>"be yourself" >my personality is shitty,

You're not supposed to actually be yourself. You're supposed to lie.

"be yourself" means you need to change your personality and looks and then you can be yourself

>>25674982
How do I change my personality?

>>25674982
>expecting a robot to be capable of self-improvement

>>25674998
idk, ask a therapist or something

>>25674773
you need to be your best self, not your current pathetic self

fucking fool, i bet you have literally countless reasons against self-improvement

>>25675007
I honestly feel like I'm beyond "self-improvement", at least mentally and emotionally. All the lifting and nice clothing in the world isn't going to make me any less of a wreck.

>>25675045
there it is


ok, honestly you should probably just off ASAP if that's how you're going to be

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>>25674773
>he fell for the "be urself" mene

Wew lad unless you were born with a chadlike personality being yourself is a one way ticket to cucksville courtesy of you. Everyone knows the "fake it till you make it" platitude is much more accurate in yeilding success.

>>25675090
>"how do I fix myself?"
>"IF YOU'RE GONNA BE LIKE THAT JUST DIE"
okay

>>25674998
you have to do what everyone else does but pretending like it's your idea and you had it first.

>>25675105
>I honestly feel like I'm beyond "self-improvement"

PRO TIP: you're not

>>25675133
I've been to a therapist, went for a few months, she told me "there's nothing left I can do besides give you drugs".

>>25675150
there's nothing left she can do for you because it's not HER that needs to be putting in the effort, it's YOU

it's up to YOU do push yourself and strive to be the greatest at whatever you try to do

how much exercise to you get?

>>25675183
5 times a week, 30-60 minutes a day

>>25675197
doing what

(original comment)

>>25675237
Moderate to intense cardio + bodyweight exercises

>just lift dude

>>25675255
how well are you doing in school?

>>25674773
>"be yourself"
>my personality is racist, sexist, selfish, unlikable and hateful
Is "bee urself" normie slang for "just act and think exactly like me"?

>>25675274
I'm 19 and taking a year off after high school

>>25675279
>tfw /r9k/ is the only place I can be racist and sexist

>>25675286
What do you do with your time?

hobbies? work? or are you just netflix and chilling with yourself all day

>>25675339
Wake up, go to the gym, go home, sit on the internet

It's literally all I do, I have no hobbies or interests and all of my acquaintances moved away for school

>>25675359
literally how much porn do you watch

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I wish someone would photoshop all of Drake's album covers into feel guy images. That'd be amazing, especially if they did the normal and deluxe edition covers.

>>25674773
So stop being a beta. Copious amounts of cocaine and speed will help.

>>25675359
I also work part-time at a restaurant for shitty pay

>>25675371
I used to watch porn every night but I haven't masturbated in over two weeks, it's just too tiring

I can see it in your eyes, you're angry
Regret got shit on what you're >feelin' now

>>25674773
>he fell for the "be urself" meme

>>25675386
Not watching porn is a great start. It's actually fucked up how it affects your brain and overall mental health. http://yourbrainonporn.com/adolescent-brain-meets-highspeed-internet-porn

You've obviously gotta get a better job then, right? Why settle for a shitty restaurant job when you could be doing less work for the same pay at a shitty retail job?

>>25675480
With tips it comes to the equivalent of $9 an hour, which is what every retail job offers for the basic level position

>>25675497
what do you do with your money?

>>25675514
Gasoline, and saving it for school. I'm lower-middle class so I didn't get any financial aid, so school is all coming from my pocket. Not even my parents. I used to spend it on videogames but I don't play games anymore.

>>25675532
you work part time, and obviously sitting at home on the internet with all your free time isn't satisfying - you have a lot of free time evidently

you should look for another job, and make some more money for yourself


also, you work out relatively often right? that would make you significantly more attractive than 80% of all NEETs out there right now, when's the last time you've been on a date?

>>25675480
robot have no idea how to improve
>kill yourself
>no fap
>get better job

Fucking normies, wtf

>>25674773
>just b yourself
>depressed
>only interests are videogames and porn

>>25675634
>when's the last time you've been on a date?
Never.

