Im dating a girl that i like but i know she's taken cumshots in the face and tried anal, because when i first got a blow job she insisted on cumming on her mouth without me asking. She also told me she's done anal with her past boyfriend and wants to try it even though im a virgin when it comes to that.
I can't get the image out of my skull of my pretty gf kneeling on the floor and taking a dirty cumshot in her mouth. How do people deal with this? I just feel sick to my stomach looking at her and i get angry which leads to me wanting to breakup with her.
Can anyone relate to this feel?
Dude. Replace those visuals with your own real memories. Give her your own cumshots that you can think about.
You're buying into the madonna/whore complex where she's either a pure innocent being or an uncontrollable slut. Sex is part of relationships, see her as a sexual being like you are, lose the anxiety and start enjoying the fuck out of your girl's craving for your cum!
Seriously though. Keep fucking her, try anal with her, give her those cumshots, soon enough instead of imagining her with other guys you can remember all the actual sex you've had with her.
Top kek. Have fun getting hard cucked listening to this ledditfag.
Maybe faganon up there is right, though. Maybe all you deserve is a shameless slutbag. She's all yours!
First I want source
>She also told me she's done anal with her past boyfriend
Any woman that talks about her past relationships (especially sex life) is trash tier fucking drop her
>he unironically entered a relationship with the exact type of woman who will shamelessly suck cock behind his back the instant she gets bored
She constantly tells me she loves me even though i never tell her first. I don't think shes a total slut, becuase she has had "4 sexual partners," which the last one lasted 4 years. I'm probably going to dump her, but its not like im going to find a uncumed girl.
I guess I'll just keep sleeping with other girls and never get married, feels bad
>omega puritan detected
Look at this retard. I bet this mediocre piece of shit actually thinks getting into a relationship is pointless unless you're planning on getting married.
Why does it bother you so much? If you're here you're supposed to be over 18 and not a virgin. It's not her fault you didn't develop properly, just hurry up and catch up with everybody else and get over yourself
It is pointless
Cry all you want friendo
Why do omegas always think they're entitled to virgins when they offer nothing whatsoever and should actually be forced to date the properly used up sluts that normies use as practice girls and fuck n chuck cum rags.
One thing at a time, anon. To be fair, someone who's been in a past relationship isn't some kind of hideous monster inside. It's fine, it's understandable. What ISN'T OKAY is when the partner you're currently with openly and unashamedly admits to fellating cocks and bathing in their baby batter prior to meeting you.
People say "I love you," all the fucking time. It literally has no worth outside of dearest family members and a real, significant, significant other. Her saying "I love you" every day isn't going to make her slutty nature up and vanish into smoke.
Know what you're getting into, be wise, temper your expectations. Find a woman who's actually worth a damn and is respectable. Find a woman who's responsible, intelligent, and not a lascivious semen demon.
I understand this sounds like usual optimistic "b urself :^)" white noise, but it's the simple truth. If you want something that means anything, get some fucking standards.
I'm not even going to GLANCE at the marriage topic. That's another monster entirely.
OP has been tainted by r9k's brainwashing. Listen to these guys OP. Worst is, you'll have a decent practice GF.
And you know what? If you leave her, you'll be sorry later when you find a prudish whore who is not willing to let you cum on her face.
I would be happy if I had a kinky girl like this.
>I'm probably going to dump her, but its not like im going to find a uncumed girl.
You're a fucking idiot. Get off r9k.
But you know what? Stay here, this place already fucked you up m8.
>all these butthurt normies projecting their own insecurity onto OP wanting to dump his slut
It would appear that a nerve was struck
>Omegas don't enter relationships.
OP is very clearly an omega. Checkmate, cunt.
By non-beta, you mean omega. Perhaps you should actually learn what the terms you use mean before you post.
Stay butthurt my friend
Crying puritan and omega on the loser board of 4chan won't make you an alpha chad
Arcanine is for betas who crave knowledge and normie cunts who come here to balance their real life failures with some top tier trolling and memeing of the aforementioned betas.
This is no longer a place for gentlemen.
>linking to the same comment twice
Are you legitimately impaired? You can just address the two points at the same time, genius.
Quality b8 though, I'll give you that.
Welcome to the Big Picture.
It's already too late, anon. If you don't want to be here anymore but still want to enjoy the content, take a break from the board for a while and sort some things out. When you come back you won't be anywhere near as invested in things as you were before.
