>my personality is shitty, boring, and submissive
>he fell for the "be urself" mene
Wew lad unless you were born with a chadlike personality being yourself is a one way ticket to cucksville courtesy of you. Everyone knows the "fake it till you make it" platitude is much more accurate in yeilding success.
there's nothing left she can do for you because it's not HER that needs to be putting in the effort, it's YOU
it's up to YOU do push yourself and strive to be the greatest at whatever you try to do
how much exercise to you get?
I wish someone would photoshop all of Drake's album covers into feel guy images. That'd be amazing, especially if they did the normal and deluxe edition covers.
Not watching porn is a great start. It's actually fucked up how it affects your brain and overall mental health. http://yourbrainonporn.com/adolescent-brain-meets-highspeed-internet-porn
You've obviously gotta get a better job then, right? Why settle for a shitty restaurant job when you could be doing less work for the same pay at a shitty retail job?
Gasoline, and saving it for school. I'm lower-middle class so I didn't get any financial aid, so school is all coming from my pocket. Not even my parents. I used to spend it on videogames but I don't play games anymore.
you work part time, and obviously sitting at home on the internet with all your free time isn't satisfying - you have a lot of free time evidently
you should look for another job, and make some more money for yourself
also, you work out relatively often right? that would make you significantly more attractive than 80% of all NEETs out there right now, when's the last time you've been on a date?
>when's the last time you've been on a date?
Social retardation + messed up face + bad skin + overweight for 16 years = girls don't like you
I've asked out two girls in my life.
One laughed almost reflexively, like literally burst out laughing and then apologized, one "politely declined".
because normies have no empathy and can only think in terms of themselves
calmness and charisma come naturally to them, so they say "just be yourself" when they really mean "just be me"
Funny you mention that, I have a Tinder and I've gotten 4 matches in 8 months, all bots! Good stuff.
I'm not enjoying this. I'm just retreading the same shitty ground I did with my therapist. Unless you've got some anti-depressants for me, we can just end this.
Is there a special place I can travel with women who won't be disgusted with my face? Or tell me that I look like one of those guys that "overcompensates for other things with exercise"? (actual quote)
>Feel confident in your own skin.
Or if you rather
>Don't be afraid to
Don't worry OP not everyone must be the life of the party to be accepted, there's always someone who likes boring things. Have you some interests or hobbies?
Robots do you know what normies mean by be yourself? It means be full of love and forgiving. Deep down inside we are beings of love. It's hard for us robots to be ourselves because we have a lot of misery and pain and we have become detached from ourselves.
you should try something different, something you like something to focus on. You can try reading a classic book, practising an hipster sport, studyng some art... you don't have to force you to be funny or to be another person, the most important thing is to have something to talk about and if you spent the 90% of your time on an online imageboard it won't help
>caring about self improvement under the assumption that you can actually change anything about your life in any meaningful way and that you make choices that are independent from natural processes.
>change isn't a constant factor in nearly all natural processes
I gave up
I'm just saving up my sleeping pills until I have enough
>hate my part time job
>literally only shitpost, work, masturbate, and sleep
>masturbate like 12-15x per day
>lost all interest in real women
>no hobbies, though I've recently picked up reading again