Sup r9k. I'm a below average guy when it comes to experience with women - i've had 1 gf and banged some hookers and ugly women.
Now i have convinced a girl online to meet with me to have sex - the problem is i convinced her that i'm pro and dominate women and fuck them hard every day because she is really into that kind of stuff. In reality i have no idea how to do that.
Does r9k have any good advice for me ?
Tl;tr - how do i fuck bitches
>Does r9k have any good advice for me ?
Well, the fact that you came out to r9k to ask for help is a clear sign that you're fucked. Your best shot is trying to ask a professional dom.
-build up your testosterone (exercise, supplements, not jacking off)
-research (porn, erotic lit)
-fake it til you make it (sex is all one big unfunny joke, just stick your dick in her and pretend you're fulfilled)
If she is a serious sub, you might want to check out the Daddy/Little communities on tumblr. They have tons of great resources.
If she just wants the idea of a dark, dominating man to fuck her senseless, I recommend reading this author's stuff. It's homoerotic but the top probably has the kind of personality and sexuality you girl is probably interested in. Obviously there are some differences in gay versus hetero sex but you'd be able to get the gist. This chick's fiction is written for women.
Me too. Jesus Christ that would be horrifying.
I'm not retarded.
I dont thin shes looking for anything too extreme . I'm not that worried about the sex part. I'm confused about how i should treat her before sex. Do i make small talk and be polite or do i bend her over and ram my penis in her ass the moment we get to the hotel room
Oh op be rough. Pull her hair, flip her around, choke her slightly, force her into positions, toss and push her around and put her down verbally "you're a fucking disgusting bitch whore" it's not that hard. Don't ask for permission to do anything. At most, declare firmly you ARE gonna do something
>Can I put it in?
>you fuckin bitch imma stick it up you
Also restrain her. Pin her wrists down as you fuck her missionary so she can't move. If she rides you, be bottom dom and start poking her while you are lying down and render her motionless
Just do whatever the hell you want to her, sexually, and neither ask, nor apologise after the initial mutual confirmation of "let's fugg".
The trick is to dehumanize the person until they appear to you just another object to satisfy your libido.
Which is, of course, bad for your mental health in the long term, as if you are frequently called upon to assume this state of mind, you may begin idealizing it as something more than some bint's domme fetish, and actually believe this is the kind of person most women want, instead of it just being a fun distracting sex game.
Women have asked me to choke and hit them during sex before, and frankly it ruins my enjoyment of it, it makes me feel like a tool.
Sure, I'll comply, I'm a generous lover, but I don't come back for seconds.
Ugh I suggest not making too much emotional connection then, just fuck and go. She just thinks the navy is tough and manly. You're being objectified basically. I second >>25692576, don't go for seconds.
Erotic asphyxiation or fetishistic purposes.
I didn't quiz them on it.
I've been asked to choke people more often than to hit them, Iunno, maybe women look at me and think I'm a "chokey" lookin' kinda guy.
No point in trying to figure out why people like the things they do. I banged a hooker once who smoothly went from blowing me to rimming me and wanted me to finish in her mouth after i backdoored her bareback... She said she likes to feel like a dirty whore..