Social retardation + messed up face + bad skin + overweight for 16 years = girls don't like you

I've asked out two girls in my life.

One laughed almost reflexively, like literally burst out laughing and then apologized, one "politely declined".

"Be yourself" is just code for "stop overthinking".

Doesn't actually mean change your personality, it just means stop overthinking every social situation.

>>25675702
Then why not say "stop overthinking"

>>25675747
Because that would be rude. Be yourself is much more polite.

>>25675747
because normies have no empathy and can only think in terms of themselves

calmness and charisma come naturally to them, so they say "just be yourself" when they really mean "just be me"

>>25675693
well, you're not overweight anymore, right?
you've got a car and a little bit of money

i think you should lower your standards and start fucking 6/10s on tinder

>>25675775
Funny you mention that, I have a Tinder and I've gotten 4 matches in 8 months, all bots! Good stuff.

I'm not enjoying this. I'm just retreading the same shitty ground I did with my therapist. Unless you've got some anti-depressants for me, we can just end this.

>>25675805
lmao go travelling or something

go somewhere you've never been, obviously your routines are doing nothing for you so you've gotta break them

What with this wanna be therapist ITT?

>>25675842
Is there a special place I can travel with women who won't be disgusted with my face? Or tell me that I look like one of those guys that "overcompensates for other things with exercise"? (actual quote)

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Be youself

>Feel confident in your own skin.

Or if you rather

>Don't be afraid to
Be yourself

>>25675373
TUMBLR FAG GET OUT.

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>tfw always hateful and always somber

>>25676656
why would you take pride in that?

>>25676710
Because being treated as a mental health patient guarantees no alimonies.

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>>25674773
Don't worry OP not everyone must be the life of the party to be accepted, there's always someone who likes boring things. Have you some interests or hobbies?

>>25676925
My only hobbies are consuming media

>>25675133
>i can magically change my overbite, jew nose, dumbo ears and grow my hair back and grow to 6 feet from my 5 feet 6

>>25675183
>pay a therapist money
>"lol are you expecting her to fix you? thats your job"
???
why pay then

>>25674998
psychotherapy and brainwashing

>>25674773
>>"be yourself"
Robots do you know what normies mean by be yourself? It means be full of love and forgiving. Deep down inside we are beings of love. It's hard for us robots to be ourselves because we have a lot of misery and pain and we have become detached from ourselves.

>>25675334
or in /pol/
niggers can't original comment my ass

>>25676949
you should try something different, something you like something to focus on. You can try reading a classic book, practising an hipster sport, studyng some art... you don't have to force you to be funny or to be another person, the most important thing is to have something to talk about and if you spent the 90% of your time on an online imageboard it won't help

>caring about self improvement under the assumption that you can actually change anything about your life in any meaningful way and that you make choices that are independent from natural processes.
lol

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>>25677179
>change isn't a constant factor in nearly all natural processes

>>25677022
I have no problem with loving other people. I just can't love myself because I know firsthand I don't deserve it.

>>25677179
you can't change yourself, but you can surely improve your life.

People who tell you to be yourself must have had a good experience by just being themselves. In other words just copy what they do.

>>25677275
And the several accumulations of these improvements can become something close to change.

>>25674773
you just have to find a group of people with good personalities who are not judgemental..

>>25677714
>who are not judgemental
But I want a woman companion

>>25677743
find one who isn't. they usually have fucked up their life somehow if they aren't judgemental though.

Take Care is objectively the best drizzy album.
Shame he's just become a meme rapper

I gave up
I'm just saving up my sleeping pills until I have enough
>no friends
>failing university
>hate my part time job
>literally only shitpost, work, masturbate, and sleep
>masturbate like 12-15x per day
>lost all interest in real women
>no hobbies, though I've recently picked up reading again

>>25676059
my ex talked me into getting one, i don't use ut anymore, it reminds me too much of her

>>25678849
>ex
NORMIE GET OUT