my responses. I'm clearly not a good fucking person. Jesus Christ.
And I totally get that. She's clearly obsessed with you because she can't get you. You're right that you shouldn't have to baby her and put yourself in an uncomfortable position just so she gets the hint but if you really want her to stop acting that way then telling her direct would be the best way.
You're right, I do sympathise with her. Unrequited love is shitty but the easiest thing to do is remove yourself from the situation which she's obviously unwilling to do. I suppose it must also be quite frustrating as she appears to think she can "talk you round". Slightly manipulative.
Telling her it won't work isn't the same as telling her you have no interest in being with her. Since hinting and letting her down gently hasn't worked, be brutally honest with her.
Yeah, saying it won't work can be taken to mean you want a relationship with her but there are logistical issues (which she clearly thinks can be worked around).
Saying you don't want a relationship is clearer
This white knighting is really starting to annoy me now. Nothing funny out of this apart from "but muh feelings and her feelings".
Where did the roastie hating /r9k/ go? Fucking hell It's like I'm in some female support forum.
Will try. She's driving. I apologize for the wait.
So this is shitposting as opposed to the other threads on here?
I doubt that would happen. Devotion 2 strong.
you think rather highly of yourself. shes ultra devoted because she has an idea of what you are in her head. This is coloured by her fantasies and whatnot related to how she imagines you.
just meet up with her and shatter those illusions
OP here. She's mia, so here's some oc. Nudes from previous, not her.
So, why do you not want her or desire her sexually? Have you ever masturbated at the thought of her or thought of her that way? Serious question. Or is it just something about her that turns you off?
>LDR with a brazilian girl
>I'm a eurofag
>5/10 face, 9/10 body
>have no interest in her at all
>she tells me she is ''in love'' with me
>i figure ''why not?'' and ask for nudes
>she fucking does it
>keep sending me nudes and even a few vids
>after I'm bored jerking off to her, tell her that I'm breaking up
>makes a fucking scene out it
>like ''omg im going to kill myself if you leave''
>i'm 4000 km away
>never talk to her again
I would post nudes but she was underage
It was 9/10 fap material lads
I've been here longer than you, my friend, and back when I first came here I was a kissless virgin. This place is where I belong, even if I do have a girlfriend who I regularly have sex with.
>Has grill that's a good friend for 6 years that is in love and willing to travel to his home and fuck him
>"I'm lonely, I don't love her"
Be FWB and see if it works, you might not love her but you'll probably end up really digging her and love her the old school way - Two people living life together comfortably.
I mean if you're GOOD FRIENDS why not just fuck and be a couple as well?
I'm not understanding the negatives. Your vision of "love" is pretty much like a girls. Like hers.
Fuck you though I'm jealous and mad.
Because I'm into someone else I've met That's more local to me whom I've been having long intellectual conversations with, that is a talented artist as well as engineer and I can relate to much more than I ever will to her. I can't understand being social like she is, nor her whole concept of romance.
I value someone smart and original over someone purely affectionate. Sue me.
OP HERE. IMPORTANT UPDATE.
I have to head out for a computer science lab at my university and I don't think I'll be browsing 4chan from the windows VM on the computer at school, seems somewhat stupid..
If you guys can Keep the thread from 404 while I am gone I will provide the nudes as I get them. I will be gone for ~3 hours. The incentive is her ass is really, really fucking nice.
That's all. OP out.