Worked perfectly for me. I'm not on the ride anymore, I'm at the station watching you all go by.
>at least you're not naive enough to not understand what you're getting yourself into
he does, its a girl who takes cumshots to the face. thats pretty good, i wish i always knew that beforehand instead of having to awkwardly ask or try it out
>i'd be happy to be the 40th guy in line for a ride on the human toilet
Some of us don't want to pay full price for used goods, reddit, what's so difficult to understand about this?
>you'll be sorry later when you find a prudish whore who is not willing to let you cum on her face.
So much this. I hate girls like that.
Your girl isn't some sorta whore OP, she's just a normal girl and normal girls have sex. Trust me, you don't want some pure virgin maiden, they're boring and their inexperience makes them annoying to deal with.
At least she wants to do all that stuff with you. That cancels out most of the negative, I say stick with her. If she had done all sorts of nasty stuff in the past and didn't want to do it with you, it means she is either on some sort of purity redemption kick (it only goes downhill) or she isn't all that attracted to you and is settling. good luck
>Your girl isn't some sorta whore OP, she's just a normal girl
I hope to God no one here actually believes this.
>and their inexperience makes them annoying to deal with.
I was in this situation a few times. I had two virgin gfs after my first one who was also a virgin. It's annoying, tiresome, not fun.
Jesus Christ. I wish I could blow loads like that. Although in the occasions I do blow big, powerful loads I get pissed off because I have to clean up. I suppose it's different if you're able to ejaculate with another person.
It's like all of the redditors came to this one thread to get butthurt when people say otherwise
I'm sorry that it offends you that I think your gfs are fucking trash reddit friends
Why the FUCK does it matter to you that she's been with other people? Her exsistance had nothing to do with you until the day she met you dude.
Forget about shit you can't control, and start fucking her every single day. Beat that pussy up GOOD whenever you have a chance.
I'm in your shoes, OP. Remember that whatever your gf has done in the past, it's in the past, and she's fucking you now; you're the one who gets to do slutty things with her, not her ex. When I told my gf about these feels, she said that her ex had convinced her to try a lot of kinky stuff, but that ultimately she preferred our sex, even if it was vanilla. I think some women, like men, are brainwashed by pornography that anal sex and cumming in mouths is normal. It may be normal for some, but it's definitely not for everyone. If the attraction is strong enough, however, girls will do whatever to please their partner, even if they're not intuitively into it.
I was in a similar situation when I met my current girlfriend. I met her when I was 22 and we have been together for 4 years now. Anyways I was a virgin when I met her and she had had sex with 3 other guys before she met me. All of them were from past relationships, and I did not probe for too many specific details. Like you, I constantly thought about her being intimate with these other guys and how I would not get to share my first sexual experiences with her since she had done it before. I got over it by focusing on creating new memories with her, and I can not imagine my life without her.
Don't dwell on the past; she did not even know that you existed when she was with these other guys. Also past relationships help shape people and make them who they are. Your girlfriend may not have even chosen to be with you if not for her previous relationship experiences. Theses experiences have made her more aware of the type of guy she wants to be with. Anyways don't think about it, just enjoy her. Most people lost their virginity by 17, so if you are older than that it will be tough to find someone who doesn't have any previous sexual experiences anyways.
>tfw have cute girl who was too shy to ask for what she wanted until I broke her in
woops, that's a thumbnail
>get almost innocent cutie gf
>she has had one dude but the guys was a loser who couldnt even make her cum despite trying several times
>they are still together when we have our thing
>'anon, I am sorry but I cant cum from sex'
>'yeah sure, lol, we'll see'
>start fucking her, after two or three tries make her cum
>getting better at it, make her cum really good and several times with my cock
>oral is even better
>'anon, youre a GOD at this
>start getting her off from all kinds of shit
>fingerfuck her ass while licking her
>put my thumb into her butt while pounding her from behind
>she becomes willing to do everything
>i cum all over her body
>i cum all over her face
>make her tell me during sex how much better I am than her bf (it just gets me off)
>she eventually breaks up with her first love because sex with me is amazing and with him it isnt
>start making her swallow, she actually likes it
>formerly innocent cutie moans like a slut when i grab her head and shoot it in her mouth
>last step she starts licking my balls and asshole
>meanwhile ex sends her texts about muh feels
thats how you do it, gentleman. and even though you will say bait, i can assure you all of this is true.
its terribly long ago though
nice fantasy nerd
>when i first got a blow job she insisted on cumming on her mouth without me asking
>I can't get the image out of my skull of my pretty gf kneeling on the floor and taking a dirty cumshot in her mouth
so did you do it or not, op?
