>decided to finally see a therapist
>mfw turns out she is 8/10 blonde qt
OP here I had only 1 visit so far so I don't really know how she is
it was pretty much me talking baout myself whole time so far, like an interview or something
I am affraid that this guy might be right
aside from lookin cute she seems very nice
but maybe you are right and i should go to a guy so he could understand me better
im not that autistic yet
i don't mean im in love with her i only saw her once tbqh
my problem is, im not sure i can be honest with her and don't realy think she could understand my issues
also i won't feel comfy telling such a qt about all my shit
should i tell her this or just change therapist straight away?
i'd like to, she is really hot easily 8/10 slim, curly blond hair with glasses
i got nothing better to do tbqh
im taking plenty of pills in addition to therapy
also its nice to take a break from r9k and talk to some smart person from time to time
im rather sceptical about therapists myself as well
Put the moves on her, you have nothing to lose
>She reacts badly
Just say "Y-you too" and stumble out the door immediately and swap therapists. Now you don't have to deal with the embarrassment of seeing her ever again, can actually focus on therapy instead of her, and if she ever tells anyone to embarrass you, you can sue her for free money.
>She reacts well
You did it, congratulations. Keep doing it unless you hit a road block and she reacts badly to you, in which case refer to the above.
cmon guys I never said I want try anything with her
im just not sure i will be able to work with her properly
would you guys be able to tell hot qt who is really nice to you (i know its her job but still)
about all the toxic shit that is inside you?
i never been on therapy or shit like that im not even sure how does it work
and now when i tried i got worst possible scenario
also she looks really young she could be 20
thanks, it's the most reasonable response I think
gonna see her on monday and see how it goes from there
the thing is after talking with her only once i am pretty sure she is fkin smart
and that is pretty unusal among girls I met at hs/uni
it's a huge turn on tbqh
As i said she is 26 but looks really young that could be 20.
This. If you really want help go find a dude. You'll just end up being attracted to her and it's going to hinder your development. Get out will still can, otherwise it will turn into a money pit
She's not interested in you. You're her patient and there's no way she would want to bring home a case.
Source: am therapist
> doesn't know the biggest basket-cases are therapists
seriously though, my friend who was in the process of becoming a therapist flat out told me that therapist are some of the most "fucked in the head" people she's known. Later that same night, after a few drinks, she admitted to me that she was molested.
>my friend who was in the process of becoming a therapist flat out told me that therapist are some of the most "fucked in the head" people she's known. Later that same night, after a few drinks, she admitted to me that she was molested
well then they must all be fucked in the head and they all must have been molested
We all know how this is going to end op...
Should be perfect,
I don't see the problem here
In any case you will feel uncomfortable time to time with a therapist as you're going to tell personal detail about you
The more you hang out with beautiful women to more you get used to it
OP is going to become an alpha
4chan fags jealous...
I feel weird about those kind of therapists, ex gf wants to be a therapist but she has depression. How the fuck can you talk somebody out of suicide if every weeks you have a breakdown because of it. Shit bothers me that they could be giving any sort of advice.
No its actually great advice for someone who never talks to women.
Because you learn how to share your feelings and build trust, which is essential to holding any relationship. Although for alot of people who need it its too late.
only pic I managed to find on interwebz
I was studying to become a therapist, but halfway through realized I was crazier than any future clients.
I thus went to a therapist, hoping to sort things out. He told me my 'experience with mental illness' could help me understand my clients better and make them trust me. But I just thought that since I failed to cure my own dysfunctional behaviour, how would I be able to help out other people? I didn't see myself fit to guide vulnerable people, so I dropped out.
Also, since I'm KHV, I had honestly no idea how to advice people on love/intimacy/sex/etc, since I never experienced these things myself.
When I was still studying we had these group sessions with fellow students (meant for practice), where we were supposed to share our most prominent weaknesses and insecurities. Just in our group of five there was a guy who was molested and a girl who's sister was murdered. Made me realize a lot of people are more screwed up than they seem from the outside.
Couldn't be bothered to google for much, but here's a very shitty article on mental illness among psychology students and students in general:
I would like to go to the therapy but I might try joining military in the future so I cant since therapists propably put all their patients on some lists which military can access when doing background check
U did good. If clients kniw that you are also a loser nobody will hire u. Its retarded to think that they will give you trust if u didnt cure yourself and its not a warranty to understand better other screwed people.
Well yes, telling clients I had mental issues was never going to happen anyway, teachers always dissuaded students from doing so, for good reason. But the point he was making was that any behaviours/thoughts/worldview I might develop while dealing with mental illness could help me become a better therapist. To me this theory only seemed conclusive if you actually managed to help yourself get better.
Maybe it differs per country (i'm Dutch), but over here the information they gather on you is not to leave their care, unless you are a potential danger to yourself or others. Therapists do build a dossier of your case. This dossier can be accessed by you at any time, and can be trashed if you explicitly ask for it. When it comes to the law and patient confidentiality you have no reason to fear this might harm your career. Remember for example that the Germanwings pilot was not fit to fly at all, but his therapists still refrained from informing the authorities.
I'd say you should go to the second session, but it's better to cut it off sooner rather than later if you think it's not working.
>weak-willed anon goes to shrink like a fag he is and gets to visit hot qt therapist
meanwhile i dont remember when i last spoke to even an ugly woman
GET OFF MY BOARD U FUCKIN NORMIE SCUM
If you had found a good therapist your view on all this would be totally different. The key is to find a therapist who isn't a charlatan.
>want to facebook creep on my therapist but im worried that even though i am careful facebook will still have a way to link me to her page and ill come up as a suggested friend or something and ill have to an hero
it's not from normiebook
i don't even have an account there
found it on some shitty psychology workshop website thus small size
one robot asked for pic so i just googled her and found it
You are literally retarded familia.
If you are a male you should never have a female psychologist/therapist, specially these young fresh out of college girls.
They won't get how you feel and you will never truly open to her because you are a robot.
ALWAYS go for a male one,the older he is,the better.
>last time i spoke to woman was some random college girl who asked if a have a lighter
>mfw it was in october
>female psyche prof
>she has an active practice
>half the class is her shittalking clients
>has a +30yr KV client
>laughs at what a pathetic loser he is
therapy is garbage, but if you insist, get a male therapist
>therapy is garbage
I agree but if OP is already browsing r9k it wouldn't make it any worse than it already is
he also gets an opportunity to talk with attractive woman he wouldnt even approach if it wasnt for therapy
he might actualy profit from it in some way
in one of my goddamn community college classes our professor always told stories about her clients. Most of the time they were sympathetic though, and had already been "out" of her care but it happens.
therapists are the ultimate normies
>having a female therapist being male yourself
they have no idea what it's like to be a guy. do yourself a favor and get a wise sage. I still miss talking to Dr. Rustin :/
Had the same thing happen to me OP
>go to take IQ test
>OH FUCK HOT MILF
>can only think about her tit
>get 98 IQ on test
she tells me I might be autistic
>literally paying someone to practice talking to women.
Yes, you are retarded.
Once you pay someone to talk to you the interaction is completely different then the real one. You might end up thinking you're the shit at doing it while you might suck even more than before.
If you wanna practice, start convos with random chicks (facebook or IRL) without expecting anything but experience and try to keep them interested. If they actually care enough to ask you how you doin a few times then you actually gained real experience to help your sperg ass.
i went to a therapist once to get a psych evaluation for a court hearing, cost $700 and i had to take a 576 multiple-choice question test plus talk to them for an hour.
they failed me and still took my money.
never again, fuck that bullshit pseudo-science.