being a 25 year old kissless virgin with no desire for sex (i do masturbate a lot; i just don't want to have sex with anyone) and no desire for female company, have i reached enlightment or am i in denial? i don't know if this is sustainable. am i some day going to wake up and start crying? i feel pretty good about it. i really don't think about that stuff. but i don't know if something inside me is going to realize i'm not mating and is going to send me into a episode of depression until i crawl to a woman and have sex with her. what do you think?
You have reached acceptance and desperation.
Let's be honest, if you were offered a hot 10/10 broad or even a fat chick you would accept it. You have given up though, content.
You are doomed to be a virgin
25 is fairly up there in age. If you were going to get desperate and start caring you would have already. It's more about the type of person you are than anything, its good that it dosent bother you.
maybe if i was super hyper horny. but otherwise, no. i don't think that's something i'd do if i was thinking rationally. having someone have that much control over me.. it freaks me out
i don't think i'm asexual given that i masturbate a lot
amateur heterosexual couples making love, mostly
i don't remember, sorry
that worries me. i'm not super attached to the idea of being a virgin but i think it'd be really sad if i started lusting for people like that
i really hope this is it
Literally me, but I'm 5 years older than you. The only issue that ever crosses my mind when this comes up irl (family/acquaintances at work as if you're dating why you're not dating)
I just give normie as fuck bullshit answers "oh yeah I haven't been putting myself out there :^)"
Are you around women you could conceivably have a relationship with?
When I was in my mid-twenties I was either a shut-in or working a job with mostly men. Didn't really give a shit that I had no friends or relationship. Later on when I was around women more the desire to date kicked back in.
i just answer jokingly. something like 'oh i actually have 3 girlfriends but i'm ashamed of you so that's why i don't introduce you to them'. they laugh and stop asking
conceivable? well i'm not deformed so i guess i could have a relationship with a girl. i've met a lot of girls the past few years