>>when i first got a blow job she insisted on cumming on her mouth without me asking
its funny OP even lists that as a problem, some girls dont even give you a bj, let alone let you cum in their mouth
Listen op, do it for all of us
no one said you have to marry her.
you're getting a chance to do something some of us will never experience. you're getting to nut on a girl's face just like a porno movie
instead of wanking while watching another guy having his fun, you get to actually be the one doing it
if you throw away this opportunity you are L I T E R A L L Y a faggot.
Who cares as long as it was in serious long-term relationship. It would be different if she had done any of this with virtual strangers. But come on, man, cut her some slack. If this is your first relationship, chances are that it things last forever. How would you feel if your next gf were disgusted with you over something you did in a serious relationship with someone you loved and trusted at the time?
I've been making threads, trying to explain to you guys how to avoid that but got ignored for the most part.
After a certain age, 99.9% of all desirable girls will have a sexual past. If you want to be in a position where you won't care much about that, you'll need to get around the block yourself. Get experienced with random girls, a short-time gf or a number of fwbs. It will be easier to get over the kind of stuff OP is talking about if you yourself have done some crazy shit with other women.
>Mad because girl is a slut
>Bro just get sum fuk man
How the fuck does this process in your mind?
If I hate someone for doing that thing why would I? I would just end up hating myself.
>i never thought that i should JUST DO IT
Glad I could finally help move into the right direction.
In all seriousness though, it's never too late. I used to be a virgin until well into my early twenties too. Get laid, get good at flirting and you'll even get a chance with girls out of your league. If you choose to remain inexperienced and settle for the very first girl that shows interest in you, you'll have to settle for someone beneath your level. I can guarantee you that.
don't be an idiot without the red pill you will probably be divorce and paying alimony to that slut while she bangs chads in fron of your kids.
>It's a big deal to me
How would you know for sure? I mean, you're a virgin right? Maybe you'd be like, "What? This is what all the fuss is about? Who cares about this shit. Let's just be happy together."
He's right though. And if you were not such a shy nice guy, you would have experienced all the dirty sex with one of your exes by now and came to the realization that none of this is a big deal.
>I've only had a finger up her ass so far
Just a friendly piece of advice. Don't be too pushy and take things slowly! Get her used to the idea. Eventually use more fingers and a lot of lube. If you got a big dick and push her into trying anal without much preperation, you'll end up hurting her and she'll be reluctant to try again.
My family is pretty conservative, especially my father's side. My parents would accept a non virgin if she's only been with one guy or two but my grandmother would probably just dismiss her as a slut and never really accept her. But for all intents and purposes I'm less tolerant of this stuff than all my immediate family excluding my grandmother.
>I can't get the image out of my skull of my pretty gf kneeling on the floor and taking a dirty cumshot in her mouth.
>kneeling on the floor
Do you guys really do this? A BJ can take 10 or 20 minutes. You really want to stand throughout? She's really willing to kneel throughout?
I've never had a BJ standing up.
Get out as fast as you can m8.
My gf told me she blew her ex in Subway's bathroom.
I immediately told her to pack her shit and leave, then cut contact with her.
Dont indulge these whores.
You're just asking to get cucked.
Well its not like they can stop me, but they would never accept her and wouldn't want me to marry that person. I have a good relationship with my parents and I'd like to respect their opinions, even if I chose to not do what they want.
>My gf is terrible at sucking dick
As long as she is ready to do it and tries to improve you're good, mate. I'll never again spend a single minute in a relationship with someone who isn't down to at least try my favorite things in the bedroom or who don't lsiten when you tell them to do something differntly.
No, I can't relate to "this feel". That was months or years ago and she has washed her face a thousand times since then. She also has all new skin cells that never even touched that other guy's cum before.
If you spend so much time thinking about men's cum and penis, maybe you are a closeted faggot? It's something to consider. I don't think about other men's cum and I don't let it bother me because i'm not gay, but you seem very fixated on men's cum, so I would strongly consider the possibility that you are gay.
>mfw people are ruining their own relationships over maymays
It's sad when you think about. I'm really glad that I didn't stumbled across 4chan until after I had started to become more social. Had I been here earlier, I might have remained the shy silent guy who is even too scared to ask a cute girl for directions forever.