Today my best friend told me never to speak to her again. She deleted my number and said she'd call the police if I ever tried to contact her or come near her ex boyfriend.
> talk to best friend who saved you from trying to kill yourself
> force her to make a decision to choose between her or ex boyfriend
> she chooses him
> tells you move on without her
> tells you not to go crazy
> you send her message apologizing for getting mad and forcing her to choose anyway
You guys are the only people I have to talk to right now
Pic related, I've been drunk for the last hour or so
Here are some excerpts from the message I got
> anon. I made my decision
> I chose him
> He doesn't want me
> I'll get over him eventually. I can;t just do it magically like how you wanted me to
> I want you to stay away from me. Stay away from him
> Don't bring me into anything
> Don't kill yourself. Keep yourself sane. Please
> I'm deleting your number
> Move on. Don't reply. Don't call
> I've been ignoring you for a reason. Stay away
That's all I'm gonna post from the long ass message she sent me. Hope that says some shit
It is. A few days ago we were hanging out and I told her to choose between me or him. They had broken up and he said he didn't want her anymore and she thought I'd go crazy and come after him
I woke up this morning and got a message from her that she had sent in the middle of the night telling me to stay away from both of them and not to go crazy. She's been really worried I'll go crazy since a few times I've gotten really mad at her for stupid shit and she's told me she's scared of me when I get mad. Btw when I get mad I usually take sedatives to keep me from having a full on chimpout, and I had hopes she'd never have to see me take my medications but she did
>when I get mad I usually take sedatives to keep me from having a full on chimpout, and I had hopes she'd never have to see me take my medications but she did
ya blew it
I had a similar experieence, the only difference is that i decided to distance myself, she didn't ask me to.
Eventually it won't hurt anon. Find a hobby to keep your mind busy until you find another girl to obsess over and you can start the cycle again.
Have you tried just chilling the fuck out? Start meditating. Anger is almost always a useless emotion that makes shit worse.
Also, why the fuck you giving your best friend ultimatums? That's kind of mean anon.
Meditation never worked. Medication always did. I'm dependent on my sedatives to keep me calm and on alcohol to make me feel warm when nobody else is around. Right now it feels like I'm getting a hug from someone
"... Women construe your excessive emotionality and want as femenine and needy. A woman wants to lose herself and feel secure in your masculinity. Most women are emotional and neurotic enough without having to deal with your emotional bullshit." -Excerpt from based Oldguyfag's guide to male life.
Surely you could find done alternative to drugs and alcohol. Hobbies or exercise? Find some way to establish meaningful connects with others.
I believe in you anon. I hope my virtual hug feels better than your alcohol hug.
>inb4 white knight faggot
Ok. My best friend hates me because I got made at her since I'm a fucking chimp with lots of anger problems. I told her to choose between her ex boyfriend who used to ignore her and play vidya and went crazy and tried to kill his parents or between me. She was my best friend
She sent me a message last night while I was asleep >>25697800
I sent her a message back telling her how I feel about the whole thing even though she told me not to respond. I felt like I had to get it all of my chest. I'm done talking to her since I sent that but I feel like shit since I feel like it's my fault. She told me to move on but it's hard because she was my closest friend and at times she was all I had. Hope that helps
Op truly is a faggot. First of all she isn't your friend she is your oneitis. Secondly you shouldn't be talking to your oneitis if she has a boyfriend to begin with. You actually talk to this girl after she has had a boyfriend? Don't talk to woman if they have any obriters, boyfriends, friends that are boy etc.. Also if she never liked you to begin with how could you become so attached.
Her and I were together before she met this guy. Me broke up because I was a few years older than her and graduated school before she did. Her and I were good friends after that
She didn't meet the other guy til later
Dude, she's a woman. They fairly easy to manipulate IF you already have some short of relationship with them. Just wait a couple days, buy her a gift, and lay on a bunch of apologies. She's forget all about that shit.
I'll keep that in mind. If I get to see her I'll give her something and tell her how sorry I am and why I shouldn't have done all the shit I've did
I should have thought about that since I'm pretty sure it's worked for me before
Still, if she told you that's how she felt...there really is no hope. Just have fun being an autistic loner. It's really not that bad...it's a certain bliss from ignorance that comes from it all. But ya just take this is a lesson...don't fuck with woman that have other romantic interests beside yourself. Sorry, that's the truth, this is /r9k afterall
To be honest I'm not really sure. Maybe part of it was he used to ignore her and play vidya, maybe part of it was he was just a dick in the first place. I do know part of it was she cheated on him with me