I curse myself for not saving it, but I once saw an image on /pol/ that perfectly explained why men react so strongly to women despite all evidence of being vile sociopaths. Basically, when you see a cute female face, your instincts for protection and procreation are triggered. She could be the most evil, bloodthirsty villain in the world and you would still want to take care of her and fuck her. It's also the same reason why traps are a thing. It doesn't matter how much you might object on a rational level. When it comes to instincts, logic goes out the window.
Men are basically designed to encompass the world around them with meaning that exists only in their heads. Women have the only meaning they'll ever need or experience already inside them from birth (materialism, selfishness, disdain for weak men and worship of strong men), but men need to be innovative and flexible. The ability to create, which is a male ability, is probably a generalised thing. Poetry and philosophical abstraction are probably linked to the same thing that allows men to visualise a better engineering solution or build a better boat.
Men encompass women with the meanings that matter to them. They turn women into paragons of gentleness, kindness, nurturing, beauty, even transcendence, because that's what their mind is built for. It's designed to look at a log but "see" a canoe, look at a sunset but "see" the "meaning" of the sunset.
One of the weirdest realisations I've ever had was when I finally started getting laid and having girlfriends, and my ability to look at a woman and fall in love with her, worship her, build her up in my mind as perfect, all that came right up against how the girls actually saw themselves. I realised that women aren't remotely embodying, in their minds, the way we feel about them in our minds. A woman you think is a goddess doesn't "feel" like a goddess, and if you two get intimate, your worshipfulness doesn't "click into" her worshipable-ness and make some kind of perfect whole, which is what I was sort of expecting. They're basically soft mushy retarded chimps who have some idea that men like softness and mushiness, and that they should put different kinds of goo in their hair in the shower and pluck the hairs out of certain parts of themselves, because that's what men seem to like.
Women are not directly tapped into male worship of them. They only sense it indirectly and do about the basic necessities to perpetuate it and exploit it. It's all in our heads.
>>25677374 >The "cuties" image? YES! That's the one!
Also, I too came to the same realization you did after being in a couple of relationships. I don't mean to sound misogynist, but it seems clear to me why past civilizations kept their women "oppressed". They're a meme gender with a limited capacity for innovation and original thought.
Perhaps attractiveness is just a universal concept? I mean, girls will accept nothing less than perfect specimens these days, so how do we cope with the threat of these boys? That is an advantage only bisex master race can claim.
>>25678853 For a woman to do something like that is cheap. It's not emotionally or socially expensive. They can just go around town scattering mildly flirtatious statements, whether they only mean them in the moment or even mean them at all, and then leave you to mull over the best way to approach them for the next 8 years.
Never, ever, ever mull over an individual woman. Even when it's something like this. Treat EVERY girl like a 1/10000000000 chance of sex, and don't be tricked by "things going well" (e.g. her saying she likes you) into thinking it will actually work out. They love to indulge in flirting, sometimes for a long time, they love to string a guy along without admitting that's what they're doing, etc., and at any given second they have the same chance of changing their mind and ditching the guy.
Don't be fooled into thinking you have made progress. It can all be dashed in an instant, and then the next girl will hop on your dick even after you think there was no way it would happen, because she started ovulating and realized you remind her of her dad or something.
Just keep doing the same thing with every girl, including this one. Ask them to coffee and flirt. Tomorrow or the next day or whatever, text her saying you want to go out on a casual date. If she says no, don't come back to /r9k/ going WTF??? SHE SAID SHE LIKED ME!! WHAT DID I DO WRONG?!?!?! Just realize that her retarded woman brain either made her lie to you, lie to herself, or just say random shit because her emotional cocktail made her feel like it at the time. Then forget her and go ask another girl out.
Women are absolutely spoiled with how trivial they can be about this kind of thing, while for you it's this gigantic obligation to figure out how to deal with it. Don't fall prey to that fucked up system like most men do. This isn't 1755 where you could now court her and speak to her father. Ask her out, get your answer, move on if appropriate.
If she told you she likes you she is probably shitting herself and can't text you. That said don't expect women to have actual feelings, she probably feels the same way about a pair of shoes
>2016 >fell for the gf meme >perfectly happy being single >met girl >now have gf >no time to do vidya >she wants to do normie outdoor stuff >spend too much neetbux on gf >sex is nice but didn't really care about that before anyway
I fell for the gf meme. Don't become a victim.
Just bee urself, but if a gf comes along tell her to buzz off
>>25679033 Yeah, you see that blonde dude I posted a pic of, he was pretty much an aryan prime specimen if there ever was one, but if he flirted with my girl I wouldn't budge, because I just see a deer, and I'm the lion, he's going down. Guys like that don't scare me anymore, I like them, that's my food. If he tries to flirt with my gf I just think: Omg the food just jumped right on my plate, what luck! And I start chasing him and if I don't chase him away he will get his butt fucked, like the little blonde twink buttslut he is!
>>25680782 Nice try, but we're not the teenagers on /b/. You'll have to try a little harder. Reality is more like >women only acknowledge the most attractive, wealthy, and famous men as if the bottom 80% don't exist >men are very liberal with their physical standards to the point that females of all body types easily find bf's
>women are at fault for having retardedly high standards
>>25681826 It's not a seekret klubbe anymore. Men are finally wising up to just how manipulative the modern woman can be. But by all means, enjoy spamming the inboxes of women with shallow compliments on the off-chance one might touch your penis!
>>25681826 And yet here you continue to post pictures of pretty women as if you are making some profound point. Did you even read the text on the "cuties" image? Do you not realize how men are predisposed to pedestalize women and excuse their sociopathic bullshit?
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